₦airaland Forum

Zabiboy:
I really hope those who said we are not "Redpill enough" cos we chose no to get married can come and educate us..
While we await their lecture, i'll tell you this bro, dont kid yourself, the only reason why Nigeria is so-called "family/marriage oriented" is because of poverty.. You can't be hoping to get married and still be hoping not to be used/loved for your "provisioning ability".
You think the opposite gender gets married because of love? Dey play
_{i'll stop here}

Proper discernment is expedient before throwing stones or castigations. Without it, your judgment will always be wrong.

Blacks are the least married compared to Hispanic, White, and Asians.

Blacks are most likely to divorce when compared to the aforementioned races.

Longevity of marriage is higher in Asians, Whites, and Hispanics before Blacks.

If poverty is while marriage still strives in Africa, then, how come Blacks' counterparts who are richer than them, more technologically advanced than them, and with more liberal culture still do better than them in marriage and family cohesion?

Marriage as an institution has a function and values. Marriage is a tangible contributing factor to family cohesion and societal development.

Though the institution has been flooded with a lot of abnormalities, it doesn't change its nature. Gloomy clouds filled with dark horrible smoke don't change the color of the blue sky.

Marriage has its problems which is understandable. And it's your decision to get married or stay unmarried. But using the avoidance of marriage as an excuse to avoid loss is ridiculous. Because at the end of the day, your houses, cars, cash, and luxuries will still land in the hands of a man/woman who will use them to further their course after your death.

In this life, you can't escape compromises. Pick your poison and move on.

Thanks.

People lack organizational skills. They give up when they don't meet expectations. Meanwhile, expectations are met when patterns are recognized and followed.

They never had things arranged and fixed appropriately. So when they fail, they blame it on the method and judge the system as inefficient. They are myopic to their foibles and the chaos they inhabit.

When the mind is littered, there is no way a man can achieve a result or match his opponent on the field. Order must reign within and without. Being organized ensures that terrains are traversed with ease.

The journey may be difficult. But if the mind is well aligned, it gets better rather than worst. Even if it gets worst, it is easier to track where the piece fell off and how to attach it to the puzzle.

Success might be an offshoot outside what has been planned. If this is the case, good organizational skills must cover the unexpected and must be considered along the margin of the organization.

Without organizational skills, the leader can't lead. Knowledge about leadership is not enough. The knowledge must be well organized to lead effectively.

This organization enables the followers to see and understand where appraisal and discipline rest, coordinating them to do better and achieve their common goal.

For a man to be able to lead his family, he must have an orderly way of handling the neurotic nature of the feminine and the ferocity that lies within her.

Within his frame, an organized man is a building with a hearth. And as the leader and owner of the house, rather than chaos, he fans her fire to provide warmth.

Things may not go as planned. Opportunity abounds and takes whatever shape, color, and style. However, this doesn't negate the importance of organization.

A wise man doesn't bank on chance and rare opportunities. He lay down a systematic way that aligns with his objectives to reach an expected end.

Here: https://twitter.com/baba_cave/status/1662158704773300237?s=20

musicwriter:
Indeed, they're everywhere.

The CIA, MI16, French secret services have been following me since 2015. I don't know how long back it goes but that was when I realized it.

Just in case you're interested in learning more, I actually blogged about the experience on my blog www.africason.com
Read the article that says "how the CIA and MI16 lure innocent people to commit terrorism"

Before 2015, I thought I knew the extent of neo-colonialism in Africa but that when I realized it's deeper than I knew.

We're still being colonized now, in fact, all our so called elites in Africa are all in their pockets and actively helping them to enslave the African continent.

You see agencies like EFCC and DSS? They are simply following their instructions. None is actually independent. I learned this the hard way, and I was devastated upon that realization.

Even the OPC group.

Who would think that an organization like Oodua people's congress (OPC) a Yoruba outfit would be used by white people to investigate an African trying to awaken fellow Africans? They used the OPC guys on me since 2015!! This is actually the first time I am saying this publicly because it has been a subject of my own investigation.

They've long infiltrated such organizations and actually used it against our interest. That's how deep it goes.

NOTE: they're also here on Nairaland.....many.

The black man on the African continent has chosen slavery instead of freedom.

I was watching a short video (couldn't here the audio clearly) interview of a catholic medical doctor yesterday where he made a revelation that a certain oversea group has bought all the federal government hospitals in Nigeria and has the National Assembly in their pockets.

Their sole aim is organ trafficking. During their meeting, the former deputy senate president, Ike Ekweremadu was among the leading official who was in relation with the medical group and other doctors.

byrron:
If you say so.
Check your email.

Good evening, Byrron.

I sent you an email.

I await your response.

Thanks.

Keep your sisters.

Protect their mother.

Safeguard your daughters.

Here:https://twitter.com/baba_cave/status/1659633193807429638?t=pDTRYDATwYfwTOAA_xJs_g&s=19

Provide for her.
Keep her.
Protect her.

You must safeguard her from danger.

Here: https://twitter.com/baba_cave/status/1659633193807429638?t=pDTRYDATwYfwTOAA_xJs_g&s=19

The difference between "real life" and the "theatre" is that in the former everybody is a participant. Unlike the theatre, spectators are not involved in the play or action, shielding themselves from the direct brutality on stage save for the negative emotions they feel when the actor they cheer is being tormented.

In real life, everybody is involved. Some are warriors, the ones who fight and champion change for the betterment of the whole or change predicated on rapacity, egocentrism, and arrogance.

You're either a warrior or a casualty. No hiding behind. Real life is a battle for survival, power, money, and control. You don't feel happy because your actor is winning as you witness in the theatre. You feel happy because you're winning in real life.

And as your wins are in a crescendo, the more you attract foes whose desires are to overthrow you. Sycophants and saboteurs get closer.

You're a reminder of their lowly state. Allies also begin to corral around you for assistance.

In real life, the only people that care are your tribes/family, however, which subsides with time as you mature into an adult.

In addendum, your ideas, beliefs, and principles make you come in contact with tribes aside from your bloodline; people who share the same beliefs with you - allies.

Everybody participates in real life. You can call it a game, war, or race. There is a competition going on within and without. You can't escape it. Comfort can't shield you. It is a web you've been launched into by being human.

Strategizing methods to fight and win is utmost as your life depends on it. From an aerial view, no rescue team is in sight approaching your direction.

In real life, you feel the direct effects of what actors face on stage + all the negative emotions of the spectators.

Fretting only destabilizes.

Like the actor or warrior, you must find possible maneuvers to stay afloat to the end.

Here:https://twitter.com/baba_cave/status/1659229632728559618?s=20

pansophist:
Gerrard59

In a bid to simplify this, I will ask you a few questions.

1. Can you name anything you know of, either a trade, substances (eg drugs), events (e.g. abortion performance), etc, that the government trying to ban it allows the dealers to go free, but arrest/punish only the buyers?

So for example, if I sell harmful drugs, I am free to distribute, manufacture, and advertise, but the government only punishes my customers, not me?

2. If I want to stop alomo bitters in the Nigerian market, Which method is more effective between these two scenarios? Scenario A. Ban importation and make it punishable for dealers to sell such services, AS well as make it punishable for customers to use such products.

Or scenario B, Punish only customers and let the dealers of alomo trade and conduct their business freely?


If you can answer both questions above correctly, then my point will be very clear.

Back to the issue, sellers/service providers always have more power to stop the circulation of a business. There are so many examples I can mention but is it necessary?

When Buhari doesn't want Twitter, he banned it, AND punish those using VPN to access it. That is more effective than just punishing Twitter users. In most countries, prostitution is illegal. If your method is correct, then it should be the other way around, right?

How can you ignore all the societal structures that encourage prostitution and punish only men? it makes no sense frankly. There are hotels specifically to house harlot, then nightclubs, then roadsides where the harlot stands, then hookup sites such as coded runs, and so much more.

You will ignore all these things and just go arrest men? Really? like REALLY? if you want to cut a tree, you do it from the root. You don't cut the fruits and declare success.

My point still stands. If prostitution has to stop, then women have to stop it, not men. Men could be punished for engaging in such services as trafficking girls, building hotels, and so much more.

But it is women, not men, that control sexual access. Not putting the blame on hungry girls that uses prostitution instead of hard work is infantilizing girls.

If the government bans prostitution, which means closing a lot of hotels, banning the site-coded runs, arresting any prostitutes found on junctions, and fining nightclubs heavily, prostitution will reduce overnight.

But to ignore all these and just go for men only? It won't end. A quick example. If I am the only one selling Amala in a city, I have the power to prevent everyone in that city not to eat amala if I refuse to sell. By the same analogy, only women, not men, have the power to stop it.

ANd about my saying that ´men create the society and women integrate into it´, creating a society also means banning prostitution. If men ban prostitution and also punish men luring girls for such services, it will end overnight.

cc. lordAdam16, CaveAdullam

1. Prostitution is an age-long profession. It can only be limited but can't be eradicated.

Prostitutes meet the demands for sex, both for men occupying the totem pole of society and the peasants fighting for crumbs at the bottom.
Prostitutes are for the lower men in the real sense since the men can't easily attract women because of their position in the hierarchy.

2. The proliferation of prostitution today is because of the liberal culture comprising people who have no religion and fear no GOD.
Religious laws have always helped checkmate human extremities.

Whether God exists or doesn't exists is not the debate here. The laws of God matter despite the fairy tales, myths, and allegories.

3. Societal decline takes various shapes. Prostitution is just a part of it.

What about cybercrime?
What about corrupt leaders?
What about sycophants?
What about vicious people?
What about weak-minded and complacent people?
What about the dumb and slug?
What about the drug dealers?
What about the transgressors?

4. Prostitution has a negative ripple effect in society, however, it poses less of a problem when compared with the aforementioned.

To be candid, prostitutes are not the problem of any decayed society; prostitution is a symptom and consequence of that decay, not the cause.

5. There is a moral deficiency in our society today. Immorality is being glorified. Integrity, truthfulness, humility, honesty, and braveness are being disdained.
Meanwhile, society shapes itself to what the people applaud and pass the batons to the next generation.

6. You can't tell the buyer not to buy fruit when you're selling fruits. And you sell fruits because you want the buyer's money. Prostitutes want money; men want sex. It is a simple exchange.

7. Sex is a common feature in the kingdom Animalia. No matter the restrictions placed, there will always be one man, one woman, one boy, or one girl that will still maneuver the restriction and have sex outside a defined relationship or marriage.
Drug dealers come to mind despite the jail sentences or death penalty if found culpable.

8. Prostitution is prolific in nations with poor economies; sex becomes a game of survival.

Prostitutes offer sex because they want money since no man can cater to their needs. Men want to have sex because of their high libido and it correlates with the act of passing their genes had it been they have their spouses they are cuddling by their bedsides.

9. To limit prostitution in underdeveloped nations, the economy of that nation must be improved. Then, men can live up to their standards and cater to their women and practice an agreed polygamous marriage. And women will choose better jobs or have resourceful men that will take care of them rather than opt for prostitution.

10. In developed nations, prostitutes reign because of a lack of morals. If there are more moral individuals who occupy top positions and know the effects of prostitution and promiscuity, especially on women, it will reduce.

11. No man can ban prostitution. The highest is haunting cathouses. And If it happens, trust me, many women will become sellers in the market while men will visit the market more. The church can be used as a place of contact and exchange. Even shopping malls, libraries, and event centers. The business is now stealthy and will become more expensive - compare this with hard drugs.

12. Incessant promiscuity damages both men and women and society at large.

Once society gets better by having better people just like Lee Kwan Yew, former prime minister of Singapore, and the people are enlightened about the long-term consequences of promiscuity and promiscuity not tolerated or applauded, prostitution will reduce to the ground.

Thanks.

Last

We do expect humans to act civilized and be kind at appropriate times, however, not the case.

Humans on Earth are like animals in the jungle. Of course, belong to the same kingdom Animalia.
Once you start seeing humans from the lens of wildlife documentary you'll expect less.

If you're open-minded, you'll see your deficiencies and foibles, and their replication worldwide.
This revelation may cause your change, but not so for others. Here, religion and patriotism enter the scene to harangue national change for peace and cooperation.

Sermons and adherence to laws are in contrast with the human nature.
Human nature wants to explore different boundaries and get their desires sated even though it means trampling on the mild, young, and innocent. This same behavior is observable and quotidian in the wild.

So for sermons to be considered and made effective, eternal punishment and eternal reward come into play.
State security is placed on alert to curb crimes and put implacable criminals behind bars.
Punitive and applause are tools to get human cooperation.

But the problem is that once the seat of power, justice, and mercy is being overthrown and occupied by a vicious being, law and order becomes only applicable to the weak and poor. Those vicious beings at the top leverage their new position to act as wild beasts.

This phenomenon is glaring on Earth.
The extension of despotic and neurotic leadership leads to national chaos, breeds juvenile predators, and growth of tiny parasites, sycophants, and saboteurs.

There's a complete loss of faith. The people are always in a state of chagrin.
Truth is relegated to the backseat. Falsehood and vices are lauded.
The righteous man doubts his stance. The immoral man is prideful in his ways.
There's no order. No peace. There are only shows of pretense and suffering.

This is the way of the Earth. The operations of mankind.
You don't need to wail, dine, and die on the table of complaints.
Like endangered species in the wild, you must develop structures and behaviors to survive, make counterattacks, run fast, and scale through to the end.

Here: https://twitter.com/baba_cave/status/1657631841287905282?t=pDd86fgp-jIVe4sXQ_reTQ&s=19

pansophist:
This is the best deal the West can dream of. How good can they have it?

1. Have Ukraine sacrifices their bodies in a proxy war with their sworn enemy (Russia). A war where they control the tempo, intensity, test weapons, sell weapons, study Russian military capabilities etc.

2. Rally and unite all their western allies. Strengthen NATO, bring in more members (Finland with Sweden loading), increase NATO budgets, and strengthen US grip in Europe.

3. Impose an unprecedented amount of sanctions no nations have ever received on Russia, and cut them off the global financial market, while gambling on Russia's internal destruction and balkanization due to internal hardship.

4. Clear the fog on who is on the Western side, or the eastern side. The world now have been effectively divided between two blocks, and the UN vote is a solid confirmation to it.

5. Kill as much Slavic people as possible. Even if Russia wins in Ukraine, Slavic population as a whole will reduce, especially when Russia is so heavily underpopulated. Russia needs people.

6. Seize Russia's foreign asset. A shopping 200 something billion dollars. In an instant. It's gone. Russia will not get that money back. That's the spoilage of war.

The question now is, does what Russiia gets in return worth the price they've paid? If you ask me, the answer is yes. I'm too tired to type. Will write about the winnings of Russia. For objective comparison.

Lordko, caveadullam, Gerrard59, sagamite, writerng

Situations giving pre ww1 vibes.

The kinda proxy war looks bae and obvious.

The way of the universe makes a man ponders incessantly. For he sees one man prosperous in all his ways and not forestalled. He sees another man by the corner of the building whom he has known for decades begging daily for alms yet hasn't become rich.

One man prospers in his vices and seems justice is nonexistent. Another man though has dedicated his life to virtues and kindness but still struggles to make ends meet.

The continuous struggle of one man and the continuous flourishing of the other will make the heart conclude that everything in life is predetermined. One man is born lame and can do nothing. The other is born whole. Because these scenarios are ubiquitous.

One is born in a geography capable of bringing him success without too many trials. While the other has his geography decorated with relics of bombs, bullets, and blood.

But faith is the obstruction of this movement. The man of faith who's unsatisfied will launch himself into the depths of darkness to set himself free.

It is this faith that alternates the conditions in the universe even though the universe is unperturbed and not in love with any human but just going the way it was orchestrated - not sensitive to any emotions or conditions and doesn't care about the humans it houses.

With great faith, a man can straighten his crooked path. Or in that path discover a better form of motion. It is great faith that lifts him higher. It is great faith that keeps him moving even though his situation looks unfathomable.

It is this faith that fuels his movement and keeps him going. The man that has found rest despite his angst condition is a man that has lost faith. This faith and movement is capable of bringing positive change.

Here: https://twitter.com/baba_cave/status/1656348782504681472?s=20

You can invest the same 10,000+ hours & still not meet up with a genius. Surpassing advantage: good environment, IQ, & good socioeconomic status. This will drive you into confusion, depression, or even neglect your dream because you are a bicycle in comparison with a jet.

Lacking these advantages doesn't mean you can't reach your destination. However, you must understand that you're limited in great areas and will at least ×2 the number of the required time + stage good maneuvers when you encounter impediments.

Using a genius as a yardstick is good. Aiming to become identical like the genius will end in futility. Both of you can work well & profer quality solutions, but as with everything, nothing is equal. The jungle is home to animals, however, some are weak while others are strong.

You need to understand your makeup and the tools available for you to meet up. You may work harder or lesser. Know your league. And play accordingly to get the work done.

Use a yardstick but don't get lost in comparison.

Here: https://twitter.com/baba_cave/status/1653811897072857110?t=K4XgR8caPObDKUMSakJ_KQ&s=19

Last.

If "people lack common sense", it means that that sense is not common. What is common ought to be easily obtained by many people. It is common sense because you've been able to brood on it over time, which has made it soft like potato inside a hot water.

Anytime people fail in performing in what relates to "common sense" know that such sense isn't common. Or they have low intelligence to understand and decipher a problem. Or they lack the wisdom to take action.

Marriage is not easy. It involves a lot of tradeoffs on the sides of both parties. Many people can't even rule themselves not to talk of brushing, greasing, and maintaining their edges when in close relationship with others or a sexual union.

By instinct, a woman knows how to take care of her baby. It's a biological imperative. However, she has seen how other women nurture their kids + she's supported by other women after conception on how to raise her kids.

Marriages has been existing and are COMMON, but modern couples are failing because they only see two people in the union but are not cognizant of the tradeoffs, the fights, the quarrels, and the tough decisions made behind the scene. All these make marriage hard.

Marriage is not a one-person game. If the man lacks the qualities of a leader, he can't lead. If the woman lacks discernment about the details of leadership she can't follow a leader.

For the woman to be submissive and play her role, the husband must be a good leader; for the man to remain firm as a leader, he needs the unrelenting support of his wife.

Marriage is not the place to please the sensibilities of anyone. It is an altar - a place of sacrifice. The essence of that sacrifice is to build a long-lasting dynasty that springs from their loins.

It hurts to sacrifice a pleasure. It hurts to live disciplined when being liberal is exhilarating. It hurts to lay down your half with the hope of getting one even though you are full of legitimate doubts.

These sacrifices made, pains willingly incurred, and pleasures disposed of for the greater gain are the mitochondria of every successful marriage. It is not visible to the eyes of people outside. It is not a COMMON SENSE.

What is common is their outings and children, which makes marriage seems easy. But none is cognizant of the secrets in the dark and the prerequisites to celebrate the 10, 20, 30, 40, and 50th marriage anniversaries.

The common man and common woman come into marriage for sexual and material opportunities respectively, with the prospect of a happily ever after without considering the long road.

They want the satiation of their sensibilities - this is mostly true for the female who expects to be kissed and pampered like a little feminine infant. And when they don't get the supply as expected they become bothered and grieves towards divorce.

Marriage is not easy. It involves a lot of work. The sense to make it work and last long is UNCOMMON. It is uncommon because the average human is emotional and wants to live in a comforting shell.

And it doesn't take to climb great mountains to get this sense. It can't be seen because of the high level of solipsism.

If you step out of your shell, the uncommon becomes common.

Here: https://twitter.com/baba_cave/status/1654055555059654657?t=d-eUCVl9gd1plPh6YWoEng&s=19

Buhari is the prototype for failure.

Buhari is a fleshly example of a monumental disaster.

Buhari's series of electoral failures was a true definition of him. One would think he had something in the bank, hence, his ambition to clinch the presidential seat in Aso Rock.

But it turned out that he has nothing to offer. He is a consistent failure. His ambitions are empty. He is the proverbial representation of "the empty drum makes the loudest noise".

Anything incompetent is Buhari. Anything sluggish is Buhari. Anything myopic is Buhari. Anything dumb is Buhari. Anything hopeless is Buhari. Anything useless is Buhari.

Under Buhari, the country became the world's poverty capital. Under Buhari, the economy which was one of the fastest growing became one of the least growing. The economy has hit a series of recessions and inflation as easily as a comb runs through the hair.

Before Buhari, we slept with one eye closed, now we don't even sleep. We work tirelessly during the day and became nocturnal vigilantes at night.

Under the nostril of Buhari, crime and social vices became a norm. A graduate male not into cyber fraud is term "a dull boy", a graduate female not spreading her legs across the 36 states is mocked and termed "holy Mary".

And the same Buhari is about launching his identical self on us: Buhari Pro max alias Bola Ahmed Tinubu.

"make we just dey play".

Sigh.

Reminderz:
alright no problem boss.. was it through an application? please can you expatiate better? I really appreciate

Through the Payoneer website.

Reminderz:
💯

that's very good bro... nice 👍👍👍

I would be glad... can you please tell me the steps you used in opening the Amazon account and did you have to open a Dorm account?

Pardon the late response.

I opened a payoneer account. But I think there are other better methods to look out for.

Good evening.

To reach the end of a particular task has to do with obsession. The task must entwine your soul, and the remembrance of work beats with every palpitation of the heart. Obsession exhumes hidden nuances which are contents that form creative arts.

The higher the obsession, the higher the engagement, however, with higher fatigue. Creating little hiatus for recuperation of the body and analysis of thought brings refinement to the work and rest for the soul.

You need to break a sweat to produce marvelous art. But caution is needed to prevent the vitiation of your art with fatigue. Take the necessary rest else the work becomes boring and faith evasive.

Have a fruitfulness mindset at heart when working. As a man, your energy with every dawn of a new day depletes and time is not on your side. You don't want to waste time and energy in futility.

The task may not yield the expected result. But at least it can be helpful in some ways. From there you upgrade. That's the essence of obsession - to identify different edges. Have the best in mind. Good is appreciable. But no room for waste.

Here: https://twitter.com/baba_cave/status/1652704995316228099?t=L6dddebjdWapDrclu2c75Q&s=19

If you see a groom cry at his wedding is either one or both of these factors:

1. No restriction to sexual intimacy any longer.
2. He has found a chaste wife.

These factors are based on presumption, with the hope of unlimited sex supply and the wife remaining submissive and loyal through thick and thin which fulfills both factors listed above respectively.

If the bride cries, it is because: she has finally cashed out of the dating market.

They both shed tears of joy. However, it means different things to both. But in the eyes of the audience, Adam has found his missing rib. Lol.

The woman, not the man benefits from every sexual relationship. It doesn't matter if he's alpha, omega, or simp.

Every stage you find yourself as a man is to test your competence and resilience. Your ability is fortified by the actions that add flesh to the framework of your words.

The attitude displayed when you enter this stage is important. It's not a matter of finishing or reaching the end. Strange phenomena scare you at first encounter, but your response over time is relevant.

The immediate retreat is normal. Man is shaken by impromptus and complexity. He becomes befuddled when challenged by unknown forces.

What's expedient in that stage is your reaction after being slapped hard. You don't cower in retreat. It's another time you proved the qualities you are boastful of. It is the courage you summon, to unravel the problem chunk by chunk that matters.

Victory may elude you but not without lessons. It has always been a test. But now you know your capacity and deficiencies and the appropriate places to make adjustments.

Many things are there to learn if you don't run away or end in a series of complaints and lamentations. Your attitude counts. This is the time to gauge your strength and get fueled for an adventure.

Here: https://twitter.com/baba_cave/status/1652241579287928834?t=WfhysZb6LwS9Do2r9mqEYg&s=19

1. You're not wise if you see learning cunning or manipulation as ev!l.

Because you see it from a level of you causing harm to people rather than you learning the bolts & nuts so that you can counter the game effectively when predators try to feast on you. The world is not moral.

2. Whether others veer off to become malicious after learning with prior innocence shouldn't be your problem.

Predatory cycles can only be broken or minimized when they're known, countered, and exposed.

What's exposed under the sun has no hiding place. Light up.

3. We do expect every individual to play the moral cards. However, humans are motivated by incentives, fear, or punishment. The side they will lie on today is dependent on the attached benefits or security. This makes the average human lacks firmness and standard.

4. Sermons and religion are good. But they must be backed by strictness - punishment or loss. Rather than sheer will. This will make virtues appreciated.

By the time you know the game, the probability of remaining a perpetual victim of manipulations and gaslighting minimizes.

Here: https://twitter.com/baba_cave/status/1651545345640333312?t=yHTYptJeL18lI1CKglBtcA&s=19

Plot twist: the man is not the father of the unborn child.

1. Modern husbands don't want to offend the sensibilities of their wives. They will go extra mile to prove their love and don't mind denigrating themselves just to express their love.

2. This absurd way of behavior is due to the scarcity of sex and the search for motherly love in their wives.

Sons that haven't enjoyed genuine love from their mothers will seek it in their girlfriends or wives. Ditto for daughters who seek dominance in jerks outside the home because the father is either weak or absent.

This makes them seek the best in the worst, and don't mind bearing hurts especially when they've fallen in love.

3. In our contemporary day, men keep metamorphosing into the delights of women, forgoing their masculine essence and imperative. What happens within in the reproductive cycle: millions of sperm cells chasing an ovum plays out in the physical realm.

4. But modern women don't care. The more you dance to their tunes, the higher their demands. This leads to grandiosity and entitlement mentality despite their deficiencies; they don't even provide value to society except that they leverage the values men have built and are also supported by men on all corners.

5. Women don't have respect for men because men don't even have respect for themselves.

This man right here in a naked photo shoot with his wife will harangue other men about how to be a good husband or even counter any idea that's contrary to such an act. Theirs is to make their wives happy even though it's tantamount to the decline of the family.

6. The more men double down on their value, the more women become obstinate in their absurd demands with more foolish ways of how a relationship should work.

Until men get it right, women will always see their (women's) wrongs as right.

(I want to assume that the pic is a "Photoshop".

Thanks.

[quote author=CaveAdullam post=122765006]Many husbands have not passed the lover mode to the boss mode. They settle down for the former because they want don't want to offend the sensibility of their wives. The lover mode wouldn't sustain, for what has been engaged for long become boring without showing the other sides.

Career women know how to bottle their emotional troubles, and perform any task assigned to them concerning their office despite anger, backlash, and stress. They must discharge every duty assigned to them, on a time frame under stress and duress.

She must perform, or else her reaction if not positive will affect her pay and promotion. Career women walk on their tiptoes, sit chest out and rotate their necks in the workplace. There's no room for error. Boss mode is active. She serves her boss to remain checked in his book.

Every frustration she has is channeled to her husband or alcohol or clubbing. The difference between a man's frustration and that of a woman's is that it can be absorbed. She will find encouragement when she vents. Man is the better absorbent. Friends and alcohol are temporal.

Her vents don't bounce back to her. She has an opening at the end of the conduit. Her complaints will be paid attention. She may see a good number of help, especially from the male space. Her physique, beauty, and sexual appeal are enough to score her the average points.

When the man begins to vent, his complaints bounce back. Neither opening nor absorbent. His lamentations scatter people away from him like a strong wind on a flat tray of broken melons. His woman can only tend his wound but the healing must come from within - from himself.

His vents go up and come down. He faces this in every cycle. The difference is that in every cycle he may gain small freedom. Nobody cares about his struggles to the extent that they are willing to take him out of the hole which is identical to the help rendered to a woman.

As a lover, he must not be blinded by the sensibility of his wife. He must be strong enough to maintain a boss mode. The husband's identity is both a lover and boss. He's on a mission to lead the wife in the right way why acting as an absorbent for the rise of a dynasty.

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Many husbands have not passed the lover mode to the boss mode. They settle down for the former because they want don't want to offend the sensibility of their wives. The lover mode wouldn't sustain, for what has been engaged for long become boring without showing the other sides.

Career women know how to bottle their emotional troubles, and perform any task assigned to them concerning their office despite anger, backlash, and stress. They must discharge every duty assigned to them, on a time frame under stress and duress.

She must perform, or else her reaction if not positive will affect her pay and promotion. Career women walk on their tiptoes, sit chest out and rotate their necks in the workplace. There's no room for error. Boss mode is active. She serves her boss to remain checked in his book.

Every frustration she has is channeled to her husband or alcohol or clubbing. The difference between a man's frustration and that of a woman's is that it can be absorbed. She will find encouragement when she vents. Man is the better absorbent. Friends and alcohol are temporal.

Her vents don't bounce back to her. She has an opening at the end of the conduit. Her complaints will be paid attention. She may see a good number of help, especially from the male space. Her physique, beauty, and sexual appeal are enough to score her the average points.

When the man begins to vent, his complaints bounce back. Neither opening nor absorbent. His lamentations scatter people away from him like a strong wind on a flat tray of broken melons. His woman can only tend his wound but the healing must come from within - from himself.

His vents go up and come down. He faces this in every cycle. The difference is that in every cycle he may gain small freedom. Nobody cares about his struggles to the extent that they are willing to take him out of the hole which is identical to the help rendered to a woman.

As a lover, he must not be blinded by the sensibility of his wife. He must be strong enough to maintain a boss mode. The husband's identity is both a lover and boss. He's on a mission to lead the wife in the right way why acting as an absorbent for the rise of a dynasty.

Here: https://twitter.com/baba_cave/status/1651259211777490946?t=SP0bP-Qr2vgYgKozMs1oKA&s=19

Hedgefunds:
Hi cave , hows work? Nice you finally wrote the book. Send me the link on Amazon.
How are you able to combine work and writing and reading and staying on NL...do you sleep at all.?..just curious

I'm still doing some cleaning on my Amazon account. Better, I send you directly. It's just a little token. Please, accept it.

And as I said earlier, it's just an appetizer. The main dish is coming.

I sleep well. Though it's not easy to keep track.

Thanks.

Hedgefunds:
My Oga.

The chief.

I greet you baba.

I've got a small appetizer book published on Amazon.

Please, forward your mail or send a DM to get the soft copy of the book.

There are other books still cooking. "you go use this one first hold body small".

"Oga Tonnyray and Reminderz, una self join for this high table o".

Thanks.

Use both as a ladder to elevate yourself in the organizational hierarchy.

Only give advice when they choose to. However, know that it's to know your position regarding their sexual escapades. If they compel you too much, tell them, you die with secrets and shouldn't not be bothered about any leak or gossip in regards to what your eyes saw.

Never be judgemental. This is the time you need to increase your level of respect for your boss and manager. Add more to what you've been doing previously.

This is an opportunity. Leverage it.

Let's I forget, deal with that woman with a long, straight, hard metal pole from afar.

Have a nice day.

learning22:
Thanks for the input.

How far have you gone on JavaScript?

To the extent that if-else statements are no longer confusing.

Well done.

Don't be a pawn on that board.

learning22:
Thanks.
I will do that.

I just checked the tutorial you mentioned by John. I am currently working with it, although he said he will use Vite as he proceeds, currently I am still at the stage he is using create-react-app.

Thanks.

You'll get more confused if you use John Smilga running your React for the first time.

There is a short video on youtube of about 11 minutes you can watch to create your first React app. Also make sure you got Node.js installed before installing React. Very smooth trust me.

Use PedroTech or Arcade Mind to soften the ground before John Smilga. Though I'm learning with John Smilga now, the confusion I'm experiencing can easily be bypassed because the aforementioned helped me.

Don't bother about Vite for now to avoid confusion. Learn the (normal) basic - create-react-app.

Thanks.

1. You are too weak now to pick yourself from the dust. No amount of motivational talks will uplift your soul from these shackles and bondage. Don't even bother setting goals. You'll fail more times than you passed, then slip back into your former state.

2. Now that you've acknowledged your problem online, and found that you need a solution, a road that will lead you to the light, you must do the same offline.

You're an adult. No constant murmuring and lamentations. If you want a breakthrough, you must behold yourself in a mirror that you need it.

3. What you need to do:
A. Look for people you admire offline. Relate your problem to them. The average man will love to help but don't act as a another burden.

You must be willingly to bear your weight amidst shame, guilt, ridicule, and reproach. You do not need a pampering of your ego.

B. Look for an NGO center around. Relate with them.

C. Look for any adventure offline that's filled with good and reputable people. These people will hold you accountable. They will be both a mentor and master. The help you need are in their hands. Don't think you can do it solely.

4. Have a list of people you admire. Write them boldly on a paper or the wall in your bedroom. You can obtain their pictures if possible.
Look at these names and pictures daily before stepping out or taking action.

Take for example:

1. Will Martin Luther be wasting time on masturbation and pornography instead of looking for ways to set blacks free. Ponder on this while gazing his beauty in a picture.

Will Nelson Mandela do this? What will Jordan Peterson do in this situation.

5. Using myself as an example: I've become inspired by Peter Obi. In the sense that since the presidential shows no scandal has been used to roped the man. Not even a mistress or the maltreatment of his housemaids. Every stone thrown at him are empty propaganda.

It means one thing: it is either Peter Obi is the inventor of hide and seek game or has been maintaining a clean standard because of a day like this.

It doesn't means that he's a saint. Everyone has challenges, foibles, weaknesses. But people like him have discovered how to finagle around their weaknesses.

This is the kind of man I want to become. Hence, I hold him strongly in my imagination and dear to my heart even if it means not responding to my sensual desires. It's about the future not now. I want to become a man that will make his enemies looks stupid when they accuse him.

6. Dear friend, salvation is possible. Step outside today, scan for good people and they'll gladly help you. An idea on where to find these people: church, mosques, library, seminars, meetings, etc.

Don't sit down in your house looking for help. You won't get it. However, you can use online aids to supplement, and solitary to ponder, meditate, introspect and lay good strategies.

Take care, man.