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Draslo:
Alcohol
Cigarettes
Sedentary lifestyle
Too much red meat

People that indulge in the above have a more active sex life than you. #Fact

1. They are in their 20s.

2. You are right: I go months, and until recently, years without sex.

3. Na body go tell dem from mid thirties.

I wish a medical practitioner, not ignorant me, posted this.

So, I went out this morning to eat and met three young men already seated, eating. They should be in their late twenties to early thirties.
Throughout their discussions, I was silent until one of them changed the topic to sex. He was narrating an experience with a lady he had sex with yesterday. He related that throughout the exercise, even though he lasted, she didn't cum, until he grew tired and stood up.
He's of the opinion that men are taking pills before sleeping with girls, so the girls have adapted, and it's not easy to satisfy them easily.
This young man, in his early thirties, who should have no business taking sex enhancement drugs said that he doesn't do without them. I was shocked, to say the least. When the youngest among cautioned him, he began to argue, I gently, to the best of my small knowledge, highlighted the side effects of the pills to him.
A search on Google will show you just minor side effects, it's worst than that, don't mind them at all.
During sex, the heart pumps more blood by beating faster, pushing some to the brain and penis, assuming, the heart and arteries are not healthy, what do you think will happen?
High blood pressure, stroke, shortened lifespan and weak drug dependent prick.

Take note of the following if you want to improve your performance:

The heart is responsible for pumping blood, arteries circulate it around the body.
Some amount of oxygen is transported along with the blood the brain.
If you take care of the heart, it will take good care of you.
Some kinds of foods like
Millet
Sesame seed
Walnuts
Fish
Beans
Mango
Cabbage
Vegetables
Etc, will boost your sex life wonderfully, even if it takes longer period of time.
In addition, be physically active, learn to trek briskly, ( mornings and evenings), exercise when you wake, worry less.



Too much of this will lower it:
Alcohol
Cigarettes
Sedentary lifestyle
Too much red meat
Eating too much sugary fruits
Sugar
Anxiety

Be wise and make healthy choices in life.

Erectile dysfunction is NEVER difficult to overcome, if you eat the right food for your age and also engage in exercise.

Cc Dominique
Cc Sissy3
Cc Lalasticlacla

Polygamy is not a sin, but to be Church leader, Paul commanded that the person must not have more than a wife, beginning from deacon.
Anybody that takes church going serious will certainly end up becoming a leader, one way or the other with time, so as not to set a bad example, and to prepare oneself for it, be a husband to one wife.
Paul's admonition is necessary because, thou marriage is a blessing, it can distract one from walking with God, who should be our all.

FreeSpirited:
I only made social commentary...hope you understand....Hope you understand if I dint make the comments people will still chyke and fvvck married women...so I don't know why u are barking at me

I'm just making my own contribution in helping society to keep things in perspective.
No vex. I no go bark again.

FreeSpirited:
Most Nigerians look into hopelessness today by virtue of being in this useless country....Nigeria is the greatest cos of hopelessness in Nigeria...fix Nigeria, and the ones u attribute to sex will drastically reduce Ogbeni

The more reason to be focused.
You live in a country such as this and sex is all you have at the front of your mind?
E go red for you.

FreeSpirited:
Guys, When you want to date married women, women who are like 5 to10yrs above in marriage are the most vulnerable to fall into your trap. Many times they crave attention..or are just bored of their husband.
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It's not gainsay when they say the first 5 to 7 years is the most turbulent in marriage that can break or make a marriage.
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The story this young woman detailed above is a typical cycle of almost all marriages. The point our OP finds herself, for an average lady, after trying to endure or make things work will just succumb to the pressure of guys out there...and before u say jack..smart bold guys are already pounding her pvssy with all alacrity.. It's natural these days.. especially if you are in the business of chyking/chopping married women. You will know this.
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It's only a matter of time if nothing is done before this woman starts riding the BBC of a guy who gives her attention and tickle her fancy...Naso e dey start...Nothing new.
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That's why to me, fidelity in marriage is overrated..cos most times couples have broken their vow long before their significant other realises.
But in her situation, some women will deliberately go out and give in to the advances of their admirer just to kill boredom, depression and feel happy. To hell with marital vows..women do this most times to be Happy. However, the smart ones still find a way to balance home demand by not making it affect the integrity of the marriage...what they do is just flow with the marriage and not stress too much for the attention of their busy husband since he's not ready to be disturbed.
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In thesame vein, the busy husband most times is also somewhere cheating with a university or polytechnic slayqueen cos he's also bored of her wife....That's the paradox of marriage.
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You see... cheating on both sides maintains the marriage and happiness of both party codedly. Argue with me all you care...that's the reality..
Meanwhile, the stupid couples when they start the cheating game, they transfer the bottled anger and aggression on their partner which usually cause breakup......While the coded smart ones maintain their marriage and we keep praising and complimenting their marriage as the best thing that ever happened since Adam and Eve.
May God give us wisdom in all we do.

Plenty of the "smart bold guys" who made a career out of sleeping with married women in festac town, are now being replaced by another set of unfortunate fellows.
They wasted their most valuable time for laying a strong foundation for the future, and placed it in married women's hands.
You look into their eyes, what you see is hopelessness.
After all the fantasy about sex, when you finally have it, it's not worth it.
Be careful.....

Gratified to know that he's of Cameroonian heritage. We can't leave all the thinking to whites while we fight and fight and fight.
It embarrasses me a lot.

ikechukwu21:
The guy is just plain wicked and cruel. He doesn't listen to anyone. The only things he wishes is for us to use our money to sort out everything. Once he collects rents from unsuspecting prospective tenants he turns into a monster and every promise he made before they moved into his house becimes null and void. Someone from the same compound told me that no one has ever stayed up to a year in the compound before. We have been using our money to sort out the issue before but we're fed up.

New tenants usually pay more because of agent and agreement fee. I think his behaviour is so that old tenants will become frustrated and pack out, so that he rent out to new tenants.

You and the other tenants should pay the outstanding bill in the presence of a lawyer, then subtract it along with the lawyer's bill from your rent.
Print out the NEPA bill and agreement with the lawyer and give him.
If he tries anything funny after this, take the matter to human rights commission.
I and my partners rented a place for our staff to stay and the landlord was forming hard man, l explained to him how I'm going to handle him. He calmed down after reminding me that his fourth born is older than I am.

erico2k2:
check those who gain with this epileptic power supply
let me tell you the losers already as things stand
people who cut your wire and charge you to re connect9Bribr)
People who read Meters and dash you xtimated bills
People who sell meters
Now if power is structured proper
Generator sellers will lose
Discos will lose cos they cannot now return power to Gencos as they do now
the sale of Inverters will vanish
Generator repairers will be jobless.
more petrol and diesel for us at the pump as no one without cars will ever know pump price
I can go on n on
Those idiots who own the Discos will lose cos their gain
will be real and little plus they will now be forced to invest in their own infrastructures
But I see us going that way, have you seen the new Prepaid meters which have no cards?

I understand now.

erico2k2:
The major players will lose money, but we will get there soon, At my house, we get electricity every day now since we got Prepaid metre cos once our transformer blew up we ignored them for a month

How will the major players lose money. What will be the cause?
I'm curious.

Why can't they hands off electrical power like they did for telecommunications?
Involving several power companies will provide jobs, encourage competition, enhance efficiency and benefit the economy, especially if local companies are granted licences.
Selling PHCN will create a positive impact on the economy in several ways.

CSTRR:
Dolphins are very intelligent, very friendly animals.

They are as friendly as dogs if nor more.

Only Africans would kill these lovely creatures for food.

Asians kill it, not just for food, but for a living.
Only whites are making serious efforts towards it preservation among all colours.

tsephanyah:
They will now shout our "Oil money" Our. But human history shows the strongest takes what they like.
Our economic policy, I repeat, is determined solely by the interests of the Northern people. From this principle we shall never depart. If the rest of the world says: "War," I can only say: "Very well. I do not want war, but no one, however peaceable, can live in peace if his neighbor intends to force a quarrel."

After 2023, the neighbour will leave you lot to bravely face the monster (boko haram) you created when you insisted on introducing Sharia.
Middle belt and southern soldiers will remain at home to defend against those that target women, the young and the old, then flee like cowards when real men appear.
They will be given the Malian treatment, it could even be a child's play.
Remember, middle beltans withstood the fulanis man to man before buhari, but these too, shall pass.
I regret the failure of Orkars coup in '.92

DrFunmisticGlow:
correct the stranger and put him in his place by calling him a sperm donor. Then I'll run to the real father that raised me.

What if he rejects you?

budaatum:
Why should he not tag you? Are you not the one who said, "If he is Rich, trust me My reaction will be different if he is poor", before you realised how silly you were and edited it?

Yes, he must tag you because his response is specifically to your own fooooolish comment which he thankfully quoted before you edited it.

Next time think before you post your comment.

You dey mind am?

Write in haste, repent at leisure.

Mokason288:
It depends

If he is Rich , trust me

My reaction will be different if he is poor

Imagine Dangote or Adeleke telling me his my dad

And probably my dad’s ex driver comes saying the same thing...

Trust me I will stab someone...

You’re freee to guess who go collect stab

Even if the idiot is Bill Gates, let him not come close because na confam beating e go chop.
If the man I grew up calling father rejects me, I will remain fatherless.

This thought has flashed in my mind severally.
Imagine this scenario to really understand the implication of the question.
The man you know as your father, courted your mom, did traditional, church and court wedding with her.
She takes in, your "father" is the one by her side for the nine months, every time she needs something, maybe food, climbing stairs, a hand to rub her stomach, cuddling, he's the one.
He's outside looking for money to take care of his sweetheart plus the baby that's on the way, then he gets a call from mom that she's in labour.
The guy abandons what he's doing, and hurriedly delegates before rushing home, or pleads with a neighbour or family member to help convey her to the hospital if he's indisposed. He's not there physically but his heart is.
You finally came, he looks at you, holds you, feeling a rush of emotions, he hugs your mom, (as every sane man should) who is staring up at him from the bed, looking worn and tired.
He bought you clothes, bathed you, helped with assignments, employed lesson teachers, played with you, spanked you when you went out of line, stood up for you against bullies and your mom against family members (in some given situations, a sane man should), alienating some in the process.
He does all these from the cradle until you bagged a masters.
When time comes for him to sit back and enjoy his old age, your mom informs him that he's not your biological father.
He's devastated and heartbroken, he calls you and break the news to you.
You ask mom, she confirmed it as true. You are the result of adultery.
One day, a man calls to inform you that he's your father and wants you to come out as his son, that you can carry out DNA test to confirm it.
What will be your reaction if you are at the center of the controversy eg the child?

JustJesse:
Nothing you want to tell me, I'm leaving UI with my virginity ತ_ತ

This one na strong born again.
E no wan do bad thing.

For those of you saying they came late, until aeroplanes, ships and heavy machines begin to run on electricity and solar energy, I don't see fossil fuel being completely phased out in the next 10 to 30 years.
They would have recouped their investment during the period.

It's natural for you to feel pain, since you aren't a stone.
Don't rush into another relationship, instead use the time to work on your confidence.
A little bit of pride is not a sin. How can you be telling a woman that you're insecure, so that she can pity you, and now she's left, you want her to pity you and come back to you?
I'm a man but I can't stand a woman acting like that.
Respect yourself or na so so see finish you go dey collect.

internationalman:
To everyone reading this, would it be cool with you if your dad opt for a DNA test to confirm you are his biological son...

Be sincere with your answers please

Sincerest yes.
It's their marriage, not mine.

GallantDuke:
Dragging his mother to court over his late dad's property is a foolish idea. He should strive for his own success.

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You didn't read to the end.
Let them pay all the debts he was owning before sharing.
Mother is not God. Don't encourage foolishness in the name of blind respect.

He wants to go down fighting.
If you don't fight back using the same mindset, he will prevail, more fulanis will look up to him as leader and join him, his army and influence will increase, he will become more daring and the cycle of violence will continue.
The Fulani man is more aware than any boxer, or any individual in combat sports that fear is a weapon, that's why they leave very bad memories of their attacks.
Do you remember when el rufai made a statement that the Fulani man never forgets?
Buhari more or less made the same statement when farmers were killed in katsina state.
They understand and play mind games like pros.
Ibarapa people has to attack and do so with everything at their disposal, or they will be slaves of the fulanis for the rest of their existence.

If only I can sue MTN.
Thieves!

thatigboman:
no. almost all are fulani. tafawa balewa, shagari, murtala mohd, buhari - all fulani. abdulsalam is gwari. as for IBB, nobody knows where that one came from or what tribe he is, but he's definitely not hausa.

Tafawa Balewa is Dass, not Hausa or Fulani from Bauchi state, his local government, is made up of at least 40% Christians.
Murtala Muhammed is Hausa.
Yar Adua is of North African ancestry (Berbers)
Shagari and buhari are fulanis.
Babangida and Abubakar are Gwari.

I remember travelling to jigawa state in the late nineties.
We, I and my elder passed a village with unoccupied houses, and they were still in very good shape. You could see that people were living there before.
When I asked why, they answered that Fulani people use to come to the town rape, loot, kill dwellers, give, sometimes a parent or, sometimes the child knives to cut each others necks.
It became so common that the dwellers abandoned the village.
I remember sitting under a tree, still in jigawa state, around Tsohon Gwaram, two fulanis came on a camel and were asking me if I have bullets I wish to sell.
This archaic people hate civilization.

See as akants dey drop left and right like rain

JOACHINpedro:
So we should increase our sex appeals to avoid a sexless marriage??

Yes.
Don't take my advice lightly.
God created sex, to be enjoyed by married couples, so please and please, gentleman, eat healthy, exercise, practice good hygiene, work on your confidence and charm to enhance appearance.

Congratulations bro.
I'm investing heavily in agriculture this year.
Yam, cassava, rice and soybeans.

She want to gain popularity and write a book.
She know what she is doing.

Evolutionlove:
Lol I always thought you were enlightened, Why searching for a baby mama?? You are definitely searching for future problem and unending drama. Save up, build up your bank account and save yourself the stress by opting for "SURROGATE" and have peace of mind. It's kinda costly though but It's worth every penny.......

Any idea on how to get surrogate?