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Silentgroper:
But most times, d woman who wants us are not the one we want. Has happened to me twice.

CaveAdullam:
1. Every woman got a man she loves. Yes, love. Love not in the entire meaning of sacrificial - threshold exclusively to men. However, a woman who loves you will be sacrificial to an extent, that is, based on the romantic feelings she has for a man, she can go the extra mile to please him.

2. This love( not sacrificial but romantic) is what is termed genuine desire. Genuine desire doesn't care about age, status, looks, or wealth. Let's call this man, man A, the poor man. This is the man that can titillate her emotional spring, the player, the bad boy who doesn't give an fvck about her, and with six-packs. These men satisfies the first half of a woman's sexual nature - search for protection and dominance.

This doesn't mean that women are not attracted to age, status, looks, or wealth. Let's call this man, man B, the rich man. He is the ultimate provider, the easy nice intelligent dude with good glasses. He satisfies the other half of a woman's nature ,- the search for provision, care and support.

> Said woman has a genuine desire for man A. But she can frolic with man B and in the end, still falls back to man A.

> To man A, she is a hostage. While to man B, she is a diamond in the rough.

> Funnily, she will not marry man A, but man B, except man A, has the same level of wealth and status as man B. Here lies the genesis of paternity fraud.

>However, she will ever be more loyal to man A than her husband, man B because she has a genuine desire for man A.

3. Problem many men of today are having is that they don't know about this. They chase the woman helter-skelter in an attempt to change her mind from loving man A.

Smart women have discovered and capitalized on this and are manipulating men of different classes just to sponsor themselves while remaining loyal to man A. Everything happens behind the scene of her heart, man A may not even be aware, however, still got the woman at his beck and call. (Men date. While women multi-date).

a. Men date because with one woman he is satisfied and can channel his limited resources to her. Women multi-date because she wants to accrue many resources as a result of interaction with many men. Then, you may ask: "aren't men more polygamous and promiscuous than women?"

b. Monogamy and polygamy rest based on RESOURCES AND COMMITMENT - it is men that provide them not women. Now, men by their testosterone in high volume want to fvck different women, without committing and squandering their resources because it is limited. No wonder monogamy is the human primary mating strategy, however, men are still promiscuous but will never commit to other women.

c. Men fvck different women and will not commit; only the woman that wins his heart will he commit to.

d. While women fvck different men looking for the one that will commit. She will not be loyal to the man that eventually commits; women are highly loyal to the men that deflowered them, they may no longer be close to each other, but it was that man that opened her eyes to the gateway of sex that she will ever be loyal to both consciously and instinctually, and this is the man that always owns her heart and has a genuine desire for.

Women are slightly less promiscuous than men, in their dating or sex spree they are still cautious and selective about the men they fvck.

e. So, a man fvcks and commits to a woman that wins his heart. While women fvck but not looking for a man to win her heart, she already has one, what she needs now is commitment.

4. You may ask: "but men spend heavily on side chicks and sugar babies".

> Yes, that is true. For a man to effectively pull polygamy he must be wealthy and resourceful. However, only a few men in the world are wealthy and can successfully commit to different women at the same time - this is a solid claim for polygamy.

> (Rich) men may squander their money on side chicks but what they spend is minuscule compared to their net worth. The baseline is that they are not going to commit to these side chicks. Why?

a. They know that side chick's love is fake and fickle.

b. Side chicks are damaged goods and can't sustain a family. These men only commit their entire resources to their families, wives, and children.

On the other hand, these men may be spending to win a woman's love which is a futile journey from the beginning. A man can't win a woman by spending exorbitantly. She will only fake submissiveness.

5. Back to the beginning: every woman has a man she loves genuinely, the man may not notice it and both may not care about it, however, there is a spark once they unify.

6. Guys should therefore upgrade and better themselves, and it will be easy for them to get hold of these women that has a genuine desire for them. However, they must be cautious as some women may fake genuine desire just to siphon them.

7. Guys should look around them, there are some girls/women that have a genuine desire for them instead of chasing women that don't have any iota of interest for them.

8. Women always date high. True, a woman may be loyal to man A, but her nature still gravitates towards man B. Upgrading and bettering yourself as a guy is not only to fvck women in their hordes, but that when you are sitting on a high pedestal, men, women, children, and society either fear you or respect you. You become a force majeure.


Thanks.

heartofcity12:
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Kipaji:
Hi Cave.

Thanks for this insightful piece on power.

Now, a few clarifications. I never said they are not attracted to power. They indeed are, and I think it's obvious. My point was that it is not all about the power, that is, power is not the one and only factor that comes to play. If it was the case, then rich men would not be played as they are powerful (at least financially and socially). So, it's not just like "Once one gains the power, he automatically gets the girls to respect him and open their legs."

Kipaji:
I didn't say that "many women don't involve themselves in some weird and wild sexual acts". You may have read me wrong and may want to read again. I said that when one reads our discussions in this thread, he may believe that just about every woman participated in group sex, orgies, etc. And my point was that, though it is highly widespread, it isn't that common.

crystalmoon:
To start selling gas for the first month you don't need to care about profit you need to get rid of competitors by using this strategy anytime kids come to fill gas if they are filling 3kg you give them 50naira back of their money 6kg you give them 100 naira that endears you to them they will tell their friends and you will have plenty customers you should be ready for angry customer who wants one kg to last for one month
How will you be getting the gas you have to find a reliable gas distributor who will sell at a very good price for example distributor buys gas from the depot sell to you the retailer while you sell to the end user gas for retailer now is between 690 to 730 per kg calculate for end user which you will be selling for at 850 900 gas has gain
If you fill 60kg inside your gas cylinder you will meet 58 or 59 it can never be complete
That all for now

2dice01:
Morning
With a good location
On each bottle (50kg) lets say you make 4000naira

if you have sell minimum of 25kg per day for 30days
That means you are making 2000naira daily
2000 x 30days = 60000naira

You also be selling Gas accessories/cylinder which is profitable

You will need at least 250-350k to start the business depending on the location

crystalmoon:
my mom runs a gas plant should I say more about gas selling

2dice01:
Good day boss

It is Gas business
Selling to end users

Find a good location
That's highly populated

You are good to go

jesmond3945:
The problem with learning courses is that they present so many different ways of doing the same thing that you get lost in the process. For example, they would present different ways of splitting a string that you get confused about. So I would say have one standard way you can split a string you understand and know. When you do these courses just learn the step to solve or build anything and then use the methods you understand and know to do the job.

tosaino95:
Your Answer is Accurate and Understandable.

tosaino95:
Nope he doesn't and you Talking about society illustrates.
Red pill Godfather is married and Most of redpill coaches are married as well if they are against ( Society Illustrates ) why are they married they even probably marry the girls they disvirgin.
And they are in control of their house which is why everybody need Redpill to understand life and especially woman nature.
Most of us here know Woman most valuable asset is her virginity and we're talking about it now as if it's nothing.
The truth here You're the one that damaged your girlfriend and later you dump her without cheating on you ( just saying ) she then get married to another man in future but she still want you to be fvcking her based on virginity-break law i bet you will come here to say she is cheating on her husband with you meanwhile you're the one that she is attached to because sex and soul is with you.

Can you tell me now that is Red pill or Wickedness.

2dice01:
That day might never come
Suffer no dey tire men

¹A close friend of mine rather buy recharge everyday to call his girl than to eat 3 square meal
²Same guy rented a mini flat because of the pressure from his girlfriend instead of doing a business we both know he will be making good profit monthly
³ He told me he is going to do court wedding cus his girlfriend his is everything

I just smiled

adeiza4u:
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adeiza4u:
send a DM, let's hook up.

adeiza4u:
No matter what you are paid, most private schools are slavery boot. I get paid 60k but I can't just wait to celebrate my freedom. My advice? if you have some money to take you, ditch the job and embrace freelancing. Develop and horn a skill to sell out there. And you'll thank heaven in no distant time. I'm switching to freelance writing soon. Was so elated when I earned 72k from Freelance writing in a week which is more than my salary. Leverage Youtube and Google to learn everything. Don't go buy thrash courses o. God bless you bro.

ubunja:
good points made. At the end of the day morality remains men's road block in sex.

CaveAdullam:
Lol. Bad guy.

1. I understand why some guys may never give in to a leeway of sex: self-control, morality, fear, or celibacy. Morality is the titan of all, it lurks behind. This is a laudable act though.

2. However, a man's nature is to spread his semen, and impregnate as many women as possible within a short time, hence, men reach ejaculation faster than women. It is not EVOLUTIONARY WISE for a man to allow a woman to pass freely without making any sexual move towards her, not to talk of ignoring her when she presents her body wholly on his bed. This is a wrong evolutionary move as he may end up not producing offspring for the next generation.

3. A Man playing hard to get when he has little to nothing to offer a woman is on the losing side. Because women will come across other men better than him. If women are playing hard to get, it is well understood, as the cost of pregnancy and staying with a child till adulthood is expensive. (This is not to say that men don't cater to their kids, but that when it comes to kids women do higher than men). And that women don't want to look cheap... the egg is expensive while do you appear cheap?

3. Even the game of seduction first starts with you familiarizing yourself with your victim. Closeness must be established first before you start playing the unpredictable game. Meeting a few times and then turning into a god that appears and disappears kills any attraction.

4. The thin line question here: is whether to refuse sex is self-control or just being scared(perplexed)? It is more of an individual decision. But if you are sexually active, regular sex shouldn't pose a problem. Self-control may enter when you don't want sex at the moment and not because you're scared of having sex or because of morality. Some guys shield themselves from their lack of sex or abstinence with morality.

One can still have self-control during regular sex. Inability to bridle the libido is where the problem lies.

Thanks.

Kobojunkie:
so I have the very same simple questions for you. Why can't a man submit instead?

Why must it be a woman submitting and not a man submitting?

Kipaji:
I never thought about it this way. Thanks for the input.



I wouldn't say "It's all about the power dynamics." What about all those powerful rich men who are being played by women and disrespected behind closed doors? What about those powerful men who simp hard for women?

Persephone1:
The heartbreak self send Hades into coma. A whole persephone dumb? Ahhhhhhhh Hades vex enter coma him no gree wake.

You are very right about that, though the course creator admitted it's not a get rich quick scheme, it takes time and hard work but you only get to know all these after buying the course, the marketers are the real problem. They don't tell people the truth, they sell results with little or know emphasis on the process. It's very unfair.
I've learnt my lessons though, when I came across another marketer promoting Amazon KDP after the long talk on his WhatsApp group he asked for same amount to get his course, #yinmu ,who will fall again? I enter sheath mode straight. He's been posting same results I've seen others post on internet as his or his mentees using that to cajole people into buying his course. God save him that only admin can send message on that group. Else...even bird he no go see on the group.
Yes they make money, lots of it.

To be candid, through the course I was able to learn some skills but nah the money wey I no see dey pain me.

Persephone1:
I fell for this too. Up till now I haven't earned a dime from the 40k course I bought from them. Money wasted. They made it so simple until I bought the course and Gbam! I enter am. Even my supposed mentor just lock up for me.

Person i tell say i no understand something, she was very impatient in explanation the next thing I see for her status be " I hate dumb people" omohhhhh nah then I realize say i fvck up.