₦airaland Forum

Another hoax by an idiot, your fellow Nigerians just wanted to greet you, if there was an attack, we will see the evidence on your body like broken leg, hand, jaw, flattend belly, etc. No evidence of attack but soon, very soon, attacks will begin to happen and we will welcome them. So, just shut your fat belly up for now and continue to transport rivers state money to the north by building roads, railways, universities for your illiterate god father in duara while your people suffer. We don't know anymore who is more illiterate, you or him. And please, no more publicity stunt.

That is what happens when you have a Minister of Transportation who read history in school and goes to China to purchase refurbished coaches. Some idiot will come here and insult us with miseducation about how this will improve transportation, the economy. and all the mumbo jumbo blahblahblah.

Aruu e mego.

You are threatening to deal with her and my question is: Did she force you to sleep with her? Did she sexually assault you? Did she remove the umbrella when you put it to dig? Did she force you to pickup her call and invite her over etc. If none of these applies, then you better stop threatening and hope that you are ok and learn from this discomfort and stop the threat.

You read history and inspect rail project. Life span of the projects maybe just the years you are in power. Rubbish.

Bastard, you want them to sing in empty stomachs abi?

And how much did this ancient locomotive cost nig and how much went to amaechi etc. Senseless people, look at China's supersonic state of the art trains and compare with this ancient and antiquated wastful spending, come today, breakdown tomorrow eye sore. What do you expect, and just like the cpu in your computer - garbage in, garbage out. The errand boy doesn't know there is no train system in the Niger delta that produces the oil and the money he is wasting in the north and just like his monorail, it speaks volumes about his stupendous ignoramus. SAAAD.

Bleep and promote, its alright.

Madam, I don't want to be a bearer of bad news but it appears that your husband is drilling some holes outside his marriage and uses work and tiredness as excuses. Although they say that curiosity kills a cat, in your case, it might save a cat; therefore, I suggest you do some due diligent approach, find out what is really happening with him and some of the girls. How is it that he gives them money and they turn around to keep malice with you in church. It simply shows guilty conscience is eating them up. Father Christmas is helping himself from the cookie jar and eating lots of cookies. But the question is, what will you do if you find out he is up to no good: confronting the girls is out of the equation because he is the main culprit. Your options are either you talk it out with him, go counseling and I don't mean church/pastor fallacies, real trained counselor. Better still, speak with his parents and if all fails, continue your masturbation or dump his sorry ass.

Let me try to understand, so, some stranger opens the door for them to come in or you have "open door" policy anybody can come and go whenever, however they please. Continue.

How come some of you don't have shame any longer? Did you lie to your parents that you are in school or what? Otherwise, why for the life of me are you staying with a boyfriend like you are married to him? Don't you see that you have overstayed your welcome and your presence is beginning to irritate him because he is tired of drilling your hole? Chai, common sense should not be expensive to acquire nor technically difficult to imbibe. It is called common sense for a good reason and either you have it or you don't. Need I say that you don't seem to have it. Go home, humble yourself before your parents, apologize and admit that you are a prodigal daughter, maybe, they might slaughter a cow in celebration, welcome you with a tug in the ear and allow you to make a fresh start.

ashawo nobi work

It appears your relationship is near extinction; if that happens, two important lessons: first, it is not a good idea to report your partner to her parents often. By reporting her, you are implicitly telling them, "see what you raised". Besides, and regardless of how much they love you, they will not choose you over their daughter. They may scold her before you but behind your back, their impression of you may not be all that pleasant. Second, you are not her parent but a boyfriend. Eventhough you have a child together, it is not your place to tell her how to dress. You can discuss your opinion about it and how you feel but not impose your will. There is no hierarch in a boyfriend/girlfriend relationship and by admonishing her, you are indirectly creating a hierarchy which she naturally may resent. She is a grown woman in the university with her own mind and I bet, it was her dressing that got your attention. Now you feel insecure and attempting to subjugate her. What will you do when you are married Mr, control freak. You promised to change but instantly cried to her parents when you did not have your way. I strongly suggest you look inwards to find out what is making her loose interest in you. And why did you decide to transfer money and buy provision when you are quarreling? This is what bullies do, she knows it is not from your heart, you simply wanted to appease her and return to your ways when things normalize. She may be more intelligent than you give her credit. As a father, you should be responsible to your child and provide not just when asked but as a duty. A woman knows when she is loved and respected and will often reciprocate. She also knows when she is been taken for granted. Try and show more compassion and respect, maybe, just maybe, you can rejuvenate the love and relationship you had. Just my opinion.

How deep is your religious faith? The answer determines your next move otherwise, tell her the truth now , not later. Osu caste my foot.

Since he dropped you off in your house, next time he comes there, it will be on a hoodie in the night and next time you will appear on social media will be to rant.

Maybe destiny does not want you to return in pieces. Accept it as fate.

Am confused, you, millions of your followers calling you daddy including the 5 kidnapped pastors can't pray and ask God to strike them blind like He did to Saul who was on his way to Damascus to persecute the Christians. All the prayer warriors in your such can't pray for them to go blind and release your pastors. What happened to holly ghost fire you people shout and disturb people all the time with? See your lives, collect money from people in the name of sowing seed and you can't even sow simple seed of confusion among kidnappers. It is finished according to Christ.

I suggest you approach the bank first, if that fails, you need to obtain a certificate of Appointment of Estate Trustee with a Will, assuming there is a Will. If there is no Will, you still to go to the Court, file the necessary Probate Forms and obtain a Certificate of Appointment of Estate Trustee Without a Will. With that, you go back to the bank and you should have access to the account without further hassles.

prayer warrior, brought the Nigerian mentality of God, God, god, etc in everything which is why we are so backward, poor and destitute except pastors. The most developed societies are the less religious, yet, they brought Christianity to us. Ironic.

Here Are My Some Tips:

1. Nervousness Is Normal. Practice and Prepare! All people feel some physiological reactions like pounding hearts and trembling hands. Do not associate these feelings with the sense that you will perform poorly or make a fool of yourself. Some nerves are good. The adrenaline rush that makes you sweat also makes you more alert and ready to give your best performance. The best way to overcome anxiety is to prepare, prepare, and prepare some more. Take the time to go over your notes several times. Once you have become comfortable with the material, practice—a lot, get a friend to critique your performance.

2. Know Your Audience. Your Speech Is About Them, Not You. Before you begin to craft your message, consider who the message is intended for. Learn as much about your listeners as you can. This will help you determine your choice of words, level of information, organization pattern, and motivational statement.

3. Organize Your Material in the Most Effective Manner to Attain Your Purpose. Create the framework for your speech. Write down the topic, general purpose, specific purpose, central idea, and main points. Make sure to grab the audience’s attention in the first 30 seconds.

4. Watch for Feedback and Adapt to It. Keep the focus on the audience. Gauge their reactions, adjust your message, and stay flexible. Delivering a canned speech will guarantee that you lose the attention of or confuse even the most devoted listeners.

5. Let Your Personality Come Through. Be yourself, don’t become a talking head—in any type of communication. You will establish better credibility if your personality shines through, and your audience will trust what you have to say if they can see you as a real person.



6. Use Humor, Tell Stories, and Use Effective Language. Inject a funny anecdote in your presentation, and you will certainly grab your audience’s attention. Audiences generally like a personal touch in a speech. A story can provide that.

7. Don’t Read Unless You Have to. Work from an Outline. Reading from a script or slide fractures the interpersonal connection. By maintaining eye contact with the audience, you keep the focus on yourself and your message. A brief outline can serve to jog your memory and keep you on task.

8. Use Your Voice and Hands Effectively. Omit Nervous Gestures. Nonverbal communication carries most of the message. Good delivery does not call attention to itself, but instead conveys the speaker’s ideas clearly and without distraction.

9. Grab Attention at the Beginning, and Close with a Dynamic End. Do you enjoy hearing a speech start with “Today I’m going to talk to you about X”? Most people don’t. Instead, use a startling statistic, an interesting anecdote, or concise quotation. Conclude your speech with a summary and a strong statement that your audience is sure to remember.

10. Use Audiovisual Aids Wisely. Too many can break the direct connection to the audience, so use them sparingly. They should enhance or clarify your content, or capture and maintain your audience’s attention.

11. Practice Does Not Make Perfect. Good communication is never perfect, and nobody expects you to be perfect. However, putting in the requisite time to prepare will help you deliver a better speech. You may not be able to shake your nerves entirely, but you can learn to minimize them.

12. Avoid personalized eye contact. This helps calm your nerves and stops you from misreading body language like winks, smiles, frowns, etc. Instead, look above the heads so that it appears you are relating to everyone equally. Don't latch too much on the podium, instead, take strides so that the audience will think that you are in command.
13. Think before you talk and take deep breaths for oxygen.

14. Sip water otherwise, your nervousness creates thirst making you more nervous. Sip water with air of confidence. Good luck.

kontinu

Another monorail; this time federal. Building 10th century rail in 21st century, knuckle head. Once upon a time, there was a country called Nigeria, then came natives from their caves, equipped with fake certificates, half baked, no skills, no education, no leadership skills except cow rearing, no love of nation or sense of altruism. They vultured the nation into oblivion, tribalized our wealth and called us Naija people. Then the nation rapidly began to drift backwards geometrically. As a result, we made a quantum limp into poverty, retrogression, insecurity in all its forms from kidnapping to armed robbery, police brutality, boko haram, ethnic cleansing, religious intolerance, false prophecy, anger, sickness, high rate of infant mortality etc. Then I remembered what Shakespeare said in Julius Caesar: The fault, dear Brutus, is not in our stars / But in ourselves, that we are underlings.”

Another monorail; this time federal. Building 10th century rail in 21st century, knuckle head. Once upon a time, there was a country called Nigeria, then came natives from their caves, equipped with fake certificates, half baked, no skills, no education, no leadership skills except cow rearing, no love of nation or sense of altruism. They vultured the nation into oblivion, tribalized our wealth and called us Naija people. Then the nation rapidly began to drift backwards geometrically. As a result, we made a quantum limp into poverty, retrogression, insecurity in all its forms from kidnapping to armed robbery, police brutality, boko haram, ethnic cleansing, religious intolerance, false prophecy, anger, sickness, high rate of infant mortality etc. Then I remembered what Shakespeare said in Julius Caesar: The fault, dear Brutus, is not in our stars / But in ourselves, that we are underlings.”

Very articulate and courageous lady, I hope you and your friends get justice. The problem with the Nigerian judicial system is lack of judicial independence. As a result, bribery becomes the norm thereby creating a culture of inequality, kangaroo and jungle system which in turn, results in injustice, denial of natural justice and a terribly perverted judicial system devoid of the basic principles of law. Sad.

better at Sambisa

Sounds very much like the attitude of a true man of God. Father please forgive them for they know not what they are doing, including this egg head.

So why do you keep asking for bribe from your idiotic followers? What is the difference when you tell people to prepare for hell if they fail to pay/give you bribe/tithe and a civilian who does the same. What is the difference when your only job is being a "pastor" and you are the richest jobless Nigerian, tell me, what is the difference when you protect yourself with hundreds of security men and ask your followers to give you all their money and leave their protection to God, brother, tell me, what is the difference? As Mugabe once said, it amazes the rest of humanity when Africans turn down the volume of the tv to smell something burning in the kitchen. Please kettle, stop calling pot black. Your mumu don do.

What happened to school? Ok, I get it: 17 yr old northern boy marries 15 yr Aisha, none is educated, they have 10 children at 35yrs for him and twenty for her, none of the children will be educated because parents are busy doing menial jobs to feed them. The children become religious fanatics =book haram =national insecurity. Sad.

What happened to school? Ok, I get it: 17 yr old northern boy marries 15 yr Aisha, none is educated, they have 10 children at 35yrs for him and twenty for her, none of the children will be educated because parents are busy doing menial jobs to feed them. The children become religious fanatics =book haram =national insecurity. Sad.

Senior executive in a logistics company and you write like this? Executive like executing election fraud? And which tribe in Nigeria are you from? I ask because in most tribes, your fears are unfathomable, abominable and unthinkable and therefore none issue. Fathers don't go sleeping or thinking of sleeping with their daughter in-laws. If your tribe doesn't abhor such practice/abomination, then you may have good reason to worry although I think that your intellectual shortcoming is manifesting in your insecurity and paranoia because your emphasis on how pretty she is just shallow; you don't have to be pretty to be a slot.

Bacterial vaginosis (BV) is the most common vaginal infection among women of childbearing age. When something upsets the vagina's complex chemistry, harmful bacteria can grow out of control, producing a fishy odor.

Some women with BV experience other symptoms, such as itching or burning, which may feel like a yeast infection. For many women though, the smell is the only symptom. Prescription antibiotics can treat the problem.

Healthful habits can also reduce the risk of BV. Those include:

•Avoiding douches, which upset the delicate pH balance of the vagina.
•Not using scented or flavored products in or around the vagina. Perfumes and other products, such as scented tampons, can alter vaginal chemistry and cause BV.
•Limiting the number of sexual partners and practicing safer sex. While BV is not a sexually transmitted infection (STI), multiple sexual partners can upset the bacteria balance in the vagina, causing BV.
Hygiene.
•Wiping front to back: This prevents fecal matter from getting into the vagina.
•Urinating immediately after sex.
•Using a gentle, fragrance-free soap on the vulva only. Inserting soap into the vagina can alter vaginal pH, causing infections and a foul odor. Various fragrance free products can be purchased online.
•Changing underwear daily, or when underwear is sweaty or soiled.
•Washing underwear in unscented products.
•Showering after sweating or exercise as trapped sweat can increase vaginal odor.
•Washing the vulva with water if there is an unpleasant odor. Between showers, women can use a washcloth to gently wipe down the area, removing sweat and other sources of odor.