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Family › Re: What Can Make A Happily Married Woman Sleep With Another Man? by byvan03: 12:02pm On Jan 05, 2016

bjcole:
Some Men just do shamelessly for no reason other than it is a Man's world.

I think that should be same reason for women too, because they want to and can. There is never a reason to cheat except than one chose to.

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Family › Re: What's The Cost Of Marriage Certificates And Courthouse Marriages In Nigeria by byvan03: 11:55am On Jan 05, 2016

They charged us 20k, I think they just look at your face and name a price undecided

Family › Re: Rants Of A Mother In Pains by byvan03: 11:50am On Jan 05, 2016

So sorry for the terrible loss dear , only God can console you now . RIP to the little one cry

Family › Re: What Can Make A Happily Married Woman Sleep With Another Man? by byvan03: 11:35am On Jan 05, 2016

Probably the same thing that make happily married men sleep with other women.

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Family › Re: How Do One Survive A Home Of Abusive Parents by byvan03: 11:34am On Jan 05, 2016*

You have no right to bring a girl into your bedroom while still in your parents house. You are lucky they didn't land you a slap in the girl 's presence. This alone is enough to raise most parent 's anger to power 100. As long as you are still under their roof, you remain a child to them and should act like one.

When you are grown enough, get your own house and live as you want to. You think parenthood is easy, stop provoking them.

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Family › Re: Dear Cynthia, How Can I Get A Relative To Leave My House Peacefully.. by byvan03: 7:28pm On Jan 04, 2016

cococandy:
I don't know if they do it for the attention.

Very possible....

Celebrities › Re: Ini Edo Shares Hot New Photos: Fans Complain Over Her Weightloss by byvan03: 3:41pm On Jan 04, 2016

I think she is perfect like this kiss

Fashion › Re: New arrivals...Waist trainers, Post Partum Belts And Kiddies. by byvan03(op): 2:11pm On Jan 04, 2016

Trainers...

Fashion › Re: New arrivals...Waist trainers, Post Partum Belts And Kiddies. by byvan03(op): 1:40pm On Jan 04, 2016

Best of waist trainers....

Family › Re: Dear Cynthia, How Can I Get A Relative To Leave My House Peacefully.. by byvan03: 11:28am On Jan 04, 2016

cococandy:
as in eh.
Every small thing. even in clear cases they will still ask "what should I do."

It's becoming ridiculous, full grown men and women for that matter.

Family › Re: Wife's Infidelity; Please Advise. by byvan03: 11:26am On Jan 04, 2016

bukatyne:
Happy new year dear

With the stunts she's pulling, is it worth anything to her?

Not one man to say the husband is lacking (not an excuse), several men?

Her case seems more like itchy undies syndrome lipsrsealed

Business › Re: Is Importing From China Better Than Buying From Lagos? by byvan03: 8:38pm On Jan 03, 2016

The more the quantity, the cheaper the goods. An item you bought at $ 5.5 per piece can go for 2.5 if you are buying upto a thousand pieces . Those people buy at a very large quantity, so you can't compete with them.

Family › Re: If You're Happily Married, Please Share Your Story by byvan03: 5:19pm On Jan 03, 2016

Zuriela:
Once u say I'm happily married you'll see people that will 'yimu' cos too many sad marriage stories are beginning to make pple think no one is truly happily married.
And Yes I'm happily married to my best friend and we're still best friends

The yimu thing is real,lol. E concern dem jare, if you are not enjoying it, leave it than yimu others that aren't complaining.

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Family › Re: If You're Happily Married, Please Share Your Story by byvan03: 5:17pm On Jan 03, 2016

There are still great marriages, I am proud of mine . Marry a man that understands what marriage is and make sure you have a good understanding of the institution. One person alone cannot make it work, power of discernment is important. The moment you marry a man that believes that it is the job of a woman to make it work, film don finish for you.

As for the cheating husbands and wives, they deserve each other. The innocent ones being cheated on, it's your life, keep praying for them till infinity or give them away to whoever they are cheating with, your choice.

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Family › Re: Dear Cynthia, My Neighbour Keeps Binding And Casting Me In Their Prayers... by byvan03: 5:02pm On Jan 03, 2016

Better think of moving.

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Family › Re: How Do I Correct This.... by byvan03: 3:04pm On Jan 03, 2016

Send the little girl home and save her life, stop bringing helps and stop paying them. The next time she abuses you, act like a demon possessed man. Open your door and force her out of the house, throw her bags after her. Trust me she won't believe what happened, let her know that you got it in you, a soft man can't manage your wife.

You said she abuse you physically abi? Make sure it doesn't slide next time, recharge her two or three slaps in quick succession, if she comes for more, give her more. I guess that's the kind of man she wants, a mad man . You need to show this woman a different version, most times peace will never come without war. I hate violence on women but I always make an exception for physically abusive women, it's self defence not battery.

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Family › Re: Chilling Picture Shows 'demon' Watching Over Unborn Baby In Ultrasound Scan by byvan03: 2:49pm On Jan 03, 2016

This makes no sense jare.

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Family › Re: My Husband Is Committing Bigamy! by byvan03: 2:46pm On Jan 03, 2016

Op if you desire to settle in the western country you can make the most out of your situation than blow it up completely. Read Siena's last paragraph but you need to know how to hustle till you stabilise yourself.

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Fashion › Re: New arrivals...Waist trainers, Post Partum Belts And Kiddies. by byvan03(op): 12:05pm On Jan 03, 2016

Happy new year to y'all.

Family › Re: Dear Cynthia, How Can I Get A Relative To Leave My House Peacefully.. by byvan03: 11:22am On Jan 03, 2016

It seems people can't handle any situation anymore.

Family › Re: Wife's Infidelity; Please Advise. by byvan03: 11:10am On Jan 03, 2016

What is this marriage worth to her? If it means something to her then pull a surprise stunt. Serve her divorce papers without explanation, let her seek for explanation , that's when you divulge. Leave her to the begging and complaining to relatives, when you have had enough, draw your terms and conditions of reconciliation. She takes it or leaves it.

This is assuming you want to fight for your marriage. If she is already tired of the marriage, well....

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Family › Re: My Husband Is Committing Bigamy! by byvan03: 10:54am On Jan 03, 2016

marsoden:
Like byvan03 said "stop blaming the other woman". Your husband is telling lies to both of you. Are you still interested in him after all these lies? Do you still want to join him? He got involved in shady and illegal deals, are you sure he is telling the truth, or just looking for another lie to cover a lie? Truthfully, if you're my sister, I would tell you to walk away. Forget the marriage. Its not worth going into.

Seriously......the man is full of lies, she has to move on or let him waste more years of her life for nothing. If the visa can still serve any purpose, let her make maximum use of it.

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Family › Re: My Husband Is Committing Bigamy! by byvan03: 10:52am On Jan 03, 2016

shalomp:
She knows about me and she is fighting so hard to break my marriage. I believe she has given him a lot of money too

How do you know she is aware of you, have you spoken to her? Don't believe a word he says without seeing for yourself. No one can break a marriage that isn't already broken.

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Family › Re: My Husband Is Committing Bigamy! by byvan03: 10:45am On Jan 03, 2016

Please stop blaming this woman, she is being lied to too. Your husband is the one complicating two women 's life here, you don't know the version he gave her.

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Family › Re: My Husband Is Committing Bigamy! by byvan03: 10:27am On Jan 03, 2016

shalomp:
Tnx byvan, but how can I travel since he is the one to give me stay over there. What are my chances

You have no one there at all? Cousins, relatives? My dear calm down and think. no one died ,love lost can be found elsewhere .

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Family › Re: My Husband Is Committing Bigamy! by byvan03: 9:28am On Jan 03, 2016

He is obviously full of lies. He was hoping you are denied visa and when that didn't happen ,he spins another angle. You can still travel and find your way from there, except you love Nigeria very much.

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Family › Re: Her Husband Is Cheating And Depriving Her Of Sex So She Wants To Retaliate. What by byvan03: 3:44pm On Jan 02, 2016

cococandy:
Happy new year too darl.

Lol. I guess that's what she means. Just the way she said it was funny

Family › Re: Her Husband Is Cheating And Depriving Her Of Sex So She Wants To Retaliate. What by byvan03: 3:34pm On Jan 02, 2016

cococandy:
OP answer.

Happy new year dear, I think she means that he obviously took a bath before he got home. Probably the man smell like soap when he is supposed to be smelling sweaty.

Family › Re: Can You Marry A Hiv-infected Partner? by byvan03: 6:45pm On Jan 01, 2016

Hell no!!!!

Family › Re: Describe 2015 With A Word by byvan03: 10:03pm On Dec 31, 2015

Progressive

Fashion › Re: Lingerie! A Must Have! by byvan03: 8:15pm On Dec 30, 2015

cococandy:
No

It's a girl.

If na boy, then it's the sonographers mistake.

Correct!!

Fashion › Re: Lingerie! A Must Have! by byvan03: 7:47pm On Dec 30, 2015

cococandy:
Abi?
After all surname is stronger than first name

I'm enjoying this

You sure sey no be boy? This your "am enjoying this "doesn't seem genuine angry

. Coco have you been misleading us cry

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