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1. What you'll become in life is positively correlated with your family background and the surrounding environmental influences.

The possibility of breaking out from a vicious cycle of familial poverty is ultra-thin. There are high chances of dying poor when you are procreated from poor gametes.

2. Geography determines your destiny. The place where you spend most of your time is a factor that either helps you achieve your dreams or die a dreamer.

Poorer and undeveloped countries have the highest number of squandered talents and frustrated ambitious people. The only way these people can manage to succeed in the most reasonable ways is through:

A. Migration to a better geography.

B. Wrestling with ugly powers withholding change.

However, both are difficult.

3. People show sympathy out of pretense. Doing so makes them feel alright and not because they want to help you. When you seek their help, they degrade you.

4. You can't gain something from anyone when you lack something. Appeal to pity isn't a better strategy. People would rather help a rich man who loses some investment than a poor man struggling for breakfast.

Reason: People believe that in a short time, the rich will bounce back. But the poor man has no hope.

If you're poor, find anything to hold on to and leverage. But some do leverage vices though, which ends in trouble + it's a myopic strategy to success.

5. People don't value wisdom. The beautiful and charming fool is more appreciated than the sage. People only value wisdom when they are in dire need. But when they've convalesced, they are lured by glittering masks.

6. You're loved to the extent of how usable you are. The higher the attraction towards you is an indication of the volume of value you produce.

Ants go to sugar; moths to light bulbs; parasites to healthy hosts.

You're not loved. You're just a tool. A means to an end.

To solve this problem, start a relationship as a business and see if it will end in kindness. Except in conditions where the opposite end is starting with kindness.

7. You want favors. You want promises. Because they're shortcuts to your desires. Because they tend to make you want to work less. However, they're dangerous.

Unfulfilled promises and favors drain you more than making several trials and attempts. It blocks your ambitions and reduces your speed.

Don't make promises. Give at that moment when you can. Don't tell anyone tomorrow when you don't know if you'll see tomorrow. And don't take promises to heart.

8. Everyone you'll come across in life will tell you they have a high preference for truth. But what they are trying to say is "they have a high preference for statements, ideas or opinions that don't offend their ego". Tell them something that runs counter to their sentiments and they'll unleash hades on you.

The average person is either a con man or a liar. Probably, both.

9. Nobody is coming to help you. Don't think of any. On a deeper level, all humans need help.

You'll see help along the way. But start to walk alone.

10. Contentment is a hoax. You think you'll be satisfied if you have just one. And if you gain one, you want two to make you feel comfortable; three to have some in your reservoir; four to save for the future; five to help your loved ones; six to boost your ego; seven to make you become a ruler...it never ends.

Bonus: Gift is a form of power. Cunning people used it to bid time. They're coming to leverage that gift for a needed job. Make an exchange when necessary as it saves you from being a pawn on people's boards.

Thanks.

pansophist:
That was even four years ago, right now, it has even increased

Yes, I exhibit all those traits I wrote there. There is nothing special with what I wrote, at least I think so. I think Caveadullam is also like that, he is one of the most eccentric individuals I know.

Na small thing remains, I can even predict the future. I have come to see life as a screenplay, and from your actions today, I can predict with a high probability what your life will be like in years to come.

Just as you plant an apple seed and you are sure in months time, you will reap apples, life is like that. So I think over the years, I have learned very deeply about the functions of reality, and don't trouble myself with most things.

Also, it helps you sophisticate yourself better, as you see life as vain and something to enjoy, and accept when death comes. Things that will fall most men, won't fall on me.

You are a fine girl abi? sweet. I will just admire you from afar. You can't get me like Delilah got Samson. Do you want to bribe me? lol. I don't care how much you are giving me, I am not motivated by money in my operations.

Do you want to manipulate me? Lol. Oya come and try. I will not talk, I will be studying your operation like a scientist, and when you want to reap the fruits of your manipulations, I will now show you your work

I also think I become more empathetic. I see life as meaningless, full of sorrows, and pain, even within wealthy folks. Which makes compassion and being easy on others a habit.

Also, I hardly keep anything in mind. I write like I hate you, with tough words and hard-hitting punchlines, but it ends there. I can yab you right now, then buy you a beer in the next mins. I am also hard on myself like that, hence, I do not tolerate nonsense within me.

Make I stop here sha.

You lead. I follow.

"make I first try handle this serious sapa before I resume writing again".

Tinubu wan kill me.

Sigh.

Promiscuity has its downsides - emotional instability, psychological imbalance, low productivity, sexually transmitted diseases/infections, inability to hold stable sexual relationships for long, low pair-bonding ability et al.

However, what you the OP raised as evidence against promiscuity is dumb and lacks credibility. You don't need to sprinkle lies and religious balderdash to substantiate your claims.

Comments, posts, or lectures like this take place in environments, cultures, or societies plunged by fear and low development - low IQ and undeveloped + highly religious places. Quotidian in Africa which ultimately serves as a good example.

If you're poor and dumb you'll always find reasons for your sorrows and predicaments. Making such statements becomes a convenient excuse to pander to your ego instead of looking at your limitations - within and without.

Nothing wrong with leg chains, waist beads, and tattoos. Except you share the same whacked mentality with necklaces, rings, eyeglasses, and wristwatches. Even at that, you're still wrong. Bodily ornaments are to endow the body and look beautiful.

Religious people hold this nonsense ideology. Fact-check: Many are poor, and lack creativity and productivity despite their awareness of dos and don'ts they construe as supernatural phenomena to avoid these drawbacks.

Of course, not many men and women are worthy to be called your spouse. They are problematic individuals that must be avoided to save your sanity and existence.

Thanks.

1. Sex doesn't happen by mistake.

And women are the gatekeepers of sex. Sex can't happen without the consent of the woman. That's why I find it amusing when women complain of deadbeat dads. Meanwhile, from the onset, they have the sole authority to judge if a man should have access to their body.

2. A good woman reveres her body. Her body is her holy temple built for only one worshipper - her husband. Intruders don't protect, rather they raid and take spoils. Ditto for men women give leeway to their bodies. Hence, prostitutes are not options or are below the least of options when scouting for wife materials.

3. Sexual temptations are around the corner. But women aren't as tempted as men who suffer a high volume of testosterone which causes an upsurge in their libido + are sexually aroused by sight, thoughts, touch, and smell of eroticism, and are more promiscuous than women.
No matter the temptation, women can still hold their gates firm. But the hyper-sexualized culture + the ramblings of feminists and woke dumb individuals, are luring women to their downfall.

4. Your ability to overcome temptation is credible evidence that you're good. When she falls for sexual sins by "mistake" it indicates she was never good but pretentious.

Thanks.

Their parents were caught at last.

Damn.

Ouch.

Guys are hooked too.

The Economics of Poverty.

Yawn.

Dear young man, if it is a private school please don't go.

You'll end up being a shadow of yourself a few months into the job.

Better to stay at home and have peace and strategize from there. Except you want to experience the meaning of "a miserable life or smiling and suffering". Pity your mental health, my dear fellow.

Possible exception: part-time in a skilled subject like music or languages.

Enter the street and do the dirty work now. Private schools are confidential abyss for teachers.

Think of a private tutorial or home lessons if you love teaching.

I'm telling you this if you value your peace of mind.

Au revoir.

pansophist:
Mtcheew.

Probably have not read anything from Ogbeni caveadullam. You go see English, you go wish it's your native tongue.

"For wia. How many English language I know. You forget say na you dey show me road abi".

Well done, sir.

Karleb:
I don't see any there. Maybe you can show me, respectfully.

You can be a genius with the highest IQ and still have a very horrible character while another person could have an average IQ and be a very good person.

There is a story of a freed slave that went into the business of salary and was grinding more results than the white slavers so much so the white slavers had to come meet him to tell them how he does that. As told by Dave Chappell.

@bolded, hope you know there's a difference between IQ and the big 5 personality traits.

Well done, sir.

Karleb:
If we can agree that on average, black people are stronger than other races. This was proven beyond doubt during slave trade.

Then we should be able to agree that white are superior in terms of how they think.

Not that they have higher IQ or more intelligent but they just tend to think better even when they are doing bad.

Of course there are exceptions to this rule.

I hope you see the contradiction @bolded.

Well done, sir.

pansophist:
Sad to think.

I agree with you. I had an argument with Caveadullam I think two years ago, where he was saying that the black race is mentally inferior. I vehemently disagreed with him, but I keep seeing pieces of evidence that prove his point.

It is a cold hard fact, but nevertheless, I just find it hard to accept. Even in the US, the so-called black lives matter only when white cops kill black folks. But most of the gun deaths of black people are caused by other black people.

In Canada for example, I have a few friends that migrated there from Europe, and it was white folks that helped them with this thing called LMIA for free, but other black folks like them are charging about 30-40k CAD usd for sponsorship.

We don't think as a community, we constantly stab each other just to get ahead. We don't help. Even here on nairaland, scammers full everywhere hiding as visa agents. Tribal bigots flourish, and hate based on religion is even a thing.

So yes you are right. Even if Biafra secedes, or Oduduwa, the smaller groups will find divisions amongst themselves to hate each other. The bigger one will oppress the smaller one.

Secession doesn't even have to happen to observe this reality. Even in villages in some Igbo states, they won't allow their daughter/sons to marry from another village. Ironically, they see no problem if their children marry a white man.

I will say we are almost finished as a people. The whites don't bother about us at all. We are a defeated people, by our own actions.

This and @emmaodet conclusion is why I told you about that pet theory of mine.

Hedgefunds:
People are feeling it...do you trade in ngx or NYSE at all?

Nope.

Did Instafx one time and my money disappeared.

Notwithstanding, I'm open to new ideas and progress.

Thanks.

Hedgefunds:
@CaveAdullam , Hope you feeling the New Gorvt....May God help us...Door Open sir.

"Na ghost mode I enter so o...the feelings have killed me".

I recently published a children's storybook. "Fuel nor go let send hard copy. Make I send soft copy first".

Let me scroll through my inbox and search for your email address, then, send.

Well done, sir.

Good afternoon, peeps.

@Hedgefunds and Tonnyray, I got something for the kids.

Please, do open the door.

Cc. emmaodet, "I don drop am for your email o".

Thanks.

Hedgefunds:
Longest time cave, how's the economy at ur end?

Well done, sir.

The economy is kind of we are in apocalypse mode.

The nation has never been retrogressing at a faster pace than this. The untainted law of the jungle has almost surfaced. We're doomed!

Sigh.

pansophist:
A perfect day is when I accomplished all the goals I set for the day and go to bed without carryover.

Caveadullam, and Gerrard59

I don't struggle with emotions. I flow with whatever dictation of the day by leveraging all the circumstances before me.

My perfect day is like this: reading, eating good food, interacting with someone like Pansophist before going to bed, and sharing my acquired knowledge and experience. And accomplishing daily tasks.

Naira Marley or Kcee music are good relaxant but keeps my body in motion.

Cc. Hedgefunds, Tonnyray.

Authority: Be wise.

AndroidAI:
My friend, you are the daft one. Everything you are eating today has been engineered, even the fresh fruits and vegetables you eat. Go and starve to death because you don't trust scientists breeding fruits or animals that are less prone to diseases, promises early harvest, and a much sweeter and fatter versions of them. The potatoes and other plants that you enjoy today were originally like pebbles until they were engineered to become bigger, sweeter, and suitable for eating. If you don't want anything that have been tampered, you will starve to death because everything has been tampered. Cassavas have been tampered with. Tomatoes, peppers, melons... Anything you can think of that grows. That's why cassavas that often stays 2 years before harvest now require just 6 months. Scientists have saved the world, but dumb folks will never stop undermining them.

I agree with your submission. Nice point.

Plenty of the foods we eat today have been genetically modified. Even most of the fruits we praise. Especially those of the citrus and maize families.
Genetical modifications have been going on for centuries when it comes to food. Plants are laboratory toys for genetic engineers.

Allergy to food or other products is strongly rooted in the biophysical makeup of the individual. That's why most of us are allergic to foods that cause the growth of others. Africans have been binging on chocolate and carbohydrates for eons, yet, the rate of obesity is still low. Take note: obesity is inheritable.

The problem is the infusion of these (toxic) chemicals into different foods that the consumer will love to eat same time.

For example, Monosodium glutamate is present in many of the kitchen spices used together to prepare sweet aromatic food.
Consumption of these foods over time leads to body ailments. But these chemical compounds are present in tiny amounts in natural foods and cause no harm.

However, before these chemicals are added to food in any quantity, they are added in parts per million (ppm) to a neutral point not harmful to consumers.
The sachet and table water we drink is purified with chlorine. And chlorine is a dangerous chemical.

Whole synthetic food will be a fast killer. But it is not the case, and we don't see people dying every day. Though, many foods have been contaminated with chemicals to improve taste and color which has risen to increase the rate of allergy and predisposition to cancer.

The medical and pharmaceutical industries are not free though. Because there is a surge in these allergies and exposure to cancer due to food and drug consumption that would have been managed by encouraging whole foods and using natural remedies to cure ailments. It is business as usual. The masses are laboratory mice.

Moderation is key when it comes to these foods, and understanding your biochemical structure.

Inorganic or processed foods are more available and cheaper than organic foods, hence, consumers purchase more of them.

Thanks.

Thread: Man, Woman, and The Boundary

1. Relationships fail because men first fall in love before drawing and assigning boundaries. When a woman becomes romantically involved with a man, she's simply keying into his outline and frame.

2. Whether she has something to hide or unveil is dependent on that frame. Her respect is equivalent to the way she perceives him.

3. The man might double down on his values and principles to win a woman. However, when he does, he can't pick what he dropped to construct the defense of the union. The woman will find it difficult to absorb that reality because it's strange to her and hinder her agenda - genuine or deceitful.

4. The man must remain open to accepting her the way she is else chaos occurs due to constant friction and arguments about what must be and what shouldn't.

5. A promiscuous woman has the traits of promiscuity. Winning her with extreme kindness and love can't obliterate her desire for different men. Repentance be it religious, guilt, shame, self-improvement or self-discipline is a mere temporary sedation.

6. What she has exposed herself to for long will haunt her like a ghost - more handsome this time. She'll be tempted to create memories as with other humans, and can't hold up to their newly defined principles and will fall for the temptation again. Easier to avoid from the onset; withdrawal symptoms are harsh.

7. Women that grew up in a well-defined patriarchal community, with virile figures who are present and aware of societal changes and how they can affect them define themselves according to the customs.

8. Their tradition is not to keep women as slaves as the liberal society wants the unsuspecting to see it. But to protect these women from the unintended consequences of liberality without caution, guidance, and self-awareness.

9. The men they enter sexual union with within that community don't need to start defining dos and don't. Because the woman is already aware.

10. What the man does is build on this defined boundary and lead her and the family along. She knows what the man desires, and what is demanded of her by the community, hence, will comply.

11. When a woman who was formerly engaged with a jerk is pained, the heartbreak she suffers is because the jerk isn't willing to compromise his stance and gets subdued by her sermons and lectures. So, the relationship split.

12. Relationship is defined by boundaries. Formal and informal interactions are a result of boundaries set. Boundaries don't mean contempt, although, it's a solid response to contempt.

13. Boundary is important because it raises a bulwark around you, directs your movements, and also determines the people you would like to access you. The sight of boundaries already tells people how to behave and notifications of possible outcomes.

Thread: https://twitter.com/baba_cave/status/1676608467107192832?t=BoEj1YFYjOpXp6zb0c0Efw&s=19

1. Relationships fail because men first fall in love before drawing and assigning boundaries. When a woman becomes romantically involved with a man, she's simply keying into his outline and frame.

2. Whether she has something to hide or unveil is dependent on that frame. Her respect is equivalent to the way she perceives him.

3. The man might double down on his values and principles to win a woman. However, when he does, he can't pick what he dropped to construct the defense of the union. The woman will find it difficult to absorb that reality because it's strange to her and hinder her agenda - genuine or deceitful.

4. The man must remain open to accepting her the way she is else chaos occurs due to constant friction and arguments about what must be and what shouldn't.

5. A promiscuous woman has the traits of promiscuity. Winning her with extreme kindness and love can't obliterate her desire for different men. Repentance be it religious, guilt, shame, self-improvement or self-discipline is a mere temporary sedation.

6. What she has exposed herself to for long will haunt her like a ghost - more handsome this time. She'll be tempted to create memories as with other humans, and can't hold up to their newly defined principles and will fall for the temptation again. Easier to avoid from the onset; withdrawal symptoms are harsh.

7. Women that grew up in a well-defined patriarchal community, with virile figures who are present and aware of societal changes and how they can affect them define themselves according to the customs.

8. Their tradition is not to keep women as slaves as the liberal society wants the unsuspecting to see it. But to protect these women from the unintended consequences of liberality without caution, guidance, and self-awareness.

9. The men they enter sexual union with within that community don't need to start defining dos and don't. Because the woman is already aware.

10. What the man does is build on this defined boundary and lead her and the family along. She knows what the man desires, and what is demanded of her by the community, hence, will comply.

11. When a woman who was formerly engaged with a jerk is pained, the heartbreak she suffers is because the jerk isn't willing to compromise his stance and gets subdued by her sermons and lectures. So, the relationship split.

12. Relationship is defined by boundaries. Formal and informal interactions are a result of boundaries set. Boundaries don't mean contempt, although, it's a solid response to contempt.

13. Boundary is important because it raises a bulwark around you, directs your movements, and also determines the people you would like to access you. The sight of boundaries already tells people how to behave and notifications of possible outcomes.

Thread: https://twitter.com/baba_cave/status/1676608467107192832?t=BoEj1YFYjOpXp6zb0c0Efw&s=19

Good content. Nice video.

Reason by Omah Lay.

I had to caution myself. Binging on it back to back since when I first heard of it.

The downside of that song is the duration.

Laird:
My views may be tough but it is the reality and truth

Please in Africa. Children are not a sort of vanity Legacy or fertility pride.
Children are EXPENSIVE RESPONSIBILITIES.
IN NIGERIA THERE IS MASS UNEMPLOYMENT, LITTLE GOVERNMENT SUPPORT TO.CITIZENS AND HIGH LEVEL OF MASS POVERTY AND VERY SLIM OPPORTUNITIES TO ESCAPE POVERTY IF BORN POOR.

STOP GIVING BIRTH TO CHILDREN YOU CANT ESTABLISH

MOST SUCCESSFUL PEOPLES PARENTS HELPED TO.SET THEM UP FOR.SUCCESS THROUGH BUSINESS CAPITAL OR HIGH QUALITY TRAINING IN POTENTTALLY HIGH INCOME CAREERS

DAVIDOS FATHER AND DBANJS PARENTS SET THEM U IN MUSIC. . SAME FOR ADENUGA, DANGOTE, IYINOLIWA ABOYEJI, JEFF BEZOS, BOLA TINUBU, OSIBANJO, FEMI OTEDOLA, BEYONCE, MICHAEL JORDAN, KOBE BRYANT, MARK ZUCKERBERG , SAUDI PRINCE ALWALEED,, DONALD TRUMP, TIGER WOOD, DONALD TRUMP,FLOYD MAYWEATHER, TAYLOR SWIFT, JERMAINE DUPRI. EVEN PUFF DADDY HAS SET UP HIS SON IN THE MUSIC INDUSTRY

IMAGINE A CHILD FETCHING WATER OR SELLING ITEMS AFTER SCHOOL.WHILE ANOTHER CHILD IS TAKING EXTRA LESSONS IN PROGRAMMING OR OTHER POTENTIALLY HIGH INCOME SKILLS LIKE MUSIC OR FOOTBALL OR BASKETBALL

I WANT TO BE A MOTHER OR A FATHER IS NOT ENOUGH REASON AND IS A VERY SELFISH REASON TO BRING ANOTHER LIFE INTO THIS WORLD TO BE SUFFERING AND STRUGGLING.

MOST OF MY CHILD HOOD FRIENDS THAT ARE DOING BETTER THAN ME KEEP THEIR DISTANCE. EVEN THOSE THAT TALENT AND SKILL WISE HAD TO BE BAILED OUT BY THEIR PARENTS

A LOT OF FRIENDS TRAVEL OUT AND STOP KEEPING IN REGULAR CONTACT WITH ME. EVEN THISE WE USED TO.BE 5&6 . EVEN THOSE WHO I HAD NEVER ASKED THEM FOR A PENNY WHILE IN NIGERIA . HARSH, PAINFUL BUT IT IS WHAT IT IS.


LIFE IS ALREADY HARD AND HARSH AND EXPENSIVE ALREADY. THERE IS. NO GLORY IN STRUGGLING.
NO NEED TO BRING CHILDREN WITHOUT A VERY EXTREMELY STRONG SAFETY NET INTO THIS WORLD
That is why people in the developed countries have less children, they are aware of this knowledge . EVEN DELIVERY, BABY FOOD, DRUGS, RENT, SCHOOL FEES ARE ALREADY EXPENSIVE

DONT BRING ANY CHILD TO.THIS WORLD TO SUFFER OR START STRUGGLING. THAT IS MY 5&6

Gerrard59
lordadam
pansophist
capslocked
mjbolt
caveAdullam
luminouz
emmadoet

1. Yesterday, I saw a woman hawking boiled groundnut with her newly born child. Tightly tied to her back with a rough dirty wrapper.

The baby is between 3-4 months old. Meanwhile, the baby is the third of 3 children; the eldest is between 5-7 years, and the second child - is 3 years.

Before then, I have seen her struggling between heavy rainfall and scorching sunlight.

2. I love to see these children play. Their innocence when running and hiding from each other is a show of clean conscience.

Let me add: these children are physically beautiful. The combination of their voices, when they talk or sing is comparable to hosts of celestial bodies in procession for an angelic being.

3. They are not bothered by the economic status of their parents. Their clothes are worn out, but the joy they have within make them dance with them as if it was new.

Their understanding of the world is low and pure. Ignorance of human nature makes them mirthful every moment.

4. But each time the rays of my vision are cast on them, I see children who are lost in a world. This ignorance they enjoy is transient. From the lens of adulthood, they are suffering and deprived.

Twenty years from now, they will be challenged by reality. And their parents will be the first victim of their maliciousness due to their poor conditions.

5. The possibility of light at the end of the tunnel is ultra-slim. Because their parents can't even provide them with their basic needs. Their daily living is to find food and water to survive today, to have the strength to find food and water tomorrow.

6. The parents are hopeful, at least as adherents of religious faith, they are waiting upon God for a miracle, signs, and wonders.

7. Their optimism isn't wrong. However, they're not realistic. This is the reason there is a smooth transition of poverty from one generation to another. It is termed the "generational curse".

Predecessors didn't set any landmark or foundation for their children; the children still operate with the same technique as their predecessors.

This is the cycle of poverty. It lingers until someone in that genetic line, thinks and does things differently. Of course, it becomes a "supernatural miracle".

8. To understand why the poor reproduce, we must go back to evolutionary biology.

The goal of every living species is to have a safe environment for survival and reproduction. Myriads of adaptive features and behaviors are predicated on this template.

9. Wealthy people reproduce fewer children because they have ensured a good environment and made provisions for the survival of their children. Children can live for a long and reproduce successfully because they have the prerequisites necessary for survival and the spread of their genes.

10. Should I tell you about poor men?

They reproduce a higher number of children because they are not in the right environment and are low in resources expedient to cater for their children to ensure their survival.

Should in case one child die or become unable to reproduce, they have other children who can spread their genes.

Remember: it's all about survival, reproduction, and the spread of genes.

11. I understand the problem of the black tax. However, life is give and take.

Your parents and family helped you from infancy to adulthood until you become firm to survive on your own. This is because they want you to help them when they are weak and old.

No parents want evil for their children. It is our declining culture and poor economic conditions that are making us feel bad about our parents.

Our parents are guilty of their mistakes. But they also operated based on their knowledge and exposure.

Your parents and family will depend on you whether you are poor or rich. It is a cry for survival. And if you fail, it does everyone badly, as the family gene can't spread in the genetic pool.

You may say that you didn't choose to be in this world. Nobody does actually. Since you are here, make do with what you can instead of losing yourself to uncorrectable mistakes and wandering thoughts.

12. Sex is sweet. Good for the rich and poor. They will work to have a taste of it and its results - pleasures, and children.

If there is development on a national scale, citizens wouldn't want to reproduce many times.

Until then, the best is to advise poor people to reproduce the number of children they can cater to. Even though, we know it's a vicious cycle of poverty.

Thanks.

Cc. Hedgefunds, Emmaodet, Tonnyray, Reminderz, et al.,

Lastly

Cc. Hedgefunds, Tonnyray, Reminderz, et al.,

1. The love you refuse to give your daughter inside will destroy her outside.

Dear father, do you care for your daughters?

Dear mother, what do you teach your little girls?

The first place a woman can know and determine both platonic and romantic love is in the home.

2. Her interaction with her siblings and parents gives her a tangible idea of platonic love. This helps her to build and maintain a strong relationship outside. This kind of love is a plane she will stand to interact with most people.

3. Good observation of her father and mother or married siblings helps her determine what kind of treatment and romantic love that is required of the masculine to the feminine and how the feminine can open her portal to access that love.

4. There will be distortion in her idea about romantic love if there is no peace in the home. Homes, where the father and mother are not in love and unity create a great problem for the children.

5. It pushes the children away. Their view of love is tainted. Their search for love makes them enter dark corners filled with predatory companions. A union is formed - the relationship between a farmer and his little chick; when the chick gets fattened, it is consumed by the farmer.

6. They suffer abuse at the hands of people they call friends. A bucket crab association; of wicked smiles and untold pains. It gets to a point they are bamboozled not to rebel against abuse and misconstrue uncompassion as love.

7. Homes standing in a quagmire produce unstable children. This instability takes a negative turn in society.

8. Children from unstable homes don't meet up in education, got damaged emotional states, scattered psychological structures, and have poor social health. Their proclivity for sociopathic behaviors is high.

9. Parents that fall for the henpecking and cajoling of modern gender rhetorics and liberal culture are more dangerous. They expose their sons and daughters and watch them being sacrificed for nothing.

10. Your daughter doesn't need any sexual liberation. Her body is not her choice. Because with that body, she can either bring honor or shame to the home.

11. She must feel your love and understand the deeper meaning. Her liberation is within the boundary of this genuine love. Within, she gets to find the right man that you can pass the baton to continue to guard and lead her.

12. The moment you assume she's an adult and can leave freely, that moment her decline starts. The freer the woman, the higher the attraction of predators to her corridors. She becomes enticed by their appearances, lured by their baits, and wounded by their shining teeth.

13. Stable homes produce stable children. If your daughter is loved and guarded at home, her feminity will be protected from harm. She will become a mother of honor, a home builder, and the bearer of the philosopher and warrior.

Here: https://twitter.com/baba_cave/status/1668877382269140992?t=D0n8rhQKjjt02Y7xUGLFgQ&s=19

No equality.

Part 2

Cc. Hedgefunds, Tonnyray, Alhabaze, Reminderz, persephone1 et al.,

Who's your friend?

Here: https://twitter.com/baba_cave/status/1668301582209888271?t=7lQDGohUKPqium1lnDQmDA&s=19

1. Never pretend over disturbing marital issues. Make your feelings known. Don't hide any hurt.

All disturbing matters - sex, love, care, money, and attention must be discussed and solved.

2. Humans are multifaceted in their dealings, relationship, characters, and behavior.

The friend that helps you in becoming competent and makes you shine like a newly born twinkling star might be the same friend that may lure you to crime or evil.

Know when and where to draw the line.

3. Desperation is dualistic: you need it to uplift yourself from a lower state. Desperate people do desperate things. Being desperate isn't evil.

However, with every adventure be able to acquire the right tool and knowledge to reach a worthy end.

Your desires can be achieved from either a moral or immoral path. Let your desperation steer you toward the moral path.

4. Whatever you revere controls your heart. Set your mind on virtues and transcendental values.

You'll live above money even if you're poor; above lust even if you lack love; above materialism even if you lack goods.

5. Mentors are important in every journey in life. Make acquaintance with a mentor or master that has garnered wisdom through experiences, solitude, hunger, pain, and suffering in the path you're about to move.

They will help you thread carefully by refining you with lessons and avoidable errors.

6. Overcoming addiction or weaknesses has to do with a tough decision. You will overcome if you're resolute in your actions.

7. Be diligent in your duties. Let your competence shine. It will make men honor you. Be accountable. Don't engage in activities you can't fathom and perform accurately.

8. Have a goal. Pursue it. Use people that have accomplished such a goal as a benchmark.

9. Pride is the damn of all men. Be open-minded when in contact with what's superior to whatever you hold or believe. It's not an easy feat, especially for men who have reached a great height.

Attached to an archaic version after the emergence of a modern, polished, and refined version leads to stagnancy.

10. Be careful of every path you follow in life. Some paths you can't turn your back to retrace your steps. Some paths destroy. Some paths exhort.

Be cautious as you move.

11. Focus on your mission. Device means to overcome distractions that are capable of taking you far from your purpose.

12. Secrets are important. Know the person you tell your secrets.

Don't tell anyone your deep secrets when you don't know their deep secrets. Your companion must be proven to be loyal.

13. Don't make fun of those you're allocated to render help. Don't pollute them.

Leaders must lead effectively. Followers must decipher their leaders before following.

14. Loyal companions are known in times of trouble. Those that abandon you in dark moments are those that are there to share water with you. You share the same blood with the ones that stayed.

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1. The woman is a born Machiavellian. She can camouflage to protect or defend herself in the least forceful way.

2. Only a few people are skilled in understanding body language and can peep into the nature and character of a person by merely looking at them; making judgments through physique and appearance, looking at their faces and eyes.

3. To avoid wrong judgment when it comes to a skilled manipulative woman, you can know if she's promiscuous by elongating your communication with her.

During the discourse, don't act as a saint. Even if you're an angel, pretend to be like the average demon person who doesn't give a fvck about morals and values.

This makes her feel relaxed. She will find you comfortable and trustworthy, and open her well of dark secrets for you to see.
Make sure you throw jokes, smile, and laugh during the discourse. It eases tension. With good rapport, you'll get to know her better.

4. There are others you can predict their character from their mode of dressing, hair color, tattoos, multiple piercings, and spoken words.

However, judgment from this angle has more to do with cultural trends and what's acceptable by society. Notwithstanding, many ladies are guilty on this side of judgment.

5. The best way to discern with higher accuracy is the long form of communication and close contact.

Thanks.

Zabiboy:
Almost everything you said had no relationship with what i posted..
I neva made mention of "duration of marriage/longetivity" .. Then avoiding marriage to avoid loss? I'm lost honestly..Unless you quoted the wrong person..
But again, i'm only responsible for what i post, and i believe the post was straight forward.
Happy Sunday

What do you mean by this:

Zabiboy:
...i'll tell you this bro, dont kid yourself, the only reason why Nigeria is so-called "family/marriage oriented" is because of poverty.. You can't be hoping to get married and still be hoping not to be used/loved for your "provisioning ability"...