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naijapips04:
What an asshole. Your purpose is to create doubt on DNA testing and you have failed whole fully. With your bullshit maternity testing and hospital swapping ideologies.

Guys get that DNA test done and if it comes out negative, please throw the hoe out immediately, don't ask any further questions....throw the cheating hoe out!!

Guy, if only you know much hard laugh I'm having here because of your comprehension and cognitive ineptness, you'll just quit this clannishness and cringe back to the normal life you have always feared and face it headstrong with character.

I'm sorry kiddo, this is my last take on you, don't rush women, focus on growing yourself and be gentle with whomever cross paths with you.

FYI, I'm a dude too.

naijapips04:
Pathetic SIMP. DNA testing is 99.99 % accurate. Don't run any maternity testing. Don't ask any stupid hospital any questions. The hoe cheated and is forcing another man's child on you.

I know you are a female hiding under a male moniker either that or you are just the biggest simp alive.

I created this thread to beam light on where your limited knowledge can not penetrate, yet you still choose to remain aloof and ignorant of all other extant realities because you've chosen to hate what you can not comprehend.

Continue vaping ideologies you can not tailor and prune properly into your life. E go be.

thundafire:
I know of cases in hospitals were children could be exchanged because of the sex of the child or by error.

Thank you.

That's why running only paternity testing isn't enough, maternity tests can vindicate the woman in this kind of scenario but these merchants of women hating and anti-marriage ignoramuses will not want to think things thoroughly.

I pity them all.

Blackdisciple:
Why fear bro, I thought all the kids belong to the family na.??

I'll kindly refer you to my posts on the first page. Read all of it and see the differing circumstances that can make DNA testing fail.

Please do read and educate yourself.

Hathor5:
The energy you have wasted on opening these threads could have been used to test your children and your children's children and grandchildren.

Biko, ejoo, please, da'Allah, leave those innocent kids out of our talk.

I'm not going to get pulled in your web, I've said what I think best of this issue. Good night.

Hathor5:
Stop wasting your time on NL guys. Just get on with the tests. How hard is it?

Madam, you're here to draw blood but others can give you that. Keep enjoying yourself.

Jaqenhghar:
The aim is to villify women. If you are so passionate about infidelity how come men are not held to the same standards.

Kindly. Go. Back. And. Read. My. Original. Post. Again.

Please. Be. Slow. And. Thorough.

Thank you.

TypeRubbish:
I am not sure am the true son of my dad. I don't look like him. seems my mum must have played him . I feel my real dad must be a rich man..
How can I make him do a DNA test

why not do the test yourself, collect samples and go to lab, if the results prove negative, test your mom too.

Anything you find talk about it or just shut up.

But know the consequences of your action may not be something you can handle o.

WoundedLamb:
I don't know about women. I can't speak for them. But if I were a lady and my husband comes back asking for paternity test on our kids, I know for sure that marriage would never remain the same again regardless of how hard I try. There's simply no better way to plant the seed of distrust than making such a request.

Sure that is why the man must trust more than his instincts and equally be prepared for his wife's wrath if he chooses to openly do the tests.

Na person wey get sense go understand wetin e take to go through this processes and still not crack.

usj:
When you must have failed to ascertain for sure that the kid is yours, men, please remain calm and try again somewhere else. The probability of a misinformed lab technologist handling your case may eventually cause you to break your home. Revalidate that outcome in separate centres.

OP your head get good oil. The post is very objective I'm sure your background is in science.

Social Sciences but this issue need thorough evaluation if not, everyone will be living in fear and distrust. Only a head that can thoroughly see things can handle some women.

Kestolove:
I support dna test, how I wish it's free

Then convince your fellow women to stand down and patiently wait for the man to finish up with his investigation, your indifference may even make him not continue further.

It's disheartening to hear these things. Me wey be uncle self go suffer when I find out say my brother wife bring another man pikin as certificate of cheating come house (God forbid though).

So, don't kick when you don't have anything to hide, and don't kick because there's something to hide because only these tests will implicate or vindicate you.

Many of us are clicking and commenting about this new social anomaly that has come to the fore because of the recent saga with late Mr Tunde, his estranged wife, Mrs Moyo and the former FCMB MD, Adam Nuhu, as well as other cases we've read on the cyber spaces regarding infidelity.

Opinions are diverse but the question remains, what solution does paternity testing offers in a union?

1. It unearth fraudulent women and their deceitful ways: any man, out of choice and/or suspicion that something isn't right can get a test done to ascertain whether he has any direct biological relationship with his wife's birth. This will help put him in the know as to how to manage situations arising and/or linked to a situation of infidelity, betrayal of trust, fraud by his wife, or a possible scenario of baby swapping.

Solution: When you must have failed to ascertain for sure that the kid is yours, men, please remain calm and try again somewhere else. The probability of a misinformed lab technologist handling your case may eventually cause you to break your home. Revalidate that outcome in separate centres.

2. Run maternity tests too to ascertain for sure the child belongs to your spouse: paternity fraud and testing is a very sensitive issue, therefore, as a man who wants to know the truth, don't take a fraction of what exist as truth by conducting only a DNA test for yourself and then exclude the woman who birthed that child. Once you have established that your spouse is the mother but you're not the father, she has a clear case to answer and that is where next-to-confirmation of cheating and adultery may come in.

Solution: don't hastily conclude, gather impeccable proof that you're not the father but your spouse is the mother. There you have trapped her and telling you the truth will become easier.

3. When both paternity and maternity tests fails, then you have the hospital and delivery team to answer as to why you or your spouse share no direct biological relationship with the child: there are plenty reasons why a paternity test may fail, and cheating may not be directly the cause, so watch your handling of the issue and investigate properly before making unwarranted and provocative accusations.

Solution: paternity tests seeks to unravel the truth and the truth is a very complicated thing to understand. We know of baby factories where people go to buy babies in Nigeria, we also know that the tendencies for people to buy children based on their sexes are other forms of premeditated crimes in Nigeria. Therefore, seek the truth, and the total truth which can also be found in cases where nurses engage in switching babies of opposite sexes and then collecting money for thee illicit endeavour.

4. Paternity fraud vindicates or allay fears of the unknown: we all know that not all cheating women authenticate their infidelity with a child, but where you can genuinely prove that the children belongs to you and your spouse, your mind should as quickly as possible return to your marriage, to work on your insecurities and other marital issues in other not to give room for eventually problems.

Solution: sue that institution that out of their negligence has put you and your wife under intense financial drain, emotionally traumatizing endeavour and get justice for those who went home without verifying the biological identity of their offspring. Also, to unearth the criminal culprits perpetrating these crimes.

Therefore, men and women, do not stand against paternity/maternity tests if you know you've not committed any marital infractions, rather stand down and let the suspecting spouse carry own with his/her investigation, you never can tell, you may not be at fault but someone has explanations to give to you and this may be another experience altogether.

For the women, it hurts when you are seen as someone who had done the worst thing on earth, if you love that child, or any child in your union, please always do the right thing. Don't cheat when you're cheated up, rather be bold enough to walk away. Cheating out of revenge will eventually bring more problems than your intended revenge seeking. And also, please women, terminate every thread connecting you to any ex no matter what. Focus on your new life no matter how challenging and do not listen to friends who may come with good revelations buy bad intentions towards your marital life.

For men, please, stop legitimizing infidelity in marriages, whether in private or social media, you expose yourself to horrors and pain when you do.

Stand against infidelity and kick at it with all sincerity to help allay the fears that you may one day join them.

Please, kindly note that these are my personal takes on this trending issue and may be subject to readers evaluation and scrutiny.

Nuttella:
Every child is a gift from God whether yours not not, why do DNA test that will end in tears for you, scatter your marriage and give you high BP?, you might even end up committing suicide. If you love your sanity, your children, your marriage and your mental health then don't do DNA test .

I want to accept that gift knowing God out of His ocean of benevolence gave me, not one ‘Adam Nuhu generated' gift.

Look, I can't justify male cheating, I detest that thing to the last, but these oroma people are taking cheating to new frontiers I swear. And some of the men are genuinely innocent to these women o.

What about people wey port their lines nko?

I've tried linking my ported line on the app but it failed to receive otp while others have been verified on the app.

And I no wan hear story for that line wey I port o.

I think I've had this thing o.

I lost my ability to taste for 2wks (something that only happens whenever I burn my tongue with hot food).

My sister and kids bore the largest brunt during that period, all the food I cooked was given one report, ‘too salty' while the thing be like dust for my mouth.

Prevent that thing from coming into your system, I might have been lucky (or I never even had it) but what about others?

pocohantas:
The polygamous gender is scared of being cheated on. One would have thought with how you guys encourage sleeping around- you’ll understand that a fellow bro has to nut somewhere. Sometimes with receipts...

Sha don’t kill yourselves like the FCMB woman’s husband. Men are not built for such pain.

I swear you no get joy at all.

Las las, I go leave una one side.

taiwotimitt:
Why will you waste that amount of money when you can go to one baba and give him 5k and you will still watch everything on TV

Local solution to a nationally globally recognized problem.

ABOVEDELAW:
THAT IS ONLY IF YOU SIGNED THE BIRTH CERTIFICATE, THEN YOU ARE COMPELLED BY THE LAW TO TAKE CARE OF THE CHILD UNTIL HE/SHE IS 18 YRS IRRESPECTIVE OF WHETHER YOU ARE THE BIOLOGICAL FATHER OR NOT . BY SIGNING THE BIRTH CERTIFICATE YOU HAVE BECOME THE LEGAL FATHER OF THE CHILD. IF YOU DID NOT SIGN ANYTHING , YOU ARE NOT RESPONSIBLE FOR THE CHILD. THIS IS WHAT MANY PEOPLE DON'T KNOW.

This law doesn't cover a lot of gray areas o.

Now, scenario one, the man signs a birth cert hoping and believing the child is his.

Scenario two, the child was later discovered to be a fraud handed to him.

Now for the law to bear clearer understanding to me to be responsible to the child, I can still go ahead and sign if I know of the status before hand that I'm not the father, but where I'm being misled and my sensibilities being toiled with, please the law shouldn't strangle me should I choose to abdicate fatherly responsibilities to the child (if I want to).

meobizy:
So, this is the new horse this pichiruchi forum will beat to death? I am not ready.

I like the way you used this word.

Indeed, it's getting out of hand here o. The pichiruchi something is encroaching into sensible spaces.

Na to leave am for them.

YoungBlackRico:
How dafuq does gambling and scam affects fertility?

Gambling has a way of making you numb to other responsibilities, especially when you're addicted, you just channel your money to your habits while neglecting other aspects of life.

Also, gambling can induce stress and increase your heart rate, change dopamine release in your body and, these my friend can make sex unappealing to a gambling addict.

Op, just look how these women take gather dey laugh you.

But regardless, my advice is that you find new distractions and focus your time there, if na covid-19 hold you, try avoid her until you hurry up and leave their house. She don see you finish na why.

She's seen how many boxers you change in a week and how many days you wear a particular singlet, no wahala.

Just give her time or tell your friend say you wan marry him sister (be frank about it), if him beat you to death, fine, if he loves the idea because you can handle the sister, also fine.

But please, don't over do this wooing thing, that girl fit give you food one day without meat o.

Michelle55:
Why na only men full this thread?

Na men the matter affect pass o!

SilverNorGold:
Just DNA TEST? Not enough! Death sentence for paternity fraud!

And any woman who cheats on her husband should be sentenced to 20 years' imprisonment!

These laws must be enacted as soon as possible before Nigeria becomes Sodom and Gomorrah!

God bless Nigeria.

What about men who cheat and beget children outside marriage? (Not second wife o).

Stop being clannish about these things, no one is immune to cheating traits.

needanswer:
This, lol.

This is really cold. I jus weak. Aren't these women feeling the pains of these kids? I mean it hurts not as a man but as a child knowing that the person I loved and called father isn't mine, and because of my own mom's infidelity, he still chooses to not adopt me, and love me as his own.

Ah! Children will just be alive but dead on the inside. God forbid bad thing.

No single lie in the matter.