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Romance › Re: Treat Her as a Friend with Benefit Until She Does This [Picture] by bukatyne(f): 8:02am On Oct 12, 2024
Mcslize:
This is what we are saying. Some of you bunches of women are quite vindictive. You want to use ObalendeCMS as a second option just to spite a man you're dieing for who doesn't give a fvck about you? If this isn't stupidity, tell me what it is.
cheesy

Charcoal fire pit calling pot black.
Romance › Re: Treat Her as a Friend with Benefit Until She Does This [Picture] by bukatyne(f): 7:37am On Oct 12, 2024
iLegendd:
If my crypto accounts that I'm protecting is the issue, I'll show you as my girl, cuz I have nothing to hide. I put it there because of police.

You sound like an arrogant feminist from a broken home. (No insult intended). Any woman brought up by good dad and mom won't argue with me. Yes, sure you're dumb because you're an emotional creature and your emotions will always expose you. Trust me. (No insult intended, dear).


The moment I notice you're already playing a hide-and-seek "arrogant feminist" game with me, you're already a sex object to me. I'll even encourage you to call your man when I'm banging you. You're just there for my pleasure and nothing more. Once again, no insult intended — I'm just being real.

Referring to your quote, we don't need strong women, we want a feminine woman who is submissive so that we can slave our lives to provide and protect her.
You think having no self respect by spilling your seed with someone you don't value is a flex.

Toor!
Romance › Re: Treat Her as a Friend with Benefit Until She Does This [Picture] by bukatyne(f): 7:35am On Oct 12, 2024
budaatum:
Would I have equal access to your private phone too, or is this a one way thing?
You did not read that only poor men does 50/50 I.e. access to phones cheesy
Politics › Re: My Husband Is Not A Greedy President – Remi Tinubu by bukatyne(f): 1:15am On Oct 11, 2024
criuze:
Let him not make it great again

Just reduce fuel price, forget that greatness


We're tired of it
cheesy wink grin

It seems his definition of greatness is different from our general understanding undecided
Celebrities › Re: Burna Boy Replies Uju Stella Who Claims She Got Pregnant For Him by bukatyne(f): 3:19pm On Oct 10, 2024
pocohantas:
Burna Boy, thanks for not denying knowing her. But the olosho line is stale. You also added impotent. Two cliche words in one rebuttal.

I no blame you.
I blame the lady.
It has been 5,6,7 years.
That she has time to put this show of shame out in 2024 shows she still has nothing to lose. I find that more worrying than the supposed olosho accusation.
I wonder if these ladies don't have families offline.

Like no one knows them offlinehuh?
Romance › Re: ladies Using Pregnancy To Tie Men Down Should Be Arrested - Verydarkman(vid) by bukatyne(f): 8:03pm On Oct 07, 2024
advanceDNA:
Welcome to Nigeria where child support is 15k per child per month...and enforcement is weak.... The joke is on the woman who decides to tie down one random nigga that told her to use a contraceptive in the first place
I am talking of a natural universal phenomenon; you are talking of a temporal situation.

Besides, who told you that all women who 'trap' men with pregnancy are looking for child support?
Romance › Re: ladies Using Pregnancy To Tie Men Down Should Be Arrested - Verydarkman(vid) by bukatyne(f): 8:00pm On Oct 07, 2024
SAMBARRY:
a man can force a woman to be a mother through r@pe
She can abort it na.

A man can never force a woman to be a mother.
Romance › Re: ladies Using Pregnancy To Tie Men Down Should Be Arrested - Verydarkman(vid) by bukatyne(f): 4:27pm On Oct 07, 2024
eazzzy1:
What will be the crime? I’m pro choice, I think men should also have a choice in the decision of whether they become fathers or not. If the decision to birth a child is solely a woman’s to make, then you shouldn’t compel the man to contribute to raising the child.

1. In the spirit of equality - her body her choice, his money/time his choice.
1. If only wishes were horses grin

Welcome to the world where life is 'unfair'.
Romance › Re: ladies Using Pregnancy To Tie Men Down Should Be Arrested - Verydarkman(vid) by bukatyne(f): 4:26pm On Oct 07, 2024
Well, welcome to the leverage nature has given women.

Women can force men to be fathers (at least financially); a man cannot force a woman to be a mother.

I expect every man who doesn't want to be a father to zip up or be 100% responsible for ensuring he doesn't get a woman pregnant.
Literature › Re: She Lost Her Virginity To Her Gym Instructor, Few Days To Her Wedding. by bukatyne(f): 8:20pm On Oct 04, 2024
BOG202:
This is what you get when you want to please others.
Felix never complained about her nature and physique.
Hmmmmmm

Interesting lesson there.
Literature › Re: She Lost Her Virginity To Her Gym Instructor, Few Days To Her Wedding. by bukatyne(f): 8:14pm On Oct 04, 2024
gare:
na curses from the husbands make you close the business grin grin grin grin
This thread na pure cruise
Literature › Re: She Lost Her Virginity To Her Gym Instructor, Few Days To Her Wedding. by bukatyne(f): 8:13pm On Oct 04, 2024
Mitsurugi:
This story seems to be from IFitness Festac 😂😂😂
cheesy grin grin grin grin grin cheesy grin
Literature › Re: She Lost Her Virginity To Her Gym Instructor, Few Days To Her Wedding. by bukatyne(f): 8:12pm On Oct 04, 2024
Beverlyjean:
After she had sex with with the gym instructor, she cried fir 2 days and became slim....I guess that's the final part of the gym instructors routine for the ladies to loose weight...
@bold:

cheesy cheesy cheesy cheesy cheesy cheesy
Romance › Re: Woman Applauded For Walking Out Of Boyfriend's Family Dinner by bukatyne(f): 4:57pm On Oct 04, 2024
Good girl with good head on her shoulders and a solid family behind her.
Romance › Re: Woman Applauded For Walking Out Of Boyfriend's Family Dinner by bukatyne(f): 4:55pm On Oct 04, 2024
ceejayluv:
Well, it was a banter but it hit her. That's where emotional intelligence comes in... No prospective in-laws Will see you as a bad person if you tried to prepare are lasagna once and failed. She might probably know how to prepare a taco/ Dorito and another person can't. She'd have just smiled through and voice out her concerns later on.
Oh really?

And I hope the guy would also be that emotionally intelligent when the girl and her family are bantering about his inadequacies
Romance › Re: Woman Applauded For Walking Out Of Boyfriend's Family Dinner by bukatyne(f): 4:07pm On Oct 04, 2024
nedekid:
Oga, this is seems to be a topic for adults.
cheesy
Politics › Re: Lagos Government Bans Pure Water From January 2025 by bukatyne(f): 8:37am On Oct 04, 2024
Peterzoom20:
It's not everyone that can afford bottled water oh. Governor sanwo olu should rethink this decision.
They intend to ban bottled water.

Can the good governor tell us what the alternatives are?

Tap water (which is not available), buying water from tankers or dispenser water?

Someone said the person who cursed Nigeria is also shocked at the potency of his curse.
Culture › Re: Ethiopian Tribe Where Women Cut Their Lips As A Symbol Of Beauty And Identity by bukatyne(f): 12:50am On Oct 02, 2024
Litmus:
It's worrying that op has only now learned of these people.


Legend has it that the tradition began as a means of dissuading slave traders.
From doing what?

Sleeping with their women?

Please it is only the women who have the lip plate stuff.
Culture › Re: Ethiopian Tribe Where Women Cut Their Lips As A Symbol Of Beauty And Identity by bukatyne(f): 12:49am On Oct 02, 2024
All sentiments aside;

What exactly is beautiful in this monstrosity?

With or without the lip plate, it looks freaking horrible.

And what has the size of the lips got to do with marriage? Let's assume BJ, those lips look damn irritating!

I would like to examine the minds of the people who taught this beautiful or attractive.... there must be something broken in there.
Romance › Re: How My Edo Poly Lecturer Boyfriend Left Me With Twin Pregnancy To ‘japa’ by bukatyne(f): 10:51pm On Sep 29, 2024
A man can't force a woman to have a baby aka be a mother; she doesn't want the baby, she aborts it and moves on. Case closed.

A woman can force a man to be responsible for a baby aka be a father; he doesn't want the baby, she keeps it and births it. He must be a father (at least financially for 18yr).

I guess one of the wonders of nature to show that each gender have their 'weakenesses'.

To the OP:

I trust that the boy and family would come begging in future when someone sees a 'vision' that he has 'offended someone' and he needs to restitute.

I am curious though: what stage of life is the girl? A university lecturer looking to japa without sound plans with you looping in both families is very bad news.

And a Yoruba family ignoring the children especially twins is strange.

Good the girl has gotten financial help, hopefully she has a better relationship with the next man (if interested).
Family › Re: Rant! Women Are Forgetful And Can Be Ingrates. by bukatyne(f): 4:19pm On Sep 29, 2024
Myrrhis:
So, what has your ex got to do in all of these?
Or is she the woman you married?
Maybe he is playing R.Kelly's 'if I could turn back the hands of time'. grin
Christianity Etc › Re: Proof That We Are At The End Time We Have Been Hearing For 1000s Of Yrs by bukatyne(f): 11:39am On Sep 29, 2024
mosho2good:
.NA WOMAN WEY GO SCHOOL DEY READ HUSBAND CHATS. MARRY WHO NO GO SCHOOL AND HAVE PEACE OF MIND.

NA NEW UPDATE.
I thought not having indicting chats is a permanent solution?
Family › Re: Rant! Women Are Forgetful And Can Be Ingrates. by bukatyne(f): 11:37am On Sep 29, 2024
1Sharon:
I agree. But sometimes inlaws can be nasty and compound a new mothers problem. Sometimes they give all kinds of unsolicited advice and demand all sorts instead of helping out with the baby. New mothers are stressed as it is.
It could be better handled with wisdom as the husband (OP) doesn't seem unreasonable.

Right now, the husband's take out is that his wife doesn't want his family around.
Family › Re: Rant! Women Are Forgetful And Can Be Ingrates. by bukatyne(f): 10:46am On Sep 29, 2024
1Sharon:
Don't you think your wife is stressed because you both have a new baby? undecided

Isn't it reasonable that she'd be more comfortable around her own mother over yours?

When you went away was there any other person to help her care for the baby? What is wrong in her wanting her mother to be by her side in that situation?,
This is no reason to be nasty to her husband's family.

In some cultures, both mothers share the omugwo; they both own the grandkid. Some, it is either mothers and others it is the mother from a specific side.

I have seen this play out over and over and the end result is a husband weary of his wife and leaning towards his family which is the natural human response.
Family › Re: Rant! Women Are Forgetful And Can Be Ingrates. by bukatyne(f): 10:41am On Sep 29, 2024
Hidemyface:
Thanks for the nudge. I fear I might overdo things hence my Mr. Nice cause I overdid things in my Youth and I was losing touch with my simple upbringing and the kind of Man I want to be. During my youthful days, I hit women who looked for my trouble or thought I was a SIMP which never went down well with me after the actions. I exchanged "woman-wrapper" insult for a slap and some many things I don't take from women that I won't want to disclose which formed my present disposition.
Interesting.

You need to learn the balance between both extremes.

Be kind yet assertive.

Goodluck
Family › Re: Rant! Women Are Forgetful And Can Be Ingrates. by bukatyne(f): 10:38am On Sep 29, 2024
Ensa777:
If your wife doesn't want your ppl let her ppl not come too.
It's too early for her wickedness.
I'm a woman and I give bullshit for bullshit.
You too man up,this is the time both of you decide how your marriage gon be.
@bold:

I found this funny cheesy
Christianity Etc › Re: The Weapon Of Flattery In The Hands Of The Seductress by bukatyne(f): 10:34am On Sep 29, 2024
If you are able to tame your ego and have self-awareness, you have 90% won the game against flattery.
Romance › Re: Lady Gives Men Expo On How To Get Women Easily ! (video) by bukatyne(f): 10:26am On Sep 29, 2024
ITbomb:
All I'm hearing is "act a lie to get laid"

Guys, go hustle o, if you use swag get girl, another guy with better swag dey.

Any girl that fall for only swag and lies no be for keep
No, she said start with a conversation starter.

Like she said, you could send a funny video and pick it up from there.

And to be honest, she is right; In today's Nigeria, asking someone if they are 'good' or 'fine' if you are not good friends on the same socioeconomic level or relatives is a waste of space.

If the person opens up to you that they are not fine because of money, are you ready to send something to them?

I was pleasantly shocked; it was a great video.

And not only useful for men. I remember when I was trying to reconnect with my secondary school friends and I was asking questions like policewoman cheesy. Actually using her tactics of posting a video or opening a topic of discussion would have been much better.
Christianity Etc › Re: Olympics Most Iconic Photo: What I Discovered About Viral Christian Post(Photos) by bukatyne(f): 10:10am On Sep 29, 2024
jesusjnr2020:
Therefore let's not be in too much of a haste to share anything we see online just because it suits our Christians beliefs, but endeavour to verify where necessary so we won't find ourselves posting such false and misleading information.

God bless.
This is really commendable.
Romance › Re: Warning! Never Accept This From A Woman by bukatyne(f): 1:13pm On Sep 28, 2024
Thank you for telling us the kind of women you have in your family.

If you have women successful in their trade, business or career, you would know that good/bad advise is not gender specific.

I hope you rectify the situation for your lineage so that your future generations would not open this type of thread.
Family › Re: Man Abandons Family As He Discovers None Of His 3 Kids Are His by bukatyne(f): 10:00am On Sep 28, 2024
Nazgul:
1. My definition of a good marriage has nothing to do with the topic at hand.

2. What is wring is wrong. You women should learn to call out your fellow women who are in the wrong.

3. Cos I don't see why a woman who is legally married would sleep and get pregnant for some else, then peg it on her husband.

4.If she was tired of the marriage, she could have simply walked away.
1. It does in this context. You wondered why a woman with a 'good' husband was still cheating; I asked your definition of 'good'.

2. Now you are projecting. Men & women don't call out each other when they are wrong. It is Human being 101. Infact, women call out themselves more; the evidence abound.

3. I agree with you. Even if she is not married; paternity fraud is evil.

4. Unfortunately, humans are not that selfless. They (men & women) want to hold on to the values in their partners while topping it up elsewhere. That's why a husband wouldn't divorce his dutiful home maker, he will rather cheat for a wild sex experience; a wife wouldn't divorce her provider husband, she will rather cheat for the attention undecided Again, basic human being 101.
Business › Re: Naira Depreciates To N1,700/$ At Parallel Market — Lowest Level In Seven Months by bukatyne(f): 9:27am On Sep 28, 2024
APC and PDP is a live example of 'the devil you know is better than the angel you don't know.'

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