 Politics › Re: Abdulrashid Maina Extradited To Nigeria After Arrest In Niger Republic by cassyrooy(m): 3:56pm On Dec 03, 2020 |
dannyspeejay:
dem even carry private jet That's not ordinary jet o, the Nigerian Police Force Jet, e shock me like this o. |
| Sports › Re: Giroud Scores 4 Goals As Chelsea Beat Sevilla To Finish Top Of Their UCL Group by cassyrooy(m): 10:49am On Dec 03, 2020 |
PROFFIRE:
waiting patiently for a day when one player will score 7 goals. i will give every member of nairaland 1 life goat and two female chicken....thats a good one from giroud Erling B. Haarland scored nine o (but na -U20). |
| Health › Re: UK Approves Pfizer-Biontech COVID-19 Vaccine For Use, First In The World by cassyrooy(m): 12:30pm On Dec 02, 2020*. Modified: 10:53am On Dec 03, 2020 |
byinks:
Nigerians are themselves a d each other with fetish love charms....no need for expensive poison called vaccine. Insha Allah Mode has been activated for me o. |
| Health › Re: UK Approves Pfizer-Biontech COVID-19 Vaccine For Use, First In The World by cassyrooy(m): 10:16am On Dec 02, 2020*. Modified: 12:31pm On Dec 02, 2020 |
Barka00:
Nigeria isn't working on any vaccine, just penis enlargement and kayanmata This is the point I put up my citizenship for sale. Can you just imagine?  |
| Celebrities › Re: Ned Nwoko: I Married Regina Daniels In 3 Weeks. She Knows I'll Marry Again by cassyrooy(m): 10:12am On Dec 02, 2020 |
IamWonderful:
I prefer the SELF-DISCIPLE and the SELF-CONTROL devoid of bitterness, horrible experience, heartbreak and pain that is associated with dating (romantic relationship) before marriage, where innocency is thrown to the dogs and lewdness takes over It's your God given right to determine whichever path that can lead to your happiness. Good luck. |
| Celebrities › Re: Ned Nwoko: I Married Regina Daniels In 3 Weeks. She Knows I'll Marry Again by cassyrooy(m): 8:53am On Dec 02, 2020 |
IamWonderful:
I DON'T DATE AND NEVER WILL I MARRY FAIRLY USED OR BADLY USED LADY, VIRGIN OR NOTHING Not all Virgins have pristine, premium and livable characters. Peel off that tags and see the monsters within. |
| Education › Re: ASUU Strike; The Union Is Still Consulting Its Members by cassyrooy(m): 8:25am On Dec 02, 2020 |
MrStylish:
Abobi
I just pity final year students by the time school go open their brain don block  Which kin thing be this na? This na why dem dey clamour say school na scam! I feel for everyone caught up in this mess! |
| Family › Re: 5-Year Marriage Experience: Lessons Learnt & Knowledge Acquired by cassyrooy(m): 6:32pm On Nov 30, 2020 |
Englov:
28.11.2020 marked it 5yrs marriage anniversary for me and my spouse.
The experiences are as follows:
1. Do not marry because of beauty:
Beauty they say is to the eyes of the beholder. My wife was and is still beautiful in my eyes but that was not only the reason I married her.
I took my time and visited her place one time they had burial ceremony in her village. This was even before I proposed to her for marriage. I wanted to see her Mum and I did. I wanted to see how my wife will look like when she start aging. I equally wanted to know how peaceful her mum lives with the Dad because she won't tell me all this things.
2. In marriage it might not work always with your plan:
I remember a friend of mine told me that once he gets married, he will relocate from Nigeria to USA with the help of the wife's family staying in USA. I can remember I asked him; what if it didn't work as you have planned it? His answer was: I have never taught of it that way.
My man is marriage now with that lady. They have gotten 2 kids but they have not moved out till now. He no longer talk about moving to USA anymore though he could even afford it.
This doesn't mean you will not plan for yourself and your family. However, as you make your plans always have a plan B in case it didn't work out the same way you had planned it.
I have learned to always have plan B even as I work so had to make plan A possible.
3. When Your wife says Yes, she might mean No most of the times and vice versa:
Most of the times when you are doing the great job on the other room, if she is saying no,stop,etc pls don't stop oh. If you do she will turn back and say to you. Why did you stop? You will answer but you asked me to stop. She will ask you are you not man enough to know that I didn't mean stop? Immerging that someone asked you to stop something and she said she didn't mean it.
You must be man enough to know when she means what she is saying. You as a man must figure somethings out by yourself.
4. Child birth:
This in most cases does not go as planned. You might say you want boys as a man and she said she want girls or boys as the case maybe. It is only God that has ultimate say on this.
It took us 3 years to get our first baby and we are expecting another soon. In that first 3 years, we went to different hospitals me and my spouse was certified ok. She use to take in but after 2-3 months miscarriage will be experienced. In this experience months became years.
We spent a lot of money looking for solution and she was restless because of that until God gave us one.
Child birth during marriage is a different ball game all together to compare when you are in a friendly relationship. When you are in a relationship, you see pregnancy come and stay but after marriage the real business starts.
5. Never marry a lady because of what she told you:
When you finally decide to marry as a man, marry because of your own reasons. Never marry because the lady told you that anyone who married her will be entitled to this or that. Pls never fall for that cheap scam. Any lady above 30yrs wants to marry by all means. You don't know the pressure she is passing through so she will do anything possible to bring you in.
Lady's knows men wick point most of the times than we know their own. Remember they can talk to each other and share their experiences with men in their discussion than men do.
6. Women are strong than men but don't know:
Believe or not women are very strong being. Brother, one weekend try and stay at home and tell her to leave all her work for you. Try and do it, guy I bet you 90% of the men will not do 60% off the work women do at home.
They will do all this things go to work and come back, carry their baby, etc.
7. She Doesn't want competition:
No woman wants to see her man with another woman. She doesn't like competition oh! A woman would do anything possible to protect her home. Women are more spiritually inclined than men. If you really want to know a visit to spiritual homes will convince you. They believe that most of the things happening around us is more spiritual than physical.
8. Shape and Size:
Before our wedding I was 66kg in weight while she was 64kg that was 2015. But now in 2020, 5years after am 64kg and she is 76kg. She has gained 12kg and I have lost 2kg such is life. That slim fight girl you see today once you marry her she will gain weight this is natural to them.
If you must marry bear it in mind that she must gain weight and as she gains weight she might start losing shape.
I have bought so many weight loss medications and even waist trainer belt but it's still there.
I have learned to live with it.
9. Buying things:
Impulse buying is their hubby. Women can buy things that they will never use. Most of the times my wife bought she doesn't even know what they are used for. Most a times they buy because it looks good not even because they want to use it.
10. Gift:
Though everyone likes gift but women cherish gift so much. You want to get something from her buy her a gift more especially that thing she likes.
11. Love life:
Once you have a baby a portion of your love will be taking away from you and given to your babe. As you number of babies increased so as the love life shift hands to the babies. The more babies you have the less attention you get from your wife.
Modified:
12. Decision Making:
Never put your wife on autopilot decision Making. Never allow your spouse to always take decision without consulting you. If you allow this from the beginning changing it will be very difficult.
Say you are working in an offshore and you have to hand over your salary ATM card to your wife to spend on without a proper spending plan, then sorry is your nike name.
Even when you are not available, you can have a lay down plan for her. In case of eventuality do this or that.
13. Third party interference:
Never allow the interference of family members into your family affairs. This is dangerous to your family life. From the first day of my marriage, I told my wife that not my mum ,Dad or her parents must hear about our quarrel as I know is inevitable. This can only be possible if you know how to settle quarrels so I advise you learn this as it will help you. No quarrel should be allowed to stay too long without settling it.
14. Work/Job:
Your wife must know what you do for a living and she must be proud of it if not there is problem. I own a phone repair and parts sales center in PH and I am in this business with my wife. Am a graduate, she is as well and both of us are happy doing this business. She helps me a lot in the business. You must not force your wife to do what she didn't like doing, if you do you will not get a good result. You as a man must be proactive in your decision Making concerning work/job selection.
15. Financial status:
Your wife must know your financial status though not in details. This will help the family to stay in peace. Though you should be in charge of the spendings so as to work within your plans. Make provision for her pocket money because whether you like it or not she must get it from you more especially if she is not a working class.
It is really a wonderful experience. I love my wife and we are happy with each other.
Disclaimer:
The experiences learned and knowledge acquired are mostly personal to me and my spouse. This experiences may or may not be applicable to you and your spouse.
I would like you to add your own experience or knowledge acquired in your marriage life to guide those that wants to go into this. I'm feeling One-kind-one-kind after reading your experiences, that part where you stated you lost 2kg and she added 12kg got me scared walahi! @MissJoy29, is that how we'll roll?  |
| Romance › Re: Should I Take The Risk And Invest In My Girlfriend? by cassyrooy(m): 6:20pm On Nov 30, 2020 |
Skyfornia:
First give am belle.. Even pregnancy can't hold any lady that has got her eyes fixed on the fast lanes and fast lives. @firstandonly, even if you think she's not worth it, doing it might mean well for her in the future (even if you're in it, or not). All the best brave Bro! |
| Family › Re: Men... We Need To Stop This!!! by cassyrooy(m): 11:29pm On Nov 27, 2020 |
MissJoy29:
Lol..& how did it sound?
I will send it dearie It felt so touching I got weak in the knees, you know that type you used on me on Wednesday shebi? Naim I use read. |
| Family › Re: Men... We Need To Stop This!!! by cassyrooy(m): 6:28pm On Nov 27, 2020 |
MissJoy29:
I believe you hun...thanks! I actually read this in your voice... I'm still awaiting for you to send that “thing”. |
| Family › Re: Men... We Need To Stop This!!! by cassyrooy(m): 3:53pm On Nov 26, 2020 |
MissJoy29:
Baby m...thanks
I'm ok now. It's ok. That's really good to hear. Just keep holding on for me o, things are going to pave way soon enough. |
| Literature › Re: Chinua Achebe's 90th Posthumous Birthday Is Today by cassyrooy(m): 10:17am On Nov 16, 2020 |
NwaAmaikpe:
I can't keep calm because today is for the greatest ever in African Literature.
Iya Basirat said that the only reason she sells 'extra' in her bukka is to help the customer when the main plate does not do justice to the hunger in his belly.
Permit me dear Lalasticlala to do just a small 'extra' to your biography of my all-time hero.
On the 16th of November 1930, Chinua Achebe was born into privilege because unlike parents of the day, his parents had education and that was what they had to offer to him.
At the age of 6, he had begun schooling at St. Philip’s Central School, Ogidi. He left stellar records in all schools he was enrolled into.
From Central School Nekede down to St Michael’s School Aba, the boy’s wisdom was a cause of praise and envy.
Chinua performed so well in the National Entrance Examinations that he was admitted to both Dennis Memorial Grammar School Onitsha and Government College, Umuahia; a very rare feat for anyone then in 1944.
All his brothers had attended DMGS and stemming from a lifelong quest to stand out, Achebe opted for the new elite boarding school in Umuahia called Government College. It had it’s perks. Aside just being founded in 1929, many of its teachers at the time were alumni from Cambridge. So it was almost parallel to being trained in England for anyone.
Chinua was in the Niger House dormitory and
unlike other schools, Government College Umuahia had a period between 4:00pm and 6:00pm called the “textbook act” when all textbooks were put away and only novels were read. It was here that he was further introduced to the literary works of Booker T Washington, Williams Shakespeare, Jonathan Swift, Robert Louis Stevenson and Charles Dickens.
There was nothing more frustrating for his enquiring mind than realizing that Africa really had no one who could tell her stories devoid of any taints.
And continuous reading of these authors made him long for an indigenous African literary renaissance where the African story could be told in an unbiased way.
Ironically it had the same effect on other Government College Umuahia students like Elechi Amadi, Gabriel Okpara, Christopher Okigbo, Chike Momah, Vincent Chukwuemeka Ike and Ken Saro-Wiwa all of whom will later become pioneers of modern African literature.
After the end of his stay in Government College Umuahia, Chinua Achebe sat for the Cambridge School Certificate Examinations and passed with five distinctions and one credit. Humorously, that credit was in literature.
He also came first in a nationwide entrance examination into Nigeria’s first university institution; the University College Ibadan which earned him both a scholarship to study Medicine and the privilege of being a pioneer student of the almighty University of Ibadan.
Achebe studied Medicine for one year but out of an undying love for the arts, he voluntarily switched to English, History and Theology in his second year, consequentially forgoing the bursary.
Upon graduation, he worked as an English teacher in Merchants of Light Secondary School, Oba for four months and later in 1954, he joined the Nigerian Broadcasting Service (NBS) in Enugu and just two years after being employed, he was nominated to train with the British Broadcasting Corporation (BBC) in England.
Shortly upon return to Nigeria, he was promoted to the controller of the Eastern Region at the NBS.
It was in the course of work in NBS that he met Christine Chinwe Okoli whom he will later get married to on the 10th of September 1961 at the University of Ibadan’s Chapel Of Resurrection.
While still at the NBS, he became the founding editor of Heinemann’s African Writers Series in 1962 and travelled to the United States, Britain and Brazil on a UNESCO fellowship in 1963.
Chinua Achebe was transferred to Lagos where he rose to the position of Director of external Broadcasting. He will work here till May 1967 when the safety of the Igbos became threatened following the riots and ensuing pogroms that had already began.
He returned to Enugu and got busy by setting up The Citadel Press; a publishing firm co-owned with Christopher Okigbo.
In 1968, he was invited by Col Odimegwu Ojukwu to serve on a political committee; the National Guidance Committee.
It is this committee that eventually drafted the Biafran “constitution” which posterity will forever remember as the Ahiara Declaration.
He will also be appointed into the BOFF (Biafran Organization of Freedom Fighters) to help the government develop an education strategy for soldiers of the Biafran Army that would improve civilian-military relations.
Chinua Achebe served as an unofficial envoy to the people of Biafra.
Under this capacity, he visited Senegal, Sweden, Finland, Norway, Canada, Uganda, the USA to not only solicit international support but also draw the world’s attention to the humanitarian emergency his country needed.
Despite being older to Col. Odimegwu Ojukwu and the fact that both of them were married to sisters, Chinua Achebe exuded respect, professionalism and decorum in all the assignments he was given to carry by Ojukwu.
The civil war ended in 1970 and Chinua relocated to the United States of America; he began lecturing at the University of Massachusetts and the University of Connecticut from 1972 to 1976.
Upon the assasination of his hero Gen. Murtala Muhammad in 1976, Achebe returned to Nigeria to continue teaching at the University of Nigeria Nsukka and in 1979; he was given the Nigerian National Merit Award and the Order of the Federal Republic.
Overwhelmed with the hunger for a better Nigeria with the right leader, he joined the People’s Redemption Party in 1983 and was appointed as its Deputy National President but he was disappointed and quit when he observed that asides Mallam Aminu Kano and a minute few, the vast majority of the characters he met in the political circles were in it for their own selfish advancements.
Further frustrated by President Shehu Shagari’s failure to fight corruption and the takeover of democracy by Gen Muhammadu Buhari’s military coup, he left and concentrated his attention on artistic and intellectual causes.
In 1986, he was appointed Pro Vice Chancellor of the Anambra State University, Enugu and returned to teach at the University of Massachusetts in 1987.
On the 22nd of March 1990 while on a trip to Lagos from Ogidi, Anambra State where he had just been made Chairman of the Village Council, Chinua Achebe’s car somersaulted severally when an axle in it broke off. The weight of the car landed on him severely damaging his spine.
He was swiftly attended to in a hospital and eventually flown out to England for urgent Medicare. After months of recuperation in Paddocks Hospital Buckinghamshire, England; he came out with an even stronger intellect but from his waist down had been paralyzed necessitating a lifetime use of the wheelchair.
His medical condition will make him move back to the United States mostly on a medical exile.
Chinua Achebe was born on November 16th, 1930.
That was 90 years ago. But today Chinua Achebe still commands the respect given to gods. He was a teacher, a leader, a mentor, with a lifelong uncurable allergy to sycophancy.
He repeatedly turn down national awards simply because people who pulverized his once great country into ruins were also recipients of such awards.
He did not think twice when he turned down Curtis “50 Cent” Jackson’s $1 Million offer for the rights to the title “Things Fall Apart” for his movie.
A spokesman for Achebe’s Foundation politely informed the movie producers that the rights to the title will not even be sold for $1 billion not only because the novel “Things Fall Apart” was first produced in 1958; some whooping 17 years before 50Cent was born, but because it was also listed as the most widely read book in modern African literature; an honor that could not possibly be exchanged for cash.
He served as a Charles P Stevenson Professor of Languages and Literature in Bard College in Annandale-on-Hudson, New York from 1990 to 2008
At the time of his death on 21st of March, 2013 aged 82, Chinua was professor at the David and Marianna Fisher University and also a Professor of Africana Studies at Brown University in Providence, Rhode Island.
Chinua’s political ideologies metamorphosed from blaming colonial leaders for Africa’s troubles to outright criticism of African leaders for their corruption and leadership malaise. He also did not condone the docility of citizens who allowed their future and wellbeing be trampled on by bad leaders.
If he is not repulsed enough to look down on our country from above, I am sure he will be slightly impressed that at last the citizens are slowly realizing what boundless power they command with the success of their last nationwide protest against bad governance.
But I doubt he will be even distantly impressed with what NwaAmaikpe has become. Because rather than cause havoc and awake a consciousness with the pen, I am only causing havoc with the penis.
God help my poor debased soul. Now I properly realize what everyone sees in you. You're not some other Nigerian clown prowling around on the cyberspace, you're an intellectually gifted and a sass-filled user of the web. I love it. 16 Likes |
| Romance › Re: Man Lavishes N2m, iPhone Meant For Business On His Girlfriend by cassyrooy(m): 9:00pm On Nov 15, 2020 |
Lawsaite:
 . Big lessons oo. I just use end of 2020 sign am off. It's been a rough year.
2021 be nice  Lol! Make Una chill for 2021 to come now, too much expectations can make the year as terrible for those who hard plenty to expect from 2020. Please, let's be patient and see what it will birth for us all. Na beg I dey beg o. |
| Romance › Re: Man Lavishes N2m, iPhone Meant For Business On His Girlfriend by cassyrooy(m): 8:38pm On Nov 15, 2020 |
Lawsaite:
I am telling you oo. Me sef had my brush with peril and ruin few days ago.
I japa for my life but I'm still suffering damages.
Na only God save me say the thing no pass as e deh now.
And it wasn't woman. It can never be woman for me. I'm equally glad you came out of it with a lesson. Go and make decisions with your experience, and avoid perilous paths. |
| Romance › Re: Man Lavishes N2m, iPhone Meant For Business On His Girlfriend by cassyrooy(m): 6:47pm On Nov 15, 2020 |
Lawsaite:
Oga trust me, no one is perfect.
Something must kill a man. It might not be woman in your own case. No be lie o. When peril and ruin comes for a man, only few has the wherewithal to withstand such perilious end. Very tragic what happened to our fellow comrade. |
| Family › Re: Men... We Need To Stop This!!! by cassyrooy(m): 6:42pm On Nov 15, 2020 |
MissJoy29:
Cassy love...are you safe? Hope you are good. My phone is bad Uto'm, I am fine now! Yeah, I'm doing great dear. So sorry about your phone. How are you doing yourself? |
| Romance › Re: Man Lavishes N2m, iPhone Meant For Business On His Girlfriend by cassyrooy(m): 6:40pm On Nov 15, 2020 |
This story sweet me die.
One useless efulefu just ruined himself.
Make person no curse that girl o, don finally do wetin devil send her to do and nothing else fit touch her.
Big ups for such women that continue to make examples off stupid men. |
| Celebrities › Re: Don Jazzy Leads EndSARS Protest (Video) by cassyrooy(m): 7:37pm On Oct 10, 2020 |
myBraine:
Why is it that of all the problems ravaging this nation, ending Sars is the people's biggest priority.
Truly, there's a hidden agenda by the youths to sabotage government from Nigerian leaders.
I can't imagine any of this youth becoming my president anytime soon. I suggest it's high time we in the Northern hemisphere take a countermeasure. We need to protest against this protest.
In America, it was kiddos that were busy developing their country. Mark Zuckerberg, Bill Gate, Steve Jobs, Steve Wozniak, Paul Allen, Larry Page and Jeff Bezos all created a city called Silicon Valley while still in college. Today, the city host the biggest tech companies in the world. What have our youths here done to warrant them the privilege to protest? Tell them to venture into lucrative ventures like agriculture and they'll call you a cave man.
It is high time the military comes in. You're mentally unfit to be in the commity of sensible individuals not to mention very oppressed Nigerians at that. If you're not one of them, or a paid damage control mole, or just some biological mistake, just tell me how you could possibly think up what you wrote and see sense in it. I know it's an easy thing for anyone to just insult another online but this is very difficult for me typing these to you. Shut up when protests that can change societies are being carried out or better still, go and tell these irate protesters to their face on Monday or any other day. |
| Celebrities › Re: Paul Okoye 'Rudeboy' Joins #EndSARS Protest In Lagos (Photo) by cassyrooy(m): 10:26pm On Oct 08, 2020 |
Solsix:
SE no go join end sars campaign, nah our shops dey important pass human lives There were protests in Owerri and the DPO even slapped someone and wanted to shot. And things really happen differently in the East, Ipobs and Python Dance never finish o. |
| Politics › Re: Falz: We Want SARS Completely Abolished, Not A Reform by cassyrooy(m): 7:29pm On Oct 08, 2020 |
Very nice move, I fear the law enforcement agencies in Nigeria than actual criminals.
FRSC, Police, SARS, Army, Customs, Immigration, just name them, the precedents can really quake your heart out from your mouth. |
| Family › Re: Men... We Need To Stop This!!! by cassyrooy(m): 11:35pm On Oct 04, 2020 |
I love this, sincerely, we need to phase out the old ways of treating women and be better men to them because our mothers, sisters, daughters et al deserves our best too. |
| Family › Re: Help My Husband Lacks Self Control by cassyrooy(m): 11:22pm On Oct 04, 2020 |
IamD18:
If only people will leave sex, cheating and money to focus on important things during courting, we won't have people in miserable marriages or high rate of divorce.
Anger management, personalities, addictions, abuse, level of mutual understanding, friendship, goals, genotype, differences, family background and histories are very very underrated in relationships these day.
Sex, money, birthday, hanging out, cruise, sexchat, cooking and gifts are the only things existing in 99.742% of relationships in Nigeria. You're exceptional with your comment. I love it. |
| Romance › Re: Mention A Nairaland Moniker And Guess His/her Age by cassyrooy(m): 4:27pm On Oct 03, 2020 |
MissJoy29:
Yes hun. Oza...
Lol...I'm not selling. I ain't Esau Lol! Happy weekend anyway. Hope you're doing well? |
| Sports › Re: Troost-Ekong Moves To Watford From Udinese by cassyrooy(m): 12:06pm On Sep 30, 2020 |
ignis:
Let him look like Buhari atleast Abeg o, that name doesn't have a good fragrance around it o. |
| Sports › Re: Troost-Ekong Moves To Watford From Udinese by cassyrooy(m): 9:30am On Sep 30, 2020 |
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| Romance › Re: Mention A Nairaland Moniker And Guess His/her Age by cassyrooy(m): 8:23pm On Sep 28, 2020 |
MissJoy29:
Ok sir. You tell me in the oza side.
I have received enough preaching about it. I can't wait to actually begin Oza side? Sounds tempting.. Hope you can contain the shock when you eventually gets to hear it? Okay o. We shall get to see, maybe na you go run put your adulthood for sale. |
| Romance › Re: Mention A Nairaland Moniker And Guess His/her Age by cassyrooy(m): 8:11pm On Sep 28, 2020 |
MissJoy29:
Lol...either 36 or 37. Go joor.
I can't wait to graduate o I go tell you my real age later, I no want make people sabi.. Shebi you ready for life after school? Make I no scare you sha but e no easy here o. |
| Romance › Re: Mention A Nairaland Moniker And Guess His/her Age by cassyrooy(m): 8:01pm On Sep 28, 2020 |
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| Romance › Re: Mention A Nairaland Moniker And Guess His/her Age by cassyrooy(m): 10:26pm On Sep 27, 2020 |
Lol! MissJoy29 is 24. |
| Family › Re: How Do You Save People's Number On Your Phone by cassyrooy(m): 1:05pm On Sep 25, 2020 |
First name, middle name and last name (and nicknames too), date we first met if I still remember, birthday, your city of residence and any other details I know about you. |
| Romance › Re: "Men From Age 19 To 27 Are Liabilities, Don’t Date Them" - Nigerian Lady Warns by cassyrooy(m): 7:33pm On Sep 21, 2020 |
pocohantas:
I wouldn’t call them liabilities, because not many of them would start billing you like their female counterparts.
However, they are just not very established , ready or mentally stable- but that is normal for youths within that age bracket. Females are not left out. Except she can explain her concept of ASSETS and LIABILITIES. The palm wine in your village is the true and original one. These guys are not really self reliant, or even self sufficient. There's schooling (jamb and ASUU strike dey o), then job hunting, paying bills, staying afloat etc. But I still agree to disagree with her, some are so because they're ignorant of who they should be, and others fall within this list because factors beyond their control made it so. To guys, if you're here, do not think much about it, strive to get out and become someone who's self reliant, because even at 35 self, some dudes are still grappling with their finances, women, alcohol etc. |
