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babygirlfl:
Lol madam Byvan we don't talk much. We act. You go dey there they give yam like say we dey 18th century when we go carry our queen they go our well built palace. You no see coco for the healthy eating thread? She no dey eat yam again neither does our queen so I no know wetin you dey give them yam for.

Don't let Coco con you, she loves yam a lot and loves tradition even more. You mean you never gave her any yam and you dey form suitor? Babygirl come collect bed sleep jare .

cococandy:
Efe named the baby too

Kinda

When the time is right, we will un name Efe's and re -name our maiden with our surname trailing behind .

babygirlfl:
Lol. Now I know why Efe want me and Byvan to keep fighting. We go they there they fight when she don take the queen. Ok Byvan, no more fighting. Chilli, I always trust you to tell me the truth.

Trust Chilli and you can trust anyone . Thanks for letting go without a fight .

Chillisauce:
I have told you o. Don't day I didn't warn. You see as she design coco nursery for her? Etc.

I have the wining card, Efe was just being nice with the nursery design .

Harbigail:
Hi,pls is dat num only for watsapp coz am not on watsapp 4 now.can we talk coz i need waist trainer at wholesale price.waiting 4 ur reply

OK, you can call, I said watsapp only because it interferes with my working hours but am on holiday now.

I don't think you know the consequences of what you did if something went wrong. What if she didn't wake? You would have found yourself trying to conceal a dead body. You saved your friend but went about it in a damning way.

ClassicQueen:
You dont understand i didnt say i attent meetings. What i said is that my man said i will always have one or two things to do with her in subsequent meetings when the need arises. By saying this, i mean in the future that is after marriage. It is even a Taboo and Abomination where i come from to participate, attend meetings or even Live with a man that have not paid my bride price. All these things happened when i was trying to meet his family members even his mum it wont be good if i dont get to meet them now.

OK, it's easy to ignore this woman nah,you hardly meet her. Enjoy what you have now till the meeting time comes, it's too early to worry ones head over one woman jare.

ClassicQueen:
One of the wives is doing that right now whenever the woman insult her or scold her for what she didnt do wrong, she will just kneel down immediately pleading with her not to be angry you can imagine the rubbish. Whenever this woman have issues with me, the sad part is that she wont confront me and say oya this thing you did is wrong next time, do it this way etc, instead she will go behind my back and tell some other members of the family, adding pepper and salt to it those ones will now call me on fone sayin Ms A why did you do this? its not good o next time dont do it o. When next we meet, she will just lock up as if nothing happened feeling bitter but cant voice out to me you can imagine the rubbish all these things is what i am trying to correct when being myself. So much for being a woman these days!

Why can't you ask her directly in one of these meetings why she doesn't try to correct you directly? Speak your mindoooo, cowardice kills. They will have no choice than to accept you the way you are or look for the wives that will roll over on the floor for the so called first wife.

You people haven't wedded yet, why exactly do you attend these meetings? It seems you threw yourself right into their activities, it breeds contempt. Anything you accept now be ready to accept it forever . A healthy distance is always necessary.

Please be exactly yourself from day 1 and create your boundary now, if not it will be difficult for you to do later. Playing mumu for as long as she lives won't be an easy job.

ClassicQueen:
They said she is the first wife in the family, she deserve respect so i should act like mumu whenever i am with her!

Sting her like scorpion and be the first to invite CNN with lots of tears in your eyes. E get as dem dey take deal with such people, she go fear fear.

Every family has people like that, just face your front and don't hesitate to call her out to her face if she tries that rubbish again. Don't form goody two shoes and endure her rubbish.

They said 6weeks for normal delivery but that one nah Wetin dem talk.

Chillisauce:
Pls marriage is not for him.
Not by force to get married.

Let him jeep yanshing babes. That's his calling.
Marriage is not for everyone

OP this is the solution.

bukatyne:
I still don't understand why family & career/ job should be parallels....

Is marriage a space you sit and wriggle your hands daily

Lol, maybe it is for some,lol wetin person go talk...really sit and wriggle hands .

cococandy:
Exactly.
Many men (especially African men) wouldn't agree to that because it's not very popular among us and also sounds emasculating to them.

Nne nah risk to try am with Naija trained doctor because nah you dem go take do their first practical . I will understand why the woman is alarmed if she is home based, the procedure might equal to castration here and guy woman no wan hear tori .

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cococandy:
That's what I was about to ask too. Castrate ke

I guess the man probably means vasectomy but she's seeing it as castration.

That's very likely, the lady misunderstood the man . She should be happy her husband doesn't mind being the nipped one .

Forgive and keep your distance, people don't really change, they only advance.

Counsel her for what? You don't cajole people into marriage, everyone mustn't be married. If that's what she can live with then leave her to it. It's better to remain single than to marry and divorce.

cococandy:
You want to catch a doctor But also want one who will be willing to do whatever doctorate degree she wants and come drop the cert in your house to go open a roadside business.

Confused man.

hilarious!!!

jabojafa:
my dear a man dt wants to cheat will surely cheat whether d maid is a teen or an elderly person. Afterall he sees lots of women daily in diff shapes n sizes. Bt why wud a wife n mother be coming home by 11pm? Dt shd b a no no for any man dt values kids. Both of dem jst hv to comprise.

My post has nothing to do with who wants to cheat, only few people burst their brains over cheats these days. The point remains that his wife trusted her job more than her husband. He should address his issues and find out why wify chose job over everything else.

From the biblical point of view, the wife is his no 1 priority. They both play different role and shouldn't resort to competition , the man's immediate family is his wife and kids. It will be easier for the man if these too women in his life can relate well. It will make sense if mothers too understand where their roles ends .

If it bothers you, it's because it concerns you. Be a better man for her.

Teach them how to clean up after themselves .

Which one is castrate again? He should go for a vasectomy.

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Chillisauce:
You are here fighting Byvan over coco babygal while EfemenaXY had secretly cornered her with one of her teenage sons.
When the babe turns 18, Efe's 31yr old son by then will show up with cooool cash. Your boy and Byvan boy will still be carrying bag pack for one of their anthropology course
Make una dey hustle. The silent ones are the ones you should be aware of.

Happy new yr

Efe's boys will be long married by the time the chic turns 18 .

Please give the boy food if he needs more, most boys eat a lot.

Live your life the way you want and let others live theirs. There really are no absolutes in this life, live the way that suits your aspirations . A woman that chooses career over marriage is no better than the one that chose marriage over career. Let people focus on the area of development that they desire the most, be it starting their own families or building business empires.


I must say that this article can be misleading depending on the perspective the reader is viewing from. Telling ladies to spend their entire youth chasing money and settling down much later in life isn't exactly a top notch advice. I would have mentioned why but am already tired of typing.