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Another perspective.

Ebang has shown that when handled with care & attention, women do enjoy sex very very well.

So husbands complaining about their wives unresponsiveness or lack of skills, do your part to draw it out of her and you would be surprised with the treasure you were blessed with.

Emaprince:
Did it occur to you that none of those women were aware of his amorous relationship with other women? Each of them probably thought she was the only sexual artner he has apart from his wife . The man will be acting like a real lover boy for each every one of them.

And from the video I watched, he seemed passionate about every single one of them, and the women were all excited about every meet up. They were all enjoying it, and nothing seemed like blackmail or forced.

With the expose, I'm damn sure they will have their mouths agape at the revelation of other VIPs wives involved with him as well. They will definitely be shocked that their own close friends and sisters are involved.

The man is just a sly, considerate and well calculated playboy.

I'm sure that when the dust settles and these women are forgiven, more than half of them will still secretely agree to sleep with him.

The way he was handling them with care, made them feel he really cared about their hapinness on bed

My point is the willingness to record the shenanigans.

at handling them with care.

He should open a Sex Ed school.

GloriousGbola:
1. if you have seen the videos the women are enthusiastic. none look forced or coerced.

2. i would say in real life the guy has high level charisma or magnetism. this is actually what happens with celebrities like movie stars, star athletes , pop stars and ballers. women literally throwing themselves at you.

3. what makes this odd is the man is not a celebrity, but a politician.

4. so i am going to go form high charisma. and add to that, the man is not selfish or inconsiderate in bed. it is impossible most of those women are not aware .

5. all those red pill noisemakers should be watching the guys videos and taking notes of how it is actually done.

1. I haven't seen the videos

2. I know that women throw themselves at Charismatic men especially a powerful one, double bazooka

3. What makes it odd for me is the caliber of women willing to record a video with him. I saw a picture on this thread and both of them were facing the camera. Weren't the women thinking of leakages and the implications for the husbands? Or maybe I an the one judging the situation from the Nigerian context.

4. Toor, he is the real cheerful giver. It wouldn't be surprising if he is a terrible lover to his wife though.

5. Na Redpill win this round na their firm belief of the 'disloyalty' and 'evilness' of women have been proven. It is the feminists who think all women are saints while men are evil, the men who think women are saintly things that don't like sex and the men who use 'men's extraordinary libodo' to justify broloshism that lost this round

Anyways, bros can use his expertise to launch sexpreneurship. Imagine him opening a sex college or writing books on sex; Ebang nor need advert; evidence dey!

malaria:
I think is 400 Videos not 400 women

True, thanks.

Still baffling.

joseph1832:
Whether he has some disease or any disease isn't the issue, the issue is how that hell did all this women agree to nack him.

The only reason I can put my finger on is, the guy is so damn good in bed, because like gloriousgbola said, this women aren't hungry or lack money.

One high profile man is so good in bed and he sleeps with 400 high profile women and they ALL agree to do a video with him?

If it was 400 hungry women or ten high profile women or only his relatives wives, maybe.

There is something we are not getting in this case.

If Equatorial Guinea is known for strict enforcement of their laws, I will take a reason as wild as their husbands used them to placate him to get him off their backs than he is good in bed.

And the govt officials that leaked it: are they crazy or something?

You see your colleague sleeping with uour colleagues wives snd you release the videos....

Not use it as a bargaining chip or sell it to some corrupt high profile person as a leverage.

Mayflowa:
There is nothing consensual. It was a blackmail because he the czar of financial investigation and abuse of office authority to promote some his staff.

This makes sense.

GloriousGbola:
The man is actually not guilty of anything. It was consensual, the women were enthusiastic.

It is the government officials that decided to leak the videos rather than make it a family affair to be handled behind closed doors that are to blame.

These are all kept women establishment wives. No be money matter. For all intents and purposes the women were lining up to knack the guy. No way they were not aware that they were all bedmates with African Johnny Sins.

I first thought maybe it was a pc repair person that leaked the videos. Instead it is the government that is violating citizens rights to privacy.

How did he get over 400 married high profile wives to have recorded sex with him though?

And imagine if he has some disease.....

The horror!

malaria:
They are already back together as i heard ..

Ah Toor!

The people tickling Mabel's dada have left her

Goodluck to them.

When would men learn that much younger women need money (loads of money) to stand them?

Or what kind of guts do you have to think that a young, nubile woman would want you because you are a 'man'?

Daddy wa, please lawyer up and divorce her before we hear 'man kicked out of the house due to domestic violence' or 'man kills wife' or 'woman kills husband' or 'man dies of heart attack'.

1Sharon:
Yet, you're first ones that lose their shit if a woman says she doesn't want to get married.

And remarry when the marriage comes to an end.

Men sure love their chains

What's going to happen to the virgin girl that moved in with you?

GloriousGbola:
You think its a bug
i think its a feature
i see bobs long game as securing asylum in obodo oyibo

his arrests are in the public eye.
for over sabi liberals in the west - this is oppression in a brutal islamic regime that arrests children for treason
all bob needs is for actual video of violence and blood captured on camera, administered by our thuggish police and bam!
asylum with no future review

For his sake I hope so.

Else, he is damaged goods.

Loyalty and discretion are key in his world.

Funny thread.

The simple solution to May situation was Yul respecting his marriage vows and zipping up but no, we like the very hard way.

Yul messes up and we 'force May's hand' to accept it.

Hopefully, the men of this generation are learning: you need to show up correct and women are waking up to hold you to higher standards.

If you want your home to stand, you roll your sleeves and join your wives to build it.

The era of single wife hood or wives with financial sperm donors will hopefully come to an end.

malaria:
But Ay is trying to reconcile with his wife na .

Interesting.

Is Mabel ready to have him back?

dinachi:
As usual, most men here displaying their lack of ability to reason deeply missed the most important point.

Who hosted the podcast? AY the Comedian!

Who did Yul warn to leave his then wife May alone? AY the Comedian.

Who is the 'God' behind all these packaging of May, sponsoring trips and using his vast media platforms to promote May? AY the Comedian.


When you connect all the dots, then you can now understand why it seems May is a superstar. The unseen hand behind the scenes is AY the Comedian. He has been the one fucking this woman mercilessly and promoting her. I pity the idiots who praise her as something special.

May Aligwe is a woman who wanted the divorce as fast as possible so that she can keep fucking both men and women.

But her adultery partner AY the Comedian has to put her up to say she loves marriage because a lot of men eyes are finally opening.

They now understand the message May is passing. She is literarily a motivation for other women to leave their husbands. So, if you are married and you are busy promoting May as a man, your wife is just looking you with one eye. One day she will have the courage to do it because if May can do it so can she!

There's nothing special about May but their is something sinister and evil about a man, sponsoring, encouraging and undermining his fellow man to Bleep his wife. AY whether in this life or the next, you will get your Karma from God and it won't be pretty! Peace!

Wait o!

AY will get Karma from God?

For doing what exactly?

You mean God would leave Yul who humiliated his wife, taking actions resulting to the death of their son and dish Karma to AY who worse case made her 'happy' in the whole mess?

Not surprised. I guess it is the same 'god' that throws non-tithers in hell while patting the back of Nigerian politians.

chidiokay:
is Life its sef fair ?? even inside monogamy have we not heard stories that resonate " unfair and emotionally "

Men creat polygamy but women decides the atmosphere ..
I have a friend her dad is chief imam, he has 3 wives , 16 children whenever i visited back then the family bond is so strong you can even seperate the children, about 10 of the children don pull themselves into Uk

I agree we men can be selfish But polygamy is not exit sentence ... are the women ready to live in harmony ??

Men can be selfish, May decided to want no part of it.

Why is it a problem?

smartec:
Someone filed for divorce, and still claims she is not advocating for divorce. So what the hack is she doing

May woke up one fine morning and decided to divorce Yul?

As always, when the government open their mouths, you are sure that it is another policy not favorable to the masses.

If you want to restrict USD in private hands, you know what to do to solve 95% of it but no.....

It is the tiny 5% in the hands of the masses you are worried about.

geedot:
See the smile on ASAP's face Every man should get and be with a lady in the same social class as himself. E get why.

Are ASAP and Rihanna in the same social class?

So sad.

I hope the women get deliverance soon.

immortalcrown:
You are trying so hard to change the topic.

Isn't man placed over woman and Christ placed over man?

How does a man kneeling for his future wife while proposing affect the fact that he is the head of HIS home? Does Christ washing his disciples' feet affect his lordship or position?

immortalcrown:
I don't find it satanic. But it is wrong. Something can be wrong without being satanic.

From the Christian perspective:
Man is naturally made to be the head. He kneeling for a woman during a marriage proposal means she is the head. There is a reason God himself placed Adam over Eve. Those men who kneel down for marriage proposal turn the law of nature upsidedown.

From the Igbo cultural perspective:
A man is to be honoured by a woman. A man who kneels down to propose marriage to a woman should not expect the woman to honour him. He should be the one honouring her and should not complain. It also means that she should be the one protecting and providing for the home.

From a general perspective:
The funny thing is that ladies are desperate to marry men of high values, not minding whether the men will kneel for proposal or not.

Ladies that consider themselves above their men's class are the ones that want their men to kneel down for proposal. Most of them are the champions of paternity fraud. Most of them give their bestie good-bye sex a night before wedding the man that knelt down.

Two categories of men kneel down for marriage proposal. One, men who believe they are not up to their women's class kneel down for proposal because those men consider it a favour when those women agree to marry those men. Two, men who are deadly pretentious (wolves in sheep clothing) also kneel down for women during marriage proposal but use toxic masculinity to suffocate those women in the marriages.

Which Christian?

I am sure that Jesus washing the feet of his disciples also made him their servant. or him cooking for them made hom their maid or cook.

Don't Kings and Queen kneel during their coronation though?

It is imperative that everyone READs the Bible for him/herself.

If you do not want to kneel to propose, you are free not to however, dragging the Bible into your shenanigans is unacceptable.

Again, professing Christians need to pick between Christianity and their culture. In Christianity, a leader is called to be a servant; that is what Jesus exemplified by washing the feet of his disciplines which is what someone in a 'lower" position would do.

Infact, the Bible birthed 'servant -leadership' and the Nigerian man's ways of always seeking a way to dominate women is demonic.

immortalcrown:
Self control is among the qualities of a Christian. Control yourself until your husband is available for you.

As long as the sexual pleasure does not come from your husband, you are cheating on him and committing adultery. It doesn't matter whether the cheating is with another man or with a gadget. You sharing your husband's entitlement with a gadget is the same as sharing the entitlement with another man.

In conclusion, seeking or getting sexual satisfaction from any source (even masturbation) other than from your spouse is a sin. In fact, using an intimacy gadget is a higher level of masturbation.

NOTE:
What applies to wives applies to husbands in this case. There is no double standards in Christianity.

For those who will want to challenge my comment, remember that my response is from a Christian perspective because the post is about a Christian. I responded with what is biblically right. I responded with what is expected of a Christian. So, as you disagree with my comment, remember that the topic is about Christian life.

Your note was very key.

poshestmina:
"We women"? untop the smelling scrotum you carry? .


I'll forever be a supportive partner/wife but I can never and will never be the breadwinner especially for a long period of time.
I'm not meant and built to be a provider ,I can only support!

Head should head the bills,na neck or shoulder I be ..after all,I'm the weaker gender.

Those ones that'll never give you Public appreciation or Accolades,will never tell anyone that you are the breadwinner or sustaining the home to maintain their useless and phoolish 'ego'

Win bread Nna,I get butter.

In this subject matter, men want to consistently eat their cake and have it

Mom007:
Ern... no. Just NO!

Same here.

I (My preference) would rather he carried the child on his hips or carrier.

Nutridelfarms:
Women are generally stingy with their resources. As a man, do not pray to be in a situation where your wife is the provider or where you have to depend on your wife. It never ends well. Yes, there are exceptions no doubt but in a vast majority of cases, it'd not augur well. While I am not averse to women making own money, as a man, make sure you're constantly developing yourself so that you can be in a position where you never run out of money. Develop yourself to an extent where you can always provide value. What some men do is stop developing and prioritizing themselves and instead focus on their spouse. They prioritize the ambitions of their spouse. Some will even expend all their savings to sponsor their wife's ambitions all in the name of being woke. I have a friend who is earning moderate salary but is borrowing money everywhere including from me to fund his wife's master's program in the UK with the hope that when he gets to the UK, his wife will be the provider. Till today, he has failed to return the total amount he borrowed from me. I have made up my mind not to borrow him any dime as. I have dropped subtle hints to this guy just to make him realize the path he has chosen is risky and urge him to instead spend the money on himself to acquire advanced degree that might position him to earn more or relocate. but i guess love is blind and experience they say is the best teacher. Each time we talk, its always about what his good for his wife and never what is good for him. He will keep emphasizing on how his woman will take of the family when he gets there. I have rest my case. Different strokes for different folks. It may well turn out to be a good decision for him. Life's never a straight line. But that's a risk I personally will not take.

As African men, It is our pride to provide for our family and I wear that responsibility with pride, the same cannot be said of women. They are mostly selfish and stingy regardless of how rich they might be. Statistically speaking, most charity work is done by men.

Personally, I work really hard to make money and provide for my family. I also do not lose sight of taking care of myself while at it - very important.

How did your friend prioritise the ambition of his wife when he is supporting her so she becomes the 'breadwinner' in UK?

Hope his wife is aware so it is not a pipe dream in his mind?

And if the wife is the breadwinner, hope he is going to be the domestic partner running the home because expecting his wife to be the breadwinner and running the home would be wizardry.

Tallesty1:
The comments on this post is disturbing, because Nigeria women with all their wahala have been running homes since the time of old. Our mothers invested all their money on us, like, we are their only retirement plan.

Well, all women apart from their mothers are leeches and lazy.

That would however infer that all their mothers are leeches and lazy.

But what do I know? 🤔

Which daughter should we tell?

The one that married as a 3rd wife at 27yrs?

And agreed to stay with wives 1 & 2?

tosinhtml:
1.This used to be an old argument, repackaged over and over again.

2a. In most families that are functioning, women work but earnings from their jobs are not required to be solely used in funding the home, they can chip in here and there financially

2b. but ultimately the man is the major provider of the home therefore come rain, come sunshine he has to go out there and hustle even if the job wants to kill him.

3. Women also avoid any financial reliance by their partners by ensuring the men they eventually marry earns significantly higher than them.

4. Even when women work long hours, they do it for their own selves. Because at the end, their money is their money but the husbands money belongs to the family.

5. Any arrangement different from this has been proven to cause resentment from the women involved.

1. Is that so?

2a. That means a lot of Nigerian families are nor functioning

2b. I ask again: when it comes to standard white or blue collar jobs, is there consideration for gender when assigning duties and responsibilities?

3. In this same Nigeria? According to the last research, about 177m earn less than N2m per annum. So even if women marry men who earn 'more' than them, their joint income is not enough to fend the home.

4. The husband earning N2m per annum? Anything to justify men's thoughtlessness and irresponsibility towards the domestic front. If men are capable of funding the home without drama, more women would stop working or at least work less stressful jobs.

5. Yes because like the OP, the men still expect the women to be responsible for the domestic aspect of the home even though they have the same work hours.

I hope none of these men know your parents?

Because they might cast aspersions on innocent people who tried their best.

Proserpina:
Like! It's crazy!

Honestly, what I've learned is choosing a partner is way deeper than what we think. Craziest part is qualities to look out for keeps changing everyday.

I don kukuma talk am no matter how much I earn the man must provide. That percentage thing is not for me. I used to be an advocate but these Men don't deserve it.

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