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Tonnyray:
My brother from another mother!
I'm doing great bro.
Just took things several notches up with my "amarya" with the intro (official meeting of both parents/families) the Saturday before this so omo I've been busy man.
The fusion of Yoruba and Hausa culture is banging my brother, I tell you.
Thanks for the truths you spit here. Still follow your every post.

I'm glad to hear from you again.

Congrats on your newfound love. May the union wax better, stronger, and more fruitful.

Thanks.

Happy Sunday fams.

Hedgefunds, reminderz, smartboy09, someonechild2, capslocked, Tonnyray, et al hope you all are fine.

Enough cooking today.

Create your standard.

You want a stable woman.

Let value meet value.

Don't make any mistake when selecting a help meet.

Quality woman over notch counts.

Dooor...

Which women do you row the boat with?

JESHAL:
CaveAdullam
Happy Sunday
Can you give us a well rounded nuanced argument on pro-masturbation and anti-masturbation
Seriously men( young and old) need guidance

I just deleted my write-up.

I will prepare another one in the future when I'm able.

In summary: take your hands off your penile gland. Avoid masturbation!

Don't throw your pearls before swines.

1. These men of God have strong affiliations with political leaders on different spectrums behind the scene. They have a stake on all sides. They are gamblers. They have different betting slips, if one slip should fail, the remaining slip will assuage the losses of the others.

2. They can't come out to defend a particular candidate. They like to speak in proverbs and parables so that they'll be seen as wise men, however, it's all a game. They are friends of government officials.

3. Paul Enenche, David Oyedepo, E. A. Adeboye, Chris Oyakhilome, etc. have been making insinuations that seem they support Peter Obi, however, they have never been bold to call their preferred candidates and stood by them. They all have been engaged in different government and political nuances that have made them reticent about their choice of candidate.

4. The most infuriating part of all is that these men of God don't have a solid prophecy of who will become the next president of Nigeria. Compared to prophets/leaders in the Bible like Moses, Aaron, Elijah, Elisha, etc. the people would have known their next leader by now.

This is to tell you that they don't know what they speak of. They are shamans. They capitalized on the gullibility, laziness, and ignorance of their followers. It's these weaknesses of their followers that make them relevant, nothing else.

5. These clergymen can perform miracles, signs, and wonders behind cameras, but are still confused about who is to become the next president of Nigeria. They better choose the right approach: keep shut, so that their prediction cum prophecy will not be leveraged to castigate them when it doesn't come to pass.

May the good will of the people prevail.

My people, be wise.

Vote Peter Obi

Thanks.

Be wise, man.

Sixfeetbelle:
Bia, this bongo fish, what did you say is your problem? When did I ever say I eat dead bodies? I resemble necromancer for your eyes?

Why is my weight in question here? Just so you know, some men like their women chubby and bubbly. Pansophist is one of those men 😌

This bad belle you have regarding my potential spouse is bad for your skin.

Being chubby is not a big deal. Pansophist like his women thick and black. But the issue is that you eat everything. You even "eat dead bodies". You're "sixfeetbelle" for crying out loud. Your stomach is too large. You'll use all his money to buy food, and if it's not enough, you'll go to the cemetery.

This marriage will not work. I can't stand it.

It's only God or Hades that can marry you. Nobody else.

Anyway, uncle Pan, I will respect whatever decision you arrive. But don't say I didn't warn you.

Thanks.

pansophist:
Why location matters here?

If we both live deep inside the village of Kaduna, e come mean say marriage no go happen? Na me you wan marry or the location? You wan impress people or na me you wan marry?

I no understand you again o. Oya how about for shoprite? Or for church? In front of police station nko? Swimming pool kwanu? These places are inexpensive. Some are free sef.

The money to propose for yacht and expensive place, how about use am for a down payment of our first house? Or to even buy better Jeep for you. To trek never tire you?

Make I come go de waste millions for proposal. I guess na inside heaven you go want do wedding. Wasting money for no reason. You sef.

Uncle Pan, don't tell me you want to marry a woman who eats "dead bodies and doesn't even get satisfied by food for mortals". C'mon, this is "sixfeetbelle", she'll go overly obese after the proposal. How are you going to "knack her" by the way?

Whether inside the well, bush, backyard, church, yacht, Maldives, or Kaduna, I do not care. Don't marry her. But if you insist, I owe you my allegiance all through the storm.

Thanks.

Hedgefunds:
My Oga.

Na you be oga o

Talking with the estate agent at the moment.

Thanks jare.

Hedgefunds:
Cave did you get it.

Oga mi you too do o...na you do this one.

Chaeiii

Like this like this I wan go price house for Maitama...i nor buy fuel again.

Received with plenty thanks.

Hedgefunds:
Ok you can delete now sir, Tomorrow morning you shd get it

Thanks, sir. I do appreciate it.

Modified.

emmaodet:
Hmmmmmmm

Thanks Mr Cave
Sent you a pm

I've replied. But should in case you didn't get it, you can reach me here too: germaneson@gmail.com

Well done, sir.

emmaodet:
Yes, I am aware.
The person in question is not just a woman but a prophetess. So I wonder if someone seeing visions and speaking in tongues has such plans as a street LovePeddler.

1. For women, feelings trump morality. Their feelings are their God.

Women don't worship God because of who He is. They do so because of consensus bias. Religion is the norm, if they don't follow suit with others, they'll be mentally ostracized + can't defend themselves when alone.

2. Remember that religious worship and praises arouse emotions, hence, women are the highest attendants of religion. + religion has a dark and mystic side; women are attached to this side. In flesh, women are attracted to dark triad men because they envisage this dark and mystic side.

If you go further, you'll find out that women are the most religiously abused + religious slaves. This is due to their attraction to mysticism.

3. Men understand God and carry women along, left for women, God is a tool, as how men are tools to them too. For this reason, there is rare communication between God and women directly in many religions or religious tales; men are the middlemen.

4. By the way, those prophecies, visions, tongues, etc are just emotional products. The difference between men and women is that men can hold fast to their convictions/beliefs for a long time. While women will divert at the slightest discomfort.

5. So, women can easily swing from one pole to another when she perceives a greater value. Unlike men, that have made so much investment and can't move on easily.

Thanks.

Niceguy06:
Guard your resources

Rather than ignore or divert, why not sexualize the moment and see where it leads? That should be the last point before you ignore her.

Nothing wrong here though.

However, something like "alright, come over let's have fun together in my crib...I like catapult red". Winks.

She may refuse, but if she insists, tell her that's what you intend to do with the money with another woman.

Greenlight is just a signal. A woman will never walk up to you and say "I want to fvck you". Those scenes only exist in Hollywood. She will remain reticent no matter the height of infatuation she has for you. She can only give signals, it's left for you to capitalize on those signals.

What I've observed so far right here is that most guys think the greenlight signal is a woman throwing herself around them. Cases, where women display such act or behavior is to leverage the man's lust on her body.

A woman doesn't need to show greenlight before you start to walk your talk. You can ignite it and take the lead. Of course, greenlight is top-notch because your work in the seduction arena will be limited. And greenlight most times is location-based, you need to be close to her to gauge her attraction and desire for you. But before then...GAME.

Hedgefunds:
@CaveAdullam:

In this trying time in nigeria. Can I fuel ur Car/generator , Let me know how much full tank cost. Thanks

"Omo, see valentine gift o.

Na generator o....leggediz benz still active.

The full tank is 30Liters."

You can use the price based on your area. Mine here fluctuates between #300-400 per liter. I heard it is lesser/higher in other areas.

Thanks man. I do appreciate it.

Gerrard59:
Hopefully, the ignorant men/boys who blame/curse/lampoon Nigerian girls for the rise in hookup would understand that it's Nigerian men who made it so, not the women.

I have been preaching for donkey years that men perpetuate the prostitution/escort/hookup industry, and the higher demand for sexual services, the more women go into the industry as suppliers (which is a monopoly). So, when ignoramuses whose highest achievement is wailing alfa meil, alfa meil, alfa meil blame Nigerian women for doing hookup rather than their richer counterparts for the patronage, it means that these poor men (na only poor men dey chant alfa meil daily) don't understand elementary biology.

1. As a result of the opioid crisis, the Asian government has been metamorphosing into stringent levels in curbing the distribution of hard drugs in their countries. Their strategies over the years to eliminate hard drugs are still evolving.

However, despite the enormous prosecution of drug dealers or culprits, you still find many young men who step on their conscience, obscure it, and overlooked the consequences. They are after the benefits of drug sales because their survival is at stake. Better still, they want an easy way out of their penury.

2. Who do we blame for this? The consumers or drug addicts that need constant supply? Or, drug dealers who want money?
Let's go further, should we blame notable scientists for discovering these drugs and recommending them to their patients? Or, cast the blame on the earth's crust?

3. Let's come closer to the kingdom Animalia. Do we blame prey for being prey? Or, carnivores for being carnivores? Because if there is the absence of one there wouldn't be the other based on the nature of the ecosystem.

4. Let's come home.

Either the male or female, none was existing before the other, both co-evolution. Both belong to the same genus and share similar behaviors. However, cumulatively, there is a larger sex difference between the male and the female. Notably, different sexual strategies.

The sexual strategies of males and females are in serious conflict. There can only be a peaceful union when one foregoes some attached peripheries.

5. As vital and helpful morality and civil rules, human nature will always override them. Not because they choose to but because their survival is in jeopardy; everything to remain in the gene pool must be carried out even if is jettisoning morality.

6. Sex is all about survival from a basic human nature + evolutionary standpoint. Reproduction, not sexual pleasure is the primary aim of sex.

Keep aside morality, humans are like their primate cousins in the thick wild forests.
Men want more sex. Women want sex. This is due to testosterone as stated previously.

Can we say men pursue women for sex because women will always provide sex? Or, women are willing to provide sex since men have a higher libido and are ready to pay for sex?

Even if sexual pleasure, the benefits of reproduction lurk underneath. If not, contraceptives would have been useless.

7. Men, by their nature are leaders. It's expedient they take charge of women, children, and society. Women follow this leadership + assist men along the way. However, this doesn't mean that both the man and the woman are void of volition, conscience, and reasoning.

8. Promiscuity damages society. Men are more promiscuous than women. However, you can't blame men for women being promiscuous or blame women for using their sexual weapons against men. It is an evolutionary game in play because both have different mating strategies.

It is because of these damages religion preaches against sex outside marriage.

9. Women have always been lectured about their bodies and virginity. All cultures from time immemorial have always espoused this. Even if men pursue women for sex, women are the gatekeeper of sex, they can choose whether to have sex or not. Men can also choose not to apply for sex. It is a decision both can make on their own. Refer to 7 above.

10. Abstinence from sexual intercourse is mostly harangued by religion, however, most people have picked errors in religion because they failed to understand the significance behind the allegories and metaphors. Ergo, they've thrown the baby alongside the bathwater.

11. Since this is the case, it is not a matter of "men, don't chase women and fvck them, ensure sexual control. Women don't give men sex even if you are poor and want money". It's more like saying "lions shouldn't feed on antelopes". Even if the lion has been tamed for eons, once it enters the wild, it acts like a lion.

12. Men will be men. And women will be women. It's a matter of providing knowledge of intersexual dynamics and informing them about the nuances and consequences of their sexual adventures.

13. If women open their legs men will fvck.
If men open their pockets women will siphon it.
It is an evolutionary game. It's left for you to protect your ends.

Earth is unfair. Find your fairness and defend it.

Thanks.

1. It's the luxury belief; people want to associate themselves with things that signal high status. Using these things separates you from the crowd and makes you able to identify with people of higher status.

2. It can be a manipulative technique to gain attraction or deceit. That's the average human for you.

3. Funnily, if everyone starts using Iphone pro max, it no longer remains a luxury but a common thing. Nokia 3310 + an MTN sim card was once a luxury, but where are we now?

4. The way you'll talk to a car mechanic when he's under the bonnet in his workshop will be different from the way you talk to him when he's riding his client's Bentley. Ditto for a broke beautiful woman with expensive wear in a club and when she's walking around in her mosquito infected face-me-I-face-you ghetto. The same people but different manner of approaches.

5. Humans are myopic. That's why you can easily deceive them. They fall for the luxury bias and halo effect frequently unhindered.

Notwithstanding, some rich people can afford high-end goods; no big deal. However, it still boils down to the status symbol.

Thanks.

Random

The essence of being a good leader is that you'll arrive at a dilemma where you need to pick between two choices or abandon the whole show. And on that ground, your woman will stimulate you via her sentiments to make a choice.

If you're not careful you'll make the wrong choice. Women are neither tacticians nor strategists when it comes to the game of life and maneuvering difficult situations and obstacles. Women get fazed by war. They are disturbed by the foresight or emergence of conflicts. They make quick judgments based on instant feelings or prior sentiments.
This differs from gut feelings because it's a frequent occurrence in women.

The essence of masculinity is to be able to row through the storm, make a decision, and take a stand rather than being vacillated by her sentimentality. As a man, you must know what's good for you and the family despite her agreements or disagreements.

Authority: Positive masculinity.

1. You Having a belligerent sister doesn't mean sisters are bad. As a brother and a man, mother, and sisters are the only subsets of women you'll enjoy and experience genuine love. It is sad that your sister spearheading an unnecessary family vendetta.

2. However, in every family, there is always one child that causes serious headaches to the family. They are thorns in the flesh of everyone. Their nasty character ripples to the community at large. No amount of counseling can make them submit. They do things on their terms and conditions. If they change, it is also based on those terms and conditions.

3. Most of them lack love from parents, siblings, and other relatives when growing up. They were neglected. They always have anger brooding inside of them, waiting for a time to burst out like a wild volcano.
Being belligerent, antagonistic, and fierce is the only way they can express their inner bruises, neglect, and rejection. It is an act of relief, however, a wrong method.

4. However, for some, it is a personality disorder, rooted in their genetic makeup. Women are higher on narcissism than men, but in your sister's case, it is a disorder.

5. The best treatment is therapy. She needs clinical help for a long period. Keeping her around will always lead to a clash of titans, and this will hurt her children. Narcissistic mothers drive boys (children) crazy. She must be separated from these young until she finds help.

6. She hasn't committed a crime, so sending her to prison wouldn't do much. If she comes back, she will do worst, because she must have absorbed more negative energy from other prisoners.

There's already a clash of egos. She needs more love.

7. On the flip side, the best way of handling narcissists is to mirror their behavior. Act the way they act and they'll steer clear. Narcissists' power lies in leveraging the weakness of others. If you're as fierce as them, they'll stay aloof from you. An eye for an eye, a tooth for a tooth: this is a law they fear because they care more about themselves than others.

Overall, to restore peace to the family she must be taken far from home and sent to a good psychiatrist. She's not medically sound.

Thanks.