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Wake up earlier than others and do the chores you can.

Humans are territorial, they always like to handle their things by themselves especially when a stranger is around + the fact that at the moment everyone is suspicious of the other.

When you leave they will judge you by your character + the chores they refused you from doing (they may not tick this box). Just help with what you can and refuse to do nothing, be of best behaviour so that next time maybe by happenchance, they'll accept you again with open hands.

If the man of the house owns a car, you can wake up early and wash the car daily and save him stress + money that he would have spent in a car wash. Or, Clean the furnitures. Or, clean the compound maybe at one day interval (even if other tenants are present. A brother to my dad's friend got favoured through this way. And maybe time and chance can also grant you a favour through this too).

Just make sure you find something and do, better to err on the hardworking side.

Thanks.

Beautiful.

GraciousGod190:
some only tag along because of my money. But when I stop giving them, they stop coming close...

As for my physical deformity have tried everything but its seems not to work. I'm feeling suicidal, loneliness every night and day.


Lalasticlala
Seun

Channel that money to the right source - a dental surgeon. You are using the balance of your money after squandering on h0es to find a cure to your bad dentition, hence, possible cure/correction is not forthcoming.

Do this not because of women per se, but to boost your confidence and self-esteem with everyone, and to have that feeling of joy either day or night with or without anyone.

It is your duty to stay well and take good care of yourself.

Thanks.

Brogrammer:
After so many procrastination, my portfolio website is finally ready. It was built with Reactjs, gsap(for descrambling text effect on homepage), framer-motion(for page transition effect) and Css3.

https://qdus.netlify.app/

I'm actively looking for a gig or frontend position.

Splendid.

mdpeace:
Senior men in the house I hail oo abeg make una pardon my question, I created a fixed horizontal nav bar but the problem is, the navigation bar didn't even move an inch, after trying all the methods I could find online. Abeg make una help me I still day learn
Attached are the HTML and CSS codes

Check the nav tags.

Smartb0y:
Always give to ceaser what belongs to ceaser.

Copy and paste is never a good attribute to portray,says a lot about you really

You're one fake ass nigger

You and calibrator live under same roof; "wahala nor dey finish for where una dey".

Lmao.

BIDOO:
Please kindly send all the available books within your reach to darejnr5@gmail.com. thanks

Well done man.

Search for truth and you'll find it. Truth is not contained in one or two books, not even in a library, truth is scattered everywhere just like wisdom. Our tastes of books may differ but different books can lead to truth and the onus is on you to go down the rabbit hole and find what you desire.

1. Read all of Robert Greene's books.

2. Read all of Rollo Tomassi's books.

3. Follow @tellyoursonthis on Twitter. Go to his 2 sites and consume the materials there. And buy his Audiobook too.

4. Read The Counte of Monte Cristo. (Highly recommended anytime or day).

5. Read the Confession of an economic hitman by John Perkins.

6. Read the Bible and Quran.

7. Read the Ape that understood the universe by Steve Stewart Williams.

The list above will guide you as you make progress.

However, be open-minded, unlearn, relearn, learn. Observe and practice too - an important key.

Thanks.

DieRich5:

If this boyfriend is not calibrator "make I bend".

JmyNigaa:
Just did that now Sir

Replied.

JmyNigaa:
If I don't tap into this wisdom, I'll be doing myself wrong.
Pls an email address I can reach you on

If that's not possible, Pls point me to books I should read to fill this head of mine with knowledge. Can't resume School the same way I used to be.

Yes there are books but the above are my experiences. There's now number 32.

Send a DM man.

Thanks.

pansophist:
Nigerian issue (and at large, the global south AKA the third world) is not only the doing of Nigerian politicians but also the configuration of the global order. After the second war, the winner (the USA) and the allies signed the Bretton woods agreement, a global financial and economical system designed to favor just the west, especially the US (eg the USD being the world reserved currency), and the rest of the world scrapping under. Africa in particular was assigned the role of resource extraction only, and the inflow of technology, finances, industrialization, etc was denied. Although some countries rose above it (eg China which was under complete embargo by the western world for three decades), most countries didn't.

I will recommend a book for you, it is titled ''the confession of an economic hitman'' by John Perkins. The author worked for the US government and as the name of the book implied, he was a hitman sent globally to destroy economies of resource-rich countries, and Nigeria was one of them, he mentioned Nigeria in that book. I am writing this to give you a bird's eye view of a global landscape while things are the way they are. This is in no way absolving Nigerian leaders of their responsibilities to do better, but because they do not only take the blame. For example, lots of loan request by the previous administration to build a power grid, refineries, dam, and structures for industrialization was denied until China came into the picture to change the game.

Having said that, the sad news is that even if Nigeria breaks up, it's just one problem solved, the bigger problem is the one above, the global order of white supremacy that place itself on top, at the expense of everyone. Russia and Ukraine war is a perfect example. The west unleashed all its economic missiles to destroy and collapse the Russian economy, but Russia is too strong to fall. With over 5000 sanctions rained on a single country, no African country will survive it, just like Russia did. So you see, we are royally forked up.

Just at the first paragraph of your post, the book: The confession of an economic hitman, kept bouncing in my mind. It is the second book I read this year, the first edition though, and planning to read the second edition soonest. That book opened my eyes in another direction.

The West has really infiltrated the global sphere, their claws is at every necks. It will not be easy for Africa/Nigeria to survive at all. Hope Russia comes out strong once more.

Thanks.

1. Women will do anything for money.

Lazarus's case and that of the rich man is even better, women will eat both the crumbs that falls from the table and allow the rich man's dog eat them too.

2. Men fear power + physical dominance. If you got one or both, your respect will heighten. And true on a large scale.

3. Children only keep shut when you stand by your decision and accompany it with a rod. Like women, they love going against boundaries assigned to them.

4. How far you will go in life is dependent on the available knowledge or information you have or able to access.

5. Nobody cares about you, but you still end up thinking about how others see you. Human evolutionary instinct wants to ensure that you're not going against the rules of the tribe.

6. Everyone desires to help and show love, but when the burden is placed upon them they run away. These are weak people, the spectators and critics that lacks good sense of judgement. They are accusers and mere talkers.

7. Born into a poor family, a poor nation and a poor background sets you up for monumental failure. Hence, religion becomes a comforter and escape mechanism because chances of success are ultra slim. So, anything you do in such situation to at least upgrade yourself should be seen as success even though it can't be categorized as the norm. You tried my friend.

8. With wealth, influence and power, you not only break the rules, you make the rules and break it as it pleases you.

9. There are no morally wealthy + powerful people. Every powerful and wealthy man plays unsuspicious immoral game behind closed doors. When caught they rationalize it to mean a virtuous act. Or, pretend nothing happened.

10. The poor desires to be rich, and when he is unable, he castigates the rich and calls wealth vanity. Refer to 7 above.

11. Nobody is coming to help you, the few that will do will only point the route to you, you must do the work for yourself, don't expect anybody to do it for you.

12. People are selfish with knowledge because they think once it goes viral they will lose their power. And this is true. It is then left for you as an individual to go down the rabbit hole and and pursue knowledge. Refer to 4 above.

13. Life is not guaranteed in the next hour, assume you'll die sooner and that may help you come up with productive ideas and walk towards it.

14. No big deal being happy or sad, life will definitely take different turns on you, just be prepared and conscious about it.

15. Family is key. Your friends cannot be compared to your genetic line. Though, some friends has proven to be brothers.

16. Respect everyone. Don't view anyone ignominously, as they might know what you don't and can help when you don't expect.

17. Be kind, but always make sure you pay everyone with their own coins. This will ensure they know that in life, nobody has the monopoly of being kind, frugal, arrogant or prideful. Only the wealthy has such opportunity. Refer to 8 above.

18. Stay focus, continue to try and progress. You may experience a breakthrough, but in the case that you didn't made a significant breakthrough, just know you tried.

19. Majority of humans has died and many will die without achieving their dreams. Take heart.

20. Use your money to take good care of yourself. But also know that being selfish is for a short time, when you die another will inherit all your possessions, and he may possibly be your enemy.

21. Do what makes you happy is an escape mechanism to please your indulgence and never makes you want to feel guilty about your reckless behaviors.

22. If there's a process follow it. If it is long be patient and follow, and same if short. The more you try to short circuit the process, the longer you stay there correcting what you ought to have done in the past.

22. Life doesn't go as planned, always ensure you have alternatives and fallback. Don't depend on mere hope, faith, wishful thinking and prayer. You are not different from other beings. So, don't think your case is special.

23. Respect is only given to the wealthy, high status and powerful because humans are myopic, they judge you by your cover. A poor wise man is an object of mockery to the masses. Refer to 1 above.

24. Suffering is part of every process, make
good use of it.

25. The majority of people that are announcing their helps are only trying to exploit you.

26. If there's something to lose or gain people will comply. Better to use incentives than appeal to emotion or force.

27. Only outliers help genuinely from their hearts. The majority will not help if they have nothing to gain from you. Refer to 26 above.

28. You are not in control, independence or democracy are words to make you feel in control. The government and the wealthy men are the people in control. Refer to 8 above.

29. The wrong side about religion is that its adherents take every allegories and metaphors as facts. Meanwhile, when lessons are extrapolated from these religious tales you will find out that man truly needs religion. Refer to 7 above.

30. You don't know yourself until you suffer lack or have abundance.

31. Experience is the best teacher; if you are advice against an act you'll continually regret not taking action. However, some experiences comes with painful scars. Be careful.

32. Everything you say or know is true. However, truth is what has proven itself repeatedly and not void of empiricism and reality.

33. If you are extremely valuable, people will be attracted to you, but the majority will like to parasitize on you rather than become good as you.

Thanks.

Nairaland will only be announcing to us how the Ukrainian forces are destroying the Russians.

Is as if the Russian forces went to war with toy guns, nails and hammers.

Wow!

Altairx440:
Wow, nice man. Me too, I don't worry about the software development part, not just yet. I'm curious about the course you're taking, is it the one from github or udemy?

I'm finally through with the coding challenges, 50+ problems on Hackerrank definitely need to reward myself lol, onto the next.
I wish you same bro.

My nerve cells hasn't reached Hackerrank or Leetcode level, still being beaten hands down by Vanilla CSS.

Is there any section for Html + Css?

temi4fash:
How can i get the Bot channel please.

Just type udemy on the search bar.

Take note: DO NOT SUBSCRIBE TO THE CHANNEL. Just find a course you want and download. Else, you'll be banned. (Don't know if there's an update now). Do your research.

Thanks.

markjay23:
Already on it boss. Finding my footing with Laravel, I play around with flutter too in my free time. Just need a job to keep body and soul together. Udemy certifications aren't free too. But we're getting there. Thanks for your advice. I'll be sure to keep it to mind

There's an udemy bot channel on telegram that gives all udemy courses for free, only what you need is data and large device storage to download the mega files.

If you have any particular course in mind, watch at least 5 YouTube videos to know the pathway and then start watching different YouTube videos on each course subtopics.

Thanks.

This position is inherent, you can't take it away from me.

LoL.

NamelessOGBENI:
He is actually part of the government of his country because how one can explain the censorship placed on some so called 'political jargons' here.

A lot is amiss and the brain behind the forum seems not to care about the whole thing.

Simple answer: Economics.

Martinez39s:
Nice one. Truth is indeed a threat because it is usually harsh and, most times, greatly discomforts people who stare into the mirror of truth. Reality is harsh and indifferent, hence the truth, being more than a reflection of reality, doesn't go down well with many. Also, the effective propagation of truth upsets those who benefit from lies and delusions. Women benefit greatly from blue pill illusions and simping than we can imagine; why would they willingly want men to free or be happy with the someone like KS doing "the Lord's work" ?

The reason and way a crooked pastor who fleeces his laity will rejoice at the death of an atheist who is "freeing" his cash cows from religious beliefs are the same why many women will rejoice when a popular redpiller who is effective in liberating men bites the dust. The same way yahoo boys will rejoice at the death of that whistleblower, police chief or EFCC chairman who was a thorn in their flesh. They would get madder and more upset if you keep getting successful in important aspects of your life as you keep dropping truths.

Also, most people are emotional and hence prefer utterances that make them feel good, massage their egos, or quell the effects of truths that make them uncomfortable or frightened. Preaching these truths and exploding their sweet delusions will elicit hostility from them, and you will be surprised how far emotions can drive people, especially those who always yield to them. The man who holds the mirror of harsh truth in front of others, especially harsh truths about those staring into the mirror, or liberates people from lies should watch his back.

So don't be surprised when many women celebrate the death of KS or wish woes upon redpillers. It is all brutal survival and emotion. If you, Ubunja, myself or any redpiller dies today, you know those that are likely to celebrate.

Solid!

1. The average human will judge the efficacy of a statement based on the characteristics of the messenger not minding if such statement is rooted in reality or just illusions to lead them astray.

2. If you are not high status + powerful, your words are for the laymen. Hence, the wise poor man is never regarded for his wisdom.

But say a man is foolish + high status and or powerful all his words are true to the masses. This is why the masses will continously be trodden upon, the carrot-stick is an effective strategy for such purpose.

3. Myopic + narcissistic people always respond to dominance + high status; women in the majority and that's the reason they complain about bad boys but still end up reproducing kids for these bad boys. Aside that evolutionary instinct, women are myopic, and same for the average man void of wisdom, logic and intelligence. They are all birds of same feathers. The average man will not respect you if don't have wealth + capacity to physically destroy him - another evolutionary instinct.

4. Disseminating truth in this zeitgeist of our time is like walking on time bombs because the authorities don't want the messenger to relieve their hostages who are the masses, and the masses themselves are too weak, too ego invested in many false belief systems.

Both the authorities and the masses are serious threat to civilizational growth. The aim of the former is politics + economics. The later has no aim, just live and let us live. This game goes on a micro-scale in large volume in intersexual dynamics as stated below:

The switch here is that womens' aim in relationship is politics as it is relates to cunning and economics as it relates to money + more resources. The men are after romance + sex. Nationally, the masses are the scapegoats. In romance, men are the scapegoats.

5. How can the masses be elevated? No way! Because they will always attack all messengers of truth, they are the Pharisees. Though, some may be rescued but that's why it is some. Same goes for men, they can't be rescued because of high libido drive which is linked to a higher volume of inbuilt testosterone. Women is what men think all day, or at least most of the day whether directly or indirectly. The difference between two men in response to this phenomenon is that one acts in awareness and self-control.

6. In all, what baffles me is that science is now being used as a tool of propaganda rather than truth. Many professors and scientists has been sold to lust for material goods + transient positions just to keep their mouths shut. It then takes one to introspect deeply before making a statement because he might just have fed from a polluted stream he misconstrued for truth. The average man doesn't need to bother, he already dwells in falsehood and denials. And it is also a tough time for messengers of truth, it has always been like that though.

7. Lies has always be comfortable for the majority and beneficial to some. Regardlessly, truth is a fertile seed, any ground it falls upon may be a limiting factor, but at the end, it always strives to become a mighty tree, a force majeure, unstoppable and widespread.

Thanks.

ubunja:
definitely making that a-hole Zuckerberg rich by spending so much time there. Just that Instagram works so well, Seun is letting us down by not developing NL. We need to share audio and videos and it's so demoralizing that we can only share pics.

Yah, Kevin's works remain. It's the celebration by black women that was depressing.

Truth is always a threat, so accusers and those who choose to live in denials thinks that the demise of a messenger is tantamount to the demise of his good works. Same scenario keeps playing out in reality, myths and literatures.

Seun is acting like the government of his country, the reason he doesn't want to make some upgrades.

CAPSLOCKED:
THERE WE GO AGAIN. TYPICAL SOCIETY. ABSOLVING WOMEN FROM EVERYTHING AND HANGING THEIR VERY OWN STUPIDITY ON INNOCENT MEN.

WHEN ACTUAL WOMEN BEHAVE LIKE THIS ON THE INTERNET I NOTICE HOW FAST MEN TRY TO ACCUSE MEN FOR EITHER BEING BEHIND THOSE ACCOUNTS OR SAYING MEN ARE RESPONSIBLE FOR THOSE WOMEN'S BEHAVIOURS.

MAKES NO SENSE THAT YOU/WE STILL LOOK AT WOMEN LIKE "DARLING ANGELS THAT DO NO WRONG" AND ALWAYS MAKE MEN THE SACRIFICIAL HERD.

1 DRUNK ILLITERATE MAN HAS MORE SENSE AND WILL COME UP WITH MORE QUALITY BEHAVIOUR WHEN COMPARED TO 10 SOBER WOMEN WITH DOCTORATES DEGREES.
ALWAYS REMEMBER THIS WHEN YOU SEE A WOMAN POST/DO SOMETHING TYPICALLY STUPID AND YOU FEEL LIKE ACCUSING MEN FOR IT, FOR WHATEVER STUPID A MAN WILL COME UP WITH, A WOMAN WILL MATCH IT IN MULTIPLE FOLDS.

It's not my fault that you're unable to parse my post(s).

We all know that many jobless dudes and their female likes are wearing the "f" insignia here. They are on Facebook, Twitter, Instagram, and various social and dating sites.

Take a chill pill man, life may not be on easy mode, but that shouldn't make us over complicate it for ourselves.

I say things at it is, don't give a fvck whether you are a male or female. And it is not a gender war.

By the way, I judge individuals based on their words, actions, and inherent behavioral characteristics as it pertains to their genetics and environment. So, if 10 sober women with doctorates degree like Esther Villar, Deborah Soh, Helen Fisher, Helen Cooven are spilling facts I will take their words and same with the old drunken man if his words are solidified in facts and reality.

Thanks.

ubunja:
I'm good man, thanks for inquiring. No ban no restrictions. Just taking a break from the thread. Will be back in a few days, probably in the coming week. Also Instagram is taking a lot of my time. Hope guys are doing well,, considering the turmoil of the last few days with the passing of Kevin Samuels.

If you don't buy or become a shareholder on Instagram let me know why.

It's so unfortunate that Kevin Samuels is no more. Death is inevitable, even me I'm always prepared for it anytime or day, maybe tomorrow. However, his works lives on. KS maybe no more, but the fire behind every truthful words he spoke will continue to burn and transcend.

It's good to hear from you big daddy.

TheDarkGamer:
Thank you for reaching out. I'm alright.

I was just very busy with school and I had little time to check out the thread. However, I'm currently done with my first year and I have about four months for the summer vacation.

I'll soon start making contributions here more frequently, but for now I have to catch up on about one hundred pages. I'm also working on Amazon Kindle publishing and I've published a few books. I will also take on a summer job soon, and I'm working on making a YouTube channel.

So, I have some things going on right now.

I hope you're fine as well. Nice to hear from you again.

We are on the same route dude. Plan on publishing some books on Amazon before the year runs out. I would have done with one already, but I observed that Amazon KDP is a game of number, so I planned publishing up to five.

On the otherhand, I'm still contemplating if to stay behind the scene or just make a face reveal on my YouTube channel.

Since we are on the same route, I will send you a DM for more info and help.

By the way, congratulations, you're done with first year.

Candidlady:
After the rubbish you did.. you still brought it here so your fellow redpillers could spew their own rubbish ba ?

Poor lady didn't know she was hanging with a broke boy

That's why when you're poor you act according to your means and go distances your legs can carry.

If the case was reversed, "f" monikers would have applaud her for such braveness. Meanwhile, the reason she suddenly acted those lovey-dovey Romeo et Juliet show was to use it as a leverage to get free transportation back home + free goodies. Y'all claiming independence, yet, can't live solely on your income; hell unleash when a man is out of the equation whom you all depend for your daily livelihood.

It is good everyone acts with wisdom as life is truly unfair and doesn't care.

And for the OP: always hit the nail on the head next time. There are plenty ways to say no and just go do your thing. Though she tried to manipulate you, but you would have rub shit back on her face by simply ignoring her and not faking a promise. Trust and sincerity is very sacrosanct in all that you do as you continually watch out for manipulations.

Thanks.

Smartb0y:
Ovu what
They're past menopause my brother :

Probably, they are the rare exceptions of post menopausal women. But I think they are young women or those dysfunctional males that hides behind female moniker to perpetuate their foolishness; pathetic of these men if the later is the case.