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CaveAdullam:
1. In this world, loyalty is based on benefits. People don't choose to be loyal for the sake of loyalty. They are loyal when you're at the top and they have something to gain.

Yes, there's true loyalty. But it's like a black swan. Or a needle in a haystack. True loyal people are rare. They are outliers who have bypassed selfish human tendencies just for the sake of benefits.

2. The average human sees other persons as goods priced in the market. If you don't worth it, they don't touch it. Like tools to be used to their advantage.

It's this selfish tendency, this myopic trait that continues to plummet a society. When we see each other as tools, we engaged in various schemes to con and manipulate ourselves. The smartest con wins.

3. Many people that claim loyalty will run with the wind when things are no longer rosy for you. Nobody wants to go through the dark with a lowborn.

To finagle with the man at the bottom as he scurries his way to the top is a gamble. Hence, better to fly from him and pitch a tent in the corridor of a shining man.

4. The grandmothers and mothers we are proud of today, who stick to their poor husbands did so because of religious and cultural backlash, shame, the uncertainty of the future, lack of social media exposure, and low sexual market value.

Many of them aren't loyal for the sake of loyalty. They were not tested with other opportunities and were scared of the rebuttals and criticisms, hence, their withdrawal from open infidelity.
Some that remained faithful are contemptuous towards their husbands. There's an internal battle going in their minds that passes off as subtle insults, ridicule, and low respect for the man.

5. As a man, if you're at the bottom of life, nobody cares about you. If you think you can win true loyalty and a true companion you're outrightly deceiving yourself. The highest you will get are motivation or pretentious love and care.

6. Women based on their evolutionary and biological makeup can't submit to broke, poor, and lowborn men. It's a dangerous mission. A gamble that affects her sexual market value, her age, and fertility if the said man never turns green.

Women desire strong, rich, and powerful men because their womanly nature is weak, fragile, tender, and scared. Submitting to a broke man increases her fears.

7. However, this doesn't means a woman can't use her cerebral to judge matters. Wisdom is profitable to all. But women are sentimental and myopic.

It takes a courageous woman to struggle with a man at the bottom and remain faithful and loyal, and retain her feminity; such women occur as the periodic appearance of an eclipse. They take the gamble because they are banking on your ambitions.

We all want to benefit from each other. But this companionship at the bottom is because she loves you and wants to see both of you fruitful and multiply. Not what she will gain per se.

8. As a poor, broke man, you need to understand the way of women.
However, the first lesson you must know: romance is a facade until proven otherwise.

Since romance is a facade, you must not become obsessed with romantic feelings and lust toward your spouse.

Your major concern should not be how to keep this woman, though you need to know how to mold and keep a woman. Your concern should be how to move from bottom to top, unhindered by the presence or absence of a woman.
Reason: to avoid unnecessary distractions, and the halving of your time, energy, and resources between your goal and a woman.

9. These are some ways you can deal with this ungrateful myopic weak leech:

a. As a gentleman, end the relationship and everything with her.

b. Don't complain about her latest form of prostitution. Wear a smile. Use her as your sexual partner to relieve your libido. When you're satisfied, gaslight and dump her.

c. Use her as leverage to get some resources and money that can help you + option 2 above.

d. You can become her p!mp. Kill the emotions and go get your money.

Note: option b, c, and d, may not end up well or come back with a malicious attack as revenge. So, option a is better.

Don't allow ungrateful people to roam freely.
Treat everyone accordingly.
Don't throw pearls before swine.
Give to God what belongs to God. Give to Caesar what belongs to Caesar.

Thanks.

heartofcity12:
CaveAdullam CaveAdullam CaveAdullam, I call you thrice in tinubu’s voice . I greet you specially in dbanj’s voice😂.You finish talking boss🙌😃

PstDapo:
Good afternoon sir,
Pls some of us don't have data to view Twitter, I'm currently using freebasics due to my current economic realities, Nigeria to hard for me, but your post keeps me going, please can you post the full thing in full forums opened on other thread or directly here.

Thank you Sir

Zabiboy:
Isn't it best to advice him on how to control his urges and need for sex?
I mean, telling a guy to join organizations or do things he has little to no interest for just to get something with 0 value doesn't really sit well with me...
Some of the things he said is true, no doubt, most female's with even the smallest attractiveness in the poverty capital of the world would deff. want to cash in as much as possible.. But for me personally and this also to you Eric247, you are only worried about something if you think you can't stay with/without( depending on the case) it.
You can comfortably go the next 10,20,59 years without sex and still be enjoying yourself. If you are less bothered about getting sex and the likes, trust me, you'll be far less concerned about sex being hard/easy, prostitution rising/falling, etc...
Takes me to my next post Sex has little to nothing to do about libido or testosterone, it is 100% about your current state of mind. Meaning it can be controlled

luminouz:
Damn. This fine dude disfigured like that?

Please, what did the law do to the ex?

Hedgefunds:
Cave How's work and fam....EASTER Greetings .