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If you are a young man who has never been married or never fathered any child, please start on a new slate. I won't consider a single dad for any reason, can't deal with unnecessary baggage. I am being honest with my answer here, except you are a single dad, please start on a new slate.

You visited without calling, why? You should consider yourself lucky that you weren't left outside there. I will advise you never to visit people unaware. If you think your brother is jazzed, keep praying for him and keep your nose out of another woman's marriage.

You will get married someday, so be very careful how you treat women married into your family.

Very cute, happy wedding anniversary and I wish you more blissful years ahead.

EfemenaXY:
Chai!

Nne, your mouth bad pass chilli own.

Oya babygirlfl fire back. Da score izz 1-0. Where is Edwife? Referee tinz...

Lol, Good morning madam, hope you are enjoying your holiday. I don't understand why babygirl will want to play reggae against my blues .

babygirlfl:
Lol. we no dey talk too much. Queen meets King and settle into their palace shikena. No option no browsing. That one na Cococandy and byvan03 own . Ehen Oga contractor, I said better than Buckingham palace not exactly like Buckingham palace.

Lol, you still dey build palace, Cococandy don already collect trailers of yams and 10 cows for the engagement rights. The rightful Prince has been in karate classes for two years in case people like you comes around to crash a perfect engagement party . No need to dey wait Prince wey im palace still dey under construction .


Wait for next turn, beg Coco to born your own Queen. This one was taken before her conception. You are invited to the engagement party, come with your boy because other chics will be there for taking .

cococandy:

I wasn't betraying you. I promise.

Just looking at other options

The babe is home already, no more options to browse.

Chillisauce:
Hi babes. I'm fine o.
Was tied down. When I finally had time. . I couldn't type with long nails. Then one thumb nail fell off. Im using it now to type but my eyes are hurting from to much reading. O yes... chilli reads too much.
Anyway. .

Merry Xmas you and yours .
EfemenaXY yum yum. Happy hols dear
Cococandy. ..happy anniversary and happy big belly
Edwife..I know where to catch you. Happy hols.
Lyndaroyce...Hmmm. e bi like say you don carry belly again. Happy hols.
Byvan how biz. I dey your side o.

M6 eyes hurt. Chai. I'm sure they will prescribe glasses for me .

Wishing every nice lovely nairalanders a joyeux Noël .

Hello Chilli pepper, compliments of the seasons to you dear. Biz deyooo, hope you are enjoying the holiday. The thought of the break ending makes my heart skip .



Coco, Efemenaxy , Bukatyne, edwife, lyndaro....no need asking of that one, I know where to find her. Hope you all are doing great, compliments of the season.


Cococandy what have you been bargaining about with babygirl? Kpachara anya gioooo!! If I hear story on top that chic matter eehhh!!

Yes, once they mind their businesses on here and not bring their home to NL.

Don't beat your wife no be for this type,rubbish! Please nullify this marriage before it becomes for better for die.

Lol,your wife is funny, you brought a 19years old to intimidate her but you see, you can't give everyone conditions. Send this girl away first of all, sit her down and talk like a matured individual. Power tussle is a dangerous thing in a marriage, you won't know when you have flipped on the wrong switch. Dialogue saves lot of trouble, try a sensible dialogue session but send home the teen.


Wanting a teenage help tells a lot about you. she doesn't even trust you and that is why she is holding tenaciously unto her job than quit to serve you breakfasts.

FynBabe:
Ok. No, it wasn't me.
I will get back to you soon.
Thanks.

OK dear

Once a couple starts contemplating thoughts of each others death, is better to go for separation before someone does something diabolical.

FynBabe:
Pls, do u still have waist trainers?
Compliments of the season!

Merry Xmas dear, sure. Are u the lady I was talking with about an hour ago?

End time men, waiting for their wives to carry pots from their fathers' house to his. Tell your cousin that he is really funny .

Please get a better apartment, this happens in a very public living arrangement. You can't really protect the child fully if you keep living in such setting because you won't spend the entire day at home to guard her.

Most women that look older than their husbands are in stressed marriages. Child birth might make a woman look chubby but not older, generally most men look older. Only very few women look older than their husbands . Someone can be slim but aged, another can be chubby and supple.

You dare not yell back at your mother, if you don't agree with her, shut up, do your thing and apologise later with crocodile tears. Every thing mustn't end in combat.

Merry Christmas people .

Did you start cleaning out his mouth from infancy? I feel not starting early affected him, you have to keep brushing him. I doubt if he can struggle forever, he will get used to it I guess. Kids that used to their mums probing their mouth won't have much problem with brushing.

These things have nothing to do with whether you crawled or rushed into marriage. The lady that was married to the B2K killer dated and married him for years and never found out he was a serial killer until she saw him on TV. I have seen people that dated for 4 years and married for only 6 months.

The point is utilising your sense of perception and discernment to know who is who. I know a couple that dated for 9 years, yet they are still unable to understand themselves adequately in less than 2years of marriage . So crawl in,rush in means nothing if you have no good sense of discernment.


So OP, don't think is because you rushed in, people that crawled in get disappointed too.

The moment you wield the bible to my face, I did be running off like Usain Bolt. The most horrible of them all hides behind Christianity to confuse you, this type can't be saved. A man that can read the bible daily, fire prayers, speak in tongues and yet do this is capable of any crime. Only you can tell what you will prefer to do about the situation and take responsibility for the outcomes.

Am sure she is recuperating right in the same house she nearly lost her life, for better for die .

This man has parents right? What are they saying? Kids? Meaning you had more than 1 for him. Consider sending the kids to his people till you find your feet, you won't kill yourself.

I have seen people take the whole time in the world and still end up in divorce court. The point is, do what you think is best for you. The challenges you face as a young bride/ groom is the same challenges an old bride/ groom will face. Women have a larger pool of men to choose from when they are younger not when their youthful hue is already drying up. You choose your man when you are in the position to choose not when you are beginning to appear like the leftover goods after morning market.


If you choose to remain single for a longer period, let it be for the right reasons, the fact the you are yet to find your soul mate based on plausible criteria or the fact that you have no interest at all. If your criteria to choose a partner is out of this world and that is why you are single, then the person is on a really long thing .


There is nothing wrong with early marriage, there is also nothing wrong with late marriage as long as you are in whichever end for the right reasons.

Your wife is a part of you,your mother remains your mother. She is the Queen in your father's house not your house. If she wants things done in a certain way, it should be in her home not yours, except of course you are also married to her.

Nobody owns anyone, you own properties not humans.

bukatyne:
Yes

Different materials for different buyers

Lol, I love the answer, very true. Really different materials for different buyers .

Girls stop begging for money abeg, it's downright humiliating. Thank God she didn't lose her life to a beast because of longer throat.

This doesn't look like a self inflicted injury, no one can really cut that deep by himself. This can't be the first choice of action for someone attempting suicide.

I will do much more for mum without thinking about it,what's the insult there? Nawaooh!!! For some people mentality.

If the only value a man or a woman can bring to marriage is monetary, then the person is useless because many people can provide money. Yes, I got financially independent, we shared one pocket(his), I was the family 's accountant general. Now we share two pockets, there is love in sharing .

Op you are not serious, you finally opened this thread . I wonder what happens if the independent spouse's loses the job,that means divorce because he or she automatically becomes a liability in Nl's logic.