Jasmine17:
Very wonderful discourse and I really missed participating in it.

If only NL was like facebook where you can see who actually liked what post

Anyway, each to his own. But it seems to me that a majority of the female Canadian hopefuls are engaging in this journey as a result of marital woes and unhappiness in their marriages.

It is well

bacilus:
Hello everyone
Well I don't really agree with the popular saying 'Age is just a number ' when it comes to marriage. Remember, Adam was created before Eve and he even stayed lonely for a long time before God created Eve.

So, technically men are supposed to marry younger ladies if they agree on the teaching sha... Just thinking aloud

What do you think? Merry Christmas to all nairalanders

DrMrsCK:



What is 400k? I know someone who paid about 1.4m

jakandeola:
the Ibo girl is my ex and I dont force my woman to wash for my mum. Only animal beat woman but Check my old blog why I beat her

jakandeola:
d girl I will marry is beta Dan u. I promise u dat

PSTEMMA1960:
i did nt blow the money sir, i wish i can put everything into writing, bt it won't be possible... i used part of the money to do seasonal business with someone, and by the Grace of God by july next year, i will have it + some profits...

it was the remaning 300k that i used to buy the car, hopping thinking that it won't give me plenty wahala, because i believed that Carina E is a very strong car...

when i discovered the problems, it was already late, i had no option than to start fixing it, i was also dropping small money towards ringing the engine...

bt when my sister was booked for C.S last month i had no option than to empty my little saving, i even borrowed to add....

unfortunately for me that was when the car broke down.... trust me i have really tried my best.... thanks for ur time...

PSTEMMA1960:
i don't know why u are taking it so personal.....

PSTEMMA1960:
it's nt every time that i asked people for money, in life sometimes things do nt go as planned, when my sister almost died last month because of opreration i never came here to ask for help, and i am nt an ingret that was why i mention about the person that assisted me last year....

sometimes the person that might help u when u are in need may nt be the person that u know... trust me if i have any other option i won't come here to ask for help... bt it's better to ask than to die in silence.....

thanks and God bless...

PSTEMMA1960:
it was part of it.... i already did small investment that if God's willing goes as it should be, by July next year i will make some good profits... it was the remaning 300k that i used to buy the car...
i have already spent small money on the car... i have done almost all the minor works..

it was my elder sister's opreration last month thant affected me so much, i even borrowed 17k to add to the one i have because her case was an emergency one..

even the man that priced the car 160k said he was going to pay twice, 90k now and 70k next year...

my rent is already dew, if i collect that 90k and pay rent from it, i will definitely spend some more money b4 next payment.. at the end i won't have anything left...

bt if i can fix the car, from my little experience i can be saving 3-5k everyday, it will really go a long way to help me... i know Abj very well jst that i was nt too lucky to get a good car... thanks for ur time ma...

Flowers95:
Hello ladies


I’m going to give some advice to you. As an older woman I can guarantee you that 95% men will cheat on you, unfortunately dear that is just the reality. Especially if you have been together for a very long time, the nature of a man is to pursue and chase a woman, after marriage or a long term relationship, that chase is no longer there most times, hence the urge for him to look outside. Unfortunately as women, we just cannot understand this as our emotional and mental state is very contrasting to males. If you marry a man who is successful, the chances become even higher. Cheating has become so accessible and easy, it is very rare to find a faithful man in this era my lovely people. I have counselled a lot of women and men over the years including highly religious people and I’ve realised human beings must be human beings.

Now my dear, I want you ladies to understand this. A man can truly love his wife and cheat on her, it is extremely possible, but it is how he handles it that shows if he really respects you as his wife. Side flings should be regarded as such, and nothing more. If your partner or husband leaves traces around of his infidelity and makes no effort to hide his dirty laundry from you and to the world, then you need to second guess your relationship.

1. He is publicly seen with his side chicks in daylight, without an atom of shame, knowing that he could be seen by friends, family or outsiders
2. Leaving text messages on his phone, pictures and all other evidence that can easily be traced
3. Making calls in front of you. Coming back home occasionally at different times of the night
4. Spending ridiculous amounts of money on these women.
5. Introducing his friends to these side chicks.
6. Bringing the side chicks near your matrimonial home or area

I could go on and on my dear, but if your partner/husband participates in any of those listed above, he has no regard or respect for you and is possibly trying to find his way out. A man who truly loves and respects his wife will by all means hide is infidelity and all possible tracks. He will go out of his way to protect his wife, as he will not want to cause her any embarrassment. An example I want to give is Jay Z.

The reason why that man is still respected today; is how he handled his cheating scandal with his wife. As famous as he is, he hid all his tracks and made sure that nothing could get out to the public that could possibly embarrass his wife. It wasn’t until he admitted it, that the world got to know. So my dear, before you forgive your partner for cheating look at how he handled the situation, that is the true sign of his love and care for you. All men cheat, but not all men cheat with integrity.

Good day my lovely people. Those who need advice should please pm me. Thanks

Mindfulness:


He hasn't, education is free where I reside ignoramus

Chubhie:

Freeze is the one taking this campaign to enlighten people way too personal.

In the words of Tupac Shakur, Take the evil out of the people and they would act right. That we hold the largest record church auditorium in the world speaks loudly about priorities and poverty.

These gods of men are in business as a result of endemic poverty, lack of access to good education and health care.

IMO, It would be counter productive and suicidal to forcefully detach the sheeps from the church which serves to provide hope for the hopeless and soul for the soulless. These are symptoms which provides the cash cow for the dangerously wealthy bishops.

Eliminate poverty and watch the churches empty out and die a natural death. Go to churches and listen to prayer points and loudest amens to get a clearer picture of the root causes.

Chubhie:
As a neutral observer, Akpororo is no match for freeze. But then, he would get many more paid shows to churches and interests owned by church goers for defending his own tithing position.

It's a win win for Akpororo and the church.

lonelydora:


With this, you really do not know about church

oglalasioux:


Hitler was married the day he committed suicide just for a final favour to Eva Braun for remaining faithful to him till the end.

He was unmarried all his life because of same reason I gave above. He said it severally in Mein Kampf (I have a copy).

franchasng:
That's why I said they can only deceive mumu guys who are not enlightened my brother.

Permit me to brag a bit: I know virtually everything in this life. Sometimes I marvel at the level of things I know

I know about space explorations u may think I am a NASA astronaut.

I know about things happening in all countries of the world u may think I have lived decades in all the countries.

I know virtually everything about military and war around the world.

I know so much about stock trading; Nasdaq, Dow Jones, NYSE, etc that u may think I work with NYSE.

I know everything happening in the leadership and politics of virtually every country that I can tell you unheard things about every country off hand without consulting internet or book.

Literature nkor, hmm don't go there.

Oil and gas sector, let me shut up

Transport and haulage sector

Ecommerce and startups

Programming, coding, etc

Offline trading business

Car importation importation from China

With the level of things I know, I can rule any country successfully at my young age

So I doubt if any Lady can fool me seriously unless I decided to ignore.

I know more than FBI, Mosad, KGB, etc.

I always thank God for the high wisdom He bestowed on me....and I always envy the lady I will finally end up marrying cos she is gonna be super lucky

So in summary, its very easy for me to know whether she is doing well financially or not.

And in as much as I don't need a dime from the lady I would marry, I must know her true financial worth and what she truly does for a living and possibly an idea of what she earns, if not the marriage won't hold.

I am the boss, I decide who to marry, when to marry and how to marry. I have paid my dues and so no lady can do shakara for me, na my turn to do shakara now, na God do am

GodisGood4321:
For a start, I’m not a gold digger nor am mine looking for someone to take care of my bills.

A little bit about myself. I’m 32 and I’m from a humble background and by the grace of God, my hustle don begins to pay. I'm a graduate and works in a popular oil and gas firm with a monthly take-home of seven-digit. But base on the fact that I'm from a humble background and God don give me breakthrough, I'm supporting my families (siblings) and sometimes friends who are still hustling to establish themselves.

donchrisville:
this OP has my mindset...i'm at this crossroad... I cant visualize myself carrying the responsibility of my own family and the responsibilities of my wife's family as well...
These days one has to be careful to avoid several issues in the long run. Love fades beauty fades... financial stability is key in this our present generation...No matter how said it sounds, its our present reality.
most times when men lash out, it might be due to several responsibilities he can barely handle and you start questioning his love for his wife
Even the bible states the woman should be a helper

oglalasioux:
Have it at the back of your heart that nature has never gifted any human being with two things at the same time. It gifts you one and takes another thing dear to you.

You may find girls from well to do, strong backgrounds but don't ever expect to enjoy that marriage. The worst condition a man can find himself is to be branded a gold digger by his in laws. Even if you provide everything in your family people will still see you as the parasite. Girls from well to do homes don't have anything to whip them into line unlike the poor girl who will be submissive knowing you are her lifeline.

You can marry a rich girl if you don't mind the shame that comes with it (your respect as the husband is almost zero). Or marry an average girl and savour the love and respect.

One of the reasons Adolf Hitler didn't marry was because he was surrounded by women from rich and influential homes. He was looking for a girl from low humble beginnings because he wanted the joys of companionship.

Why don't you think of tithes as doing good, doing right and doing well by an awesome God who loves you beyond comprehension? In other words you're simply honouring & thanking the One who gave you all you own in the first place.

Forget the argument about financial breakthrough, prosperity and all. God doesn't need our money if we all decided not to pay tithes He will still get His work done on earth one way or the other, with or without us.

I was in a financial bind one time and thought to myself I can't & I won't pay tithes because things were tight. I learnt from my bible that honesty will strengthen my relationship with God.

So I went to God in prayer basically saying for XYZ reasons, I'm afraid I can't pay my tithes this month. In the middle of that conversation I felt His love, warmth and goodness overflow my heart & soul. I stopped and said to myself what are you doing sef? You will pay your tithes and you will do well by this amazingly swaggerlicious and awesome being (God).

I put our conversation on hold, went and got the envelop where my tithes was, returned to our conversation and offered it to God asking him to accept and bless what He had given for the furtherance of his work and good of others on earth. I just felt a desire/need to cherish and respectfully keep my relationship with God.

There are people in hell who are there for robbing God of his tithes (I'm not making this up) I watched a YouTube video on this.

I appeal to every believer in Christ Jesus to watch & listen to these men on Youtube via a google search Mario Martinez & Ron Reagan (on Sid Roth's show) it will save your soul, all of our souls as believers.

Biglittlelois:
You married a man you dont love, meaning you were pressured into getting married, was it cos of age?? i have no ish with you buying things for him but why stay when you're not happy, hope you know depression kills?? or better still, why not concentrate on your business, first child and pregnancy, and pretend as if he doesnt exist, find joy in other things madam, dont let another human being be the source of your happiness, dont give him that upper hand and satisfaction, you will be fine.

boco2126:
Hi. Can we just be nice to people (we do not even know) please and maybe empathize with them? This is a degrading comment and an insult to all those preparing to write their ielts or who are re-writing. Today is Monday, let's no spam the thread with unnecessary comments. And yes, you must not agree with the need to have a group, but you can read and waka pass...no need to be so rude.

SyberKate:
Hi

So I decided to go into a long distance relationship with this guy I have not met yet. We just met online and have exchanged pictures.

So far the relationship is just one week old and I was in a bit of a situation where I needed some money. Nothing much just about 15,000 to solve an issue.

So I asked my BF if he could assist me with the money, only for him to start saying things like the relationship is still young for me to be making demands, that what if he starts demanding for s3xx this early in the relationship.

I said I wish I could have solved my problem myself but I really need all the help I can get. He still insisted that he hasn't even met me physically and I could be trying to swindle him for all he knows.

Then I said if he feels that way then no need to continue with the relationship and it was over, just like that within one week.

So do you think I was being unreasonable to make demands this early in the relationship.

josefaith:


Supported. Please lets start ASAP