₦airaland Forum

Danhumprey:
Egbon Diggz, how far? Rudiger Sodje don join. una don get una own BoaTANK.

Viking007:
Almost every experienced punter has passed through this phase. Where they think they've found the "uncastable" system. Only for You to check flashscore & a game You staked as under 4.5@ 1.02 playing 2:2 HT.

Amhappy:
Oga pls Take your quote to another place. I never called the man lazy, I only told him the truth.To do something no matter how small and regain his respect. Do some handy jobs and return home with something no matter how small.He can even use their car for Taxi,bread selling etc. God designed man as the provider. God did not assign that role to women because He know better.
The same thing I tell my fellow women. How can you be a help mate if you contribute nothing?
Meanwhile I responded to the guy who quoted me based on what he bysaid. I don't support people staying idle.

Amhappy:
Good for you bro. I am a proponent of War against laziness.

stukinherdr1222:
may God bless you abundantly . . .

may you receive an uncommon favour this new week .

thanks .

stukinherdr1222:
like i said earlier , i shouldn`t have quoted you , firstly i never said i have been jobless for 2 years . . . i just said 8 months , you did not just go through what i wrote and you typed more reply than me . . seems you are still single ? what other services do you render that will bring enough money to the house or help your wife get enough money ?? than me getting a job and make things better .its not a disgrace . . . .and my health i did not google what is wrong with me . . i did several tests like endoscopy and barium swallow . . i cannot even swallow those drugs you mentioned as whole except i slice them and i am using nexium now .i don`t drink not to talk of smoking . i saw some of your posts madam , you really don`t have to quote everybody .there are some post you just over look if you don`t know what to write.

FortuneTeller:
See jealousy.

FortuneTeller:
Don't speak your evil words over my husband!! My husband is a good man. He's one of the nicest people I know. No matter my mood, he is a very loving man.

chibuzorAbia:
False alarm!

Ladies, I am not hateful or evil and i have no reason to abuse any woman BUT I am emotionally strong enough to let GO of any woman if and when necessary.

And I am not available for exploitation by any woman.

FortuneTeller:
So now you are saying you are a scammer? na wa o

CapitalCee:
yah i also got the abuja TS invite, i am currently in lagos now, i will add you to my whatsup tru ur fone number

FortuneTeller:
It's always the broke men who scream the loudest during such topics

freshvine:
Why should I indulge you on the Op unfortunate experience in the hand of a vexatious woman like you? It's obvious you're feather of the same flock.

The fact is that the Op married a woman who never loved him but saw him as a gateway to disposable income and now things have come to a head, she's confused cos she never factored the uncertainty period. To her, it's unbearable and not what she'd bargain for.

Majorly the blame should be on the male folks for not conducting due diligence before thinking of settling down with a lady. When we ladies see that a man is financially secure, we pretend and commit into relationship just to secure our liability.

Have you not seen ladies who used their contacts to reengage their husbands, why can't she also contribute to her husband setting up a business, just 4 months and she'd already began stressing the man... what a hell.

Before a man lost his job shouldn't call for role reversal. The man definitely will help, or do you expect him to explain all that too and also if there's enough workload, she should engage the service of a house help not to belittle the man with chores cos he's temporarily out of job.

Girl joke apart, what lies did your mum told you about your father... I can understand the disconnect of no father figure

FortuneTeller:
Good for you. It won't last for long when all the money is gone and you are the only one providing. Bless the woman who has been taking care of her husband for 2 years. It's a miracle she still allows him to eat the food she buys.

cococandy:
More attacks. Nothing reasonable

Blackmail won't get your sorry asses anywhere.

If you want your wife to be the breadwinner in the home, you have to be the home keeper. It's wicked to expect her to do both.

Such a common sense statement. Yet so difficult for your selfish minds to understand
I'm sorry your over inflated egos can't let you wrap your heads around such a concept. It is what it is.

TinaAnita:
So any woman whose opinion contradicts your silly ideas is an asshole? My prayer is that you Lose your source of income so you would become a full time housewife since you would rather be a loser. Don't forget what the bible says, a man who can't take care of his family is worse than an infidel.

bimchuswhat:
She should encourage her husband and endure now... Her approach is really bad. My husband lost his job too and I can feel what he is going through. I know how hard I work and all I do is to lift up his spirits and make him happy.
When things were cool we enjoyed it together so she should support him as well.... OP ..brace up and believe in yourself.....get something doing no matter how small.
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cococandy:
When they don't have anything reasonable to counter with, they go personal with family attacks and attacks on sex life.

So what? I'm a bitter lesbian. Yes
Also a bitter wife with a suffering husband.
All of those are accurate. Now that we have gotten the 'facts' out of the way, can you two geniuses focus on the topic and tell me how it's fair for the bread winner to also be the home keeper?

Miserable Fvcktards. The truth does hurt you misogynistic asses don't it? That's why you can't stand me.

TinaAnita:
For how long did she support your dad without throwing tantrums like Op's wife? And your mom bore the burden without lashing out at your dad? I beg tell me another story

yungmill:
So you are saying the husband should go out all day and hustle while the wife is probably a house wife or runs a favorably time job which gives her time then he should come home and clean after her while she watches Telemundo when it's not even during the free weekends ladies and double standards

If you want to know why she should humble herself and submit to the man use your Bible it contains the answer you seek

I weak for una very soon you will ask why men don't breastfeed babies

Fabulocity:
Okay so when the going gets tough, that's when you remember that the responsibilities should be shared 50/50 but in good times, you impose your superiority. Abeg cut me that crap. We're Africans, Nigerians and we're very cultural people. If as you said the man and the wife should have equal responsibility in a marriage, then the man should also be able to cook, clean , take care of the kids and do other chores equally with his wife. That's the only way your theory would make sense.

FortuneTeller:
My husband wouldn't be foolish enough to be wasting time here. He would be out hustling every morning until he found work.

PaperLace:
People will tell you it's normal, but that's a lie. When I see men ranting on how they can never marry a woman who earns more _because she won't respect then, I just know they are yet to experience true respect. Sadly, that's the mentality of the average man, using money to earn respect and love.

A woman who truly loves and respect you won't change to insult you. She will be stressed, but definitely not to come up with disgusting attitudes. Some Nigerian men are only respected (pseudo-respect) by their wives and kids because of that provisional role. That's why once they lose it, the respect goes down the drain and they start blaming it on women. No, it's not women, you were never respected.

My husband's colleague was asked to resign and she started crying, you would think someone died. She was the breadwinner of her home, no one knew till that day. There are so any women like that, they love and respect their husbands _ in riches or not.

Your wife never loved or respected you. Maybe you didn't know, maybe you knew_and like so many other men, you never knew this day would come. Pick yourself up, use the contacts you made in the banking industry, you shall excel again.

Fabulocity:
Someone once said that it's big trouble when the wife is the one financing the home while the husband is idle. Ogbeni, I really don't blame her. As a man, you're the head of the home and you should act as such, so don't come here saying you were the one paying for everything when you still had a job, that's your responsibility.I'm not justifying her actions oh, it's unfortunate that you are stuck with an impatient woman that doesn't understand what having your back means. Well, you don't expect her to have your back forever. What I'll tell you to do is to find a new job or at least get busy and get back on your feet. Please forgive your wife, she doesn't know what she's doing. Don't ever try to punish or get back at her for her unreasonable actions.

hensben:
The clubs with highest debt.

Ngokafor:
...Bloody afonja..smell out of my mentions and go kill yourself..ozu di ka gi.

Ngokafor:
.....Bloody afonja...You carried your smelly self into my mentions and yet the first to bleat about 'not wasting time explaining blablabla,did i ask you to explain yourself?...If anyone is frustrated,its you and your entire generatiion..Does the crap you have vomitted have anything to do with a sod like you claiming you are Igbo yet supporting that tout who called Igbos such vile names??

..Like i told the ingrate who also doubles as your side-kick,simply say you are a wicked,evil,diabolical beast who is corrupt,greedy and insincere...That is an apt description of yourself...Do not drag the great Igbo tribe diwn the bottonless pit with you..period.

Ngokafor:
..You are a bloody afonja with the IQ of a frog if you expect me to believe you and the ingrate you are sucking up to who called Igbos such vile names are Igbos....I can percieve your soured ewedu smell right through my device..clown.

Ngokafor:
...abeg smell out of my mentions..bloody afonja.

Ngokafor:
...Just say you are a wicked,diabolic,evil and greedy beast who wallows in corruption,greed and insincerity...That is the apt description of you.

.There is no need dragging the great Igbo tribe into the bottomless pit with you.

Luvdk:
Try harder
We're not fools
Is either we get Biafra or everyone will die
We gonna destroy that zoo completely


You gonna be dead or lying to yaselves
That we don't hv an idea of building chemical weapons

We still dealing wt u pple diplomatically

When d time comes.....