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Carchoice:
all these plenty needs on me? Is that how people ask for help? Anyone that keeps asking for help this way can't go far in life. Because his mind and eyes are in someone else's purse already.

You are very correct. Just do your bit as a human. If you can fix him up soon as you promised .

Let's just say he has found his help in times of need.
Until you teach him how to fish, he'd keep coming for more fish.

bigtimemugu:
Thanks to all of you who take their time to advise me, it shall be well with you all,candid advice will always come your ways. I put a call to our accountant few hours ago asking if I can apply for annual leave since am due for it, this is to give me a space to checkout the new place, although the leave is just 14days, she said am due but the operations manager instructed her to monetize annual leave of some key staff which I happen to be among the list ,it pains me so much cos i belong to those list only when it come to duty ,but in payroll am far behind, am finding it very tough to decide , a bird at hand they say ...... But 150k will take me 3months here, and my savings @ 150 for 3 months might take me 12months here, pls more advice my people.

Eya. I really feel your pain and you have a family making it more difficult to take risks.

Anyway, I'd advise you not to quit your present job yet but resume at the new place.

If something happens and you do not like the place, you can go back to your old place. Look for an excuse to tell them. Hopefully, they would take you back even if its a month after.

Also, look on the bright side, what if the new place is far better. You wouldn't know unless you try.

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tot:
You can see them already crying on the first page.

Yeah true. I saw it as well. Clamoring for state of emergency for corruption, poverty etc.
How can they compare those things to something as sensitive as rape?

Good one. It's high time women had a voice

Rapists would not like this

Slawormir:
Damnnnnn niggarrr
Isoright

Common

Wetin dey wrong with all these people.
Bros op. Your headline and the content dey different from wetin dey the video
Play the video
Soyinka says buhari is in charge

I dey shame for all of una

So no Nairaland members fit play that video to see say op dey talk different thing from wetin dey that video
He say gambari na abacha man but buhari is in charge

Yes but he further saidno one is in charge of Aso rock

phoenixideas:
MBA is real, have been with them of about 10months, If you're investing I'd advice you to invest what is suitable for you, put in money you can loose and still be okay, yes it's true that they're with sovereign insurance with over N5B and they're registered with cbn and all of that stuff, I'd still advise you to be cautious with how you invest money with them because such investment is a risky one, I made my own investment and for my mum too, but I did it with the spare N2.9m I had. So far it's been awesome as it helped me to travel outside of the country and bought me some time till I got a job. Right now the money just comes in and I don't even make use of it because I don't need it. Don't allow life to surprise you, instead surprise life, don't take risks that will take you years to recover from, and plus I was 21yrs old when I made that investment and left the country, so weigh your options and don't substitute the invest for hustle, hustle hard in your 20's even if you have some investment somewhere, just ignore it, Thanks, I hope this made sense.

U must have eaten big from MBA by now.

Fathers start to educate your boys now against rape. If you fail to, your girls are not safe.

kingron:
CHINEKE MEI!!!! A guy named Chukwudi went for an acting audition, and he was picked. In the movie, he starred in a part where he was hit by a car. After production, the movie was a hit as it was released and started selling in the market. It got to his hometown and his mother watched how her son was killed she wept uncontrollably. A week later, Chukwudi went back home to visit his mother. When she saw him she got scared and thought that it was her son's ghost until he threw N25,000 at her. With this, the mother realized that her son was alive so she decided to pray for her son saying; Chukwudi my pikin, Na small motor jam u wey u bring dis big money! Now, as u dey go back 2 Lagos na caterpillar go jam u! YEEEPAAAA!

N25000 must have been a big money then.

Project fame was my favorite.

Adesina18111:
It wasn't funny that night ooo...my parents were even scolding him wen he wasn't sure of answer to the question to win the #10m... everybody in our sitting room dt day was crucifying him wen he said he was not going to walk away!!!...wat a memory...Frank was like...is that ur final answer...you were absolutely wrong or correct but let's go for commercial break...my heart skipped!!!!...he won oooooooo

that Frank could give someone heart attack eh..

I've seen things like these a lot. The lady would be the breadwinner. Are you in for that?

Vicky, I just read your last post on this same guy. This is a typical traditional man who doesn't love you yet, so get ready to be the traditional woman who just obeys and not complain.

It's your choice to either stick with him and endure everything so that he can marry you since he seems ready for marriage or you break free now.
Mind you, don't think of changing him. You can't.

This your thread just made me and my family laugh.
Thanks for giving us a good joke.

On a serious note bro, nothing like that. I am not a fan of gap teeth but I think yours is so cool.

5 minutes.

Bro, don't mind them.
I understand you perfectly. I've got knock knees too.
I used to feel bad like you but not anymore.
There is more to life than feeling depressed over one's physique. Take your mind off it.
*Find fun things to do.
* Hang out with friends that do not constantly remind you. Have fewer friends if u need to
*Wear clothes you are comfortable with and if possible clothes that won't show it off so much.
*Also, flirting with girls would do you no good. Find someone who would love you for who you are. Believe me, you won't remember any thing
* Get busy.
* Be happy

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OP, some nairalanders are about to crash your marriage.
Beware!

3weeks to the wedding would not kill either of you. And stop the touching. If you want to do something right, then do it RIGHT!

If u don't try, how would you learn?

Digital marketing is practically online.

You need to be confident and take the job.

If you are still unsure, I could give you some jobs to build your practical skills and confidence

You even had to involve a policeman to question her.
As what?

Just imagine the level of distrust!

The girl did the right thing any sensible woman would do.

Nickshrapnel:
The fashion of the past amuses me sometimes

That's how the fashion of the present would amuse the future

BankyGee:
OK... I believe you've seen a snowflake before. When a snowflake is created, it floats in the air (fly when it's born).
When it lands of the floor, it lies.
When it is heated by the sun, it is no longer a snow whatever but water now, and water runs .

Please o....Ask what we can relate with
We have harmattan and cornflakes here.

BankyGee:
RIDDLE ME THIS

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BankyGee:
Answer to Riddle - Snow - Snowflakes

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expantiate pls

Some indeed have shoes but no legs, some legs but no shoes. Many of us as children were looking for such an opportunity, u had it and blew it!

Well, come back to Nigeria and have a fresh start. When you've made peace with yourself and family here, then you can either visit your kids occasionally or invite them here.

no idea o.

1000 ways to die

Snake roast

I will not only finish the food. I would chew the chicken bone with my hand.
Imagine!

This seems to be the case many at times.
Leave her alone, she would leave when she's either dead or near death.

I was barely 2 months in my apartment and my landlord who lived in the same compound had beaten his wife more than 3times. It happens every Sunday morning probably because its the man's day off. His brothers and their wives who lived in the same compound would never bother to say a word, little did i know it was a norm.

One of the days he beat her so badly. I met her on the road limping and full of blood. He had broken her face and leg cos he used a plank that had a nail on it to beat her. She was holding her first daughter who was about 4 years by hand leaving her 5 months old at home. I tried taking her to the pharmacy but she insisted she was going to the police station.

I had no choice but to take her there myself as no one in the compound even followed her. My friends who I later told about this said I took a big risk. On our way, she was crying and shouting at the top of her voice and people were making a video of us. She even swore to leave the man that day. But guess what?

She went back to the man. Though, that was after a month or so in her father's house. Her family had begged her to return and asked the husband to pay N20,000 for damages. I knew this because he came to me to plead I help him with money. Well, I gave him part and counselled him to stop beating his wife to this he agreed. Soon after, she returned with her kids one Sunday morning.

Exactly, the next Sunday morning, the beating started again. This time around the drama was outside and everyone around the neighborhood came to watch. He climbed onto his wife and gave her serious blows that day. You would think he was fighting his fellow man. To cut long story short, the woman collapsed that day and was rushed to the hospital.

This time, she never came back to the house. She ran for her life leaving both breastfeeding baby and 4yr old.

So, OP leave her. She would learn.

PS: the law and the family is part of our problem. When we went to the police station to file a report against the man, more than 5 police officers kept asking her question one after the other like " u dey give am the thing at all", " hope say u no dey stingy with the thing" , " like how many times in a week una dey do" and so on. Mind you, this was not what had caused the issue but N200.The man gave his wife N200, she bought bread N100 and pampers retail N100. He beat her up because she bought pampers instead of foodstuffs. At the end of all the questions, the police came to the house and had a chat with the man. No arrest. No charge. No nothing

Also, her family kept encouraging her to keep her marriage even after they saw all she was going through.

In this life, you just need to know you cannot please everyone and make some tough decisions for yourself

Either u leave it to heal naturally or go to a pharmacist.
Stop online prescription.
For now, u could apply ori

That's sarcasm. It's not the usual meaning of thank you.
Often said when it was not her wish but u went ahead. "Like well done, u have tried well well".