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No one is lauding the Nigerian police, however, madam whose husband is white (not sure why you brag about that): have you not seen the British police harassing, arresting, handcuffing and detaining innocent black boys and men on the streets of London? Is there any day that some innocent black boy and man is not harassed, arrested and detained for doing absolutely nothing. Is there any country in the western world that is an exception to this kind of treatment, please mention one. Are you not aware of the killings of black men by police in the USA for doing nothing wrong? How did 'Black Lives Matter" movement in UK your haven and around the world start, madam my husband is British my foot?

And he too will swear that he never cheated or had affairs with someone else while in the US abi? It goes both ways.

A head hunter no dey allow person touch him head.

Head hunter no dey allow person touch him head.

I just have few questions for you: when was the last time both of you stayed together because it appears that there is actually no real bondage between you two. How did you even have kids in the mist of this toxicity? Is there any legal (immigration issues) why you live separately? Your wife may be cantankerous, but long distant relationships are difficult to sustain even with no kids to manage. Why the amiability with Imelda her sister who seems to tacitly be egging you on to dissolve your union? Something is not adding up here. Just thinking aloud.

Anyone who knows how to contact her should tell her to reach me, I will take her case up and make application for a Judicial Review in the Federal Court of Canada, Trial Division. This is my area of legal practice for over two decades. She can email me at: ceziefule@gmail.com. This is not a scam.

Is this a Nigerian university Cyprus campus? No other race, all Nigerian students in the class room! Just wondering.

There are threefold kinds of people in any given society. This distinction has been noted and made by notable sociologists and public intellectuals. However, the threefold distinctions were identified by the supporters and founders of democracy in ancient Greece. For the Greeks, the first kind of people are the IDIOTS. The idiots are not necessarily people with mental deficiencies, rather, people who are totally private, self centred and selfish. They are simply out for their personal gains and interests. They have no public philosophy, no charisma, no knowledge, no skills, no character and no virtues. They are unable to live and contribute in a flourishing society. They are simply upgraded barbarians. The second group are the TRIBES PEOPLE. They have tribal mentalities. Their primary, only and ultimate allegiance is to their tribe. They are not able to think beyond their tribe and small group. They are always afraid of things that are different and a little alien to them. They are always suspicious and fearful of other people. They deal with other people and difficult situations with brute and violence, force and intimidation. They are myopic and extremely violent in nature. The third person the Greeks call the IDEAL PERSON, THE CITIZEN. The citizen has the skills and knowledge to live in a life of civility. They are altruistic by nature. The citizen recognizes that he or she is a member of the commonwealth and strives for the common good. The citizen knows his or her rights in a society as well his his or her responsibilities and obligations to society. They can fight for their rights but always with an awareness of and respect for the rights and interests of others, particularly the smallest minorities in the society. The Greeks say that it is the citizen that makes up a civilized society because citizens settle their differences with civility. The Greeks say that citizens produce a civilized society, a society that lives up to the true meaning of the name SOCIETY, which literally means FRIENDSHIP AND FRIENDLINESS. These are the threefold distinctions the Greeks have given us and it is our responsibility as a nation and society, to ensure that no idiots and tribes men and women will rule us again.
The trajectory calls for mass political consciousness to enable us as a society, produce a citizen as our leader, otherwise, we will continue to drift into abeyance and anarchy. And the world will continue to see us as upgraded barbarians.

"... my baby is having a baby". I didn't know that babies can have babies too, creepy.

Very sad but Providence will make you a conquerer. If you live in Canada, specifically, Ontario, contact me, and I will assist you with your Divorce, pro bono. I hope your side of the equation is credible as it sounds, if yes, you have a compelling case although, there are lots of nuts and bolts with divorce matters as you probably know by now. If you live outside Canada, good luck and be focused. Whatever happens, be strong, don't loss your job. Divorce is a nightmare but you will be just fine.

Callous! Compromised jurists with no judicial independence. Cursed continent with backward and educated illiterate leaders and teeming masses with zero political consciousness.

Madam your story is very strange. It is true, you need therapy and you need it for three different reasons: to heal your robbery experience, for your divorce and enjoying rape by criminals. How do you enjoy rape by criminals who dispossessed your family, tied your husband on a chair and raped you right in his presence. Instead of crying, you enjoyed it to the point of orgasm, not once, but twice. God forbid. You even made excuse of being sex starved. Even if you were sex starved for a million years and unmarried, how do you enjoy it from a robber/rapist. Would you like to trace the robber and ask him to come for more? You even ask not to be judged. Even in normal circumstances, women with their emotions, can in a split second and in the middle of affection, romance and sex, quickly turn off and loss interest if their partner says or acts or 'kills" their mode with unwanted utterance or conduct. Moreso an armed robber that broke into your house. You obviously didn't love your husband "ab initio". Did you marry him for his money? You actually lubricated, orgasmed twice, and asked the robber not to stop, Lord have mercy. And you have the moral turpitude to come and write this online instead of hiding your head in shame. I wanted to sympathize until I read your dumb defense. It would have been better if you left with your manly rapist, celebrate with him for making you a woman and become his wife. Am glad you are going through therapy because there is something inherently wrong with you and don't blame your husband for your orgasm draught because you never loved him. Some women shot out just by looking at their hubby and shiver at a touch because they love them. you dry out with your husband but ooze out with a criminal. Pathetic because you unwittingly blamed your husband. If you oozed out without all the screams of over excitement, cried instead and pained by the experience, none will blame you. It was not your fault that you were raped but you crossed the line when you heaped unnecessary blame on your husband for not satisfying you sexually as the reason for enjoying the rape. I am not judging you for being raped nor for your questionable orgasms rather am concerned that your attack on your husband makes your orgasm experience sound premeditated.

We the gentle men/women in this forum simply want you to stop referring to your wife as, "the gossip", please. Secondly, cease and desist forthwith from making comments on your sister-in-law's nipples,/anatomy; it is disgusting. Are you a pervert? Spits. What in the name of God is wrong with you? Show respect to your family. Next time your wife leaves, pick a book on morality, maturity, spirituality, etc and read. Take your immoral mind off your sister-in-law please. Who raised you this way?

Mumu, where are the carnivorous mammals in the bush, food is ready. While scientists are busy researching day and night for a vaccine, one scammer is busy deceiving, it is well.

Gisus wept

How to explain? Simple, wear a sign that says: AM PERVERTED.

This man has no shame. No govt, whether Federal, Provincial or Municipal, hands out food in Canada. There are NGOS (non governmental organizations) that distribute donations generated through donations and govt subsidies, specifically to the bottom (estremely) poor members of the community. The clos3st to handing out food that the govts do is social assistance which again, is a small monthly stipend handed out to those who are poor. You have to be extremely poor or a refugee claimant unable to work to qualify. Able bodied people are ashamed to ask for handouts because it is dignifying to even mention that you are on welfare. No govt goes around distributing food. If anything, they tax you significantly in order to generate development funds. As he mentioned in the video, he called and possibly exaggerated his household and level of poverty. He also possibly lives in govt housing to qualify which explains why whoever dropped those junks, didnt bother to verify his id. Shame on him. He looks able bodied and proudly recieving free food. The most the govts are doing in the circumstances is to give subsidy to people who lost jobs due to COVID 19, up to $500 biweekly.

Simple answer, she doesn't want you to Bleep the small pikin and bring shame to her, period.
got it?

Don't they sell sniper where you are? You are gutsy or ungrateful, not sure which is more appropriate to describe you. You went home, left your child with a friend, had the mind to chat, laugh, huge your parents, eat mummy's food and couldn't call her aside and say, "please forgive me for I have sinned and am dying inside, I came home for a reason ... ." and take it from there. They saw you off at the airport, you pocketed the money they gave you and promised to email a beautiful diploma by the end of the year, waooo. Girl you get mind. It is bad enough that you dropped out of school while continuing to 'chop" their money, you get belle, born pikin, go Naija, didn't disclose your iniquities. Howe much do you love this your parents biko? That said, to err is human and to forgive divine, tell them as soon as possible and live with the consequences, hopefully they will forgive and don't go into cardiac arrest with this bombshell. How long do you intend to hide this? This is why they circumcise you people to chopoff that scratchy part, you needed one. Anuofia.

Which part of Canada are you/ am in Ontario, precisely St. Catharines near Niagara Falls/Buffalo: call me for a good shake to your smart dumb head. Actually, no need to call, just marry three not two. $1000 is all it takes for your smart brain to become dumb and dumber.

Sacrilage

Keep loving until he cuts off that finger holding the useless ring. Fish brain.

An undersecretary in the USA government used an analogy to address an audience after he left his position and told them thus: This time last year, I came in the same venue as Undersecretary of State, spoke before an audience of over one thousand. I flew in first class, was driven in a chauffer, my five star hotel booked by someone and I was taken directly through the back door to my hotel room. The next day, I appeared to speak, my coffee was already brewed and poured in a ceramic cup. Today, am no more Undersecretary, I flew economy and came through the main door like anybody else. When I asked if there is coffee, I was directed to a corner to a coffee machine. I poured my own coffee in a styrofoam cup. Then I released that the ceramic cup, all the respect, service etc I enjoyed was meant for the position I held, while the styrofoam cup is what is meant for me as a human being. lesson: be humble even in the face of all the acolytes and respect given to you when in power, you are simply a trustee holding the position in trust. Sooner or later, you will descend. How you manage the ascension will determine your descent, it may be smooth or rough, you may land softly or crash, it is your call sir. Be humble even with all the power and sycophancy otherwise the end will be humiliating.

Young man, lesson no.1 in a good relationship is to understand that women, no matter how much money they make, will always want you to be the spender. Men are called breadwinner for a reason, women always want you to spend. Therefore, approach money matters tacitly otherwise, your marriage will be doomed "ab initio" (from the beginning). You proposed, she accepted, implying that you are ready to undertake the unequal family responsibility. Lesson no. 2, one philosopher said that 'in every relationship, someone must play the fools part", otherwise, it will not grow. Particularly in matrimony. You will be amazed how much you make your partner think she is in charge. It is a thing of pride for them even if you actually end up making the decision, give room for the "fools part" and make her think she is the boss. Besides, if you want this fifty fifty thing, will you share pregnancy fifty fifty when the time comes, will you be the primary child minder when the time comes? You are starting off on the wrong footing and scaring the poor girl. Her reaction is understandable and most women will probably react the same. Go and tell her that you were pulling her legs and that you were kidding. Tell her that you will borrow to give her the best wedding if need be etc. look her in the eyes and tell her how much she means to you. To be blunt, borrow if you have to unless you are not ready to marry. Even in pro independent and ultra radical and gender equality societies, men still bear wedding expenses. Don't be a penny pincher. She is wondering how the marriage is going to be if you are already acting as a dick. You told her how much she was going to contribute, it wasn't discussed. Who does that. Are you a dick-tiger? Be a teddy bear and you will experience a blissful marriage otherwise, stay a bachelor for now until you are ready. A word is enough for the wise.

If you were not after his money, why did you make it the central issue in your write up? For those of us highly educated, and am one of them because I have a Master degree and J.D. (Juris Doctor), and a lawyer for the city where I live in Canada, reading your write up, it is clear you were smitten by his circumstances which beclouded your judgment hence the haste to jump into bed with him. A little patience would have exposed him for what he is, a fraud. Do you realize the magnitude of the risk you took and continued to take after all the discovery. On the other hand, if you are not interested in genuine advice from those reading and analyzing your write up critically with unbiased mind, why are you asking for advise. Did you want us to simply tell you to keep begging and making a full of yourself? This is just fish brain "simpliciter". keep begging until the cows come home. Why did you take the car from a man mistreating you if you can afford it? He is not your husband and frankly, not even your boyfriend, sex partner, just sex partner.

Shhhhhhh, before you say kpichikum, download Tina Turner's music called, "What's love got to do with it" and perhaps, watch the movie too. If after listening to the music and watching the movie, you are still suffering from love nwantiti or poppy love, go for cleansing because you got issues more than medicine and counseling can heal. A guy deliberately hides lethal sickness from you, cheats multiple times (am sorry for those ladies maybe men because they may be ignorant of dick weaponization) and tells you that he can't pretend anymore to love you and you still want him back. You obviously have very low self esteem or no self esteem at all. Didn't your parents raise you right? Is it his physique or money that is tumbling you down, left and right? What is it; because am not understanding you. Have you imagined if the condoms broke or you kissed a bleeding lip and what would have happened. To be blunt, are you mad? So the SUV is worth more than your life and the love ones that would be heart broken if they find out that you are hiv positive. What is wrong with your head? So, no sense of worth at all? Beko explain; you should be celebrating. Why do we ask God for blessings and refuse to embrace them when He sends them. Are you normal at all nne. Although you deliberately withheld the nature of what broke the camel's back, regardless, why are you crying. The best cure for cancer is to clip off the carcinogenic elements instead of wanting to embrace them. Give your head a shake and thank God for his abundant hidden blessings for you and run. Even if he buys you a chopper, run and don't look in the rearview mirror. Avoid his brake lights baby girl. Trust me, you will be glad it was over when you reflect on your stupidity some time down the road. Chai, poverty is a disease.

She loves sex eventhough you are not married, she takes wed and you call all these responsible. I guess you are just as responsible because it seems you are contemplating taking it too by your questions and curiosity. As the saying goes, tell me your friends and I will tell you whom you are. be careful what you wish for.

Don't you have something better to do? Why are you not in school? Ideal mind and the devil's workshop go hand in hand. Ewu Congo.

Super story. what episode?

Poetic justice or as we call it here, "just dessert. Good for you. She will think twice next time before been a free loafer and smart ass.