₦airaland Forum

OP someone like you can't be trusted with his own daughters, find solution to your restless whip before it becomes the beginning of your end. A young girl that calls you daddy, entrusted into your care at the age of 14, you molested her and expect it to be well with you. The evil that men do will live with them, you have lost your dignity before this child and will soon lose it before your wife and children.


Better send this girl away before you ruin her life and bring more curse to yourself.

lovinam:
I'm so sorry for you! P........I......... G
You ought to be ashamed of yourself. Someone that calls you daddy. She is practically your daughter. L.... A.... Z...... Y man.
If you are busy, u won't have time to think of such nasy things. Anumpam

bukatyne:
True

Noted

How are you and family? How is Christmas preparation going?

Preparation is going well, in a few days time it will be over and reality will stare everyone in the face. Let me enjoy the holiday while it lasts, am giving my TV a run for its worth .

Please keep your baby and get ready to pay your hospital bills. Make sure his people knows about this, there are things that family needs to know before the man springs another surprise on you or denies his child completely . This is why you could have gone on with the contraceptive if he chose to be unreasonable. It is you that will go through the pains of childbirth or the emotional crisis that comes with snuffing life out your foetus.

Mind you that he will make the pregnancy a difficult one for you, but you will hurt more killing your child and wondering what could have been. The same man that forced you to have an abortion might still wake up one day to demand a third child. Don't keep this to yourself, tell his people for the records.
Don't do what you are scared of because someone said so, it might cost you.

You are a very wicked man, see what you did to a young lady. You have dented her life. Why tell a lie of such magnitude? hurting another 's future for your selfish reasons.

edwife:
Hey sweetheart,it is well thanks dear.

xoxom

Chillisauce i see you...remain you.

cococandy,efe,ifyalways hello ladies.

Merry Christmas,i love this season,everyone is so kind(in my world of course).

Hello babe, so cool to hear from you. How is family ? It's great having you around .

Nice one Essence4, "fall in love and take your brain with you", I like this.

Happy weekend!

Have a lovely day people.

Some women are just plain stupid .

Keep the orders coming.

Edwife if you are reading , I have no idea what you are going through but whatever it is, please be strong. Time is the best healer, don't forget to say hi when you feel much better.

donpata:
; D
them done make me go back to dust my marriage books to see if there's somthing i missed out b4 i enter this "VALLEY OF DEATH".

Lol @ Valley of death. following by the Nairaland standard of marriage preparation, I missed out everything. Gosh!! Why get married if it makes you prepare for war. Once you are prepared for war, you will find yourself subconsciously itching for war so you can exert the combat tactics learnt over the years of prolonged single hood. No wonder the number of failed marriages keeps skyrocketing. People can't wait to tap into their contingency plans.

They now put plan A,B and C in place before lying through their teeth at the alter that is for better, for worse .

It's sad that people now prepare for marriages like they are going to war .

bukatyne:
Wanted to tag you but thought you would mind.

In this life, no absolutes.

As far as the guy is right and she knows the challenges, it will be well.

Hello dear, I was banned by that spam bot shyte so couldn't reply earlier, I don't mind at all. There really are no absolutes, you take the risks that are worth taking.

PP belt...available in size 26-31

Sorry ladies, my phone fell inside water so I lost our chats that's why I didn't recognise the old customers that chatted me up. I have recovered all chat history,so.....


Happy Sunday to y'all.

jadelyn007:
finally someone agrees with me. From experience once the man is supportive and keeps to his words then they will be able to make it work together. I've seen it work time without number when both parties put their backs to it.

Waiting to be a graduate and bag a job is no excuse in my opinion, you can still be a wife, a graduate, a mother if you want and still bag same job. I believe the man isn't a child, he saw matured working spinsters before he fell for an undergraduate. I also believe he is braced for the challenges ahead, once they are determined to make it work, it will work . Education first or marriage first guarantees nothing, isn't it better to take both on board if you are convinced you are with your man?

As a matter of fact, the younger you are married, the more time you will have in your hands to become whatever you want to be. At 30 your kids should be in primary school and you still have plenty time to do more with your life. You will enjoy early marriage with the right guy, nothing beats growing into maturity and building lots of youthful fond memories.

If you feel you are ready , take the leap. I took this decision years back and am glad I did . if you aren't a very determined individual , you might have to think it through again . I had my kids in between schooling and service , ofcourse I spent only 4yrs in school . i don't know where people see this loser young married ladies scenerio they project here.

I am surrounded by go getters that married pretty early and juggling all the balls that counts . the youngest professor in my department was a woman who married at 19 . she was my HOD in school . My closest colleague at work is only 31 , she is on her PhD now, her last child is 7. I have so many people I know that didn't fit into this ridiculous scenerios posed here .

The older women that got married at 30 with supposedly lots of money , did they all make a happy home? If you are sure of this man , not because he gives you gifts but because you see a good heart in him , convince your parents . I don't see why I will wait for tomorrow what I can do today .

Child care can be mind blowing when you are without help and schooling , it surely blew my mind and i blew it right back . I can't talk enough on the spousal support I got , he was hands on .

Just be sure of this guy, good luck . A good marriage is a blessing not a curse, age = numbers . Trust me if you know what you are doing, you wont be needing advice from older women because a lot of them have an unbelievable notion of marriage . Make sure you are dealing with a mentally matured individual please .

Hello ladies !


What happened to edwife ?

Boys...

Lol, hilarious, solution? What happens to giving the Eba to who lick your soup?

'Animal husbandry', nah una sabi where rain start beat una .

Forget you MIL and assist your wife, it's nothing.

Boys....

marbee:
Happy weekend! I would need one waist training, base in PH

OK dear, I saw this late. It will be as we discussed on the phone.

Happy weekend all.

As you snatched, so shall others snatch from you, Amen!

It's good for a woman to have something by the side no matter how little, not every working mother needs a house help. I don't and I know a few that don't too. I will go nuts cooking and cleaning only, I love juggling all the balls that counts.


If you feel you can afford years for child care, it's not bad but it's just not something I can opt for. I see a lot of women caring for their child at work, soo....you can also run a business from home. The Internet has made a lot of things easier. You can work and raise your kids but your spouse has to be hands on to help out. The word nanny, house help and it's variations scares me.


If something happens and the man couldn't provide, the family will hit the street begging and that's .

yebo36:
I get your point. Its not easy for me at all, but is it as bad as "cursing out a woman for being childless"? The way you put it made me feel really bad.

I think i will have change that decision. Following comments from here, it's like it is not a good decision. Thank you all, sharing this alone has made me feel a lot better.

My dear to be honest with you,it's as bad as that. That will break ones heart into pieces especially if you both are really close before this ordeal. Please give food , that will do and don't stop talking to him about the matter. He has to understand that you are getting fed up, it isn't right for a man to sit around and watch his wife collapse under burden that is meant to be shared.


Stay blessed, I pray this ends soon.