₦airaland Forum

saintruky:
My bebe... my bebe u re d one... U re d one that am calling bebe... Am calling, am calling yo oooo...

SkyB

SkyB 2006/07.

That guy released only 6tracks and then..... Die off.

SUPOL:
Okay, mention one southeastern politician who you think can handle this country. I had rochas in mind but that one be like say Na only mouth e get. His scorecard in imo state is very low. Let’s take ZULUM as VP.

Dave Umahi is sound and competent.

Explorers:
Keep trying, maybe network/traffic.

Trying since last week, sometimes it takes the otp/user Id about 1hr to deliver and session would've expired.

Finally this evening.

Please remove the attached image on this post, I've made out your year of birth, surname and other name

Poverty, Religious and Ethnic extremism needs to leave Nigeria for Nigeria to experience true change.

mariahAngel:
The worst part is that they're never asked to talk about it, so they just suck it up and live with it for almost all their lives.

You can't blame them, most don't know what's happening with them, and the men too don't know that's why you keep hearing “my wife has changed after one baby, she's now lazy etc”.

Postpartum cases are not noticed at all, so no one even seek to help them deal with the issues. Men feel they're being denied sex and goes out to unload their boiling seeds.

Not comparable.

Mrtaye:
Of course you don't need any soothsayer to tell you presidency should go east for equity sake

From your moniker, you're Mr. Taye (Yoruba) and I'm Igbo, when I said “nothing bad in this..” I referred to their request for Presidency to go to the SE.

We're on same page here.

Mrtaye:
Like seriously it is

Which is?

Racoon:
No reasonable Igbo should see himself as the salvation Nigeria needs because this nation have been damage beyond redemption while still sitting on the defective structural foundation since 1960.

Nigeria is simply irredeemable from it current politico-religio-econnomic woes.This only starting solution to this quagmire is a SNC discussion on our state of nationhood.Restructure or total disintegration into regional govt for all man to develop @ his or her own pace.

True, Nigeria is structurally defective but some people have benefited from this defective structure.

Understand that if Igbo return to the helm of national life, the strangulation, marginalization and hatred might begin to be rolled back, especially when he performs exceedingly.

Everyone needs to contribute to Nigeria's development, and these leaders are asking for.

Nothing bad in this...

Lol!

When their manipulation no work, dem go run go SM.

Men need to start wiping out these idiots so that we can see the good ones, and also to forewarn the young psychos among them to desist from such acts.

Liposure:
A number of married women have low libido which can be very frustrating for a sexually active husband. Ever wondered why most men cheat on their wives. Husbands are tired of constant rejection in bed and can't wait to seek help outside

Some of those women suffer from extended bouts of Postpartum Depression (PPD), normal depression, life crisis, overwhelming marital life, social anxiety etc that makes sex the least of their problems.

I'm scared of women honestly, I know friends are not to be trusted in any guise but some women need to hold the forth for themselves, their family and their husbands.

The friend that prepositioned his Gee's wife (or accepted her offer) is an ewu, I blame him the most, 2k for don reach am to arrange olosho, now he's spilling in his own friend's vineyard and got caught in the act. Abomination!

SmellySperm:

I just imagine this and I fear for women.

Anyway, e no go work for me.

gaius01:
Give me your WhatsApp digits make I do sharperly !

Check my profile

gaius01:
Arrrrrrrh

Contact me for your own ID card.

It's just N 1OO !

Come do for me, make I hold one too

Hilarity at it peak.

Wiseandtrue:
This guy wey sell him kidney that year

Hmmmm apart from all these motivational speeches, I hope you invested well

Because it's the end that will justify the means

Happy birthday

Like him truly sell him kidney?

CrescentMoon:
Let me first tell you my kind of character. For you to make me angry, you have to repeat an offense more than 30 to 40 times. After each offence, I would only give you facial expression that will let you know that you offended me. And I would ensure you get the message.

So wife kept repeating same offence. I told her I don't like what she was doing. She said she would adjust, but kept repeating the same thing. When I got fed up, I tried to retaliate. My only retaliation is that I stopped being around in the house. I would leave the house very early in the morning and return late at night. I would go for business in another town and return 4 days later. She knows nothing stops me from coming home everyday from the other town because I have means of transportation. She flared up. Started calling relatives that I'm maltreating her. They asked her to say which ways I have been maltreating her...she said I'm avoiding our home. Relatives asked if I'm beating or starving her. She said no.

I know why it pained her very well. If she wants to go and urinate outside, I would go and drop her there. When she is through, she would call me and I would go and pick her up again.

She's a woman that's always settling fights for couples in the street. So, she never wanted it to be heard anywhere that we are quarelling in our home. She won't want anybody to come to our house to settle disputes. So this prolongs our fights always.

When she couldn't bear it again, she sent a message to me that goes like this: I INITIALLY DIDN'T WANT TO DIVORCE YOU BECAUSE OF YOUR DISABILITY AS I PITY YOU. BUT NOW, IT'S OVER. YOU HAVE TO BEAR THE CONSEQUENCES OF YOUR ACTIONS TOWARDS ME ALL THESE YEARS. WHAT DID I HAVE TO DO WITH A JUJU DIABOLIC MAN IN THE FIRST INSTANCE.

Let me disect those words in capital letters for you. I have a disability, but you can't notice it easily until you start talking to me. She said I have to bear the consequences of my actions towards her... looking back, I have done unimaginable things to make her happy. I even saved her life when she didn't want blood transfusion from unknown persons as a result of her Christian belief not to contract demons from the blood of unknown person. Fortunately, my blood group is that of a universal donor. That means I can donate blood for anybody. Note that she had never done any noteworthy thing for me apart from giving birth to our babies. About being a juju man, I will tell you how she arrived at this: somebody was about to give birth from her family side and the baby was in breech position. She asked for advice and I told her that if I take the woman to the village my uncle will give the woman a concoction to reverse it. Her faith is against it, but because someone from her side just gave birth through CS, which almost led to the death of mother and baby, she asked me to take the woman to the village. The breech position was reversed. I'm surprised she now labelled me a juju man.

Instead of me to take her message personal, I urged her to please herself. This infuriated her the more. Instead of leaving me, she invited someone to intervene, tracked me to the second town, and it was settled there.

My problem now is that those words are still ringing in my head... someone I thought was a lover said she married me out of piety.

Sincerely, someone like me will react the way you're reacting now, being more introspective and defensive but lay it all down and forgive her regardless.

Everything was said because tension were high, I guess you seen why people refer to them as weak? Them no dey get sense sometimes and they can be pretty headstrong which can equally be driven by emotions rather than reasons.

Biko, forgive her and gradually forget.

mithras:
What if that person is two years older than you and has certain attitudes like being controlling, emotionally manipulative and somewhat entitled to your money?

Sort these out with the person, that age part is not a major problem once you get to sort the remaining issues you raised.

Jaqenhghar:
Niggerians will say
If 8ts a woman, no second chance
If its a man, give as many chances

Double standards.

Romanoff:
This marriage matter.

A lot of people build their marriage on the wrong foundation.

Money, sex, looks, loneliness, desperation and some other mundane reasons.

The best foundation to build a marriage is on friendship and that's why you'll hear marriage counsellors say "marry your friend".

Take away sex from most relationships there will be nothing left, you'll discover the sex isn't even enough to keep it going. Sex that should be the icing on the cake has become the entire cake.

Money that should add spice to the marriage has become the entire food. He must have money, he must have a good car, she must be working and earning her own money etc. Once the money is not there anymore, water done pass garri.

Don't get me started on the Looks part, you'll marry because she has big bumbum and boobs, or because he is tall dark or fair and handsome with a six inch rod. A time will come that all these things won't do it for you anymore.

Marry your friend. That person that comes to your mind when you want to have deep discussions about your dreams, your bad day, your plans, your failures. That person that you will forget about time and keep talking with cause conversation and laughter and joys and tears just comes real.

That is what brings intimacy. The attraction, sex, money, looks all those ones na jara.

My opinion o. So before you mention me and insult me, take note of the fact that it's my opinion, make Thunder no fire you this morning.

Well said RomanOff, if only people can slow down and choose their spouses because life get wahala o.

Righteousness2:
Very Huge Thrash stats!

I sense there is more to this DNA Sudden Hysteria in Nigeria.
I wont be Suprised if it has something to do with body System of Nigeria and Africa.

Be Careful with what you allow..
Some Persons are still shocked on why Nigerians and Africans did not Waste as they Planned.

The times are very evil. Don't use your Hands to donate yourself to be Wasted..

Most Important, set your path Right with GOD.
Surrender to JESUS Christ..
This Ship is Sinking..

You're very uninformed. Don't argue it, but you're very blinded to the gross, vile and wicked acts being perpetrated under the name of paternity fraud.