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Romance › Re: Reality Every Guy Need To Know ( STRICTLY REDPILL) ... by CaveAdullam: 11:26am On Jun 28, 2022*

1. There is no dispute about all you have said here, and I understand your point and where exactly you based your claims on - cerebral deliberate conscious thinking, which of course is right and must be an important tool in the arsenal of men who want to gain control of their emotions and nature and instincts. Your points are solid as it is.

Pukkalolo:
CaveAdullam, you've said a lot of hardcore things in this thread, and I agree with most, if not all of them. I must say, you are pretty much a smart guy.

Thanks for your kind words. I do appreciate it.

Pukkalolo:
My problem with the female shit test is that many guys see it the wrong way.

Yes, Girls test guys a lot. In summary, she's shit testing you to find out if you're a high-quality guy she can mate with. If you pass her test, I guess she'll allow you access to her sexual companionship.

If you do a quick Google search on how to pass the female shit test, you'll see hundreds of search results of different ways to pass the woman's test. But there lies the problem.

When it comes to female shit tests, the solution to the problem is the problem.

The problem isn't that a woman is testing you; the problem is that you are trying to pass her test.

Weird, right?

2. The red pill is concerned majorly with men and women as it relates to intersexual dynamics. It is either sex or, men and women. It is concerned about the nature of this species and studies it through the lenses of evolution, chemistry, biology, anatomy, physiology, psychology, biometrics et al.,

3. Other things(the secondary focus of the redpill) as important as they are such as being successful, stoic, self-disciplined, and self-control, are not the primary focus of the red pill because the redpill is based its theory on nature.

4. These other things though not primary are essential in the effective utilization of the red pill. In the beginning, I made mentioned your claims as a result of "cerebral deliberate conscious thinking" and these other things( secondary focus) take their roots here.

5. What are shit tests?

It is that tendency to be gauged by others for your worth. It is to know your reaction to situations. In every social dynamic, shit tests are inevitable. Your method of passing shit tests may differ from others, but the shit test is a shit test. It is not only applicable to just the male and female dynamic.

6. When it comes to intersexual dynamics, shit tests go both ways: men shit test women to know if they are worthy of their commitment. This can also be called vetting. Women shit test men to determine if the men they are submitting to can provide and protect them.

7. Take note: men and women do not wake up and start thinking about how to give or pass shit tests. In most cases, it happens freely and is unconscious. Shit test is part of human nature and instinct.

8. You give shit tests because you are trying to know a person. You pass shit tests because you are either telling the person giving the shit test that you won't fall for their antics or competent as you claim.

9. Remember: The method of giving or passing shit tests differs, and these differences can be a result of individual differences, place/environment, experiences, class, age, etc.

Pukkalolo:
Ok, let's go back to school for a moment. Why do you try to pass your teacher's test? First off, you view your teacher as a higher authority so If you don't pass the teacher's test, you'll be punished.
Secondly, if you pass the teacher's test you'll be rewarded by being promoted to the next class or something.

10. Our first point of focus should be what brought the child to school in the first place?

A school is a place, teachers and students are for a reason. Shit test there is not empty and void. Ditto, shit test as it is peculiar to the intersexual dynamics is for a reason which I stated earlier:

"When it comes to intersexual dynamics, shit tests go both ways: men shit test women to know if they are worthy of their commitment. This can also be called vetting. Women shit test men to determine if the men they are submitting to can provide and protect them".

11. School is a place for teachers and students to exchange knowledge and income respectively, the same way is the bedroom for men and women to exchange commitment and sex.

12. The essence of school is to promote learning and knowledge for the overall development of the individual and society at large. The essence of the bedroom is for reproduction(to raise children that will exist for generations through the exchange of egg and sperm.
The former is concerned about the secondary focus of the red pill. While the latter is concerned about the primary focus of the red pill.

Simply put, it is society and nature in play as it pertains to humans.

Pukkalolo:
Why are men so concerned about passing a girl's shit test? Well, because when you pass her test, you demonstrate to her that you're a strong guy, then her attraction for you goes up and she'll reward you by allowing you access to her sexual companionship. Isn't it?
If you fail her test, she assumes you're a low-quality guy, and then she'll not allow you to have access to her sexual companionship.

Matthew...To be frank, there are lots of things that are wrong with this kind of thinking.

Paradoxically, trying to pass a woman's test means you perceive her as a higher authority than you. It means you feel she's has more value than you. It means you feel she's above you.

13. In summary, as stated earlier:

A. Shit test is at the core of human nature.

B. Shit test is not monopolistic. It goes both ways. However, women are unconsciously conscious of it, hence, hypergamy. But simps don't care, the reason why they commonly commit to the wrong women. It is because of this that it seems that women have a monopoly on shit tests.

C. Passing a woman's shit test means you don't succumb to her level of authority but that your authority is superior to her.

D. Teachers want to know if their students are up to their degree in knowledge, hence, examinations. Good grades indicate they are.

E. Passing job interviews indicates you are equal to the task set by a company.

F. Passing a woman's shit test indicates you are equal to her game and can even surpass her.

14. In Greek mythology, Zeus, Apollo, Athena, etc do act irrationally sometimes when it comes to mortals by destroying them and their properties or even laying curses on them. Though irrational, it is a simple show of power and who's the BOSS. You may say that the gods ought to be superior without any trace of error. Yes, the gods are superior, but part of that superiority also involves playing dirty to remain at the top. The game is to show who is the BOSS.

Pukkalolo:
Think of it, if you see yourself as more valuable than the woman, then you won't give a shit about her passing her shit test. You'll even get irritated when you sense that she's trying to test you.

Wait, let me throw light on what shit test is.
A female shit test can come in different forms:
* it can come in form of her throwing confrontational questions/statements at you.
* it can come in form of her insulting or criticizing you.
* It can come in form of her giving you attitude or disrespecting you.
* It can come in form of trying to bait you to do things for her or spend for her.

If you look at these different forms of a shit test, you see that she's just acting like an entitled bitch.

Remember most young girls in their prime have entitlement problems, and they often feel they are above men.

15. Always remember this: as per human nature, shit test happens unplanned. Yeah, there are sometimes anyone can deliberately shit test you, but you must know that in such a scenario, the aim of giving and passing the shit test is important. Example: passing an exam, passing an interview, etc.

Pukkalolo:
When a girl allows you to sleep with her, that doesn't necessarily mean you've passed her test. Even if you fail her shit test by doing foolish things for her, she can still reward you with the pussy. For example, if you act like a simp towards her by treating her with lots of financial favor and non-financial favor, she can still reward you with the pussy for doing all those favors for her.

16. I patiently waited for this side of the post. Lol.

If the primary focus of the red pill is the intersexual dynamics as it concerns men and women, it does means that sex, reproduction, and male commitment are a BIG DEAL. (I know that it is on this hill many folks do experience friction with Ubunja. However, both are right but do want to consider their standpoint as the only one).

17. Take note that the theory of the red pill is based on nature; sex and reproduction are natural. The secondary focus of the red pill is also essential.

Pukkalolo:
Crazy as it sounds, a girl might shit test you, and you pass all the tests as a bad guy, then she gives you the pussy as a reward. After getting the pussy you feel like an alpha male, but then you later realize she's has given you HIV or gonorrhea.

18. @bolded is a false assertion to disqualify sex.

Thinking along this line makes it seem as if sex is evil and harmful. To avoid STIs/STDs, use contraceptives during sex.

Pukkalolo:
My point is, getting a girl to give you sex doesn't mean shit. A girl agrees to sleep with Desmond but she refuses to sleep with Smith. But that doesn't mean Desmond is a better person than Smith. That doesn't mean Smith is not a high-quality guy.
Getting sex from a girl doesn't automatically mean you are an amazing guy. You should never define your self-worth by your ability to get a girl to date you or sleep with you.

19. Since the primary focus of the red pill is men, women, and sex, it means that SEX IS A BIG DEAL.

DO YOU KNOW WHY IT IS A BIG DEAL?

Sex is important to men because it ensures the passing of their genes. Millions of sperm are prepared for sex at any point or moment. If Desmond's sperm can fertilize that girl in question it means he is going to the next generation by proxy through his child if hale and hearty. And it is people like Desmond nature at its core is concerned about - natural selection. According to the law of natural selection, SMITH IS A BIG LOSER.

20. Here, I'm not concerned about recreational sex which is meaningless by the law of biology but the ultimate reason why humans have sex and why DESMOND WILL BE A WINNER IF HE TAKES FULL ADVANTAGE OF IT IF HE REPRODUCES. Except for recreational sex, both are losers in the reproductive game. However, Desmond has a taste in the enjoyment of sex.

Pukkalolo:
Back to female shit test talk.

The thing is, if I say "stop trying to pass a female shit test"..... then I'm not giving good advice...because passing a woman's shit test shows you're a strong guy.

The real question is, why are you trying to pass her test?

If you're trying to pass her test so she can like you more and give you access to her pussy, then you are of all men most miserable.

But if you're trying to pass her test because you hate being dominated by a lady and you feel that by passing her test she would see that you she can't easily play you, manipulate you or exploit you.... then you are a smart guy.

Instead of trying to pass her shit test, you should be the one testing her to see if she's worth your attention.

You might find it hard to believe, but the truth is, Not every girl is worth your attention:

21. Awareness of shit test ensures that you understand how the social dynamics go and how prepared are you.

22. Whether you consciously/unconsciously pass a woman's shit test or walk away from her, the end goal is to not fall for her antics and pass the shit tests. And passing the shit test means you are dominant enough to lead her and can use her womb. Her passing your shit test means she can reign with you in your kingdom.

Pukkalolo:
*Maybe she just wanna add burden and problems to your life.
* Maybe she wants to give you STD.
* Maybe she's just looking to manipulate you and exploit you.[/b]

23. What about a clean good woman?

From your assertions, it seems sex is terrible. All these are plausible reasons why men should stay away from sex which leads to only a few men having all the sex with the majority of women. This is fatal.

24. If you want to be celibate or not bother much about sex, it doesn't make you less of a man, at least you have other courses to follow. If you want to have sex, understand women and play the game. And of course, when it comes to women and sex, discipline and self-control matter.

Pukkalolo:
The idea is not to try to pass her shit test, the idea is to walk away from her as soon as she tries to messes with you.

When I'm interacting with a lady, my mentality is, "once she bleeps up or acts like an entitled bitch, I'm dismissing her immediately"

When a girl is acting like an entitled bitch, I'm not thinking "how will l pass her test so I can sleep with her?" Instead, I'm thinking "Is it not time for me to dump this entitled bitch?"

Guys always think I’m fronting or exaggerating when I say that I never date manipulative or entitled ladies. I only roll with sweet girls who are respectful, submissive, and supportive.

How do I accomplish that?
Because I'm willing and always ready to walk away from girls who act like entitled bitch. I am harsh when it comes to this. I'm a huge jerk when it comes to this.

When a girl starts saying nonsense or starts misbehaving, I just walk away like that. I wouldn't even tell her I'm leaving. I’ll walk away when she's still mid-sentence talking. I don’t give a shit whether she gets upset or not. I value myself and therefore I will not spend a second with a lady that does not value me.

The funny thing is, attractive ladies in their prime can’t take this. In their mind, they are like, "who's the hell does this guy think he is"....." what is he even feeling like"

Some of the ladies often try to change their behavior and try to get my attention back.

As soon as they know I'm willing to move on at any moment, they try not to mess with me.

And the funny is that dating feels easier with this mindset because I don't waste time, money, and energy trying to convince her to like me. I'm not stressing myself wondering whether I'm saying or doing the right thing.

If I'm not impressed with her behavior or she's not giving me the vibe I want, I simply walk away. No making excuses. No arguing. No apologies. I just bounce away.

Here's a real-life example to explain what I'm talking about. 2 weeks ago, during the weekend, I was hanging out with my homies at a cool joint. One of my guys hosted a little get-together... so we were just chilling and having fun. They were a couple of ladies around. I started interacting with a lady who was with us. She is a friend to one of my homie's girlfriends who was also present with us.

I and this girl's conversation was flowing well, I was liking her already. Before I knew it, she said something that turned me off. She said she's looking for a guy that'll buy her a Brazilian wig; basically, she said "Mehn, the only guy that can win my heart right now is the guy that buys me a Brazilian wig and a big large pizza, then take me to go shopping."

Before she even completed her sentence, I had already started walking out of her. I left her mid-sentence. I didn't even look back to see how she reacted, but I was sure she's was shocked by my behavior.
Throughout the rest of the get-together, I tried my best to avoid her like plague.

Right there at the get-together, she was already telling one of my homies, that 'I'm so cocky and so full of myself, and that's what's even special about me.'

Funny enough, about 40 minutes later, after I walk away from her, she approach me and try to initiate a conversation with me again. She asked why I left her just like that. I confidently told her, "I got bored talking to you."

She was shocked by my response: no guy has ever told her something like that.

Then she said, "If it was because of what I said about Brazilian wig and a guy taking me out shopping...I didn't mean it... It's just normal girls talk, and I was just trying to pull your legs."

Lolz...I accepted her indirect way of apology. After that, we started flowing again. Her respect and attraction for me increased more after that incident. Before I started writing this, she just left my place.

You might say I passed her shit test. But passing her test was not the goal. The goal was to walk away from her silly ass once she says or does something I don't like.

Remember guys, Never tolerate bullshit from women. Getting respect is better than getting sex. Put your self-respect over anything else.

Stay blessed brothers.

25. Walking away is also passing shit tests.

Thanks.

DAY 179, REDPILL 2022

Authority: Pass shit tests.

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Family › Re: Marrying A Feminist by CaveAdullam: 10:13pm On Jun 27, 2022

pansophist:
When a woman respects a man, she is submissive to him. When a man loves a woman, he is submissive to her. The keyword here is submission, which men and women express in a different ways.

1. You got good points here, maneuvering through it to arrive at the explanation you are trying to make is not easy. It is more like a nuanced post, however, twisted as your choice of words didn't do full justice/conflated the whole issue, thereby making it seem as if the post is telling something else.

2. Submission can only be demonstrated by one person or people to another of higher authority. When women are submissive and respect their husbands or spouses, love and care will certainly flow to them from who they accord respect and honor.

3. Women's submissiveness is the input while men's love and care are the output in regards to that input. Since it is men that are bringing a commitment to the table, which is the final seal of any sexual relationship, it is expedient that the input takes place first.

4. Commitment is power; it encapsulates the desires of a woman, hence, she is submissive towards it. Submissiveness is not because the woman is weak, irrelevant, or dumb. It is an action that shows that she recognizes the importance of commitment.

5. The term: submissiveness shouldn't be exchanged for the two. One must be submissive for the other to rule efficiently and the one that holds the mantle of leadership should recognize the one that stands behind helping in whatever possible way.

6. Submissiveness can be abused by the leader or withheld by the follower, the same way love and care can be abused by followers or withheld by the leader. And this can happen as a result of many factors, howbeit, hypergamy and male promiscuity are the pioneers of such factors.

7. So, when a leader and a follower are in a union, being submissive should only be used for the follower as there can't be a show of submissiveness by both sides. Instead, love and kindness.

PS: This is just me trying to make your points more explanatory. Nevertheless, it is almost the same thing we are saying.

Thanks.

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Family › Re: Good Morning Nairalander by CaveAdullam: 8:59pm On Jun 27, 2022*

"There is a way that seemeth right unto a man but the end thereof is destruction". OP, you are about to tour this way.

1. You must up your game and look for how to better your life before thinking about marriage and children.

2. Those that are compelling you into marriage will not be there in sickness and health; sorrow and joy; poverty and wealth. Even the woman who may take that vow/oath with you will abscond when things go south. Better be strategic now than later. And as the proverb goes: " prevention is better than cure".

3. It is better to raise children when you're emotionally, financially, physically, mentally, and psychologically fit. Because children, marriage, and women are risky businesses that must always be monitored. If you are not capable in any of these areas, you will hate yourself, and feel sad with many hisses as days turn into years.

4. Don't rush into marriage because of your age, what you should be concerned about now is how to leverage challenging situations for your betterment.

You may feel age is not by your side, but you must have it at the side of your heart that marriage is not the right option. Getting married early as a result of declining fertility with aging is good, seeing your kids grow and being able to lead them under your tutelage when you still got enough vigor is a joy to behold. However, the current situation of the economy has deprived you and many of such. Hence, you must choose the path with the least trouble.

5. Don't compel yourself to marriage because of the age of your girlfriend. The fact is that you are not ready! It is even advisable to let her know that her options should be opened to other suitors. (Besides she may be entertaining other suitors but still waiting for the right time when everything will mature. You should end the relationship now).

Let her go her own way, fertility is not on her side, and raising kids now or later when fertility has greatly reduced is a free show of disaster. This time, the heart has done its work, be logical, and let the brain start from here.

Both of you may love each other and feel disappointed, but this is the best possible action and headway for both of you as far as I understand.

6. To free yourself from your mother's naggings:

A. Stay far away from her, and let your place of residence be inaccessible to her.

B. Bar her number from calling you, however, be the one that does call her with a private number.

C. When people infuriate you with marriage talk, mention a huge amount of money (in millions) and tell them that it is until you get this money for the wedding/marriage that you'll get married. You will be advised against such, but just insist and stand your ground.

7. Your transportation fare/salary is what you must sit down and analyze properly. It is taking a drastic turn on you.

Essential thoughts that should occupy your heart now are how to leverage or reduce your transportation fare.

8. The country is not getting better, you must think twice and well before sealing any decision or action.

It will be well with you.

Thanks.

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Romance › Re: Reality Every Guy Need To Know ( STRICTLY REDPILL) ... by CaveAdullam: 8:57pm On Jun 27, 2022

DAY 178, REDPILL 2022

Part of the game involves amplifying comments toward the sexual side. The essence is to send to her consciousness that you can't be friendzoned. Tilting towards the sexual side upfront from the beginning will make you not waste time in the expectation of sex in the long run and ensure you don't get emotionally and financially wrecked.

Authority: Be smart.

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Romance › Re: Reality Every Guy Need To Know ( STRICTLY REDPILL) ... by CaveAdullam: 8:41pm On Jun 26, 2022*

DAY 177, REDPILL 2022

To get to a woman's pvssy, feign ignorance. To get the best from her call out her (subtle) ignorance.

Authority: Have a standard.

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Romance › Re: Reality Every Guy Need To Know ( STRICTLY REDPILL) ... by CaveAdullam: 10:53pm On Jun 25, 2022

DAY 176, REDPILL 2022

With women, shit test is eternal. However, with the standard, you set for yourself, the bulwark you lay around your life, and the position you hold her to in demand for accountability necessary for the sustenance of the relationship, you will continue to flow well with them and ensure efficient leadership.

Authority: Focus.

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Programming › Re: Today Is 13th Of June,my Web Development Journey by CaveAdullam: 6:32pm On Jun 25, 2022

Just started Javascript.

I now understand why Javascript is the BOSS; it bursts the brain.

Sigh.

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Programming › Re: I Created A Simple Budget App, Rate It Out Of 10. by CaveAdullam: 7:33am On Jun 25, 2022

Beautiful.

Romance › Re: Reality Every Guy Need To Know ( STRICTLY REDPILL) ... by CaveAdullam: 8:08pm On Jun 24, 2022*

Women want Mercy Chinwo treatment but in a body of Kim Kardashian + a make-up of Sasha Banks.

Conglomerates of delusional women!

Hahahahahaha

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Romance › Re: Reality Every Guy Need To Know ( STRICTLY REDPILL) ... by CaveAdullam: 8:05pm On Jun 24, 2022

Martinez39s:
Nice post!

I want to add something for the sake of contribution. The reason pro-marriage redpillers like marrying sexually pure virgins or are advised to marry sexually pure virgins isn't because redpillers think a virgin's female nature is different. Of course, we know AWALT is the case even for virgins and females emotionally change easily and rapidly with time. However, virgins are required by pro-marriage redpillers for the following reasons:

(1) sexually pure virgins women are the least "evils" in mate selection and choosing them will prevent you from certain unnecessary headaches that come with a woman's past baggage and embarrassing situations resulting from her sordid sexual past. I can explain further if you want.

(2) it's a red pill rule to go for the best you can. Why commit to and provide for a used pusśy when you can get a fresh used and pure one? Why commit to and go for an aged used pusśy when you can go for a young unused one?

(3) Why commit to and provide for something that other men have gotten for free without much effort? Why should you be treated treated differently?

(4) It is a red pill rule to get a woman at her best years. If she won't give you her best years or you didn't have her at her best years, don't take her at her decline. Put yourself first, go for the best and have some self-respect. If you are not yet established to marry a particular female in her best years, let her go to who is ready. When you are ready and established later, pick the one that is in her best years and makes a decent human being.

(5) If you will follow tradition to pay the bride price for a woman, let her follow tradition to qualify for your bride price by being a young virgin who is sexually pure, among other things. Traditionalism works both ways. Don't partake in the nonsense of paying full price for hòe. Let simps and blue pill men rot in their stupidity.

(6) men must set good standards and not come cheap. Besides, women would go for the best and wouldn't settle if given the option. Why should yours be different? Men setting good standards and not compromising on them will incentivize more females to sit up to meet up (if they can't find their way around it and exploit loopholes). Though they won't change on the inside and will put in more effort to cover up their shenanigans so they can compete to meet men's standards.

(7) add yours (cc Ubunja, LordAdam16, Skepticus, JESHAL, CaveAdullam , etc)

You have done justice already. To add to this, hence, the question: if being a virgin indicates a high-quality man, will women choose men that are virgins?

1. Women have been mesmerized by a lot of platitudes, they think men and women are the same, hence, they indulge themselves in the same depravity as men. This may sound like a double standard...depravity should not be condoled regardless of the gender involved. But the fact is that men and women are unequal when it comes to promiscuity. In regards to promiscuity, men are appraised and don't get bodily or emotionally wrecked as their sexual counts increases, unlike women.

2. You can't shame men for being promiscuous because it is their nature and comes primary unlike women that it comes secondary. If women feel there is a double standard here it means they don't value themselves. Refer to 1 above (last sentence).

3. Women have always put themselves first and it is not wrong now for men to put themselves first and decide what they want with their first positions except that poisonous disease and disorder - simping!

4. Women should not whine when a man demands a hymen in return for his ring; men don't start whining when women seek what they want in men.

5. Men should level up and with each level set a good standard. The women that are up to that standard will not whine all day about it. In the same way, the mountain doesn't condescend itself to her climbers.

Standard must meet the standard.

PS: Some underlying thoughts are seething right now, however, can't draw them out fully, maybe next time.

Thanks.

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Romance › Re: Reality Every Guy Need To Know ( STRICTLY REDPILL) ... by CaveAdullam: 7:20pm On Jun 24, 2022

victorphelpz:
Bro, I ain't gonna lie. I so much admire your consistency in dishing out these words of wisdom. you sir, are phenomenal. "in Amerix's voice, keep misleading men".

DAY 175, REDPILL 2022

With the ubiquity of various social media channels and their use, men should forsake that ancestral and traditional inclination of freely rendering their commitment with ease because of the nubility and beautiful nature of a woman. Although these are necessary, however, with the aid of social media, modern-day women have subtly bypassed their traditional roles with these qualities and can leverage the thirstiness of men to gain commitment for almost nothing.

For the modern man to have at least a reasonable relationship that slides above his sexual needs, he must base everything on value. If she cannot provide a value that can complement, substitute, or assist in an area he is experiencing deficiency, he must desist from such a relationship and bury his commitment in a deep place until he gets that woman that can align with his needs, desires or deficiency.

Until then, he either desists from women or handles each woman the way she presents herself - testing each one that best suits his taste, worthy of his commitment, or satisfying his sexual fantasies.

Authority: Be wise.

PS: Thank you for your kind words. Promise to do better!

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Romance › Re: Reality Every Guy Need To Know ( STRICTLY REDPILL) ... by CaveAdullam: 9:53am On Jun 22, 2022

Kipaji:
And this below may be the reason good men stopped leading. What do you guys think?

1. This is true and correct on a basic, evolutionary, instinctual, and animalistic level. Women choose the men they mate with, and these men are mostly sociopaths, brutal, and aggressive because these characters symbolize power, status, and dominance. And since women are weak and need protection, they reward these men by refusing nice guys and men with good values. And rejected men operating from that animalistic point of view will forego their good values and become savages for women and sex.

2. On the flip side, humans have evolved passed that single mode of operation, alongside that underlying evolutionary tendency, they have working brains and are cerebral in many of their actions, meaning that they don't act like absolute brutes all the time, they have well-functioning brains, can think and judge things.

3. And as a result, good values transcend beyond women and sex. It is required for ruling society. It is required for bringing judgment. It is required by society for unity, cooperation, and development. Without these values, society cannot stand.

It is foolishness for a man to forego good values and pollutes himself with the wine of brutes and savages because of women and sex. Such men can't be efficient in their leadership and are fickle.

4. What then should a young man become? He wants women and must win the hearts of his people.

Like the Greek hero, Theseus, he must be rational, have good values, can deliver judgments, and is brutal when it comes to his enemies and evil. Women don't want evil men, but men who are capable of evil doings, as it guarantees their safety. Women also want men with good values as it guarantees their love and care. Society desires these men as only they can reduce chaos, and develop and maintain peace and order. And to sum it up this is the balanced man, civilized savage, or the superman.

DAY 174, REDPILL 2022

Authority: Let the balanced man be a mirror unto you.

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Romance › Re: Reality Every Guy Need To Know ( STRICTLY REDPILL) ... by CaveAdullam: 9:13am On Jun 22, 2022

heartofcity12:
Hmmn, how ruthless..

1. A man wouldn't want an ugly, less fertile, and uncouth woman for a relationship, the same way a woman wouldn't want a poor, ugly, and less fertile man for a relationship - this is the reality of life and the intersexual dynamics at is brightest.

2. The ugly and beautiful; poor and rich; high and low; are scattered around, observably, there is a melange of them all in many residences. However, in other residences, they are explicitly separated from each other - "O Israel to thy tents".

3. Not that " look for your type" is a ruthless statement, but that that young woman is bringing to the complaint - the young man, that there are many women that will not reject him because he is at the same level as them, the same vicinity and in some cases even better than them. And that if he looks closer he will find these women. She's saying "choose who chooses you": a phenomenon that is explicit to the animal kingdom; it is women that choose the men they want to mate with. Chasing has always been by force, expends energy, is brutal on both sides, and time-consuming. If you observe the Cock and Hen closely you will understand this.

This is what the young woman is bringing to the notice of the young man when she said " look for your type".

4. If it is looking for your type, then, what about hypergamy: women dating high?

A. He should either appeal to both sides of hypergamy by developing/displaying masculine traits like confidence, braveness, courage, an athletic body, fearlessness, ambition, and unrelenting. And with high status, wealth and influence. Or, appeal to one side.

B. With the above, he may not get the kind of woman he desires, but as he constantly refines himself with the lessons he learns from the women of his type or below him, he gets to know women better and with time, developed himself to attract the women his heart desires.

5. In the mating game, it is women that choose, and it can be as a result of genuine desire or exploitation. And this is the lesson the young man needs to grab as he learns to mingle with his type and know the wheat and the chaff as he becomes better.

Without further also: DAY 173, REDPILL 2022

Authority: Genuine desire.

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Romance › Re: Reality Every Guy Need To Know ( STRICTLY REDPILL) ... by CaveAdullam: 8:29am On Jun 22, 2022

DAY 172, REDPILL 2022

Bro, the intensity of the world, the heart troubles, the pains that spiral and the hardness of life should not stop you from appreciating yourself.

For the big wins, appreciate yourself and upgrade.

For the failures, learn from your mistakes and improve.

Any stagnancy or gridlock mode, analyze within and without.

You will be shamed and ridiculed, don't fret. Keep pushing.

You will be compared to others, don't fret, keep pushing.

You may not be appreciated, don't fret, keep pushing.

You will be compared to your low level, don't fret, keep pushing.

Kindness may be far, don't fret, keep pushing.

Rejection will be scattered here and there, don't fret, keep pushing.

Your weakness will be used against you, don't fret, keep pushing.

You may be abandoned, don't fret, keep pushing.

NOT ALL ARE GOING TO MAKE IT, BUT BE AMONG THOSE THAT STRUGGLED TO MAKE IT. And probably, a trial will convince you.

Authority: Keep pushing.

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Romance › Re: Please Guys What Can I Do To This Young Girl!!! by CaveAdullam: 6:01pm On Jun 21, 2022*

You've already expended yourself on her, and the sunk cost fallacy has set in, hence, you don't know what to do. You know what to do, but you still fantasize about this young woman, a damsel, and an angel too young and pure in the eyes of her beholder that she's capable of committing such an act despite her age.

Solution 1: End the relationship!

The above is better for you. You can't easily pull out solution two because you have a weak frame of mind and the inability to curtail your emotions and feelings for her. Howbeit here is solution two:

Leverage on her new adventure. Since you have caught her red-handed, you can use that info to enjoy some of the benefits she is earning in her new relationship, remember: she's guilty and will find remission of her guilt in you. You can also see this as you being compensated for the spending you made for her.
She's no longer your girlfriend but "their" girlfriend, you don't need to feel emotional and infuriated about this. And it is not that you can have her for marriage any longer. It is her game versus your game.

Have a nice day.

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Romance › Re: Reality Every Guy Need To Know ( STRICTLY REDPILL) ... by CaveAdullam: 7:38pm On Jun 20, 2022

Ballzproblemm:
whoever made this no wise, make I make money without a game, so that I go dey like will Smith

DAY 171, REDPILL 2022

They want you to hustle from 6 am, then when you have made it, they want you to fall in love by 6 pm with a lady that has been enjoying her life since 6 am or even earlier.

Funny thing is that they will compel you to fall in love with a lady that just ended her party by 4 am, the next day. The lady in question and society see it as a great act done for you. After all, you were the one that was hustling and didn't make it early.

Make money. Practice game.

If she didn't start at 6 am, she will have nothing to offer at 6 pm. Mutual value plus congruency is the goal.

Authority: Refuse nonsense.

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Romance › Re: A New Nairalander (my Friend) Needs Advice Ladies And Gent... by CaveAdullam: 7:56pm On Jun 19, 2022*

Just four months into a new relationship that is evinced to be happily ever after. These four months prove that the relationship is standing on quicksand, and if necessary measures are not taken, it will end in trouble.

It is not the money that matters per se, probably, he must have done more than that before and even vice-versa. But the scenario here is that she didn't appreciate it, she has an ungrateful heart. A relationship ought to be mutual and each partner must be considerate of the other. If she isn't ready for a serious relationship which I think is the case, she should free your man. Ungratefulness regardless of how minute it is is a red flag.

For your friend and his colleague, they are business partners, meaning that both need each other, except he is close to the tail end. Even at that, he must separate himself from this lady and highlight her poor behavior to her uncle/aunt. Starting a relationship on this note seems problematic. He must not ignore these signs.

For the gifts, he can decide to take them back or leave them based on his position. If he is business savvy and he takes it back, it sends a message to his business partner that he doesn't take a shit and cares about business. Or, he is a selfish man. Or, he is still selfish despite his lack of skill in business - this might hinder his business.

The best decision is to free the gift and ghost the woman. But if she becomes aware of this poor behavior of hers and change, then, he may be lucky with her. (And if this red flag accumulates with others, he must let her go).

Thanks.

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Romance › Re: Reality Every Guy Need To Know ( STRICTLY REDPILL) ... by CaveAdullam: 5:40pm On Jun 19, 2022

HARDESTNIGGAINT:
GOOD DAY FELLAS

THERE WAS A GIRL THAT POSTED ON THE PAGE 1491 OF THIS REDPILL THREAD (THE PREVIOUS PAGE AND THE LAST POST ON THAT PAGE)

SHE IS SAYING SHE IS INTO "BEAD-MAKING"
SHE ALSO SAYS SHE IS SUFFERING FROM A FINANCIAL CRISIS IN HER "BEAD-MAKING BUSINESS"
SAYING SHE NEEDS N150K-N250K ON A BORROWED LOAN SHIT AND SHE IS SAYING SHE WILL RETURN IT IN ABOUT 5 MONTHS WITH INTEREST NOBODY SHOULD PAY ATTENTION TO HER OOO

JUST JUMP AND PASS

I CAN BET MY BALLS THAT EVEN ALL THE TROLLS ON THIS THREAD WILL NOT EVEN GIVE HER A DIME NOT TO TALK OF REDPILLERS

DO NOT BE HER PREY
GUARD YOUR HEART AND MONEY

DO NOT GIVE ATTENTION TO THAT BITCH

WHY SHE NO GO MEET HER FELLOW WOMEN MAKE THEM BORROW AM RABA

Based on my capacity, I render help to both men and women. There is a man on my weekly radar and a woman, monthly. Even a few days ago, my female colleague was surprised that I gave her money - she has termed me wicked and selfish before. However, I didn't do it because of her accusations, but because she rendered much help to me during this period as work was much for me and neither was she expecting anything in return. She proved her value.

Helping women is not a big deal. But I only help the ones who respect me, are loyal, and provide reasonable value. Even though it is unequal, at least, it must be mutual.

Pvssy or no pvssy you must prove your worth.

Thanks.

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Romance › Re: Reality Every Guy Need To Know ( STRICTLY REDPILL) ... by CaveAdullam: 5:23pm On Jun 19, 2022

luminouz:
You dey mind them. naso I tackle one resident feminist and she was yarning rubbish. Guess what, others joined and were calling me 'Ibadan most wanted' and all sorts. I laughed my head off.

Today is happy father's Day, not happy responsible father's Day but they won't let us enjoy the day without saying shiit.

1. One thing you must understand about weak people is that by all means possible, their weakness must be justified through righteous means. Their predicament is always a result of so, so and so.

2. Quite alright, there are genuine predicaments, and out of pain, the victim will complain and yell for help. This genuine suffering can be easily detected and in most cases, it is characterized by its ubiquity in many places. E.g the suffering of Africans/ citizens of third world nations.

3. The weak will always show the strength of their weakness when a phenomenon appeals to their state. E.g Mother's Day.

Women don't wish themselves a happy responsible mothers' day, it is a happy mothers' day. Single mothers, casual sex workers, divorcees, adulteress, and widows are masked, their wrongs even before and after that day have been washed away because they are women, mothers, and even mother nature. Mother's day covers their weaknesses and on that day they turned saints. They are not belittled by men and are even appreciated more. And as a result, they feel justified in their weakness...why won't this celebration occur more than twice a year?

4. But on fathers' day, men are scorned and less appreciated. They are only reminded of how much work is remaining and the weakness responsible for this. Rather than their wounds being dabbed, it is exfoliated by subtle henpecking by mother, wife, girlfriend, sisters, and female friends. On their day he protects them but on his day of celebration he is ridiculed...this should tell you that it is the man for himself except he has a god/God on his side.

5. Happy responsible fathers' day - meaning that some fathers are irresponsible. Of a truth some men don't live up to their standard, however, with careful, thoughtful, deliberate strolling down the lane, many of these men are just unlucky. It is never the intention of any man to watch his family live and die poor; it is not in the nature of men. It takes an empathic heart to understand this.

6. However, some men still choose not to live to their standard even if they are up to the task: these men are not the majority of men, they are subsets who out of their volition or lack of wisdom are negligent and nonchalant about their family. Overall, men provide for and protect their families in poverty and riches; health and sickness.

7. Women use this subset of men: deadbeat dads, men that broke their hearts to justify their "happy responsible fathers' day" platitude. Here again, their weakness has found a justification. They blame men for these but do not blame themselves for being myopic and unable to judge these men before any sexual engagement; they don't do it because they are myopic, too fast to jump into any boat provided it makes them feel comfy. Predatory do not make up the majority of men!

8. The single mother and jilted lover don't blame themselves for choosing the wrong men but always wait for a day to accuse every man that breathes the same air as them.

Her mistake is not her fault, it is always his fault. She is always responsible and her lover irresponsible. These are characteristics of the weak and conflict avoidants, they always look for a way to justify their lack of accountability and complacency.

9. The intriguing part of this is that men have inculcated these platitudes and see themselves as true sinners! Many are now a shadow of themselves - no self-love and empathy. They bear this shame, scold themselves and always want to please women especially.

10. The problem of the modern world is not only a lack of positive masculinity but that a rising generation of young men is gaslighted to see every trace of masculinity as toxicity that must be abstained from. It is a pity!

11. Dear men, learn to take good care of yourself. Don't mind others ridiculing you, do what's needful and true for yourself, they won't come to your rescue in time of distress so why bother about them and what they think about you.

Raising a family is not easy, you must understand this task before engaging in it. And if you are there already make sure you do your best and hold your partner and children accountable. The fact that you are a leader, provider, and protector doesn't mean you are the Titan, Atlas. For a family to succeed, all hands must be on deck.

Happy Father's Day.

DAY 170, REDPILL 2022.

Authority: Put yourself first. Positive masculinity.

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Romance › Re: Reality Every Guy Need To Know ( STRICTLY REDPILL) ... by CaveAdullam: 11:20am On Jun 19, 2022

ubunja:
okay, with virgins the first thing is to give that disc. Then take it from there. Virgins are always going to be attached to their first. It comes with the territory.

A trend I'm seeing on this thread is if a girl is willing and ready for sex guys will go round and round in circles and give every excuse, not to fuss, but if a girl is not interested that's when guys are keen to fucc. It needs to stop. Guys don't play hard to get by passing on sex, it can be a personal choice or to do with standards on Guy's part, but it doesn't translate as the guy being valuable in the girl's mind. From where the girl's standing the guy is just missing god-given chances. If pussy is on the table, take it. But give nothing back. That's how as a guy you create value within yourself. Because now the girl is chasing to equal the score. She just gave the pussy she now needs to get something in return. And she'll keep chasing as long as you don't give anything back. And as long as you're not giving her anything back (love, commitment) she sees you as valuable and hard to get.

Lol. Bad guy.

1. I understand why some guys may never give in to a leeway of sex: self-control, morality, fear, or celibacy. Morality is the titan of all, it lurks behind. This is a laudable act though.

2. However, a man's nature is to spread his semen, and impregnate as many women as possible within a short time, hence, men reach ejaculation faster than women. It is not EVOLUTIONARY WISE for a man to allow a woman to pass freely without making any sexual move towards her, not to talk of ignoring her when she presents her body wholly on his bed. This is a wrong evolutionary move as he may end up not producing offspring for the next generation.

3. A Man playing hard to get when he has little to nothing to offer a woman is on the losing side. Because women will come across other men better than him. If women are playing hard to get, it is well understood, as the cost of pregnancy and staying with a child till adulthood is expensive. (This is not to say that men don't cater to their kids, but that when it comes to kids women do higher than men). And that women don't want to look cheap... the egg is expensive while do you appear cheap?

3. Even the game of seduction first starts with you familiarizing yourself with your victim. Closeness must be established first before you start playing the unpredictable game. Meeting a few times and then turning into a god that appears and disappears kills any attraction.

4. The thin line question here: is whether to refuse sex is self-control or just being scared(perplexed)? It is more of an individual decision. But if you are sexually active, regular sex shouldn't pose a problem. Self-control may enter when you don't want sex at the moment and not because you're scared of having sex or because of morality. Some guys shield themselves from their lack of sex or abstinence with morality.

One can still have self-control during regular sex. Inability to bridle the libido is where the problem lies.

Thanks.

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Romance › Re: Reality Every Guy Need To Know ( STRICTLY REDPILL) ... by CaveAdullam: 10:34am On Jun 19, 2022

TRP1:
Seems you’re a FUPRITE from the picture on your Dp.
Nice to see you on this life saver thread lols

Never desist from taking pills and do well to put that specie on ghost mode for your sanity

Trust you’re doing well Bro

Hey man!

How are you?

Saviour of the broke masturbator.

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Romance › Re: Reality Every Guy Need To Know ( STRICTLY REDPILL) ... by CaveAdullam: 3:12am On Jun 19, 2022

Pukkalolo:
If you're stucked with JavaScript stuff, I got your back bro. I might know a lot about women, but that didn't stop from becoming a pro at JavaScript.

But take your time with vanilla (pure) JavaScript before diving into its framework or library e.g react. If you don't take your time to understand vanilla JavaScript (especially the ES6 stuff) before going to meet React, you'll run back home with your tails in between your legs.

Because there are lots head cracking things you have to face when you're trying to get your hands dirty with React; things like Redux, axios, fetch, react-redux, JSX...

Alright. I sent a DM.

Thanks.

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Romance › Re: Reality Every Guy Need To Know ( STRICTLY REDPILL) ... by CaveAdullam: 9:10pm On Jun 18, 2022

DAY 169, REDPILL 2022

Two sets of women you must watch out for: the scorned woman and the woman who does not take things lightly to heart.

For the latter, playful things are not a joke, she pins light humor as an attack on the ego. This is the kind of woman you must be strict with in terms of the details of the relationship between you two. If you are not ready to commit to her, please don't pretend to. Don't promise her anything except that which you can be able to deliver within an eye blink. These kinds of women are torments to your flesh if you don't fulfill your promise or break an oath. They are sadistic and can end up going to the extreme to harm you. They never had love in their eyes, like engineers, they are only attracted to machines that can satisfy their needs at a particular time and dump them when they Lose their efficiency. Be careful!

Authority: Learn to separate the wheat from charts.

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Romance › Re: Reality Every Guy Need To Know ( STRICTLY REDPILL) ... by CaveAdullam: 5:47pm On Jun 18, 2022

ayomikuolatunji:
A hardcore redpiller recently got a job in his career as a React Developer in a foreign firm with a lots of benefits. I started learning web development the very day this thread was created in 2020 and I have used it as map that guild my life. I appreciate every loyal members of this thread. They said redpillers are loser, bitter,non achievers, ugly, broke, and all sorts of names but we are bigger than them.

#redpill.

I'm on web development too. Done with HTML and CSS, at least the basics, and slowly moving to JavaScript( premium tears loading).

Please, I will appreciate your help. Thanks.

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Romance › Re: Reality Every Guy Need To Know ( STRICTLY REDPILL) ... by CaveAdullam: 10:06am On Jun 18, 2022

AlphaAlex:
If Men are Naturally Polygamous and Women are Naturally Monogamous as Society has Deceived you into Believing. Then Who are the Polygamous Men Fucking?? huuuhhhhh

you better believe it women are Naturally polygamous it’s just social and cultural conditioning that has made it seem like they are not open your eyes Gentlemen Females are the Real Sex Machines If you haven’t seen this side it’s because they haven’t shown it to you yet

The story of testosterone counters everything you have said here.

Please, research the testosterone hormone.

Thanks.

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Romance › Re: Reality Every Guy Need To Know ( STRICTLY REDPILL) ... by CaveAdullam: 4:52pm On Jun 17, 2022

DAY 168, REDPILL 2022

Dear husband,

1. Your wife complains about her boss every day, yet still endeavors to make him happy because she knows her livelihood depends on him. If he dies today, it will pain her because her source has been blocked. If he relinquishes her duties she will beg and cry. Why? Because she depends on him.

2. With her boss, there is no room for any mistake, things must be done appropriately and at the right time. There is no drawback, she must continue to better and develop herself if she always wants to remain on his white list. Though the work is strenuous for her, however, it is not an excuse. The goal is to take the organization to the next height, she is a chain, if she rusts, she will be removed. Hence, she must constantly lubricate herself.

3. Dear husband, you experience the same with your tough boss at work.

But because you don't see your family as a dynasty that must not be truncated, a dynasty that must be well rooted and founded in the strong pillars of iron and brass, one that serves generations unborn that will secure your lineage and family name, you end up playing caricature hide and seek game with your wife and children.

4. She will not respect you because you don't see family as an organization name that must be protected at all costs. Both of you don't joke with your bosses, but still end up messing up your family name, messing your kids up, and don't care about family reputation.

5. Bosses know that love doesn't exist, hence, respect for the company plus the pursuit of its goal must be met at all costs. He doesn't want love, because on the other side love is weak. You bring value, he brings value too, a positive-sum tradeoff.

6. Your name is important. Your family name is important. Your family is important. Your wife and children are important because they form a delicate part of you. By all means possible they must be well guarded and protected, if not, you will get eroded with every crack in it.

Authority: Imbibe the qualities of a boss and you'll be treated as one.

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Romance › Re: Reality Every Guy Need To Know ( STRICTLY REDPILL) ... by CaveAdullam: 2:31pm On Jun 16, 2022

SweetVibe:
Kings in the house, something interesting happened yesterday. There is this pretty girl whom I was kind of interested in, she has been acting indifferent all this while but I just played along to eat her cockies.
Yesterday out of the blues she called my number for the first time (I was the one previously doing the calling). She started acting all loving and caring on the phone which made me confused, next thing she asked me what was my favorite meal was and I told her vegetable soup and eba, she said she will prepare it right away and call me when it is ready. After she dropped the call I was wondering where the sudden love came from for a lady who has never even given me her attention before, anyway I still played along.

3 hours later she called me that the meal is ready and I should come and eat, I insist she brings it to my house but she refuse and told me her younger sis came to stay with her and she doesn't trust her to leave her alone in the house (I smell lies). I told her okay I will come later. I arrived at her place later in the evening and I met a very expensive meal with costly fruit juice on the table,( I was still confused) to be on the safe side (poison or karashika things) I insist we eat together which she accepted. It was one of the most delicious meals I have ever eaten, after eating we gist and did some little romance but she refuse sex. l left for my house later. She chatted with me so sweet and loving throughout the night.

Then this morning, something shocking happened. She called me by 8:am this morning and begin to sound sober, when I asked her what the issue was; she told me an urgent need came up and she needs from me and that she promise to be paybackbyxt week ( I laughed in my heart)
I told her straight forward that I don't have it right now. The next thing she ask was you away was speaking? I said yes it's you Victoria, she said "it's me Victoria you visited yesterday o"? I said yes I know but I don't have any cash here with me, she insisted I do transfer and I told her that will not be possible for now. After I ended the call my brain begin to understand the reason for her fake caring and loving yesterday which gave me a deep insight to always be skeptical when a b**tch is acting all loving all of a sudden.
Guys always are wise, these b**tches are extremely manipulative. stay wise and smart.

This is what was discussed in the sisterhood in summary:

1. Those babes that do not want a hookup or preserving their pvssys for their boyfriends and husbands still have a trick they can use to get money from a man.

2. Look around you for a guy you are friendly with or have been asking you out for a date. Yes, don't get perplexed, these guys are your potential captives. You must release yourselves a bit and make these guys feel warm.

3. When it comes to these guys, forget about their class, looks, status...their money is what you are after and should concern yourself with.

4. When next you come across them act nice with that lovey-dovey stuff.

5. When you have established this and are sure that the guy is getting hooked, move to the next step...ask him out on a date or use your money to prepare a nice meal for yourself and dish out little for him. "nor be say because of man you o go empty your savings o".

6. You know that in our contemporary day, men are complaining that women don't care about them, hence, you must pretend to care by doing this for them.

7. You can supplement the above with texts and calls.

8. After the date or warm hospitality, allow him to do a small romance with you. "I know say you nor be ashawo but also know say you nor be virgin and boys dey press your breasts anyhow for area for nothing". Now, you must start to cash out. Be wise.

9. Don't give in to sex because he will think you are cheap. Just a small romance and end it.

10. By the time he is back at his house, he will reminisce on that scenario and fantasize more about it. He will now be eager to get the pvssy and will want to do anything possible to get it.

11. Now, this is where the game comes in: a day or two after the romance thing, call him, act sober on the phone...he will ask what's wrong, you dribble him round with small talks...and boom, make your request.

12. Remember that he wants your pvssy, he will want to satisfy your demand to get it. He might say he doesn't have enough money, tell him you will manage any amount that the issue at hand is sacrosanct and an emergency.

13. Boom he sends the money and you continue to dribble till he gets tired. However, you must make a high demand if he insists on fvcking you. Remember, that he has not seen a woman who showed him much love.

14. Repeat this process with so many guys and I bet you, you will always cash out data or funds every week.

Any question?

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Romance › Re: Reality Every Guy Need To Know ( STRICTLY REDPILL) ... by CaveAdullam: 1:39pm On Jun 16, 2022

Ronnnie:
I will like to understand what you tend to achieve when you bring old posts of people here while trolling them?... You do this time without a number but you still don't prove a single point from doing that...
Nobody here claims to be perfect...We all have our share of issues while some live with it silently, some also require advice, therefore, bringing their issues here...
All we do here is try to help our fellow men see the clear truth of life even tho some take it too far concerning the red pill...
Troll in peace but that action of yours is irrelevant so to speak...
You are free to bring mine here also when replying to me...expecting that

In trying to prove how smart he is, he ends up unleashing his dumbness. I can bet my balls that he is what he condemns or make a mockery of in others. In psychology, it is called projection. If he is not, how come he has enough time to spy and take a memory lane of all that is in opposition to his ideas? Even an established man will never have such a time not to talk of one that's building from the bottom or in the process.

I can bet you that this guy has scanned my moniker day and night to no avail. Because every one of my posts will end up countering his stupidity, delusion, and pure madness with every comma and full stop. He is simply not in touch with reality, wisdom, and respect. An id!ot in the making!

Let the dog keep roaming.

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Romance › Re: Reality Every Guy Need To Know ( STRICTLY REDPILL) ... by CaveAdullam: 1:20pm On Jun 16, 2022

DAY 167, REDPILL 2022

I don't care about a woman's dark side!

1. Humans are in their real form when no one is watching, they are free to do what they like because they are not threatened and opposed; they are not criticized and bedizened with arrows of shame and guilt. They just live for every moment as they have no one to please.

2. Men feign strength in the presence of others and women feign submissiveness. Pretense is a result of them being compelled by an outward entity to demonstrate or represent a realm of quality beyond their capacity. And as a result, you will not know their depth.

3. Women are more neurotic than men, and can easily let out their emotions, especially under pressure. However, with their dark side, they are very protective and secretive about it. The details of her dark side, her inner wh0re can only be ascertained by her; with the sisterhood, she is careful about this side of hers.

Women do relate with each other emotionally and can either render help to themselves willingly or grudgingly. They are careful about this dark side of themselves because when things go sour, women slut shame themselves even more than men thereby unleashing told secrets.

4. You can mistake superficiality for ingenuity during the vetting process and end up committing to a chameleon. You will be shocked when you discovered it by chance because you never considered her dark side when vetting.

How can you be able to get a glimpse of her dark side?

5. Romance is the damn of men, like wine in excess fill in the stomach, he ends up acting in weird manners even though wine also brings warmness, joy, and gladness to the heart. Romance and wine act similarly when it comes to men, but one is for beautiful maidens and the other for the stomach respectively.

6. To know this dark side, you must act on the same emotional plane as women. Not that you are foregoing logic and rationale, but you must be cautious about them as women shy into their shells when they first notice it because logic is an embodiment of criticism and judgment; those that are conflict avoidants stay aloof from this zone because the result if not favorable is ostracism. Keeping secrets is for this reason.

7. You need to connect with her on the same level of emotional bonding: bring yourself to her level, assume your ways are like hers or share a similar scenario you have experienced concerning this dark side. Make fun of it and express excitement about it. The essence is to make her feel relaxed. Once done, she begins to feel that you have a dark side too and will gradually let hers out. Amplify every little detail shared to get to the nitty-gritty. She may not expose all of her dark sides but at least, you will get hold of it and what it contains.

8. If you are eager to get her, that is, you are chasing her all around, she will not expose much of these details; the women you chase will never because they don't trust you enough and they will cover up for this dark side with grandiosity making you feel they are what they appear. Female celebrities in every sector of life are on this table. The grandiosity of some may be out of their achievement, however, it is this achievement that encapsulates their dark side.

To know about a book, you must read it.

Authority: Be wise.

Cc. Someoneschild2, dhiqson et al.,

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Romance › Re: Reality Every Guy Need To Know ( STRICTLY REDPILL) ... by CaveAdullam: 6:56pm On Jun 15, 2022

DAY 166, REDPILL 2022

If she chooses to (and can) endure the emotional and (psychological) torture from her chad boyfriend, she can also train herself to be able to withstand the harshness of life, the toxicity of man, and the spears that fly by day. Though they are different scenarios, however, the lessons end up the same - withstanding pains and difficulties in hope for the best.

If she can train herself to dominate emotional torture she can also be able to traverse other problems she has or come across. Positive/negative.

This advice comes in handy when she needs help in an area of her life + glued to a toxic or abusive spouse. Ditto for men.

Authority: Be strong.

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Romance › Re: Reality Every Guy Need To Know ( STRICTLY REDPILL) ... by CaveAdullam: 10:51pm On Jun 13, 2022

richkal:
The irony of life is that a YouTube channel with high value like this doesn't usually have a lot of subscribers.

The image below is for those who believe that money is the Alpha and Omega when dealing with women.

Those who said NO (36 + 17 = 53) in the combine are more than those who said YES (10 + 37 = 47).

There is a high probability that those who said Yes, if it is enough, are going to cheat in the future when the guy fails to meet up. Be wise.

Whether 10%, 17%, 36%, or 37%...women cheat. Simple! You can imagine the audacity of this poll. These women's suffrages are sending a sublime message.

1. As a man, never put women on top. You may do this because you want to make her happy, but in the end, she reciprocates with a foreign cvck in her mouth.

2. Feed women with the edge of your money. No cap! Spending on her doesn't guarantee a happily ever after.

3. Use your money to take good care of yourself as a man. 1k, 2k, 3k even 5h is not small money. With as little as that money, you can buy data, download/buy books, buy belts, toothbrushes, toothpaste, slippers, food, shirt, etc. Don't think because the money is small, then you pay it as a tithe to her purse.

4. Don't beg any woman with your money.

5. Don't go the extra mile trying to make money to please her and satiates her ever-consuming lust for things that are lowly and material.

6. People love you for your usefulness, some are out of gratitude while others are sycophants. For the latter, you are useful until you become useless. Who are your allies?

7. Women don't care for the extra mile you go for them, the pains you bear, and the darkness you passed through. However, you must do this for yourself as it will catapult you to a better height.

8. Women only care for the now. Your good yesterday can't be appreciated today. To be constantly applauded by women means you must always be on the wheel feeding their bottomless insatiableness.

9. Women cheat and necessarily do not have any tangible reason for it.

10. If she has not cheated, it is either she has trained herself to curtail her hypergamous instinct or just waiting for the right time or unconsciously waiting for the right person and right place.

11. Don't be bothered whether she will cheat or not. Just state the consequences if you ever find out.

12. Have an abundant mindset.

13. Men can only go as far as helping women, but in the end, women must choose their fate.

14. Don't trust any woman! Trust should only be ascertained after every task.

15. Don't hope on a woman. Sit down and construct your life yourself. Women will disappoint you.

16. Don't neglect your path for hers. Let her be the one following you.

17. Aim to please yourself, not women.

18. Develop yourself for yourself; women become an added advantage.

19. There is a difference between stalwarts and sycophants, you must learn to identify the two.

20. Be kind, but learn to spot leeches and the one who truly needs help.

21. It is not your duty to pay sacrifice for any woman. If you are doing this make sure it is not to your detriment. Women don't tour this road for men.

22. The women you should take seriously are those that are loyal to you.

23. Know ungrateful people for what they are and stay aloof from them.

24. You owe no one. And no one owes you. Learn to work out of your sh!t yourself. If you are granted help be grateful and humble.

Live and let's live.

DAY 165, REDPILL 2022

Authority: Be wise.

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Romance › Re: Reality Every Guy Need To Know ( STRICTLY REDPILL) ... by CaveAdullam: 8:11am On Jun 13, 2022*

MJBOLT:
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Women's pride lies in the number of attention they receive from men.

1. I have observed that women these days will not hesitate to give out their numbers to guys because they see these guys as potential recruits into their hordes of chasers. The only way to sit on top of their list is if from the beginning you already titillated her hypergamy, acted as some interesting movie about to happen, and show intentions of spoiling her with fun and excitement. On a general note, these women just feel like veterans of war because men do chase them.

2. The good side to these chasers is that they are not after defending or protecting her but to fvck her like other men and move on. But the downside is that these guys end up throwing their time, energy, attention, and resources down the drain to please her; some end up being friend-zoned, some manipulated and others jettisoned along the way.

3. If we should observe this photo clearly, there is a higher probability that the man feeding her with his cum/seeds is not on that list, the guys on that list are just chasers wanting their fill. Let's go a little bit deeper:

A. All women have that one specific man they love with all their heart, with all their might, with all their mind, and with all their life. The funniest thing is that this man can either be rich or poor, but take it that every woman has that particular man she wants to spend her life with.

B. Despite the aforementioned, she may still cheat on that man she claimed she loves so dearly. However, whomever she cheats with is her golden calf and not her god (take the Israelites of the Bible as an example).

That's why a woman will still stay congealed to her broke boyfriend while leeching on a 7+ figure earning dude. Alright, it is hypergamy.

However, a man should know that if her woman behaves like this, it is not love but a lustful passion - Job's wife. Because like Job in the Holy Bible, true love endures pains, agony, wilderness, stress, darkness, and despondency and in the end comes out refined. True love is Sarah, following Abraham through thick and thin. True love is Job staying faithful to his God. Or, the disciples of Christ staying faithful to the gospel even unto martyrdom.

4. This myriad of attention from men makes them feel a sense of worth, howbeit, one is based on nothing and no achievement save beauty and physique. Their ego and entitlement mentality increases along this line because they feel that if they truly have nothing to offer why are men queuing up in their numbers just to have them? This is what I call the attention deceit: thinking you are important because of the circle of attraction towards you which is way similar to the Dunning-Kruger effect.

5. It is this attention deceit that has kept women where they are and not any patriarchal oppression. Being associated with a king doesn't make you king, queens are not kings. These women think they are like men or even better than men because men chase them 24/7 unrelenting - testosterone doing nature's work to the detriment of men who can't simply place their hands on their libido.

6. There is no possible way this rabbit hole can't lead us to CHOSEN VS COLD APPROACH. We are here again. If she chose you she won't list you among the numbers of tasty men who want a drip of her pvssy juice. She will want to protect you and her interest. Notwithstanding, with a good game, cold approaching can segregate you from the hordes.

7. Summarily, any woman that act this way, telling the world of the number of men that chase her (it may even be that some of these men just want to help her/friendship) is truly deluded, and has a low sense of worth, and should not be taken seriously. She's but for sexual gratification.

On the other hand, guys should calm down and look out for girls that show genuine interest in them, even if it is just 1 girl in a year or two...forget beauty and class, I know you will be judged by the kind of woman you are with especially when it comes to beauty and class, but women are lurking around to have you. Use these women as samples to experiment and understand women and up your game/life from there. She may even up her game because she wants to secure you.

The time you will use in chasing women around should be saved in doing something more productive. It is only through genuine interest a man can understand how far a woman can go when she's crazy in love. Dealing with the wrong women or chasing women all-around has its potential lessons, however, it comes with painful stings and is not enjoyable.

Without further ado: DAY 164, REDPILL 2022

Authority: Genuine desire.

Cc. AIhabaze, food is ready. Yummy!

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