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heartofcity12:
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Kipaji:
Hi Cave.

Thanks for this insightful piece on power.

Now, a few clarifications. I never said they are not attracted to power. They indeed are, and I think it's obvious. My point was that it is not all about the power, that is, power is not the one and only factor that comes to play. If it was the case, then rich men would not be played as they are powerful (at least financially and socially). So, it's not just like "Once one gains the power, he automatically gets the girls to respect him and open their legs."

Kipaji:
I didn't say that "many women don't involve themselves in some weird and wild sexual acts". You may have read me wrong and may want to read again. I said that when one reads our discussions in this thread, he may believe that just about every woman participated in group sex, orgies, etc. And my point was that, though it is highly widespread, it isn't that common.

crystalmoon:
To start selling gas for the first month you don't need to care about profit you need to get rid of competitors by using this strategy anytime kids come to fill gas if they are filling 3kg you give them 50naira back of their money 6kg you give them 100 naira that endears you to them they will tell their friends and you will have plenty customers you should be ready for angry customer who wants one kg to last for one month
How will you be getting the gas you have to find a reliable gas distributor who will sell at a very good price for example distributor buys gas from the depot sell to you the retailer while you sell to the end user gas for retailer now is between 690 to 730 per kg calculate for end user which you will be selling for at 850 900 gas has gain
If you fill 60kg inside your gas cylinder you will meet 58 or 59 it can never be complete
That all for now

2dice01:
Morning
With a good location
On each bottle (50kg) lets say you make 4000naira

if you have sell minimum of 25kg per day for 30days
That means you are making 2000naira daily
2000 x 30days = 60000naira

You also be selling Gas accessories/cylinder which is profitable

You will need at least 250-350k to start the business depending on the location

crystalmoon:
my mom runs a gas plant should I say more about gas selling

2dice01:
Good day boss

It is Gas business
Selling to end users

Find a good location
That's highly populated

You are good to go

jesmond3945:
The problem with learning courses is that they present so many different ways of doing the same thing that you get lost in the process. For example, they would present different ways of splitting a string that you get confused about. So I would say have one standard way you can split a string you understand and know. When you do these courses just learn the step to solve or build anything and then use the methods you understand and know to do the job.

tosaino95:
Your Answer is Accurate and Understandable.

tosaino95:
Nope he doesn't and you Talking about society illustrates.
Red pill Godfather is married and Most of redpill coaches are married as well if they are against ( Society Illustrates ) why are they married they even probably marry the girls they disvirgin.
And they are in control of their house which is why everybody need Redpill to understand life and especially woman nature.
Most of us here know Woman most valuable asset is her virginity and we're talking about it now as if it's nothing.
The truth here You're the one that damaged your girlfriend and later you dump her without cheating on you ( just saying ) she then get married to another man in future but she still want you to be fvcking her based on virginity-break law i bet you will come here to say she is cheating on her husband with you meanwhile you're the one that she is attached to because sex and soul is with you.

Can you tell me now that is Red pill or Wickedness.

2dice01:
That day might never come
Suffer no dey tire men

¹A close friend of mine rather buy recharge everyday to call his girl than to eat 3 square meal
²Same guy rented a mini flat because of the pressure from his girlfriend instead of doing a business we both know he will be making good profit monthly
³ He told me he is going to do court wedding cus his girlfriend his is everything

I just smiled

adeiza4u:
replied

adeiza4u:
send a DM, let's hook up.

adeiza4u:
No matter what you are paid, most private schools are slavery boot. I get paid 60k but I can't just wait to celebrate my freedom. My advice? if you have some money to take you, ditch the job and embrace freelancing. Develop and horn a skill to sell out there. And you'll thank heaven in no distant time. I'm switching to freelance writing soon. Was so elated when I earned 72k from Freelance writing in a week which is more than my salary. Leverage Youtube and Google to learn everything. Don't go buy thrash courses o. God bless you bro.

ubunja:
good points made. At the end of the day morality remains men's road block in sex.

CaveAdullam:
Lol. Bad guy.

1. I understand why some guys may never give in to a leeway of sex: self-control, morality, fear, or celibacy. Morality is the titan of all, it lurks behind. This is a laudable act though.

2. However, a man's nature is to spread his semen, and impregnate as many women as possible within a short time, hence, men reach ejaculation faster than women. It is not EVOLUTIONARY WISE for a man to allow a woman to pass freely without making any sexual move towards her, not to talk of ignoring her when she presents her body wholly on his bed. This is a wrong evolutionary move as he may end up not producing offspring for the next generation.

3. A Man playing hard to get when he has little to nothing to offer a woman is on the losing side. Because women will come across other men better than him. If women are playing hard to get, it is well understood, as the cost of pregnancy and staying with a child till adulthood is expensive. (This is not to say that men don't cater to their kids, but that when it comes to kids women do higher than men). And that women don't want to look cheap... the egg is expensive while do you appear cheap?

3. Even the game of seduction first starts with you familiarizing yourself with your victim. Closeness must be established first before you start playing the unpredictable game. Meeting a few times and then turning into a god that appears and disappears kills any attraction.

4. The thin line question here: is whether to refuse sex is self-control or just being scared(perplexed)? It is more of an individual decision. But if you are sexually active, regular sex shouldn't pose a problem. Self-control may enter when you don't want sex at the moment and not because you're scared of having sex or because of morality. Some guys shield themselves from their lack of sex or abstinence with morality.

One can still have self-control during regular sex. Inability to bridle the libido is where the problem lies.

Thanks.

Kobojunkie:
so I have the very same simple questions for you. Why can't a man submit instead?

Why must it be a woman submitting and not a man submitting?

Kipaji:
I never thought about it this way. Thanks for the input.



I wouldn't say "It's all about the power dynamics." What about all those powerful rich men who are being played by women and disrespected behind closed doors? What about those powerful men who simp hard for women?

Persephone1:
The heartbreak self send Hades into coma. A whole persephone dumb? Ahhhhhhhh Hades vex enter coma him no gree wake.

You are very right about that, though the course creator admitted it's not a get rich quick scheme, it takes time and hard work but you only get to know all these after buying the course, the marketers are the real problem. They don't tell people the truth, they sell results with little or know emphasis on the process. It's very unfair.
I've learnt my lessons though, when I came across another marketer promoting Amazon KDP after the long talk on his WhatsApp group he asked for same amount to get his course, #yinmu ,who will fall again? I enter sheath mode straight. He's been posting same results I've seen others post on internet as his or his mentees using that to cajole people into buying his course. God save him that only admin can send message on that group. Else...even bird he no go see on the group.
Yes they make money, lots of it.

To be candid, through the course I was able to learn some skills but nah the money wey I no see dey pain me.

Persephone1:
I fell for this too. Up till now I haven't earned a dime from the 40k course I bought from them. Money wasted. They made it so simple until I bought the course and Gbam! I enter am. Even my supposed mentor just lock up for me.

Person i tell say i no understand something, she was very impatient in explanation the next thing I see for her status be " I hate dumb people" omohhhhh nah then I realize say i fvck up.

Pukkalolo:
CaveAdullam, you've said a lot of hardcore things in this thread, and I agree with most, if not all of them. I must say, you are pretty much a smart guy.

Pukkalolo:
My problem with the female shit test is that many guys see it the wrong way.

Yes, Girls test guys a lot. In summary, she's shit testing you to find out if you're a high-quality guy she can mate with. If you pass her test, I guess she'll allow you access to her sexual companionship.

If you do a quick Google search on how to pass the female shit test, you'll see hundreds of search results of different ways to pass the woman's test. But there lies the problem.

When it comes to female shit tests, the solution to the problem is the problem.

The problem isn't that a woman is testing you; the problem is that you are trying to pass her test.

Weird, right?

Pukkalolo:
Ok, let's go back to school for a moment. Why do you try to pass your teacher's test? First off, you view your teacher as a higher authority so If you don't pass the teacher's test, you'll be punished.
Secondly, if you pass the teacher's test you'll be rewarded by being promoted to the next class or something.

Pukkalolo:
Why are men so concerned about passing a girl's shit test? Well, because when you pass her test, you demonstrate to her that you're a strong guy, then her attraction for you goes up and she'll reward you by allowing you access to her sexual companionship. Isn't it?
If you fail her test, she assumes you're a low-quality guy, and then she'll not allow you to have access to her sexual companionship.

Matthew...To be frank, there are lots of things that are wrong with this kind of thinking.

Paradoxically, trying to pass a woman's test means you perceive her as a higher authority than you. It means you feel she's has more value than you. It means you feel she's above you.

Pukkalolo:
Think of it, if you see yourself as more valuable than the woman, then you won't give a shit about her passing her shit test. You'll even get irritated when you sense that she's trying to test you.


Wait, let me throw light on what shit test is.
A female shit test can come in different forms:
* it can come in form of her throwing confrontational questions/statements at you.
* it can come in form of her insulting or criticizing you.
* It can come in form of her giving you attitude or disrespecting you.
* It can come in form of trying to bait you to do things for her or spend for her.

If you look at these different forms of a shit test, you see that she's just acting like an entitled bitch.

Remember most young girls in their prime have entitlement problems, and they often feel they are above men.

Pukkalolo:
When a girl allows you to sleep with her, that doesn't necessarily mean you've passed her test. Even if you fail her shit test by doing foolish things for her, she can still reward you with the pussy. For example, if you act like a simp towards her by treating her with lots of financial favor and non-financial favor, she can still reward you with the pussy for doing all those favors for her.

Pukkalolo:
Crazy as it sounds, a girl might shit test you, and you pass all the tests as a bad guy, then she gives you the pussy as a reward. After getting the pussy you feel like an alpha male, but then you later realize she's has given you HIV or gonorrhea.

Pukkalolo:
My point is, getting a girl to give you sex doesn't mean shit. A girl agrees to sleep with Desmond but she refuses to sleep with Smith. But that doesn't mean Desmond is a better person than Smith. That doesn't mean Smith is not a high-quality guy.
Getting sex from a girl doesn't automatically mean you are an amazing guy. You should never define your self-worth by your ability to get a girl to date you or sleep with you.

Pukkalolo:
Back to female shit test talk.

The thing is, if I say "stop trying to pass a female shit test"..... then I'm not giving good advice...because passing a woman's shit test shows you're a strong guy.

The real question is, why are you trying to pass her test?

If you're trying to pass her test so she can like you more and give you access to her pussy, then you are of all men most miserable.

But if you're trying to pass her test because you hate being dominated by a lady and you feel that by passing her test she would see that you she can't easily play you, manipulate you or exploit you.... then you are a smart guy.


Instead of trying to pass her shit test, you should be the one testing her to see if she's worth your attention.

You might find it hard to believe, but the truth is, Not every girl is worth your attention:

Pukkalolo:
*Maybe she just wanna add burden and problems to your life.
* Maybe she wants to give you STD.
* Maybe she's just looking to manipulate you and exploit you.[/b]

Pukkalolo:
The idea is not to try to pass her shit test, the idea is to walk away from her as soon as she tries to messes with you.

When I'm interacting with a lady, my mentality is, "once she bleeps up or acts like an entitled bitch, I'm dismissing her immediately"

When a girl is acting like an entitled bitch, I'm not thinking "how will l pass her test so I can sleep with her?" Instead, I'm thinking "Is it not time for me to dump this entitled bitch?"

Guys always think I’m fronting or exaggerating when I say that I never date manipulative or entitled ladies. I only roll with sweet girls who are respectful, submissive, and supportive.

How do I accomplish that?
Because I'm willing and always ready to walk away from girls who act like entitled bitch. I am harsh when it comes to this. I'm a huge jerk when it comes to this.

When a girl starts saying nonsense or starts misbehaving, I just walk away like that. I wouldn't even tell her I'm leaving. I’ll walk away when she's still mid-sentence talking. I don’t give a shit whether she gets upset or not. I value myself and therefore I will not spend a second with a lady that does not value me.

The funny thing is, attractive ladies in their prime can’t take this. In their mind, they are like, "who's the hell does this guy think he is"....." what is he even feeling like"

Some of the ladies often try to change their behavior and try to get my attention back.

As soon as they know I'm willing to move on at any moment, they try not to mess with me.

And the funny is that dating feels easier with this mindset because I don't waste time, money, and energy trying to convince her to like me. I'm not stressing myself wondering whether I'm saying or doing the right thing.

If I'm not impressed with her behavior or she's not giving me the vibe I want, I simply walk away. No making excuses. No arguing. No apologies. I just bounce away.

Here's a real-life example to explain what I'm talking about. 2 weeks ago, during the weekend, I was hanging out with my homies at a cool joint. One of my guys hosted a little get-together... so we were just chilling and having fun. They were a couple of ladies around. I started interacting with a lady who was with us. She is a friend to one of my homie's girlfriends who was also present with us.

I and this girl's conversation was flowing well, I was liking her already. Before I knew it, she said something that turned me off. She said she's looking for a guy that'll buy her a Brazilian wig; basically, she said "Mehn, the only guy that can win my heart right now is the guy that buys me a Brazilian wig and a big large pizza, then take me to go shopping."

Before she even completed her sentence, I had already started walking out of her. I left her mid-sentence. I didn't even look back to see how she reacted, but I was sure she's was shocked by my behavior.
Throughout the rest of the get-together, I tried my best to avoid her like plague.

Right there at the get-together, she was already telling one of my homies, that 'I'm so cocky and so full of myself, and that's what's even special about me.'

Funny enough, about 40 minutes later, after I walk away from her, she approach me and try to initiate a conversation with me again. She asked why I left her just like that. I confidently told her, "I got bored talking to you."

She was shocked by my response: no guy has ever told her something like that.

Then she said, "If it was because of what I said about Brazilian wig and a guy taking me out shopping...I didn't mean it... It's just normal girls talk, and I was just trying to pull your legs."

Lolz...I accepted her indirect way of apology. After that, we started flowing again. Her respect and attraction for me increased more after that incident. Before I started writing this, she just left my place.

You might say I passed her shit test. But passing her test was not the goal. The goal was to walk away from her silly ass once she says or does something I don't like.

Remember guys, Never tolerate bullshit from women. Getting respect is better than getting sex. Put your self-respect over anything else.

Stay blessed brothers.

pansophist:
When a woman respects a man, she is submissive to him. When a man loves a woman, he is submissive to her. The keyword here is submission, which men and women express in a different ways.