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luminouz:
That Kelly babe made one full-grown night do TikTok for 10 hours waiting for her to come online. The dude said he won't stop till she joins him online and when she did, after 10 hours...dude(with a nose ring), behaved like a fuqin crybaby. I was ashamed of Naija men.


How in the hell did Naija men become such for fuq sakes?

I'm angry right now

Moonshine101:
@ bolded, I can fight fire with fire but toxicity takes a toll on me and really affects my self improvement.

pansophist:
Google "how self publish on amazon", tutorials yapa. But but, don't be too optimistic about it, like everything, the 80/20 rule applies. Over eighty percent of publishers don't make a cent, so it doesn't mean that if one put something there then boom, the dollars starts rolling in.

So write due to the passion and competence of it, not to make money. We live in a time where everyone is a writer, content creator, publisher, and more. There is nothing special about these jobs if one doesn't make money off it.

JustcallmeFavou:
All that you said here is so true! I once had an encounter with a very toxic person. It was just so unfortunate that I loved him!

He disguised being so nice, sweet, and kind from the beginning. Only to turn up being a leech and a parasite when he realized I had finally loved him.

He is a chronic liar, he feels entitled to your things, and he creates an emotional outburst when he is not having his way in terms of milking you dry.

When I have had enough, it was violence for violence! Toxic people avoid you when you are also toxic towards them as well.

When they bring their shit, you give them back, then they will leave you alone and move on to the next vulnerable victim.

Such crazy sets of people!

heartofcity12:
Everything is always men’s fault.. but they always claim they’re doing these surgeries for themselves..

Persephone1:
Cc
Pansophist help a brother.

I'm still learning myself while Pan is into it already.

Persephone1:
You can publish your book on Amazon KDP for free and you will make lots of money from it. You are a good and passionate writer.

pansophist:
Not only that, but Russia is the only country in the history of western sanctions that instead of their economy and currency disintegrating as sanction bites, it actually got stronger. The ruble now is getting close to what it was before Crimea's ascension to Russia. Now let's look at what so-called Russia, a loser has achieved so far.

1. Currency got stronger almost double. It's like Nigeria fighting Cameroon, and after the whole west slapped us with at least six thousand sanctions, the naira appreciated from one USD to N200

2. Russia officially exited the Bretton woods system. If anyone understands the Bretton woods system, they will see clearly that it is also the reason why all currencies are measured against the USD, and why the naira is getting closer to being toilet paper.

3. Russia officially reclaimed all their historical Russian lands and advanced further to cut off Ukraine from the black coast, effectively making it a landlocked country like Mali, and if we know anything about geography, being landlocked for any country, especially a corrupt one is suicidal.

4. A multi-polar world has officially been created. Just in case you didn't notice, the majority of the world didn't sanction Russia and is still doing business with them. It is only the US-led western countries, basically, less than 20% of humanity sanction Russia.

5. Western firms and corporations that are far richer, stronger, and technologically advanced have left Russia for good, allowing local players to grow and dominate the market. From MacDonalds, Ikea, Zara, and Apple, just name it. ~Imagine all the billion USD industries controlled by foreigners in Nigeria suddenly becomes open for Nigerians to dominate. Poverty will be eliminated in a year.

6. The war also reduced the trust of the US in the international arena. Now Taiwan is convinced that the US will not come to its aid if China decided to claim its territory back. The international community has lost faith in the US, and Taiwan will be the nail in the coffin because the US will only supply weapons and not help. If you think Russia is tough, then go read the history of the Chinese. Russians are like wolves compare to the Chinese. The most brutal and deadliest war in the whole of human history that makes the second world war looks like a video game was fought in China, with hundreds of millions killed. China being patient is not cowardice, but strength.

7. For the first time since Bretton woods, the non-Western world has finally united to create a just international system that is fair and just to all. The USD is under threat of losing its reserve currency status, and trades are being conducted in Euro Asia in local currencies. The global center of the economy has moved to the East just in case you didn't notice. The new ''abroad'' is not the west anymore, but it is China. If you want to make big money, go to China.

This war is a great reset for Russia, to build from scratch with dependence on the western system and grow organically, just like what China did when it was completely embargoed by the whole west for at least thirty years. What Russia is passing through today in the name of sanctions, China passed through worse, when it was poorer than Pakistan. But China builds and relies on itself, now, look at China. China (and hopefully Russia) is the only country that is sanction-proof, that the west can do nothing to. And if China dares sanction the US, there will be a riot tomorrow.

If one listens to alternative media, all of these will be clear to see as daylight. But if your only source of news is CNN, then I am sorry for you, you are being propagandized, brainwashed and indoctrinated.

Martinez39s:
^{NB: this is for the sake of discussion and contribution since I am bored this evening. I have always wanted to give this take.}

Tenacious stupidity is really upon us. People who support the notion that men shouldn't physically retaliate when a woman goes physical on them because of the substantial strength difference between the average man and average woman are simply thoughtless; they have simply succumbed to the same old blue pill stupidity and puerile paradigm.

These silly folks act and react as if a man's fists and blows, however slight or moderate, are, in effect, lethal weapons of mass destruction when dealt on a woman. They act like a man's body is made of steel and is strong enough to easily fend off and effortlessly withstand any level of physical attack from women. They act like a woman's body is a fragile and weak thing and her physical attacks are like falling feathers in effect... and she can't possibly do more than that. This is laughable. They believe a man should endure a woman's physical attack (no matter what) and walk away for the sake of "dignity" and "maturity" as a "real man," or for the fear of killing or maiming the woman instead of retaliating. The jokes do write themselves.

The blue pill agents and idi0ts who subscribe to these notions and attitude stripe woman of accountability as they absolve women of the burden of self-restraint and shield them from the consequences of their bad decision to hit men who are stronger than them; this is a "privilege" that even weak men, and even boys, don't have against much stronger men. They also enable a certain toxic mindset and behaviour in women: that it's no big deal, and somewhat acceptable and understandable, when a woman hits a man. The red pill will never condone these, never! These vile notion and attitude also give room to physical abuse against men in the hands of women, and the lamentable belittlement, mockery, festering and dismissal of this phenomenon... much to the detriment of men and boys. These blue pill notion and attitude inadvertently give women the monopoly on physical assault.

If a female doesn't want to get hit by a male, then she must not hit a male. If a man or women intends to go about throwing punches and dishing out slaps, he or she must be prepared to receive the same or more in retaliation, and there should no immunity from the consequences of his or her action. As the red pill dictates, women are responsible for their actions and they must be held accountable for their every decision. If a woman doesn't like a man hitting her, then the onus is on her to make the decision not to hit a man. Accountability!

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Martinez39s:
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"... but men are much stronger than women." Well, is it not stupid for someone to hit and attack someone stronger than you? Why not stay off from someone stronger than you? In what sane world does a person hit or trifle with someone that's much stronger and demands that the stronger person not hit back? Thanks to simps and blue pill agents/idi0ts, this stupidity dwells amongst us and has been weaponised by females. Keeping in mind the second paragraph, if the supposed substantial strength difference is the basis upon which men shouldn't hit back, why don't these blue pill agents/idi0ts support the notion that a physically weak or average man shouldn't get hit back by a heavyweight boxer since the strength difference is large? We all know that they will be nonexistent if a weak/average man hits or slaps a heavyweight boxer and receives punches and a good beating in reprisal. They won't see the retaliation as reprehensible and unacceptable as they would have done if a female was at the receiving end. If by any chance these blue pill clowns are to mediate and resolve the issue and apportion blame in such a case, they will reprimand the weak/average man for making the decision to hit and attack the stronger man, unlike when a female is at the receiving end. They will hold the weak/average man accountable. "Substantial strength difference" goes through the window.

As you can see, "substantial strength difference" is just a thougtless pretext used to cover up this sort of pampering and double standard emanating from the pedestalisation of females. The white knight syndrome and the weakness of simping are simply at work here. SMH. 

"... but what if she collapses and die? Is it not better to walk away?" Another stupid blue pill concern. In Africa and many parts of the world, in the past and present, as many here can attest to while growing up, a lot of parents have the practice of whipping their kids with belts, slippers and other things as a way of disciplining them when they misbehave; this can be severe depending on the degree of misbehaviour and defiance. Even teachers indulge in this practice as many of us can attest to while growing up. Parents even dish out heavy slaps, conks on the head and a big smack on the backs of their kids to discipline and punish them. This is an ageless practice; even the bible says "spear the rod and spoil the child."

My point is, despite all these disciplinary actions, there were no concerns that the kids would drop dead. Why is it then a concern accorded to females when you dish them a retaliation that doesn't even surpass or come close to what parents and teachers do to kids in primary and secondary schools, especially stubborn kids? Are female bodies exceedingly fragile compared to that of kids (male and FEMALE kids)? Are they that weak? Since when did a slap or punch become so dreaded and lethal? Parents, in general, love their kids and, just like our teachers, they have no intention of killing them, yet they employ the disciplinary measures we experienced while growing up. Why then are blue pill idi0ts/clowns and agents acting like a slap or punch will most likely kill a woman?

The concern that a female who is physically assaulting you will die or collapse when you lay your hands on her is laughable in general. It is an excuse which comes from the notions and attitude discussed earlier in my write-up, which in turn is rooted in the pedestalisation of females and the white knight syndrome.

Sometimes, even some men that know they should retaliate and have claimed they would do so become toothless when the situation arises even if it is clear that they can get away with it. They succumb to this excuse and concern like the rest. You see, when men don't have the balls and frame to go the hard route by putting a woman in check and hitting her when she lays her hands on him, he tows the easy route out of cowardice: walking away and/or succumbing to indifference as she keeps hitting him. His ego won't let him concede that he lacks balls, so he hides behind the excuse to feel justified.

It is okay to defend yourself against a women that is physically assaulting you.

nurain150:
Guys in hackerone how have you been. My fellow hackers. Recently I left bug bounty to look for money in article writing and kdp.

pansophist:
Thread wey me don open with my feactivated account seven years before you register for nairaland.

But nothing spoil sha. If you need assistance, you know how to reach me

lakesidepapa:
@CaveAdullam .....@gmail.com or u can also get me via whatsapp ......., Thank you Brother..

pansophist:
I want to be of a service to humanity. Either through advice, cash, opportunities, and maybe politically as time goes on. I've being doing the first three for long, I've personally helped lots of people through my advice here and in private of course, and through cash.

About nine years ago, I opened a thread with over 1 million views, about helping people come to Finland to study tuition free, and it delights my heart to see hundreds upon hundreds of Nigerians and even foreigners following who have moved to Finland, brought their families over and changed their life for good. I was in Finland few weeks ago, met some, and many are actually Finnish citizens. The link to the thread below.

https://www.nairaland.com/1064724/studying-finland-free-tuition

As time goes on, I'll enter into politics. Naija suppose get better, and it will happen in your time. But right now, I have to battle the temptation of comfort. As a Nigerian with EU citizenship, my life is good, but the thought of seeing people back home, many which I left suffers breaks my heart.

lakesidepapa:
Sorry bro, I found out the pm is not working. Pls can u drop your email so as to write you brother?

lakesidepapa:
I need your attention on a serious matter brother, do u response to PMs?

Orestino:
Dr. CaveAdullam

Kindly inject me with my daily dose of redpill

It's long overdue for the day and I'm having 'redpillaria' already

DaInferno:
my bro used to give me 5h everyday for helping him at the shop. I still managed to save. Bro, discipline will take you place wisdom won't

CaveAdullam:
DAY 151, REDPILL 2022

The idea is about creating an impression that will make her keep coming. You create this impression by bypassing the norms. You flirt. You make sexual connotations. You better yourself to make it effective; better than her one way or the other makes it smooth.

However, you must know that some women have great walls of defense - good parents, good fathers, and conservative. You don't need to force your techniques on these ones...allow it flow. You penetrate through their skin, get to their feelings, make them emotional...even the conservative will eventually succumb.

Creating impressions works, but it doesn't indicate that you will take all the women to bed, or even the woman you like to bed. Impressions via paying for every thing she shits will bring you more leeches, and not women that truly loves the atmosphere surrounding you.

Authority: Stay bright.