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raumdeuter:
Where does the US get the riches from? The US is currently in debt, Will the citizens agree to increased taxes to care for those social programs like paid parental leave

raumdeuter:
I am on mobile and can't structure the replies better. Your wage is dependent on what you negotiate at hiring.


Some women are not really aggressive at negotiation and end up leaving money on the table. As an employer I will not pay you 100k if you say you are okay with 80k. It's just business.
I have been on negotiation table and coached my friends to push harder. I've seen the way men take it and women are not really comfortable pushing that hard because what they are offering is already okay to her. In my small experience some women are okay with non monetized benefits (quality of life things and convenience) while men will ask for the benefit to be monetized

I have seen someone take over 100k less because they will buy her flight tickets and hotel anytime she has to travel to work as she lives out of the state fly into North Dakota twice a month doing a 7 days on, 7 days off schedule. while a guy in the same place simply said give me the money I'll buy my own tickets and hotel. Even when she was told she was like she can't deal with the inconvenience


There was a friend post medical school and residency he got an offer in Arkansas his colleague from medical school a Camerounian got an offer too from the same hospital. Which was base salary plus sign on bonus. The Cameroonian guy signed up immediately as this was over 300k base which is already generous by all standards. My Naija friend who negotiated harder got more he was able to get student loan repayment in addition to the hospital covering his malpractice with tail, up to 105k production and clinical efficiency bonus. The 2 guys will do the same job but get paid differently

Those countries are not America, they do not have 300m people and they are nowhere as prosperous as America. There is a reason why America is the desired destination for majority of the world including people from those countries

The maternity leave thing is also part of taking responsibility for your life and action. If you are a woman you want to have a big family and another woman who doesn't want to have kids. You have to plan with your partner and decide what works best for you. Having children is a personal decision or ambition and there are costs to it which you have to be okay with everything that comes with your decision

The 3 months leave its someone paying for it. If govt mandates it, then will the govt pay employers to keep employees on payroll. And where will the govt get that money from? Govt doesnt pluck money from the sky. Are you okay with increasing your taxes so they can provide 3 months maternity to every woman? Will it be fair to Include those men and women who chose not to have kids to have their taxes increased to pay for maternity leaves for those who chose to

US has the richest and most prosperous individuals because the govt doesn't tax us like in those countries. Will you be okay with paying 50 to 60% taxes to get all these utopia of what and what govt should be doing? Top earners in states like California already pay 37% federal, 13% state which adds up to 50%. Are you okay with an extra 10% making 60% of your total income to pay for these stuffs Democrats want govt to further take on their bloated plates? I am not comfortable with it. I am okay with small govt

Maeve7:
Are you sure? How much harder does a company‘s CEO work than the average worker to earn up to 300 times more? How much does the Shell company CEO make compared to those who do the drilling? Are workers compensated for the value they produce? Pulease! Don’t get me even started.

fxexperts:
God punish your papa.

Quench which dirty fire. they better use the fire to burn you.

He will never slap his wife, he is not a weak man like you and your papa.

Keep deceiving yourselves, I plan to train my daughter on martial art. they will beat you blue and black.

Just one snap of your neck from my martial art daughter and you have gone to meet your ancestors. ode.

FireUpNow:
Thos one nah Emir slaughter! A promoter of domestic violence. Retaliation is not the solution. Train your daughters well

Ishilove:
Slap her, she retaliates and injure her.

And then find out that you didn't pick her from the streets.

almarthins:
I don't think he actually said that, going by his religion. He would never allow a woman to dominate him in his own house. Beware of all this rag tag bloggers!

incogni2o:
you tend to look up to someone as an intellectual,

The person will just suddenly fall your hand with one school of thought.

Look up to God alone for Wisdom.

Why will you ask a lady to retalliate when a Man lays His hands on Her, Does that make any sense?

Firstly, 2 wrongs dont make a right.
Secondly, The Woman likely wouldnt be as strong as the Man
Also, Doesnt it seem right for a Woman to try to quench a fire of anger rather than fanning it ?

In the name of equality, Women are exponentially loosing it.

Men are also becoming more and more weak

Dogalmighty17:
The matter is very serious. There's a video going around of Jay Z beating up Beyonce and you could see bits of cocaine hanging off her hair. She was high out of her mind. And apparently, Jennifer Lopez liked having groups of men take turns f(uc)king her one after another right there in a room full of people in Diddy's mansion. Ben Affleck got hold of the tapes and Jay lo filed for divorce because according to her, he went snooping and spying on her.

This lady accusing Jay Z of rape has not said which female celebrity was in the room then. It couldn't have been Beyonce as she was 19 at the time. Footage of the VMA after part that year had Jay Z with Mary J Blige, Lil Kim and another unnamed artist.

Whatever it is, there's blood in the water and Diddy will not go down alone. But meanwhile, the world should not forget that the FBI has tapes of Donald Trump raping a 13 year old girl in Jeffrey Epstein's island. That tape has been suppressed because their are also tapes of Prince Andrew, brother to King Charles doing same. If Trumps tape comes out, everyone's tapes will. But black americans, who have never truly belonged to the club of the true elite, will keep being exposed.

DelilahMakinde:
"sacrifices".... Sounds familiar.

Hellisreal70:
" Misbehave" is not for married women that wants to remain in marriage.
A man without a fiance can decide that he will marry within a month, in as much he has the financial capacity he will marry
But a billionaire lady can not do such even within a year.
Culturally and religiously, the husband is the head in marriage there is nothing like equality.
Wokeness and feminism is anti marriage. It is only a catalyst to divorce and baby mamaism.
I married a lady ( graduate professional) that I senior with just 2 months
A marriage that has its foundation on Jesus can never crumble so far the couple' s actions are in line with the bible.
I am not saying the husband should misbehave but I am saying a wife must respect and submit to her husband. And the husband must really love his wife.

oluayebenz:
1700 is actually not true rate....

Naira true rate without speculation is around 800

Ashawoman82:
she deserves it... Just try and listen to her songs...GUC dey learn work when it comes to powerful worship songs..

ShenTeh:
After almost 20 years in the corporate world, my simple response is: do it.

shadrach77:
This is how it was designed to be before oyinbo and Hollywood changed the mindset of our guys

pocohantas:
You are more likely to find at least one person in the bride's family who stands for truth. So despite the condemnable action of her family members, I am not surprised the whistleblower is her brother. If tables were turned, a wife wouldn't know when her inlaws help their son marry 2 secret wives.

Zealag:
If na like dis every family members Dey report their siblings my bro so many things for don spoil,take it or leave it.

Flame333:
I can't remember the last time I watched Nollywood movies

Hellisreal70:
An adage says that two wrongs can't make a right
Also it is good for a spouse to please God by playing his/ her part rightly and biblically in order to make heaven

Hellisreal70:
You need to obey the the word of God to make the kingdom of God.
Husband and wife are two human being, each must run the heavenly race according to the bible rules
Who knows maybe you can win the love of your husband by respecting him according to the bible and even wining his heart for God

xristos:
The OP quote is a biased philosophy backed with the manipulation of scripture.

Why read Verse 25 before 22 ??
The instruction is first to the Woman, then the Man.

The Bible is Forever Correct.

Vifx:
Anything that is natural will always happen naturally without any fuss
it is unnatural for a human to submit to to another human, hence the need for people to keep sing the looney tunes of submissiveness to women lol

NewDelhi:
Na boarding school dem dey nor be their papa house. Its part of the training that moulds you and makes you tough as man.

Weytin una dey expect? Rice and Krispy turkey?

austed:
Please does anyone know the boarding fees these students are paying per term? It is important we know so we can have a balance view of things.

Napata77:
THEY SHOULD NOT JUST SACK THE PRINCIPAL.

HE SHOULD BE ARRESTED AND CHARGED.

HE IS A CRIMINAL AND A THIEF.

Klass99:
Buka baby, did I lie?
You still dey this forum? Long time no see, I hope you and yours are doing well.

Maobichek:
Bishop Abioye is adjoined as the most loyal follower of Papa, infact in one of his messages, he maintained that he was not in LFC to preach but to serve Papa. I have been a member of LFC for a while and I'm also in FCT; i only hope that this "issue" will not burst and many other things revealed.