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Trex4:
You guys don't understand Redpill REDPILL IS THE TRUTH. Or aims to be. Wether you're poor or rich the truth is still the truth.

For example, picture a nice Chicken dish. You're seeing it well garnished and cooked, That's BLUE PILL. Redpill will show the truth about the dish. Like the torture the chickens go through, the artificial additives, the under paid Chefs and other unhygienic processes used in arriving at the final product. Wether it's a Mama put or expensive 5 star restaurant chicken. It's still the same process.

The creator of the thread Glycolysis named this thread REALITY EVERY GUY SHOULD KNOW. Not every rich guy, or every poor guy. He said every guy. Cause I've seen some people here in past claim redpill is only for poor people

This whole, Get money Bla Bla is becoming stale. It's like preaching to the choir. I believe everyone here is hustling for money. I know Mj bolt and Die rich from the crypto thread, I know cave A dullam is coding and some people here like pansophist are based abroad self.

MORAL: Wether you have money or not, Redpill or female nature will still be the same! Try to get money yes, But understand Redpill as a man it'll help you in many spheres of life.

The first point of attack: "your posts are too long".

I always say this: '99% of men and 100% of women are the same.

It is only the dull in mind, the one who has a limited scope of matters arising, a slow thinking individual with an irrational models of how things operate, a myopic person who can't telescope beyond his/her feelings - an inability to look pass the nose to even the surrounding community...that judge wisdom, truth and intellect based on status, wealth and power. This gives rise to the 'authority bias'.

It is a psyop when it comes to the truth, if you're an adherent or pursuer of the truth, traveling down this rabbit hole, you will be mocked, shamed, ridiculed. Your accusers see you as an oppression, intransigent and coming to reduce them to nothing once you become liberated, hence, they will look for various possible means to never see you come through. It is a political, social, emotional, economical, cultural attack. Simply put, they are JEALOUS! Jealous of you and everything that's giving you shape.

Some will even go as far as digging up past mistakes, poor decisions and juvenile ways you've done things just to smear you. They always forget that nothing in life is constant and improvement is eternal. But since they are slow and low in IQ why will they think this way?

Poor or rich, TRUTH IS TRUTH! But so sad that a wise man can't be considered for his wisdom because he is poor! And a a rich man is a friend to many. There might be a correlation between wisdom and wealth: wisdom should bring wealth, and one ought to be wise in handling wealth. However, these entities: wealth and wisdom differs. One can be wise and poor, or wise and rich, or stupid and poor, or stupid and rich: this is the matrix.

When you come across idiotic folks like this, you just allow them wallow like sows in the mud, because that is what is beffiting them.

In as much every (young) man is doing something better than yesterday, micro-dosing themselves for each day that comes by, they are on the right track and a 100 times better than idiots who fold their legs and hands pointing fingers, unnecessarily criticizing and throwing tantrums.

Thanks for your take up there. Kudos.

Calibrator:
Going through this beauty, I'd like to know your personal view on "Black Tax"

1. I suspected something along this line, like a rebuttal, hence, this last sentence in the 4th paragraph: 'make sure everyone is on check'.

2. However, that statement is kind of nuanced. Some readers may see it as always being nice. Others may see it as caring for family. But I was actually imagining the game of chess when typing that line and the essence is that the man should be aware of manipulations when rendering or receiving help as families are not beyond manipulations.

3. I think the aforementioned statements above has clarified my take on black tax. Are you satisfied now? I know you'll say no as you like me going deeper 'shalaying'. Lol. Alright I will.

4. Individuals will definitely judge or analyse matters of life from their current belief system, like carpenters, all they see is wood + nail + hammer. Like the religious, all they see is God + demons. Like writers, all they see is pen + paper + library... Some persons are nihilistic, misanthropic, anarchist, idealist, realists etc.

Why am I saying all these? Because many people feel that they don't need their family(nuclear family) at all, as it is the duty of their parents to take care of them and when they become old they can choose to help or not help their ageing parents. That life is purposeless and they can choose to live and operate in the dark. It is a dark world actually!

5. Of course it is the duty of parents to cater for their children as their reproductive mirthfulness gave rise to their existence. No one by their own volition decided to come to this earth, we all are products of sexual rendezvous between our parents. Parents don't have any excuse in not taking care of their kids until they are sure that the kids now adults can fully live responsibly and solely.

6. Many people do suffer parental negligence, hence, when they become established in future they don't give a fvck about their parents. That's a good reason for any negative attitude towards negligent parents. Some may decide to stay aloof from family because of the tension, complaints, stress, pains, manipulations, gaslighting from family members.

7. The key point here is that, as humans, we'll always find a good reason or there's always a good reason for whatever action we take or steps we make. We will wander from north to south, east to west, but will still come/fall back to the central point which is family. Family are the last on the line that will eventually welcome you home despite your attitudes. Just the way by instinct men can accommodate women, family can accommodate man. They are also on the frontline giving you all the motivations you need despite the fact that they may not fight every battles with you. And it is normal because each one of us has our perculiar troubles.

8. Except you've suffered greatly in the hands of family, black tax will be much of a problem. For those that enjoyed good welfare and support under the tutelage of family, black tax will not be seen as 'tax' when they know they can be able to provide for their family. To the later, black tax is not compulsory but necessary as an act of reciprocation and show of gratitude.

9. What's the essence of all your greatness if your genetic line is lagging behind? That's miscalculation along human evolutionary line. As you become much better, a good yardstick that will be used to judge you is how close and kind you are to your family. You may not like it but it is what it is. So, you must always reason family.

10. Black/family tax is important but must be done out of kindness if you have the means, and you must watch out for manipulations and ingrates.

Thanks.

Dizzyyish:
Good day everyone!
Please who can tell me everything wrong with the below 1:40 video?:


https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=9YyPZSnVjs0

Extra points if the nature of the video's comments are included.

The man just ended up unveiling his vulnerabilities. Pathetic! It is as if he he hasn't conquered demons on his own. It is as if victory has always being aloof from him. It is as if he has his life tethered to his woman. Fear is in his eyes, he's scared of losing her. He even said "you breathe life into me".

Oh my man! Oh! Oh! Who has done this to you?

The woman is just calm and balance, with eyes of a manipulator. Smiles are fake! Laughs are fake. She was true before the camera: cold within and without. The camera was a power revelation and she's the powerful one.
Her attentiveness is not because she wanted to listen, she pierced her husband by the side and he kept gushing.

"Why do you love me?" That question (though was a game) is a simple trick to let her know how far she's gone deep into him and use the camera to portray to the world how good she is and who's really in charge. Of course, she is in charge.

Pray the union be happily ever after. (If possible, I will love to hear the whole dialogue. It is good we weigh things on both sides and many too).

Thanks.

Ronnnie bobo...how's you?

tensazangetsu20:
Well I don't believe in connections. I never needed it. I apply to jobs online, get interviews, pass and get an offer. You can send me a PM Sha but I dont teach Sha but I can chat.

Tensa... "I go join send PM o".

1. Nothing truly wrong in what you did. You were kind enough to expantiate on your line of business to a stranger and even proceed in trying to help him pick some stones around his life to lay a foundation for a better future.

2. Ingratiation can be two ways: a tendency to show appreciation and an act of humility. Or, a manipulative technique to get around you. If the former was the case, it wouldn't be much of a problem because he's not praising you for its sake but for an unexpected saviour. However, the later is his case.

3. Humans always look for the easy way out, none want to waste time, wait or be patient enough to jump over the complex hurdles of life. In short, life is hard, hence, humans always look for the easy way out. (Even on a daily basis, as you work as a tech personnel, you still find easy way out when using the computer).

4. Before you totally write him off, you can have a last round table talk with him. Ask him if he truly wants to learn. And if he gives a parabolic answer, forget about him. But if you have done this before, no need.

5. Age is another factor if you're to consider him in gaining a breakthrough in tech. Environmental factors are there also. Social, family, cultural, past experiences and personal factors are there also, and are greatly affecting the way he's responding to this current situation. Try to think of this too. You're already empathic enough, but this last time, try and see things from his end. Maybe he isn't passionate about tech and see his future somewhere else.

6. Except you've known someone for sometime and can be able to make good summary about their character and attitude, don't allow them to your house. (You rejecting this man, may invoke negative thoughts in him about you. Be careful)!

The world we live now is tough and rough, a wild jungle structured for the strong, wise and brave. You don't live carelessly or allow people to carelessly move around your space and properties. Your success, appearance, and way of doing things can trigger negative emotions in people and if care isn't taken, can propel them to cause you harm. Be cautious man!

7. Generally, men don't wake up to see such kind of opportunity, please help men when you can. It is not easy for the average man out there as he must struggle his way up. And unfortunately, many men will never make it to the top or level they so much desire.

Again, also watch out for the nonchalant ones that are poor in both character and attitude and unwilling to be humble enough to learning and directives; discard them immediately! Wheats must the sequestered from the chaffs.

Thanks.

satandeterrible:
A lot of blue-pilled persons on this thread trying to corrupt its core essence.
For the sake of posterity, let me state it again that a man is not obligated to spend on his girlfriend.

If she is not your wife, you must be VERY calculated in how and what you spend on her.
You as a boyfriend do not have to take the responsibility of buying her data, paying for her hair, tuition, even sanitary pads and other frivolities.

If you have to give money to your girlfriend, you do so because you absolutely want to and not as a duty or responsibility that you have to shoulder.

Look how they are trying to broke shame you. They use the same tactics as women. They shame you into spending what you shouldn't on an unappreciative woman.

Again, spend money on her ONLY because you want to. And it should be limited, calculated and done in a way that you do not spend what you can not afford to lose.
Remember, where a man's money is, there his heart lies. If you begin to invest massively on her, paying for things her father cannot pay for her, then you are tying yourself to her and in no time you'll begin to suffer oneitis. From there onwards, its a downward spiral.

It is even funny when that blue-pilled guy above mentioned sex as one of the benefits you receive from her, therefore you must spend on her because of that. Lol.
These are the same people that'll tell you that it is okay to pay for sex.
I was thinking sex is a mutual activity to be enjoyed by both parties, but Mr simp up there is telling us that it is a gift from the girl, for which we should be grateful. How despicable and low can a man go?

For the umpteenth time, I'll say that you as a boyfriend are under no obligation to spend on your girl. Money is not a price you pay for being in a relationship. Money is not a price you pay for having mutual sex. Money is not a price you pay for submission from your girlfriend.
Once you begin to pay for these things, you are no different from a man who pays prostitutes for regular sex.

Always know that you only have to give your girl money if you feel like it and it should ideally be in a manner that is calculated, so that you do not invest yourself into the relationship.

Yes I am broke. Yes I am stingy. Yes I am an incel. Yes I am a blackpiller. Yes I am short and ugly.
What other shaming tactics do you have in your shaming tool-box?

Your pee-pee is 0.5inches.

omohayek:
If physically assaulting children was really the secret to "discipline" and a crime-free life, why is Nigeria then such a hellhole compared to countries like Denmark, Germany, Japan, Australia, Canada and all the other nations where such brutal methods of "discipline" are quickly punished with the full force of the law? Shouldn't Nigeria have become a beacon of peace and prosperity by now, with all the "discipline" sadistic adults have dished out to children over the decades? And yet every single one of you who praise such "discipline" would be screaming with joy if you were to suddenly get the opportunity to immigrate to one of those "indisciplined" societies I've mentioned. Animals!

Good points.

First of all you'll agree that the West is in a state of decline. LGBTQ, gender misnomer, liberalism, woke culture, progressivism, metoo culture, feminism, use of antidepressants, abortion protest, mass shooting etc. are all features of the West. And most of these acts are carried by the younger generations (even though they have some older generations backing them up).

Moral decadence + crimes exists in the countries you mentioned + in Nigeria. Therefore, the use of the rod of discipline is an extremely weak factor when considering the economic advancement across continents. The West are not advanced because they don't use the rod of discipline on their kids. Or, don't scold their kids.
What makes their countries work is the rule of law, science, technology and advancement in many areas. Genetics and environmental factors also play a great role.

Overall, if kids are not disciplined, they forgo their boundaries and lose respect for the law and older ones. It is simple as that.

Thanks.

Lanretoye:
a living dog is better than a dead lion a spoilt child is better than a dead child.

With all due respect, stop talking nonsense!

From your analogy, kidnappers, fraudsters, bandits, terrorists, human traffickers, quack professionals etc. are better alive than being dead. Dead or alive, the consequences of their actions is chaos - first destroying others before their own demise.

You're bragging about a spoilt child. But same you will be the first to lay curses on other parents for not training their kids in the right way. Same you will tend to instill discipline on a child who's not yours. Same you will complain about the evil of our society. Same you will start running from mosque to church, helter skelter when you can no longer caution your kids.

The use of the rod must be balanced, extremity is a no. However, we all know why teachers go extreme with the rod on pupils/students: once students notice that a teacher isn't willing or forced by the school management not to use the rod, they make jest of the teacher and view him/her ignominously.

You all have spoilt kids at home. And you should thank teachers for accommodating a truckload of trashy behaviors from kids from different homes day in and out. If you think it is easy withdraw your child from school and train the child yourself. The money you pay as tuition is one hand, instilling discipline and trying to merge that child into a responsible adult, a duty you can't do and using the school as an escape route is a different ball game entirely.

Thanks.

Maybe you have an introverted personality, hence, your inability to express yourself within and outside your family circle.

Extraversion is one of the big five personality traits: Conscientiousness. Agreeableness. Neuroticism. Openness. Extraversion.

Kids high on extraversion trait are always social and friendly. Those low in extraversion are the opposites. However, for introverts, they are less narcissistic and neurotic unlike the extroverts.
Since you fall on the later side, you must endeavor to exhibit the positive side of extraversion - learn to meet new people, talk and make friends. It will not be easy for an introvert because they are able to spot that most humans are average and dumb, and it is not wise wasting time with them; extroverts simply don't care! They are the opposites.

Make your decisions and let it known. Don't fret. Be calm. Talk when necessary. Just have fun. Improve on yourself and act more masculine. And by the time you are done with all these, you'll not only make your dad proud, but you'll be transfigured into a better self.

Education in all ramifications is very sacrosanct, if parents knew about child psychology, effects of genetics and environment on every individuals, many of them would have done better in raising their children. Alas, here we are, we must help ourselves.

Thanks.

seanwilliam:
Pansophist
CaveAdullam
Ubunja
Undercover
Martinez09 ( martinez39)
Harddon
Seatrade (logobenz)
Ibime
Openheaven19
Slawomirr
Chewbacca
Franschang
mengoingthereway
franchasng
Nwaamaikpe
malignantguest

Those are the people I go through their posts first thing in the morning when I log in to nairaland ..
They should be the most followed on nairaland tbh..
There’s no how you will fail if you follow these guys posts and act in accordance..

Their posts cut across business, relationships , politics , travels , finance, religion and life nuggets generally

Thanks for the mention, promise to improve and serve better.

pillager:

1. It is not that... "my dreams are big and I don't know how to achieve them without your help".

It is not that... "I have this great idea but I don't know how to flesh it out".

"It is not that..."I want you to be here for me because I believe you can be source of strength and hope".

No. It is neither this nor what looks like it.

2. Because her and her other colleagues are myopic + materialistic that dwells only on instant gratification of passions, she didn't think about the importance of great reasoning and achievement. She's happy in her delusion and feel so comfy about it.

For women, it is either now or never; a stupid opinion that only span miniscule moments but not without leaving a lasting scar in their lives.

3. It is for this reason women can never contribute anything meaningful to civilization save procreation. The women that tend to shook history or won Nobel laureates had men as an affix to their names or men as potential source of help. Women can't simply do it alone from scratch to finish.

4. Clothes, shoes, lotions and other superficials are what she desires, yes these things are needed as a basic need of one(male or female). However, it is absurd thinking that a relationship must kickstart from a point of materialism rather than working together, complementing themselves in unity.

Relationship ought to be mutual exchange of values geared towards growth - being in a relationship without any noticable growth but rather, stagnancy or drawback, is an indication of parasitism.

5. By the time she's asked what she has to offer, she will start blabbing and even bit her tongue which will make her feel she has 'talked too much points'.

6. Broke b!tches with legs crossed in front of a TV or Mobile set want men to do what their fathers can't do. Idiots!
She doesn't have anything to offer, yet, have this sense of grandiosity expecting men to fill her void rather than by herself. It is this entitlement mentality that makes these women never see the need for self growth and improvement.

However, most of the times the majority of them are lucky because the eyes of many men are veiled towards the actions and behaviors of women.

7. Men, you don't have any obligation to pay attention to such foolery and idiocy. If she can't continue let her go. And If she come. back, don't continue. Her rejection or termination of the relationship can even serve as a means for improvement if you watch, observe and practice closely.

Thanks.

This can fit well with DAY 141, REDPILL 2022

Authority: Don't entertain leeches.

Smartb0y:
@caveadullam
Do you put out contents on Twitter?

No!

heartofcity12:
The girl you were once crushing hard on years back might not suit your fancy anymore today.. It’s all for good.. The wall remains undefeated..

1. 2years ago, I came across this female classmate I was crushing hard on during our school days, and at that time, I began to wonder what actually made me felt so infatuated about her. Because she wasn't as beautiful compared to when she was younger. (For the benefit of doubt, I will say it was because of our mourning process - we lost a friend so precious to our hearts). However, she still wasn't beautiful as before. Of a truth she gave me the greenlights back then in school, she even used money to prove it, but I wasn't prepared enough to understand the nitty-gritties of the sexual game. Seems counterintuitive though. Lol.

2. Nature has blessed women with early fertility, early maturity and as a result can be able to scout for men who has work hard for commitment. In the mating game, this is a positive sum game: both wins - fertile woman + wealthy man.

3. Nature has granted an eighteen year old woman or even less down depending on the early development of her visible sexual parts - breasts, hips and buttocks to have access to men older than her with easy and cool reception, while an eighteen years old boy don't easily get that chance.

4. Unlike women, men must prove to nature that their help comes from above, as they will work it out through blood and sweat, maneuvering every terrains and forging themselves through loneliness, darkness and fire. When they are being subjected into these processes, their female counterparts with little or no achievements are busy selecting for mates. Nature is truly a friend of women - mother nature indeed!

5. Time is the litmus test for both sexes: it favours women early so that they can make good use of their transient fertility + beauty because it decreases as time increases. For men, they must struggle and grow out of their cocoons and become powerful as time increases.

6. Time favours women early and men late. However, the foolish woman + foolish man lacks an idea about time; the former will capitalize on beauty and fails to build character + integrity, and instead of leverage on beauty to polish herself, she just relax into laziness. The end for her is murmuring! The foolish man will never become as great as other men + will be rejected by both men and women. It is even better for the foolish woman because 'a foolish man simp will definitely commit to her'.

7. Both the man and woman that lacks an understanding of time will never make good use of time. And time they say "waits for no man".

Thanks.

ichidodo:
[color=#1980BC] Perplexity is the start of True Knowledge, my brother....If you need animality just fall in to Data structure and Algorithm in leetcode..Try to put in the work with practices until you start crushing intermediate questions in 45mins flat...Then it's "Finish Him!".[/color]

Once it enters animality stage, it means total disappearance of me.

Since you're already rooting for me, I promise to focus and add more energy.

Thanks.

ichidodo:
[color=#1980BC] I am good.....How are you and how has your programming journey been?. I am rooting for you.[/color]

"Rooting for me"..."mogbe". Hands on my head.

Programming journey is war of lords and swords for me..."na so so fatality and babality CSS dey give me". Wonder how JavaScript will treat me. Anyway, it has been alternating between fun and frustration, "Eureka" sometimes, and damn, "what's wrong with humans for creating something as confusing and complex like this". Lol.

That's it uncle.

Raalsagul, Nerostealth01, saviolamemphis, Ichidodo, livingicon, hope you guys are fine?