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RomanceRe: Pls Advise Me by cantell(m): 4:37pm On Apr 28, 2010
@Poster,
Meeting the parents for the very first time doesn't cost much. Just buy a bottle of St Remy or something better and go with some friends or relation. Meet the parents & make ur intentions known.
By doing this, she'll calm down and know that you're serious. But if she doesn't calm down and still worries you, then she has something up her sleeve.
I mean, why the rush? Its not like you're running away or something.
A word of advice my friend, don't let anybody rush you into something you're not ready to do. Its likely you'll regret it later. If she can't wait, let her go.
There are so many edible fishes in the ocean.
PoliticsRe: Don’t Contest In 2011 Election, Rather Settle For Vice - Obasanjo Tells Jonathan by cantell(m): 9:50pm On Apr 27, 2010
sjeezy8:
No one owns Nigeria and everyone should have a shot at the presidency regardless of tribe even the igbos(with their annoying biafran rants) If it will make everyone feel equal and a better Nigeria.

I see hausas as my brother as well as igbos even if both of them are psychos and paranoid.
RomanceRe: Sex Befor Marriage by cantell(m): 9:10pm On Apr 27, 2010
honeric01:
look for men with low libido? is "low libido" written on the foreheads of these sets of men?

carry abunna waka go where?
o boy people wey dey around me think say i don kolo. Laugh go kill me hia ooo.
Since you're so concerned about women with low libido, why don't you tell them to bring their abunna over to you?lol
Oya make una follow honeric.lmao
RomanceRe: Sex Befor Marriage by cantell(m): 8:50pm On Apr 27, 2010
^^^look for men with low libido??
Or carry their abunna waka.
RomanceRe: Sex Befor Marriage by cantell(m): 8:28pm On Apr 27, 2010
^^^ It shows you don't really know about people with low libido. A man/woman with low libido can go on without sex for months or up to a year. No amount of pre-intimacy or sweet talks can change it. Its just the way they are.
So my friend, sometimes its better to do that test-drive 190 suggested.
RomanceRe: Sex Befor Marriage by cantell(m): 7:56pm On Apr 27, 2010
WhyAWhy:
cos women are not cars, and how many will you test drive before making up your mind, what happens if you dont have a nice cruise or the very good develops some faults later, do you dump? Marriage is a commitment and a trust. All things in life is a learning process. I dont know where people get the fat lie from that you get better at intimacy by doing it with people before Marriage.
I'll agree with you on the comments with bold letters but i need to ask you a question.
A guy who is sexually active and marries a lady without having s*ex with her till the wedding night, only to find out that she has low lubido or she's the not type that likes s*ex, what is he going to do?
I need an answer.
RomanceRe: Why Are They More Mle Virgins Than Females? by cantell(m): 7:27pm On Apr 27, 2010
kieryn:
I strongly disagree w this post. Where are your facts?
bros we're dealing with life experiences. If the poster needed facts, google would have helped a great deal.
So post your exp.
RomanceRe: Why Can't A Successful Black Woman Find A Man?' by cantell(m): 7:48pm On Apr 26, 2010
@Poster,
if you need accurate and reasonable comments, you need to shorten the story and post the link under it. The members here are mainly young people and they do not have the time to read thru your entire post.
@topic,
Successful black women(naija women as reference) are generally bossy and controlling. No sensible man wants a woman who will boss him around.
RomanceRe: Ladies Dont Like To Marry Whn They Are In Their Prime? by cantell(m): 7:18pm On Apr 26, 2010
Deep Soul:
Lol, if to say I wan advertise her, I for post her picture na.
I for give you her number, but erm erm, my phone just crashed like 30 mins ago cry grin
ahhh! Wetin do ya phone na?
This una emoticon sef. Wetin that one come mean? The thing nearly put me for trouble with sagamite.
Fix that ya phone ooo. The thing wan block runs for me.
RomanceRe: I Cant Bear This, Pls Help Me by cantell(m): 6:32pm On Apr 26, 2010
Ujujoan:
This is not a one-sided comment. I'm sorry, but I dont see anything good in a guy who's involved with an underage girl and beats her! She was 16 for God's sakes. How does a man of 26 get involved with a 16 year old  huh
Tell that to yerima!
Ujujoan:
Stop lying jor. You said she was 'loving and caring' at the beginnig of the r/ship. You never said anything about her being an underage s.l.u.t You wanted to 'play' with a 16-year old  and you burnt in the process.  tongue
You need to slow down or you might bust your corset.
RomanceRe: Ladies Dont Like To Marry Whn They Are In Their Prime? by cantell(m): 5:00pm On Apr 26, 2010
^^^sorry bros. Myopia cause am.
Didn't notice the emoticon and even if i did, i wouldn't have known what it meant.
Once again, my sincere apologies.
RomanceRe: Ladies Dont Like To Marry Whn They Are In Their Prime? by cantell(m): 4:31pm On Apr 26, 2010
^^^People wey dey drink panadol for anoda person head.
I thought of many things to call you like you'll probably do, but the truth is, i don't have the time.
Look for someone else to throw ur childish tantrums at.
RomanceRe: I Cant Bear This, Pls Help Me by cantell(m): 4:08pm On Apr 26, 2010
Ujujoan:
Didnt you see the part where he said he 'promised' to stop beating her  huh

As far as I'm concerned, he had it coming!  undecided
Thats exactly what you were looking for! When a guy f*cks up, its usually the way they behave. But if its a  woman, she was pushed into it or rather, the fault is from the guy.
I hate one-sided comments.
You should blame the both of them not just the guy.
NB
Beating up the lady doesn't justify what was done to him. I had to add this cos the next minute you'll label me a woman hater or whatever you come up with.
@Poster,
Sorry to say this, but you be complete agric fowl. No be local one ooo.
To allow yourself to be disrespected like this, you need 24 lashes directly on your buttocks till you wake up.
PoliticsRe: Experts Back Nsa Over Attacks On Cbn’s Reforms by cantell(op): 1:41pm On Apr 26, 2010
naijaking1:
@poster
Good job, but be ready for the salvo of attacks from Sanusi praise singers on this forum.
Oh! I'll be more than willing to listen to their songs. Let them sing.
PoliticsRe: Experts Back Nsa Over Attacks On Cbn’s Reforms by cantell(op): 1:37pm On Apr 26, 2010
safeact:
Imagine, he no dey shame! Na to dey criticize Soludo he pass, ok now he was not given any international  appointment on any banking system unlike his predecessor. Now, his newly appointed minister of finance, Aganga has bn givn d world bank chairman. Sanusi Lamido is a losser!
and some other morons wey dey back him up.
He cost so many people their jobs with his useless reforms(about 20,000).
The best thing for the cargo to do is to resign.
RomanceRe: Ladies Dont Like To Marry Whn They Are In Their Prime? by cantell(m): 12:49pm On Apr 26, 2010
Deep Soul:
@RITA,
Speak for urself. I graduated at 20 (+ ASUU strike  grin)
Going by the poster's analogy, I am currently in my "prime" (lwkmd) and I am picky as hell.
However, I really don't think it's an age thing. There are certain guys I wldn't touch with a pole and I don't see that changing even whn I turn 40!
It's all about knowing what you want and not settling for less  undecided

So, 26 is the new 30?? Chei, time is running out!
I now have less than 1,000 days to find my prince! Damn!  shocked

But really, let's be sincere, mature unmarried women (MUW) have this I-dont-care attitude about their single status but we all know that deep down, it's all a front. Most of my friends are way older than I am and they keep "advising" me not to make the same mistakes they did.

One of them told me " I have a good job, I have money, I have a great career but deep down, I'm not happy, I don't feel fulfilled. Sometimes, I just want to talk to someone. Sometimes, whn something bad happens, I wish there was some1 I cld call and share my sorrow with. When good things also happen, I wish I had some1 I cld call and share my happiness with. But there is no one. It's not the best, trust me"

She's 29. She's pretty oh! And if u dnt know her well, u'd think she's got it all but she is unhappy! Hmm! Makes me wonder. . .
You take style dey advertise for ur friend. Oya come give me her nos.
Make i cheer am up!
PoliticsExperts Back Nsa Over Attacks On Cbn’s Reforms by cantell(op): 10:05am On Apr 26, 2010
NOT a few Nigerians have reacted to comments by the National Security Adviser, Lieutenant-General Aliyu Gusau (rtd), that the Central Bank of Nigeria, CBN’s, reforms were damaging the economy. National Chairman, Independent Shareholders Association of Nigeria, ISAN, Mr. Adebayo Adeleke told Vanguard: “The statement credited to Aliyu Gusau, National Security Adviser to the government, that CBN ’s reforms have damaged the economy has clearly vindicated ISAN and some other shareholders of the troubled banks. “When the reforms were instituted and the actions taken against the banks’ chiefs were executed, we cried out that the actions were not in the best interest of the economy. For NSA to make such statement, it shows that the Presidency is not happy and comfortable with some of the reforms and actions of the CBN Governor, Malam Lamido Sanusi. In fact, those who supported the reforms initially were looking at the effect from a myopic perspective. CBN reforms have a multiplier-effect and that is what we are seeing. Every sector is suffering from the effect; industry and commerce, agriculture, energy, aviation, private and public sectors. “It is time for the Presidency to intervene and call CBN to order. The reforms will cause more damage if urgent steps are not taken. When banks refuse to lend, how can the economy as a whole move forward? What is the primary responsibility of banks in any country? As our banks have refused lending, the economy will soon be crippled. If it were in advanced economies, the CBN governor would have resigned if the public and even the government came out to declare a vote of no confidence in him. It is a shame that the man is still there, he should resign.”
www.vanguardngr.com/2010/04/26/experts-back-nsa-over-attacks-on-cbns-reforms/
FamilyRe: My Wife Is Giving Me Problem by cantell(m): 9:44am On Apr 26, 2010
jennykadry:
Why would they give your wife an IV or go thru the process of cannulation if she does not need it?

I am beginning to see that you dont wanna talk about your faults but would rather talk about her's

How dare you play the victim in your marriage and a situation like this?who's paying you to?
Haha. You're going back to my former statement.
The things women do!
RomanceRe: Men And Money: I Wonder by cantell(m): 8:58am On Apr 26, 2010
@190,
Your english is very difficult to understand. You need to get an english textbook or better still, take some lessons.
HealthRe: Can I Grow Taller At 22? by cantell(m): 8:06pm On Apr 25, 2010
ObamaUS:
I'm not sure all those theories of 'u stop growing at 18 or 22' applies to everyone,

I was 5ft 11 when i was 23.
i realised that by the time i was 26,i had grown to 6ft 1 and now that i'm even 31,i discovered that i'm almost 6ft 2,
I agree with you. When i was 21, i was almost 6ft but not up 6. By the time i got to 25-26yrs, i was 6ft2 and i've never added anything since then.
Its different for girls. Once they're up to 18-21, its bye-bye to any increase in height.
RomanceRe: Why Are They More Mle Virgins Than Females? by cantell(m): 7:30pm On Apr 25, 2010
The male virgins are more likely to be many in teens(11-19yrs) while the female will be higher in adults. My reason for sayin this is:
In my junior class in school, our female classmates called us small boys cos back then they no longer date younger guys like us. Most of them had tasted the forbidden fruit then and we were just pawns in their game. When they talk of their sexual exploits, we only gape in awe at their experience. Only a few nos of us had s*ex back then and most times its usually with the househelp(she'll probably make the first move) or a female classmate who feels like helping a konji guy out.lol
RomanceRe: My Mother Is My Father's Daughter. She Said. by cantell(m): 3:04pm On Apr 25, 2010
^^^Are we supposed to clap or something?
RomanceRe: What Will I Do To Win Her Love? by cantell(m): 2:57pm On Apr 25, 2010
asoji23:
There is the girl that leaves in thesame street with me, i so much loves that she knew that i want to date her but she keep telling me that she don't want to love any guy now due to her past experiences,
Story!
she does a lot of things for me like cooking,washing and ironing. She always like me to be with her all the time and she keep telling me she cant date me.
Sometimes she talk about our age difference and i am just 7 years older than her. I so much believe she has feelings for me but i need more than that from her.
Please help out what can i do to win her love?
Thanks
[quote][/quote]If she helps you out with the stuff i high-lighted in bold letters, you have her already! Make the right move and she'll fall for you like mad.
TV/MoviesRe: Genevieve Hosts "Gulder Ultimate Search Celebrity Showdown" by cantell(m): 2:43pm On Apr 25, 2010
^^^talk about being sluggish in her English. She takes the cake.
Chidi where you dey na?
CelebritiesRe: Bella Adenuga's Wedding Pictures! by cantell(m): 2:31pm On Apr 25, 2010
tpia.:
why are the bride and groom looking so annoyed and unhappy? huh

not good.

They should publish other and better photos nah.
Could be arranged marriage. Rich families and their society stats.
CelebritiesRe: Bella Adenuga's Wedding Pictures! by cantell(m): 2:28pm On Apr 25, 2010
Shock:
Beyonce was prob indirectly telling Mike to "shove his money where the moon don't shine, my hubby has got money stacks bigger than you"
You're wrong. I don't think she was called in the first place. just rumours from busybodies.
Even the current richest man on forbes wouldn't mind a couple of million dollars in his acc.
RomanceRe: The Love Of Rechard Cards by cantell(m): 1:04pm On Apr 25, 2010
There's this girl i know. Whenever i want to buy a recharge card and she's around, i'll wait till she's out of sight. She'll always beg me to get one for her whenever she sees me buying the card.
Its very sad and pathetic.
Since some of them cannot come out boldly and ask for cash , they resort to begging recharge cards.

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