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Ned! Ned!! Ned!!!

Regina's mother better take care of her daughter so she restarts her life if need be.

We4all:
Rush them to become 5th, 6th, wives? Haba, if they were that lucky, they should be getting married as wife number one and not settling for second hand men.

On the flip side, the 1st wives are starter wives and work horses.

It is the younger wives who reap where the first wife sowed.

Benglarue:
Let me just air this personal observation and I want the sensible and objective fellows in this forum to assess it critically.

At the National Assembly in Abuja, Senator Ned has some media aides. (SA photography, PA, SA social Media etc). They numbered about Six (6) young ladies, they might be more than six (6).

These ladies should range between 21 years to 25 years if I'm not mistaken. The beauty and sleekness of these ladies outshines Regina. Regina is not in their league as per beauty.

I've seen these young ladies with cameras, papers and the PA with Senator Ned on two different occasions in Lagos, three of them came with him and they were all lodged with the senators at Eko Hotels. I marvelled at how clean they look and young.

There is no way Regina will not react to all these, and I believe this may be one of the reasons she might be misbehaving, if that's true. I know people will say she's not the first wife and blah blah but she's still a young girl and it's not easy, I can attest. Even the older women may find it traumatising having ladies around her husband.

I don't know if anyone has an idea about this. This is another FFK saga loading. Regina will be denied of her kids from the angle the man is hitting from bad this will further suffer the girl.

There's nothing bad in marrying for money, those that have married for love also suffer. So it's a choice. Her beauty too is part of what Ned went after.

I am sure she has a lot of battles she has been going through in Ned's house especially with what I saw.

@bold:

Wahala be like man!

Caaz:
I ve seen her like twice at my former hood juniuc hostel, the gang wey that pikin de keep then eeh,very small beautiful 15yrs plus that time...the gal dey high that time,reasons why the mum rushed married her out that time.


When i saw how she posted her husband pictures when he came inside the restroom unannounced to wee i knew that the gal the werey still dey her body.


The friends she keep are not it rara,they re influencing her negatively.

But if she has always been on drugs, Ned has the resources to control it or cut off her supply if he wants to.

Perhaps he has no use for her anymore.

@ bold: this brings another perspective to the story. Marriage is not rehabilitation center; they should have taken her to rehab and not marriage.

I even blame the mom more now. Since she knew her drug problems, she should have given her close marking and isolated her from her supply.

Onegai:
He had a lot of support from her mother and her family.

They were too busy greedily counting millions of Naira to remember their child was a human being.

Regina's mother gets most of the blame in this madness.

When Ned started nedding, her mother should have been closer to her and channel her frustrations appropriately.

She threw her daughter into the den of a lion and did not look back. She is a woman and understands what could have gone wrong emotionally, mentally & sexually.

She is not an Abiamo at all!

CodeTemplarr:
promise land is an illusion created by a combo of drug fuelled masculinity and promiscuity.
Ask a virgin about the concept of a promise land and here what they have to say.

You mean a woman having orgasm (which is a natural response to being sexed right) is a created concept?

And what is this dumb assumption that a virgin would not know when she is well made love to when she starts having sex?

Do you need to have tasted coconut rice before telling if is well made /sweet to you or not?

Nice one mama Zino.

Real flex.... fresh produce from farm to pot

GloriousGbola:
this here

we see am for school.

this dude dating this babe. both medico. 300l /400l i forget next thing one dude from schlumberger started toasting the babe

how do you match nacking while hanging leg on burglar proof to knacking in privacy in AC in fancy bed and big tv .

same way i knew a guy who was dating this chick in secondary school. they now entred same uni. teh babe fiine and teh guy dey just there. as in it was glaring.the babe even tried to be loyal but guy dey seriously insecure, and he was actually slapping her around on top.

when you dey 100L, the babes in your set are in demand - when you are in 400l, na you dey in demand it is a cycle.

also, if you are a erm patient dog type - just wait till 200L, the chicks wey u dey eye in 100l wey no dey give you the time of the day - will be all over you because they will be STARVED for attention.

as a parent - this is something i realise one needs to teach ones daughter about - october rush and distractions and how you can forget what you came to school for



money na koko because if you erm hammer well well as a guy some women that ignored your chewing gum arse for what they thought was a made man at the time . . . .na so some abroadians dey do detty decemeber with peoples gfs and wives

@ bold:

On point!

October Russssh! Ha! Ha!

I remember a guy in 200l level was asking me out and I looked him in the eye and told him that he just wanted sex.

Dude saw me for the first time and was ranting about beauty and love.

Another guy said he was in charge of pageantry for my state and wanted me to rep my state abi town.

Another one wanted to me to come to his house to 'drink tea' because of N100 suya

Different scope for chopping girls that period.

That training is key.

Interestingly, a number of the peeps who got married in my set were mates I.e. same level.

budaatum:
Yes, Let's disagree then.

I won't bring up your children and you wouldn't being up mine whom I would delightfully bring up to be Sango, though I'm certain the Jessica Kirkland I quoted did not have Sango in mind.

The quote attached to this post is much better.

Your kids will not be 'Sango' in Jesus's name.

Onegai:
Here's the thing about karma:

Most of us on the outside will not see it.

That's why people don't believe in it. But it's real, even biblically, every religion states it, it's even scientific. You reap what you sow.

If you've ever screwed up and hurt someone, you paid for it somehow. And most likely how you paid wouldn't look related to what you did. And it won't show to the outside world either, when I got my karma for hurting my ex-bf, it was like a series of screwups that kept snowballing till I ended up in a bad place, 2-3 yrs later. But you won't have guessed from any picture I posted online during that period.

A lot of politicians have very messed up private lives or are battling something very bad personally. You're not going to see it unless you're in their private circles.

A lot of women I know who were secretaries to rich men and then 'upgraded" to 2nd wives, most didn't enjoy that marriage or there was an issue with their kids. I met these people when they had turned 45+, 55+, 65+ till death, you would have been surprised to hear that the husband beside them hated his 1st wife so much and chased her away for these 2nd wives. And at least one of their children had k-leg in their lives.

God has always promised to forgive you if you repent. But He never said that you won't face the consequences of your sins. The Lord said the sins of the father shall be visited unto the next 3 generations, just look at Chief Gabriel Igbinedion, his son and Natasha Osawaru.

So does karma exist, absolutely. Just don't expect it to show itself to you most times. And if it does, then your cup was realllyyyy overflowing.

Hmmmmm.

This is worth pondering on.

You are right that these peeps have stuff they are going through. Maybe because the 'innocent' and 'guilty' go through stuff, it is hard to attribute the guilty's issues to karma.

Emmah123:
You're very wrong ma. No man walking on the face of this earth will ask a truly financially independent woman to apologize to a side chic, not to talk of the one that's the bread winner. Being a financially independent wife doesn't necessarily translate to a happy home, in fact, it makes some men insecure. But one thing is sure, no man will try shit like asking his independent or bread winner wife to apologize to a side chic.

@bold:

Bread winning women who don't know their worth have done worse.

I know a woman who used to give her jobless husband money to hang out 'with his side chics'.

When she didn't have, she borrowed when he was going out.

You can't fathom the crazy shit women let themselves go through to remain married.

budaatum:
That's your understanding, I guess.

Most understand the fire breathing as having confidence and self worth, so I suggest you reassess your understanding so you don't mistrain your girls.

Let's disagree then.

I don't want my girls to breathe fire; I don't want my boys to breathe fire. I don't breathe fire and I don't want a man that breathes fire either.

We are not Sango.

I understand breathe of fire to be a fiery, terrible temper that destroys.

Mbanu.

budaatum:
Yeah. And this is why we are feminists now, to avoid the abuse of pork!

If her girls breath fire, then they don't plan to live amongst humans.

Whilst we want to train girls who have enough self worth to pick worthy men, we don't want the girls to become the very boys we are condemning.

One mother/father trained their son that they breathe fire that's why he thinks he can do nonsense and get away with it.

GloriousGbola:
success is the best revenge

Yes, it is.

Ishilove:
Karma comes in different forms, my sister. Nobody deserving can escape it.

Considering our politicians are still doing fine, I don't put much stock in karma.

The side chic might at the point of marriage repent and marry well.

Caaz:
I know buka,everyone has how they operate,i love gathering receipts so when i m dealing with that person,my conscience would be dead.

However i would still focus my time and energy on something productive,my kind of revenge is extra cold.

@ bold:

Ok then.

Kobojunkie:
Just imagine a human being literally saying she will spend her lifetime piling up evidence for what she imagines would be her eventual revenge against the very same person she literally devotes her entire life to pleasing and serving. NO be craze dem dey call that? 🥱🥱🥱

That's what we have been used to.

What our mothers passed down to us.

We need to break that senseless cycle of wasting one's life to revenge.

DMerciful:
Been long i saw this moniker.

Where have you been?

I am doing well and you?

Caaz:
Person like me,i'll gather receipts,then wait for him at oldage.

Why though Ahnie?

Why do you do you want to waste a lifetime gathering receipts and bitterness just to deal with a man at old age.

No man is worth wasting your life for because to deal with him, you need to focus on him and keep maintaining the embers of bitterness to have the energy and reason to revenge.

Sis, this life is too sweet for that kind of nonsense.

Ishilove:
"I Must Be Mrs By Force".

As for you side hoes who keep causing drama in people's marriages, your punishment will be very bitter. Your own marriages, if you ever do get married will be filled with double the drama and sorrow you caused for other women.

You men that do not stop at committing adultery but also add insult to injury by forcing your wives to be humiliated by your mistresses, continue. You will receive disgrace in 100 folds.

@bold:

Not necessarily true.

Nazgul:
That's because you're 100% dependent on him. He knows that if you leave him you won't be able to survive independently. Even his family wouldn't even rate you. Cos all they see is a lazy woman feeding fat their son's money.

This is why we advise you women to work hard and become financially independent before jumping into marriage. But you keep looking for a Davido who would treat you like Chioma.

Can Tuface with his reputation as the undisputed celebrity womanizer champion in Africa tell his new wife Natasha to apologize to a side chick. Dem no born am well. That's because the babe is independent. She doesn't need his money to survive.

The energy most young girls put in looking for successful men, if they channel that same energy into developing themselves, whoever they end up with would respect them.

@bold:

That's one of the numerous lies men sell to women.

Earning or lack of has not stopped a man from disrespecting a woman nor made a woman know her worth.

You will be shocked that she is the one fending for the household while apologising to side chics.

Gerrard59:
This has been my bane with the worthless cultural practices we have across the continent. If the practice were so potent, why not deploy it in developing the immediate environment? The education attainment stats in such areas are low, human development indices are abysmal and the people are so primitive.

@OP: If your village juju is so powerful, use it to develop drugs to treat tough diseases, use it to develop your village to an enviable status, use it to make your people prosperous.

This!

I saw a community that bandits raided.

And I am thinking, if your jazz is so potent, why not use it to protect yourself, become rich and stuff like that.

Like raid CBN, divert funds from FG's account to yours, let the govt make policies favorable to your business / family, control your helpers to give you contracts you don't deserve and other stuff like that.

But no, it is policing women's privates and dragging their neighbours to their level.

Na wa!

DaudaTheSexyGuy:
You people should stop all these lies.

I have girlfriends who are married and none of them has ever attempted to murder her husband

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As in!

Tell them jare 😆 😂 😆 😂 😆 😂 😆 😂 😆

brain54:
Interesting culture...


I like it. Four year probation period.

I think the whole culture and process has many advantages.

I hope it's still preserved and practiced in Sudan till date!

😆 😂 😆 😂 😆 😂 😆 @ four years probation period.

To be honest, Rufai could have worded his question better which will have left the minister with no wiggle room.

"Considering the coastal road has been completed by 10%, how much of the N100b budget has been spent"

or something else comparing to percentage completion with percentage actual expenditure out of the budget.

helinues:
Rufai can't be rude to people and be thinking he's always right. His question is not logical.

When you budget for a road project, there are unseen things in the initial plans, that's why the budget is always over estimated

For example, there are new linking roads to the Lagos Calabar coastal highway which wasn't in the initial plan

If you and APC cohorts had sense, your minister will have answered Rufai with this exact response.

And everybody will have rested.

Apcnewrecruit:
This generation of women should be carefully observed. Unfortunately stupid love and infatuation makes some guys not to see the red flags and run for their lives.

OP opened a sensible thread.

However, you couldn't resist the urge to be 'that person'.

Helinuss:
Why do some men cheat on good women?

The bitter fact is....until we stop to make this a gender thing..it will increase

Imagine fighting a woman for cheating and encouraging a man to cheat or praising him for cheating.....you forgetting that the same man you praise for cheating is doing it with the woman you dont want to cheat. The two gender cheats. Discourage both from cheating then u will have a sane environment

Very well said

LoneSoldier:
This is a question thrown to all, why do women cheat on good men?

You see them saying they want God fearing, gentle and hardworking men, but the slightest given chance they cheat on the said God fearing man which they once asked for.


So, why do women cheat on good men?

Let's bring this home.

It is either your mum cheated on your dad or your dad is not a good man.

If both arguments above are false, then you see that your OP is flawed and people (men & women) cheat because they want/need to.

Even if their spouse is evil, they have the honorable option of ending the marriage willingly or forcefully.

CTee1:
It’s in their nature, either good or bad, same fate awaits all.

This cracked me up!