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leocollins:
Good morning redpillars, guys please i need an advice on what next to do in these situation.

Early January i met a girl, around 23 yyears,i approached her and we exchanged contact, then we started vibing, we had sex on the second day of our meeting and she latered slept over that night, to be candid i just wanted to hit and run, but guys this babe became nice to me, all of a sudden she wil go to market and buy food stuffs and come and cook, we have bleeped couples of times tho.she washes my clothes and takes good care of me.tbh guys shes nice.
Actually all these times, there is a contact that she saved as her uncle, tho i was skeptical about it, finally last week i discovered that the man isnt her uncle but she was having an affair with the man before she met me, when I confronted her she started crying and begging me that she is just with the man because he gives her money, the man looks wealthy, that she loves me that's why she's with me, that i make her happy,menh I was devastated even tho have nt really spent much on her, because at the moment am not financially stable.
I told her to stop all form communication with the man in which she agreed to.but yesterday i
Night while going through her phone I heard a converulsion she had with the man, and i noticed lot of things in that conversation.
I noticed she do call the man sir, and she is always tensed when talking to the man and Also during the conversation the man was asking her to send him nice nice pictures and videos, can you imagine, he was really emphasising on the pictures. I called her that night and played the tape for her, she told me she wouldn't have sent him those pictures that she was just playing along in order to get her house rent from him just that, she begged for forgiveness that i shouldnt leave her that she loves me.

Please guys am confuse , should i just keep her and allow her to be billing the man and we chop the money together, because to be sincere the gal dey take care of me wella no lies, and I do like her she's loyal and respectfull, but the thought of another man fucking the pussy is always getting me mad..
Also i wanted to use the record tape against the man, like billing him or should I just forget about them and enjoy the fun while it last,
Advice needed thanks

We all are living in a simp world.

You shouldn't be happy enough scoring another man's babe. Yeah, you love the fun and the sex. I get.

What you should be more concerned about is the safety of your life than what a woman does with her pvssy. Especially when her sugar daddy uncle discovers she is cheating on him. Woe betide you if you all stay in the same city. Good for you if you can defend yourself.

You may think you're the exception. But a jealous man knows no boundary.

And in your mind, the babe just loves taking care of you because she saw a blue angelic moon in January. Genuine desire indeed.

Wait till still starts her manifestation. Any woman that can cheat on her spouse will never have any regard for you. Her lovey-dovey now are facades. Every love is conditional. You pay now, or you pay later. Nothing on this planet is free.

I'm not trying to scare you. Neither am I accusing you. However, you'll be at rest when you score a woman from a place of comfort. If you have a vacillating mind towards your woman, she's not for you. You must be cautious.

Enjoy yourself. Have fun. But don't jeopardize your life in the process.

Thanks.

pansophist:
wealth is like maths. It has its own formula. Apply it to anything you do, be patient and consistent, and you'll be very okay.

In any business you do, make sure it's scalable, and not tied to your time. So don't be a barber, or a Uber driver. It's a dead end JoJob that can't scale.

Look at all the wealthy people, they are wealthy because they cover a huge population area. It's why Uber as a company is rich, but not a bus driver even if they are both transport companies. Uber is global, a bus driver is not.

So don't be a salary earner, And no dead end job/handwork (eg barber, painter etc).

Have a service or product that can scale. Then see how to sell it to more and more crowd. Doesn't matter what you sell. Cigar companies sell poison but are billion dollar companies.

So if you sell groundnut, or a software developer that can generate millions of downloads, then you'll be forking wealthy.

Where the work is, is in your consistency, managerial skill, and applying principles of business such as economy of scale, increasing your market share, strengthening your dominance, etc.

Of course this is an oversimplification of an extremely intense and complex business process and wealth creation. Hence few people are entrepreneurs. But it's rewarding, and if you want to lift all your families from poverty, it's the way to go.

It's a principle of "cause and effect". A tout chief that collects money from all commercial drivers in Lagos will be a billionaire in a month, compare to a pastor that has a small church where the members combined are not up to 2k usd in combined capita.

So if you can for example open a restaurant, then start having a new branch every three months for ten years straight, you'll be freaking wealthy. Chicken republic, dominos, kfc are all under this principles.

I repeat, being wealthy is not hard, it's if you understand the rules, and play to it. Dangote is a billionaire with this principles. He started small, now has lots of products from cement, to flour and sugar and all of Africa.

Thank you zaddy.

pansophist:
Self-consolation.

I know few honest, naira billionaires in Nigeria, and they are they most hard working, honest men you'll ever know.

They are so lowkey, dressed in rags (I know them at Ladipo market), but bro, it is when you enter their house you'll marvel.

There are lots of honest business people, and their wealth last long since it's legal. If you went to be a billionaire in ten years time, I can tell you what to do. The question is, will you do it?

@bolded, and I'm suffering.

Drop down on both kneels knocking hard on the ground with a loud thunderous noise and broke into tears like the unwrapping of a DHL package in transit for the past 6 months.

"Biko show me road...I can try hawking once more. Na hustle I dey".

Thanks.

I will write more about this in the future. Here is a snippet:

Save your time and energy.

If it proved itself before, it will again. The hammer will not cease jamming the head of a nail between the edges or corners of a wood.

Why do you decide to leap from the ground to the sky when there are people to help you - your predecessors who have taken that path before?

You need a master to gain mastery of a craft. Masters see apprentices as their younger selves to correct the mistake they made in the past. A good master will not only teach but help minimize errors along the way.

Humility and steadfastness is the facilitator: the master will not teach if he smells arrogance; the apprentice will not learn if the master has lost his wits and vivacity.

Learning under the tutelage of a master enables quick progress and achievement of goals. The young ambitious man must know this early. It will save him time and energy.

The man hungry for power must serve the powerful. The dumb can only become wise by following the counsels of the wise.

To get to the top, he needs the sage to counsel him. A hand to lead him. An angel to guard him. And a giant to rest on. This is how progress is made: capitalizing on the initials to unfold hidden potentials.

All great men were once dependent on other great men. Through them, they were able to reproduce their specific arts, crafts, or profession. Predecessors are key.

The younger generation must look behind them to see how things were done in the traditional days, to learn what will help them and where improvements are to be made. Outrightly rejecting the ancient because of modernity creates a shabby future.

However, the challenge is when the young man insists on breaking into a new field - the realm where things are alien to him, with minuscule resources or the absence of masters.

It will take trial and error to unlock what lurks behind. It takes great faith to remain steadfast in such a condition because the outcome isn't cocksure - success or failure awaits him in the end.

As he stands on giants to gain a higher dimension he must never be afraid to challenge the novel even when the giant is absent. Trials come with either success or failure, but the experiences gained become useful knowledge and tool.

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truthCoder:
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truthCoder:
Dont let those people determine your happiness.

Even the Bible says we should not judge. Any person judging your past decisions and still using that to gaslight you is a wicked fellow. Avoid them.

Surround yourself with people who respect you as an individual.

Be with people who see you for who you really are. People who you can be free to talk with at anytime about anything and you wont be judged.

Get real friends. If you want to discuss more, i am an email away.

"make I send you email, oga truthcoder na"

Happy Sunday.

1. Why do you choose to ignore the sociopath? Why are you encouraging them to ensure their sustenance?

Silence isn't the best way to deal with sociopaths. They are narcissistic bullies who want to take the whole show. They want the attention of the audience by preying on weak bodies and minds. They don't mind you being a victim. All they care about is their benefits.

2. Sociopaths feed on your fears. They are callous. Though known for their social vices, if you stand toe-to-toe with them, they will give way. They seek respect by intimidation. If you don't cower, they will fizzle in a moment.

3. Trying to play the nice guy card will not quench their thirst when you are hooked on their footstool. You may deem being nice as the rationale, however, it strengthens their arms to hurt you badly.

4. Their moral compass is weak. They only appeal to morality when they are on the suffering side. Probably, being paid in their coin and forced to have a taste of their bitter medicine.

5. Based on your level of pragmatism, you may not come in contact with them regularly. Because you must have spotted them from afar; their camouflage is noticed from their body language and the words they speak.

6. Rudeness is defined along the edges of their personality. Their arrogance stinks. Only a weak nice guy will fall into their net without prior observation.

7. You can avoid them from afar, rather than thinking of ways to get out of their net when you land yourself in their circle. But they may enter yours. And when they do, don't remain silent.

8. Though silenced may be necessary when they are groups. Remember the proverb -"birds of the same species flock together". Hence, you must avoid them.

9. Even though you are surrounded, you must not allow fear to fill your heart. You must summon the courage and play the offense card subtly. Subtly because you're not cognizant if they are armed. Don't cower.

10. Alright, here the nice guy card may seem rational. However, you must make sure you reciprocate the act, except in situations where you know the cost outweighs the benefits. You can decide to use a third party - the local police when the threats and attacks are severe.

11. Sociopaths don't need to be ignored. If you allow them to roam freely their pride will bolster and they will gain more leverage.

Caesar and God must be paid and honored accordingly.

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Wizkid is still young. I believe he still has rare gems inside of him waiting to be harvested and refined into good lyrics and sound.

His recent tracks/Album has been below expectations compared to his previous performance.

Wizkid needs to go back to the days of "AYO album" and brush himself thoroughly.
If he should continue like this, he will become more dependent on streaming farms + YouTube views.

Good video quality for the song though.

Thanks.

I'm gradually going through all the tracks in the album. So far, it's only "Na money ft Angelique Kidjo ft Cavemen" that makes sense.

I will rather listen to "Mr. Yakubu by Falz" a hundred times than suffer my data and ears through that Timeless Album again.

Timeless Album is in par with More Love, Less Ego Album by Wizkid. Both using established glory and fame + absence + streaming farms to rate their boring songs.

Boy Alone Album by Omah Lay and Love, Damini by Burna Boy still tops. No caps.

I'm a fan of Nigerian songs. I have no special artiste dear to my heart. When it hits, it hits, and everyone will know.

Timeless Album is overrated by streaming farms. Period.
Notwithstanding, Davido is a good artiste.

Thanks.

Think through man.

You are who you deal with.

heartofcity12:
F**k her food, she’s still a goner.
Never get manipulated, there is no forgiveness for cheating #trp

I gave her money to cook for me. On her way to the market, she made a zigzag turn to go get fvcked by her lover. Oh yeah.

I'm gonna eat my food. And throw her out with the plates once I'm done.

She ain't gonna poison me. She must have a good taste of the menu before I start feasting.

I must win.

Reconstruct yourself.

This kind of crisis is a disturbing one. It involves the father, mother, and siblings. You must apply wisdom at all times.

Have a round table talk with your siblings. The talk should be about strategic ways to find a business they can manage and make income. Everyone can pull strengths together to establish and manage one. Or a job they can do to assist the family. Give them a particular time to come up with a plan, let's say a period of 1-month maximum. If they are complacent towards the plan let it reflects on the amount of money that flows from you to them. Reduce it. Maintain your ground, with time they will comply. If not, you withdraw and mind your business.

What should concern you about your aged parents is feeding and shelter (this is a serious burden on you, my friend). Just try your best.

Don't do more than your capacity, because if you die tomorrow they will look for a way to survive. Hence, ensure your survival first and from the convenience of your strength you can render help. If you have been spending too much on your relationship, you better limit it. You should be after the survival and growth of your business than marriage. Focus on the most important thing man.

Thanks.

VeeVeeMyLuv:
You are very correct
These employers employ the graduates bcoz they possess the expertise and knowledge. In addition they also most importantly have the solution to alot the employers problems.

When they request for fresh graduate not older than a certain age, they are looking for innovation.

Tertiary education was intended to provide solutions to not just one problem of the society, but to all problems of society including the impossible ones through research and development.

Seriously what we have today is a far cry.

Academicians and educators are supposed to be automatic technocrats. Extremely knowledgeable and authorities in their various fields.

You are on point, sir. And I agree with you.

This is the first paragraph of my first post:

CaveAdullam:
1. A university is a place of higher education where individuals gain knowledge and skills that can be used to gain a better advantage in any chosen profession. It's a cynosure for ideas from different perspectives, fused into one place so that everything taught and learned will be robust for profits, sustainability, and development.

People always rush things that are of high quality. They rush into places that have sweet results. Good things attract both the good and bad. The same goes for tertiary education.

Except these good things can filter themselves regularly, it will come to a point where they become useless. You can compare the strict policies many developed nations have put in place for migrants coming into their nations.

Professions like Tech, Medicals, Engineering, etc can easily filter themselves. Low IQs are not accommodated.

Because once the good side of these things or places has been hijacked, you'll hardly see its importance. Tertiary education has been invaded by corrupt officials for their selfish gains. Right there, low IQs are now quotidian than higher IQs. But this can't eradicate the exact reason why tertiary education was set up in the first case.

Successful (top) organizations in the world have excellent bachelors, masters, philosophers, doctors, and other intelligent people acting as the backbone.

The importance of higher education can never be underestimated.

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emmaodet:
Ecclesiastes 9:11

I returned and I saw under the sun that The race is not to the swift or the battle to the strong, nor does food come to the wise or wealth to the brilliant or favor to the learned, but time and chance happen to them all.

This was the same thing Job complained of in the book of Job. He saw evil men prosper. He counted the number of crooked people that were living luxuriously. The wicked men had peace; they even lived longer, and their children were fruitful and multiplied.
This is because time and chance were on their sides, however, it was transient. But the wrath of God was coming.

Swiftness makes your journey fast.
Strength conquers your enemy.
Wisdom makes you decisive and fluid.
Brilliance sets you on top.
Knowledge makes you a leader of men.

These are the qualities that shape you as a person, fit for surviving the harsh world. Time and chance will destroy the man who lacks these qualities.

The swift, wise, and strong man will forge his way ahead. Not sleeping, but keep moving. Hoping that at a good time, he'll be favored by luck and chance. He's better than the one that sleeps all day or remains stagnant hoping for that same luck and chance.

When the dumb and weak progress, it is either their dumbness or weakness has become the denier cri accepted and applauded by the people. Or wise and strong men have gone reticent.

Thanks.

Maxxim:
As beautiful as your writeup, unfortunately it's not entirely true
How things work in reality is entirely different for example, the higher education was born out of the idea of industrial revolution in the 17th century with the objective of creating more workers, majority of every university graduate has the idea of becoming an employee cause that's what the the system programs them to become.
At this point in life the world has walked past the industrial age and those who still believe in that system actually lives in the past

Higher education doesn't make one wealthy instead it only makes one ready for administrative and corporate positions, So this proves that it's knowledge alone isn't sufficient to make you wealthy.
Yet a poor person still needs to acquire this knowledge for the sake of exposure, but that doesn't determine becoming wealthy..

These days most progressive countries with the most wealthiest people don't even bother with these education cause they truly understand how things work that all it takes is about developing a system that brings in income while having university graduates as the employees.

1. Sir, the 17th century is about 400+ years ago. But before then, the Greeks, Egyptians, and Romans already have a higher place for learning. It wasn't termed a university per se, but we know that was what it metamorphosed to be.

I agree that many courses in the university today are not relevant. And it is these courses that have attracted low IQs into the university setting. The University of today is now a place for politics and business. It is unfortunate.

Having a university degree will not make you wealthy when you fold your hands and look. It becomes worst if the right environment isn't there coupled with unfavorable government policy. You must utilize the knowledge and skill gained.
Even the uneducated need a payable skill + a favorable environment to function. Else, he will remain dumb.

It is ridiculous to throw away the baby and bathe because the bathwater is dirty.

2. @bolded, is proof that supports my take.

If not, why wouldn't employers with no education have non-graduates like them as employees?
Why do many of these wealthiest people go back to the university to gain one degree or the other?

Thanks.

1. A university is a place of higher education where individuals gain knowledge and skills that can be used to gain a better advantage in any chosen profession. It's a cynosure for ideas from different perspectives, fused into one place so that everything taught and learned will be robust for profits, sustainability, and development.

Take for example a traditional herbalist who can get medication from a different potpourri of plants that can heal. This is based on experience.
However, he lacks knowledge of the biochemical process that resulted in that healing. He doesn't even know the constituents of the plants. All he knows is that plant A + plant B can cure Mr. C's illness.

If he decides to understand this whole process, he takes a pharmaceutical or biochemical course at the university. His horizon widens, and his repertoire of knowledge gets fat. This additional knowledge will fetch him more money as it is an upgrade. Even his clients will be happy to pay more if they are well-enlightened.

Originally, the higher institution wasn't meant for the poor and low IQ. It was for the elites and monarchs to train their kids in preparation to take their position after they retire or die. The peasants were meant to take local professions. Those with high IQs could fit well into the system and benefit largely because, by their IQ, they are curious and hungry for more knowledge.

Fast track to our contemporary day, the university has been filled with low IQs. People are not hungry for knowledge, but see it as a means to an end - money.

The monetization of the university by the government has even made things worst. Centers for learning and education are scattered all over the place, not for educational purposes per se but for profits. You know this by the series of departments and courses they create annually; this is to accommodate more students - the higher the number of students, the higher the profits.

A university education is not a waste. It seems like a waste in many nations today because there is no enabling environment to practice your profession and put every knowledge and skill into action.

Education can make you richer than the layman practicing the same profession as you. It's a matter of having the right tool and environment to implement that which you have learned.

2. Only a foolish son will squander the riches of his parents. Born into a rich home is a rollercoaster to wealth. It saves time and any unnecessary hustles. It gives you an edge over your peers. It gives you connections to other rich people.

Being born into a poor family is a setback. A huge disadvantage that can impede your movement and render you unable to do something meaningful with your life.
It takes a subset of individuals from poor backgrounds to experience success. The majority never meet up.

You can't compare an almajirai child running in the streets of Borno state under a scorching sun, begging for alms with a Saudi young prince. Both are not only continents apart, but in their destiny also. The prince is already in his monarchy while the almajirai is still somnabulating and looking for food to eat.

Being born with a silver spoon matters.

3. Positive thinking helps. Determination is good. Hard work is necessary. Consistency is a prerequisite.

But people do underestimate LUCK.

Your positive mindset, determination et al., are good as nothing if you don't have luck, a chance to make the big blow, and win.

You can't compare a prisoner to a free man. A healthy man to a psychiatric patient. Those that make a breakthrough from rugged conditions are the exceptions, not the rule. Luck met and blessed them.

If your environment is bad, you'll hardly see success. If government policies aren't favorable, you'll struggle hard. If you're not born with the right genetics, you'll triple work your way up.

Be prepared enough. Nothing is set in stone. We live by faith and hope, expecting to reach our destination someday. We must keep moving.

May we be favored by luck and chance.

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The global North will do everything to keep Africa in its claws. Not that they can't help Africans administer Justice. They can. However, if they do, it will impede the flow of loot from Africa to their table.

They talk about corruption and bad leadership, yet they are the cause and promoters. They talk about the poor state of Africa, yet they are the cause. This nemesis grants them an opportunity to pillage resources from Africa; bad and corrupt African leaders are the conduit.

I find it funny when Africans look up to the USA, UK, Germany, France, et al. for help. Meanwhile, the people they look up to help are their real oppressors. Same way generations upon generations don't know that the central bank is the problem of a weak economy.

We keep rolling from one problem to another, expecting top leaders and politicians to utilize their conscience to do that which is good, true, and pure. But they always do the complete opposite. They get worse.

The western world can't help us. Any help they decide to render is a poisonous colorful bait to sink us deeper into the hole we are trying to escape. In the same way, they lend Africa more money and lead us further into eternal debt.

Only the masses can take charge and change their situations, however, they need a leader who's antagonistic to the global agenda and understand the history of Africa.
Politicians are antithetical to doing the right thing because they are puppets of secret elites in pursuit of power and control of a global empire.

Thanks.

PS: @musicwriter, have you come across the latest documentary of prophet Uerbert Angel by Aljazeera about gold laundering?

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Alhamdulillah

"if them tell me say na you go do me this one I for nor believe. Anyway, we move".

emmaodet:
Lol. You wan become farmer?
Will that be able to fund your lifestyle?

"Na the career make I choose before. But my lifestyle come confuse me along the way. I don see say this my lifestyle nor go sustain me reach 60 years".

"Prodigal son na just be."

Regex:
Agbado with Corn plus your snail and rabbit go go well.

Plus thuggery.

Las las I have found my purpose. Hallelujah!

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emmaodet:
Like you once said, Farming.
Tensa, you can try your hands on goat farming or rabbit or snail even snake etc 😁😁😁
Las las, we all go dey alright

I would have love to try my hands on rabbitery and snailery. But feeding and especially, marketing is something I don't know of.

("Abi na to go find one farmer for this ogun state to come teach me work o".

Daddy Emma, "abeg if you get better idea for this business, help me share am." Na the career make I wan dey pursue be this. Make I stop dey pursue wetin wan kill me".

Thank you, sir.

1. Having good plans is important. Readiness to put those plans into action is also important.

Plans must be organized to meet up with expectations. Organising has to do with putting into consideration all the factors that serve as a means to the end.

2. The tangible, as well non-tangible factors combine to yield a result. The former can be easily sorted and arranged. The latter can't be since it depends on the volitions of the people running the operation.

3. Non-tangible factors(NTFs) are human: emotions and behaviors. It is based on the belief that the humans who are expected to do the job won't fail or relent along the way.

And environmental: the rise of events or change like the environment for which the operation is to be carried out.

4. To tarry with the mission after the plan must have been executed requires discipline on the side of the leader and the troops.

Discipline keeps the organized plan in shape: a flowchart that allows for maneuvering.

5. Inside that flowchart, there must be spaces for flexibility - a second-eleven plan to substitute the main when it isn't producing the expected results.

The plans that have proper organization maintained by good discipline will produce many results.

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