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LoveNbeloved:
Put more pressure in getting PVC and voting the right candidate.

I’m very obidient but Unfortunately I won’t be able to vote unless I can vote outside Nigeria.

Nonexisting:
So can you now tell us what she wanted you to say yes to?

I never got to know what it was. The fact she couldn’t say it when She knew I got conscious is why I didn’t bother to know.

Eminence125:
Supersticious dumb man

Your name reminds me of an ex girlfriend from Edo state. Her name was Eminence. She took me to her uncle in benin that the uncle can make my auto business thrive very well unknown to me She was trying to love lock me. I actually went with her.

Uncle told her straight up this guy will never marry you no matter what you do for him.

Last week Saturday, this lady came to visit me and we sat at the balcony to receive fresh air and a bottle of alcohol to make the moment lively. After about an hour of chitchat, I lost consciousness of what She had been saying the last couple minutes suddenly She started pressuring me to say “Yes”

Say Yes!
Say Yes!!
Say Yes Na!!
Baby say Yes!!!


I stood up to go get water because the alcohol was making my throat dry, She followed me and continued telling me to say “Yes”


It was then it occurred to me what was happening. I turned back and asked her;

Say yes to what? I stood there looking at her to know what she’s asking me to say yes to. With my eyes and ears wide open, She kept quite and didn’t say. I walked away and that was the end of the episode.


Two days ago She wrote me that She hasn’t been able to sleep that it feels someone is pressing her neck. I couldn’t help but laugh. She wanted to try an Edo man.


I don’t know what is pressing her neck o, I’m innocent. but never you try such with an Edo man raised by an Olokun River Goddess.

Dimples2022:


Imagine mama starting doing squats in front of you lol you must ask if mama needs a hand ! Like I saide on thats thread… poverty debate

Don’t mind them. They don’t know it was the same way mama was vetted in her prime.

when2:
Which kain nonsense talk be this? Is it proper to sweep the living room when there is a visitor? Some people will just be promoting bad manners in the name of testing their fellow human being.

When you grow up, train your child the way you want.

UpInTheSky:
Yawn

You couldn't post this in her thread because? I mean, good thing you didn't post the jargon it in there but clearly you're pained over something to have opened this.

Good morning. Please ensure to look up in the sky and ask God for some sense.

https://www.nairaland.com/7214758/men-stop-setting-unnecessary-standards

I went through this thread and realized women really do not think far. They live only for the moment and now.

In your attempt to spite men because of your severally failed relationship, you brought yourself and your gender to the mud.

You called the poster a mummy’s boy because his mother is using one of the “widely known” standards to filter the bad from the good ones for her son. (AN AFRICAN MOTHER)

This puts the male genders in the hands of the female gender, our mothers and our wives/girlfriends are always claiming ownership/control of the male gender. A war where the mother sees her son’s wife/girlfriend as an enemy while the wife/girlfriend sees her man’s mother is the enemy.

Every trick a man uses to vet a woman is passed on to him by his mother. A woman like you. Your gender. The fact there’s no single post on Nairaland that is created by a woman to complain of her father in law speaks volume. (If anyone can provide a post on this, I’ll gift you 50k)

The fight is not between you and men but you and your gender. Get this and stop chewing bitter leaf to spite men.

One day you’ll also vet the lady your son will bring home.

Before you get married to any man, please ensure you poison your mother in law so that you can enjoy your marriage in peace.

Kollins11:
Why are you this pained?

Don't worry bro, don't be scared.. your wife or girlfriend isn't among my sex slaves bitches okay!

In your dreams!!

But seriously don’t forget to grow up. I mean it.

Kollins11:
It is what it is bro.

Live your life while I live my life jeje! Okay!

Okay. But don’t forget to grow up.

Kollins11:
She can't even open my phone at first not to talk of going through it.

But If I loose guide and she eventually go through my phone, she's gonna see terrible things.. What she will see might take her to her early grave, because I have lot of girls sending me their nudes, I also have my recorded sex tape with different bitches on my phone.

She's gonna faint or probably die when going through my phone.

You still have some growing up to do.

Demigod22:
Actually, you are wrong if you think that your own mindset or reasoning of not prioritizing sex will work on everyone. Logically, you are not better than those who indulge in the act, it's all about decision and priority .

Sex is biological and indulging in the act doesn't necessarily hinder people from getting those things you get if you don't have sex. I am telling you that it's natural to have sexual urge, it's natural to have sex, either you do it everyday or not, it's your choice, it doesn't change anything.

Relationship, sex education, humanity should be encouraged in public and the church and social media are doing the right thing.

Anyone that indulge in sex is not doing it without cause, just that you are too self righteous to consider his or her cause relevant.

Tell me where does decision and priorities originate from if not from the mind?

I’m not disputing the fact that sex urge doesn’t come knocking almost at all times/everyday. But shoving it off is decision, focusing your attention on something else is mindset.

I can see you are only looking at this in respect to science. On a deeper level, which is in the mind and spiritual, you have to see to understand.

Sadly you can’t help her. Religion gives Nigerian women orgasm.

I mean if they can’t get a chance to call him daddy in the bedroom, they’ll call him daddy inside church.

Dnalaria:
You and the OP are bothe wrong, sex in fact is biological, you think animals only have sex during seasons? Then you probably don't know much about animals. Peacocks, Dogs, monkeys, gorillas etc have way more sex than humans because they have higher libido.

Your indulgence in sex really just depends on your libido

You are wrong too. Libido can be controlled to the bare minimum. This is the same lie that made me thought I have a very high libido because my dlck wouldn’t stop charging. Being able to control my mind liberated me from that lie. High libido is all in your head, it comes because you welcomed it, it goes when you do not need it. When it comes to sex, forget it, even porn stars can’t compete with my mileage.

Demigod22:
I agree with you about how relationship pervade the social media and churches these days. But you can't deny the fact that relationship whether platonic or amorous is very important to human life.

You can still be single and have your peace of mind, happiness, grow in your career. That doesn't mean that people who are in a relationship are lacking those human crave.

Sexual urge is not mindset, it's biological. Go back to your Biology textbook, Man is sexual in nature, even plant have sex, so it's natural You can still read Bible from morning till evening and when the homones react, your prayers can't stop it neither your mind, it usually comes and goes.

You choose what works for you and allow others to do what works for them. Relationship, humanity, sex education should be highly encouraged.

Personally, I don't enjoy relationship since I don't appreciate the drama that comes with it but then, relationship is beautiful when you meet a partner that is intelligent, productive and understanding.

The OP is right and you are wrong. Sex is biological but humans freely run the risk of indulging in it without cause. The plant and animals you reference to don’t have sex like we humans. Plants and animals have seasonal sex. Even dogs have seasons too. If you think sex is purely biological, does it make sense to always pay attention to it whenever the cravings comes knocking? That is where mindset comes in, where the mind is, there is the treasure. If you like sex and women too much, sex will always come knocking.

Mr man!! Please face your life! Your body and soul is no longer at peace. Face your life o!

You came from a broken home,

you are scared of getting married,

you went through hell in your previous relationship,

your moniker is FAILURE!!

So what exactly are you asking us to help you reason?

Please don’t let them increase the price of cucumber in the market.

Lukuluku69:
Dumboinho, step back and re-read the tripe you have been dropping on this Thread and others replies to your tripe.

You type as if you have swallowed a typewriter.

Lol. @swallow the type writer.

No need to engage in banter please. Thank you for your input.

Dtruthspeaker:
Stupido, in line with your "you don't know anything" you never heard

"All truth passes through three stages. First, it is ridiculed. Second, it is violently opposed. Third, it is accepted as being self-evident." Arthur S.

"The truth will set you free, but first it will make you miserable."

James A. Garfield

Be calming down please. No need to engage in banter.

Dtruthspeaker:
Which father will not greatly love a son who stayed by his side most especially when a stupid son departs?

The feasting is a public humiliation of the stupid boy and a purging of the shame and embarrassment the boy wickedly poured on the father.

Ahhh, that’s a new twist!

But I see what you are saying and it makes sense logically. And according to nature too.


This means the parable is according to nature, as a father is to his children.

Dtruthspeaker:
Still using believer things to see. The parable of the seeds was without doubt for believers.

Follow The Law and Nature. If you had told your father to give you your "severance package" and he grants it, do you still have any rights remaining from him?

Do you think he would ever restore it to you?

If he is a just father, would he not respect the rights of your other brother, who by your departure now has increased and double work to do for his father?

This means even as the father was feasting and rejoicing that his son had come back to him, In his heart, the other son is now the most loved. Is this right?

immaculatesense:
Dear Carchoice
Alot of people above have provided great and wonderful answers...I will like u to pay more attention to those replies most especially this from RoyalDiadems...
Stop the rigmarole that Dtruthspeaker may want to drag u into... nobody can fully explain a parable that was not explained by the speaker himself...we can only learn and take a clue on the reasons for the parable. These reasons can be found in all the comments given by different people on this thread...gather it up and learn a lesson from them...simple.
Thank u

Thank you!

Dtruthspeaker:
By the affidavit of the father, the other son owns everything his father owns, therefore, like the other strangers, the boy is at his brother's grace and that is what the brother knew which is why he went silent after the father spoke with him.

They were both aware of the Lawful consequences.

Does this mean a returning believer had already broken a law that cannot be completely forgiven?

Perhaps the act of living a sinful life comes with a prize that robs us of our fathers glory!

Are you saying the glory that was lost cannot be restored, which puts us far behind those that never lost it!


Sorry if I’m not making sense but I’m trying to. I hope you understand.

Dtruthspeaker:
It is for your good that I do not reveal them.

"They are a Life TO THOSE THAT FIND THEM" Proverbs 4:22.

I think I know what you mean. The gate is open to everyone.

Dtruthspeaker:
Right and Wrong!

Right, because the father welcomed him back but wrong because you did not see what went down.

Bros talk Na

Gist is what went down please.

Lukuluku69:
Simply put: Repentance is always open. So not at anytime think anyone is lost. Leave that to God and also be humble and not think yourself better than anyone spiritually.

This makes sense too. Thank you.

Dtruthspeaker:
There is no believer/non believer/ species of believer here.

However, this parable is FULLY LOADED and there are many many things it teaches, If only people would remember.

I don’t think I understand what the bold texts says but it made me want to ask a question.

Are there truly believers and non believers?

Non believers can always remain non believers without knowing and understanding God’s word, but believers can always become non believers, that means they were never true believers.

Dtruthspeaker:
Sorry, that is the essence of it being a Parable.

You are supposed to mine it yourself.

It would be useless to you if anyone tells you, as proven by the fact that you have heard it taught over and over again, yet it is of no value to you.

Proverbs 25:2, “It is the glory of God to conceal a thing, but the honor of kings is to search out a matter

I’m searching!! That is what led me here!

Say something please.

Dtruthspeaker:
Wrong! It is you who lacks the understanding to milk this Secret.

Are you saving both sons are one and same person but in different perspective?

Righteousness2:
The Elder son did not have Understanding of who he is and what he has being a loyal son.
All the Father had was his, but he didn't have that understanding until the Father made him know.

Same with many so called Believers today! They do not have Understanding of their rights in Christ JESUS. Many go about complaining and murmuring about one thing or other, when they should simply approach the Father according toHIS Word and get what they need [/b].

Thank you