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DEMZEE:
Polygamy has been existing in Africa culture for millions of years so it's not a biggy

The men who are at the top of the social hierarchy of men are high value patriarchs who are polygamous

In African polygamy, men have the authority. In a polygamous home, the women only fvck that one man.(Though there can be cases of infidelity but it's not tolerated).

In Polyamory, a couple (husband and wife) allow an extra partner, male or female to come live with them. Or, the husband/wife or both have leeway to explore their sexuality without feelings of infidelity. Unlike African polygamy, the husband only has virtual authority over the wife/extra partner.

I'm concerned about polyamory in a first of all heterosexual relationship(male and female) and don't give a fvck about the LGBTQ+ involved in it too.

Thanks.

ubunja:
You're all talking about Janet Hardy. Did you do a simple Google search on polyamory and the name pop up on top?

Janet Hardy was the first I know of that came up with the stuff back then. But whatever, there are different evolutionary background that has been attached to it to prove its validity because it hasn't been welcomed by the masses.

Monogamy is the norm as scientists like Helen Fisher, Charles Darwin, David Buss etc has proved. However, polygamy and monogamy has also been part and parcel of different hunter gatherers households.

When it comes to polyamory, the most credible account always postulated by the "polyamorous scientists" e.g Christopher Ryan is the Bonobo ape; Homo sapiens ape cousins, where the female bonobo have sex with different males, and the males don't care about paternity unlike the chimpanzees and gorillas.

ubunja:
When I say you're following @coachgregadams I'm saying you're listening to him or his type because they're the one's who like to talk about women doing yoga and stuff after hitting the wall.

Women resulting to religion or yoga in their epiphany phase is what a layman can easily know without browsing YouTube or waits for it to be peer reviewed and validated by the likes of coach Greg Adams.

ubunja:
Here's the thing, The Red Pill is a group of concepts that especially on this thread are used to explain female nature. But Don't rely on these concepts to explain everything about females because female nature is changing and adapting at a faster pace than new concepts can be formulated. Women are adaptive. And the pace of change in the West is brisk and women are right behind that change adapting every year. Meanwhile red pill concepts take time to be formulated by the Red pillers and the result is that red pill concepts are wayyyy behind.

There is difference between "a change in nature" and "adaptability" in regards to organisms. Nature is constant but base on environmental factors organisms can easily adapt to new changes. It's interlocked in the DNA.

For example: A Kalahari man can survive the cold weather of Canada not because there was a change in his nature, but because it has already being encoded in his DNA to survive any weather conditions provided there is food and security. Ditto for women.

Women are able to adapt to different circumstances because biology has shaped them to be more resistant and enduring, hence, female mortality is lower when compared to male mortality at birth and life expectancy.

ubunja:
You're fond of mentioning hypergamy, but that hypergamy it's not as absolute as redpillers think. Sometimes Female Masculinity takes over and women, instead of seeking higher value men, simply go 50/50 with men on their level.

Yeah, hypergamy isn't absolute. Women won't marry a 4 figure man today and skip to a 6 figure man tomorrow. But understand this: it was hypergamy that choose the 4 figure man when she was unable to get a 6 figure. Back and forth, women select for the best or settle down for what is available if they can't get the best. Hence, 50/50. From an evolutionary perspective, women don't want less because of her upkeep and welfare of her children especially when it comes to sexual relationship.

Female masculinity is on the rise not because women choose to become masculine but as a result of the economic problem, liberal culture etc. Except such women were highly masculinize in utero. Even the most richest women had the most richest fathers or husbands to their sides. Never a time was 50/50 acceptable by women both subconsciously and cerebrally.

ubunja:
Which is another movement gaining ground in the West that redpillers will have to reckon with. You said it yourself one time that a change is coming and men have to be ready. But guess what! With the current concepts of the Red Pill, most men won't ever be able to face that future.

Yeah, there is a change, sure. But all these changes are different ways to stir humans away from their natural disposition as per sex and the intersexual dynamics.

Culture and tradition, neglects of core values are the changes happening, not human instinct(nature), because at the end, biology will always triumph and everyone will fall back to it and start from the scratch.

The redpill has really exposed major concepts when it comes to these changes. To be forewarned is to be forearmed, and as far as one is not oblivious of the major tenets of the redpill, no matter the zephyr of changes that occurs regardless of its intensity, he will survive.

ubunja:
Finally red pillers like to speak of the movement as about survival. But it's really not. Because if it was, red pillers wouldn't mind exploiting women for their own gain. Which they can't in reality.

That is what it looks when it's explained on paper. But survival happens subconsciously. You don't consult your brain before carryout many functions, you just act. But when a neurosurgeon begins to explain all the processes involved in that action, it fills a motley of dossiers.

Women don't decide to act hypergamy because it's biological, subconscious, they just act it which still boils down to survival.

ubunja:
Which is where the IZM comes in. Which is about real survival. Ask yourself why the Lion is the king of the Jungle but red pillers like to describe thems as a Wolf. Which is much lower than the lion.
It's because the red pill is not ready to play the game to perfection. Which would make them lions. Guys of the IZM are the ones calling themselves Lion's. I love the redpill but the game is larger than this. I try to stick to it but here and there I do drop IZM concepts.

The little I know about IZM has to do with p!mping which is still part of the game. Yeah, men can decide to live off women and it's fine. But IZM/p!mping is only game, not natural or biological to both sexes.

Men provide and protect for their women and children, and that's it. If the order is reversed, there will always be disorder. Homo sapiens DNA is related to apes like chimpanzees, gorillas etc. not wild cats like lions and wolves.

ubunja:
Redpillers are afraid to win.

Game is game. Redpillers aren't afraid to win if they understand the nature of the game and are ready to bear all the consequences in loses and profits; short term and long term; IZM/p!mping.



Thanks.

ubunja:
and this is exactly why the redpill can't keep up. You have already formed an idea on something you haven't even researched one day. . See how negative you are about everything. The red pill is simply too focused on the dark side of female nature as if the dark side is the only truth about female nature.

See how you're so intent on framing anything and everything under hypergamy/women are evil/men will always lose in the end? That's a fatalistic mindset that develops only when you spend too much time following negative minded red pill channels like @coachgregadams and Co. And I'm always telling you guys to stay away from such content or atleast minimize your dependence on such. Why? Because Those guys are divorced and bitter to the core and their red pill is too red as to be almost black.

Don't overdose on the red pill bro. There's a lot of good things about female nature it's not all evil evil evil. And a true red piller will know.

The channels I keep recommending to you gents are @romwills and @cousinttaw, find them and see how refreshing their take on female nature is. And these guys don't even like using the term RedPill because of the bitterness and the perceived hatred of women that many redpill coaches express.

Check it out, the redpill is very limited and many gents who want to follow the rabbit hole deeper end up in a new group of concepts called The IZM. Which is far better than and superior to the RedPill. The red pill is just egos, hurt men and men trying to prove a point to women. Unlike the IZM that's about survival of the man by reversing the game on women.

Broaden your mind beyond the RedPill chief. You'll be surprised to see that many concepts are not as absolute as you think.

And I can see you're making a comment on polyamory and polygyny when you've not even researched the issue. No wonder you're so off on it. Let me stop here.

Polyamory is not a new thing bro. If you know Janet Hardy and Christopher Ryan you will know that that such form of sexual relationship has been on the rise though snail paced. Even Rollo Tomassi has words about it.

Is as if you've never read anywhere here where I mentioned positive masculinity must dovetail with positive femininity? Anyways, you're so much interested in the sex/game aspect making you have most views that's circulates around sex. There's more to just fvcking!

But as for me, I like to see beyond the horizon of game/sex and the effects at large. And if you call that overdose on redpill, blackpill or whatever it is, I will CONSUME IT MORE! Everything must be laid bare for all to see and make their own decisions.

And if you're aren't comfortable with any post of mine---too overdose redpill, too blackpill, too evil women---let me know about it and we'll dissect it.

Well done.

PS: I've never spent a serious time on coachgregadams, even though I hear his name around the sphere. You see, you didn't make a good research on me, no wonder you're so off it. Let me stop here.

emmaodet:
Like you said, Romance world.
What happens outside the bedroom bro? the financial world? if he struggles, it is also a death sentence.

You can never fully own a woman without first fucking her soul out. - First of all, you don't need to put yourself in a position of pressure. For you to plan to bang the shit out of a lady, it only signify one thing - you are the beta in the relationship, you are the one trying to impress the other.. You are the one trying to invest more into the relationship.
Why not put yourself in a position of rest, a position where the lady is the one trying her best to impress you and bang the shit out of you.
Also, no matter how you bang a woman, a lady who will cheat on you will do and a lady who will dump your ass will do.
How long and hard can you bang bro? even ladies that are being banged with hard drugs by bad boys or thugs with marijuana, codiene, skunk, cocaine etc are still cheating on their guys not to talk of a guy using normal body.
Footballers that are athletes - training everyday and really really really fit and good on bed and also with money join are still being cheated on.
Abegiiiii

A. From a psychological aspect, he's right, in the sense that a woman that rates your d!ck 5 star will always come looking for more fvcks. Women never forget good d!cks; it's a memorial.

B. I got your side too. Why place so much effort to fvck hell outta a woman that will dump your sorry ass for another guy? This is one of the problem men are having with women. They will rather spend their time, energy, money etc in order to secure a pvssy. And when the woman dump them they begin to wonder what they did wrong or didn't do right enough.

To deal with women, it is best a man do with what he can lose, because at the end, there's no guarantee of her loyalty no matter the effort he put in her.

But on below, it all boils down to whatever a man wants; short term/long term, that will determine his winning strategy.

Thanks.

ubunja:
the Red Pill in the West can not keep up with what is happening and hardly any Redpiller that side is talking about it.
But recently there has been a steady and quiet rise in the polyamory movement in the west, namely polygyny. (for the uninitiated-- polyamory means one person loving many people at the same time. Polygyny specifically means loving more than one woman at a time).
So in the West, while feminism is wreaking havoc, marriage rates plummeting, men going their own way and women being general hoes, there's been a gradual interest in sharing romantic partners.
Now there are two movements gaining popularity at the moment: polyandry and polygyny. Polyandry is many men for one woman. That movement is very small.
Now by far, polygyny (many women for one man) is the most popular of the two movements. It has more adherents. And here's the strange part: IT'S DRIVEN BY WOMEN. This movement has a shitload of females pushing it. I used to think it was about hypergamy until I went through the many pages of these women and groups and the guys these women were sharing were not in any way special or rich. Just average dudes. the crux of the movement seems to be the "family" aspect. Many women just want to be part of something that they can help build. Another strong aspect of polygyny seems to be female bisexuality. Many women want a woman also but don't want to leave their men, so they invite a woman to join their relationship and both them and the man then share the woman. And strangely the GFs/wives all want the setup to be permanent like that with no outside interference. It's crazy times.

Its like it's the jungle out there with women congregating around the Alphas.

One woman was even saying she wouldn't mind being part of up to 4 sister wives to one man. Its crazy man. And definitely deserves a closer study.

0. Women wants a man other women want. And if a man is able to play on this psychology, he can be able to accrue women to his sides and women will do his biddings because they know that other women are on rotation.

1. As far it's Western, it's the men that will suffer the consequences. Short term, his sexual lust is satiated without being accused of infidelity, but long term, he ends up paying for either child support or alimony or both. It doesn't in anyway favour the man. Vasectomy will be his only saving grace that's if he isn't accused of domestic abuse.

2. There's no guarantee that the women involved will be loyal, everyone just want to gratify their sexual lusts until the storm starts hitting the roof.

3. Two sisters, I mean in reality can never be best friends, they always have scores to settle except they stay apart. These women at the beginning will show themselves love and enjoy the prerequisite of the show, but when jealousy hits, none can bring peace to them. Jealousy will always raise its ugly fangs when it comes to sexual relationship between men and women.

4. Men know what they want in a relationship, women are still dull about it up till date. Men want different women, simple. Women want one man today, a threes0me tomorrow, a bisexual relationship the next day, a single mummy the next year etc. They're simply confuse. Polyamory is just another sexual premiere for them, very soon they will look for another.

5. The problem here is that, men involved in such kind of relationship will end up raising kids aside theirs unknowingly. Because, these women will never be satisfied. Jealousy will rise and they will want to explore. They will want to thirst other d!cks or know how orgies feels like.

6. Males in the West don't have any option once it comes to sexual relationship in the long term. Game is where it ends for them, and even at that, they can still be messed up by any woman that feels jilted.

7. Polyamory is baseline hypergamy. These women will congregate around a particular man for a short term period because such men are rare, take hold of his gene and at the end latch onto a simp.

8. The truth of the matter is that polyamory is women displaying their hypergamous nature with the consent of the alphas and betas.

9. Women will suck satisfactorily from both end, alphas deposit their seeds and still frolick with other women, simps do same as alphas but they end up paying for the free milk.

10. And at the end, they find religion or yoga.

Thanks.

BLOODYSPERM:
Lolzzz

Stupid mordern day women

Feminism and madness

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I think feminism needs to be classified under psychological disordered conditions. And I guess so maybe in later future when men wake up and see feminism for what it is. Hysteria, a condition normally displayed by feminists was first classified as a medical disease until it was removed. Serial unrestrained emotional dunderheads.

Their weapon of war is nudity. No one takes porn actors seriously not to even talk of crazy feminists who display n@kedness as a way of postulating their silly claims. They are the opposite of what they're fighting for even though what they fight for still remains illogical. Their actions and attitudes always sells them out for all to see except for the blindfolded.

Bad news: the Saudi nation is now chilling with some bites. Feminists has started their protests over there.

Crazy world we live in.

neyoohhh:
Black women are different, they broke out of the shell but misunderstand what's outside the shell and shoot themselves in the foot.

There's data to back this up.. black women are different.

Worst, better or same?

Because I see all of them as weird kids in the same home, just like the movie---fuji house of commotions.

PS: what's happening with you and your Nairaland accounts?

Martinez39s:
typing...

Still on the reality show. One thing I noticed was that the women would always try to use morality to shame the men, but when they are caught or called out for doing something wrong or immoral, they would always try to justify themselves and they would show no remorse.

@MJBOLT
The show I am talking about is called Survivor (Battle of the sexes). The particular one I recently watched was discuss by this YouTuber. The video is long, but I finished it in three days by dividing it, starting from when the YouTube video was immediately released.


https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=49h-oU7ns3U

Women hold men to the same ethical standard they are guilty of. They always have cards to play that will justify their actions regardless of whether that action is good, bad or ugly.

A woman is never wrong. Men are the problem!

A woman is always right no matter the foolishness she speaks; men must listen and follow.

Women are not men's equal because it is men that understand the meaning of morality, ethics, codes and conducts. For women to obey the rules of the land they must be lead as fathers lead their kids. (Hope you've seen a scenario where a father or mother drags their reluctant child to school regardless of their murmuring, grumbling and tears. That's how you lead these women. Because if you leave them to do as they wish, they will turn everything upside down and that's what we're witnessing right now).

Thanks.

heartofcity12:
That’s the kind of ladies we have to deal with today. Black women generally have issues.

Why do you guys like putting black women forward as the sole culprits? Women are the same everywhere, whether black, white, pink, red, green etc. If any woman is nice, it's because of the society she lives, the culture and traditions that shaped her----all thanks to the father.

You all are surprised about black women because they've now broken out of the shell African culture ensconced them, while white women are seems "innocent" because they never really had any "culture/tradition."

Women are the same everywhere! And I don't care if you're in Nigeria or if this place is Nairaland. (Heartofcity12, don't mind my harsh tone here).

Lol!

heartofcity12:
Hmmn. Deep words. Man’s blessing is a curse in disguise! We’re always expected to take charge and be in control. Who’ll want to render help to such gender already viewed in a state of leadership. Sad modern women still want to compete with us though and not wanting to give us the respect we deserve, they claim for equal rights and advocate feminism, a lot of masculine females out there today. They won’t just give Caesar what belongs to Caesar.

1. Put yourself first. Protect yourself. Shield yourself from manipulations.

2. As far as you know that what you're doing is right, don't give a fvck about what society says. However, do change your mind when face with the a supreme idea or truth.

3. It is reputable (simp) men that are giving to peasants what belongs to Caesar. If you put women where they belong they will respect themselves. But since men see pvssys before anything in their life, lets keep observing as women are almost taking over the throne of the emperor.

4. Always be happy with yourself and achievements and grow.

5. Be kind but know when you're being exploited.

Thanks.

Martinez39s:
As I have said before, choosing signals can be deceptive. By the way, females do follow red pill and game contents so they know most of the basics that we know in addition to their natural, feminine game and, where possible, they will try to upgrade in other to avoid falling for gamers technique, play the nawalt, and weaponize it against unsuspecting men.

Though the concept of choosing signals is valid, but not all choosing signals are genuine. Women are not as dumb as we like to think when it comes to manipulation.

1. It all depends on what both parties require from each other. Whether fake or real signal, if a gamer is sound with his game, he can quickly score points before the manipulator launches her parasitic tentacles; the gamer can now abort mission so as to avoid being manipulated.

2. The best horizon for the manipulator is the long term relationship. The manipulator is likened to the Zulus who blended with their grassland during a war with the British. This manipulator will feed your illusion with different categories of greenlights until you finally commit. Then, boom! The cobra rises her hood!

3. Fake greenlight is easy for the woman especially when the male is a simp. But if the male isn't, he can be able to quickly detect the changing of the game and abort or play along if he can leverage any benefit.

4. Whether genuine/fake desire, women are fluid. Men should understand this. Women cannot remain in that " young genuine feminine" state forever. If not for anything at least because of the effects of contraceptives on her health. Naturally, the menstrual cycle makes women slightly unstable across the years not to even talk of adding contraceptives to it---Instability 101.

No matter the genuine desire a woman has for a man, if he's not a dominant and sound leader, he can't lead her. Only when he's able to understand and master women's emotions can he be able to lead them.

Thank God with the female colleagues around me, they are always good field to practice my experiment. Use their emotions against them and you'll see good cooperation. You must assemble them like car parts if you really want to use them, else, they'll remain ugly as you view them.

Women don't come in full package, you must master them and leverage on their nature if you must work with them.

@Sozinn, I plagiarised your phrase: young, genuine and feminine. Hahahaha.

Thanks.

heartofcity12:
SMH

Perhaps, her boyfriend is her p!mp.

That's a good game to play on a woman whose heart is for the street. Her boyfriend reasoned it, that rather than bother himself about a "cheating" girlfriend why not accept her for who she is and allow her become a member of the onlyfans. Lol! Guy man gave the girl what she wanted.

If he is not cashing out, then, he is a fool!

If he's cashing out, at the end he will dump her!

Rarely will he cash out and still be with her in the long run. Of course, the girl will be the one to end the relationship.

Wow!

heartofcity12:
Funny this is coming from a female. Women and children are loved unconditionally, but a man is only loved on the condition of what he can provide. This is why men shouldn’t fight men, instead build and grow together, society is already against us, we are all we’ve got. Men should encourage men and empower each other. #trp

To whom much is given much is expected.

Not that men don't need love, doesn't want to be shown compassion and care. But the fact is that one who has the key to civilization is viewed as a competent leader full of authority and know what to do at any particular point in time. Women and children aren't blessed with such qualities, hence, they're pitied and viewed as weaker vessels.

If men sit down around expecting to be taken care of like women and children they will always meet hedgehogs because it's originally accepted that men aren't expected to be weak. And so it is!

We can say man's blessing is a curse in disguise! This is a painful reality men must make peace with but must always put himself first.

Ouch!

SOZINN:
Well, well.

The nigga nearly choked her to death. Lol!

"Na once baba taya for unnecessary moanings." Lol!

When fiance arrives, lights in the house will be dimmed, and he will be forced to make love to her in the same way her lover did so that when it's dawn he will not question her concerning the marks.

Probably, this kind of sex always end with some fertile sperms in the cervix. Too bad, a fiance may raise a child not his.

Lol!

heartofcity12:
Modern women. Sex is all most just have to offer. Shouldn’t life be beyond just this?

It's not about sex bro. The keyword phrase there's WEALTHY MARRIED MAN. Hypergamy! Hypergamy! Hypergamy!

The b!tch has low IQ, low Industriousness, can't handle the risk in handling a job and nonchalant. She Just want to get everything well served beside her pvssy. She doesn't even care about the hurdles she will cross in convincing madam, provided she get what she wants.

Plot twist: she will apply for the job of a nanny wherever she finds a place to rest her hypergamous tentacles.

Lol!

heartofcity12:
Girls constantly saying they are free to wear anything, the same girls constantly identifying the problems caused by their choice of clothes. At the end they won’t take accountability of their actions. This one is shifting the blame to restaurant owners and bartenders. What a shame.

With her ashawo top top/gown she wore why making the announcement. She wants to feel like the saint amongst her sisters: the wearer of underwear! Lol!

Thank God she didn't accused of men viewing them as sexual objects(which they are though) this time around. Or gave us an harangue while men should respect naked women on the streets.

Hahahahaha.

heartofcity12:
Marriage is not for the weak!
Single people seem to be happier these days.
Sad our society expects every able bodied man to be married even though they have no contributions to your life once you’re in it.

Only where I think a man should be bothered about marriage is when he's interested in raising a dynasty and continuing that dynasty with his blood line. E.g The Rostchild family.

Single men have more time to work and gain more incomes. They're not bothered about wives and kids welfare. Expenses are minimal. Has a lot of time to go places and have nice adventures. Not bothered about the demands of the marriage laws. And still got women who they will bang without incurring the expenses of marriage.

Like single men, single women also benefits in their singlehood. But truth of the matter is that marriage and family is the real joy of women. No matter how much they enjoy singlehood, deep down their hearts, with/without societal pressures they want husbands and children. And couple with the fact that marriage benefits them more when compared to being single, they'll definitely hustle for it.

Thanks.

heartofcity12:
Take note homies. #trp

Heartofcity12, thank God you said "signs". Lol!

These signs are just the beginning. The real deal is for her to maintain such qualities to the end of times. And if you may agree, we know it boils down to almost zero in this modern time.

However, women that belongs to this category will fall last when compared to other women. And in cases where situations will no longer favour her, especially the lack of good suitors, decline in age, decline in beauty and not financially buoyant, she will just relax rather than fly with the winds.

Thanks.

heartofcity12:
Damn, so sad but men are hellbent on getting married. Marriage isn’t by force if there wouldn’t be peace of mind.

Marriage ended between year 2000-2005 to the best of my knowledge.

Modern day marriage can be compared to the Nigerian system of education: the masses want to become graduates with a degree to boost their ego despite the faulty educational system.

Marriage is not for the weak though. Those that got the mettle and guts can proceed with it. I'm behind them to give them moral support.

Lol!

heartofcity12:
Feminists and equal pay pushers don’t see these men, it’s the top earners they focus on. They’ll ignore STEM courses to study communications, yet expecting humanity to adjust for their needs.

1. There can be no equal pay because both male and female employers of labour knows that men are more efficient in doing their works than women.

2. Men has more intelligent capacity to function well in the STEM field.

3. Men are risk takers and most jobs that requires high risks always attracts high pay. Women are risk avoidant.

4. Female hypergamy doesn't want to settle for the apples her hands can reach, she wants to get the high ones without working for it. And besides, evolution didn't position her to get the things she cringes and whines for. Everything is a futile attempt except when simps come to their rescue.

Thanks.

Tonnyray:
I understand your point and I definitely agree it is a reflection of what actually resides intrinsically in women generally. My take however is, it is easy to be easily misguided by the vocal, visible few. There are at least 100 million women in Nigeria. Give or take we say 20 million have social media accounts. How many are actually debasing womanhood with tiktok, Onlyfans etc. I still strongly believe things are designed to be exaggerated in favor of a negative narrative. Both genders suffer it. "Men are scum"will keep gaining ground because the media will always only be awash with news of rapists, wife beaters and abusers, cheating husbands, name it.
In Nigeria alone over 1000 marriages will probably celebrate their anniversary daily. You will only hear of the 1 or 2 divorces.
Every Unilag girl is likely to be on instagram, what percentage of these are selling pussy with it?
But thirsty niggas follow only the thots (that is why they keep having massive followership some in hundreds of thousands) and go on to complain all women are hoes. Sister Nkechi who dresses decently on her IG page and tries to push her fashion designing hustle will be struggling for 200 followers, @sexy_wetlipzz is already on 144,000 followers- impacting their worldview of women.
In reality, there are a hundred times more Nkechis.

Guilty of the sample bias.

Were all the chimpanzees and bonobos in the world taken to the lab to confirm that they share more than 96% DNA with humans?

Were all the bananas in the world taken into consideration to confirm that they share more than 70% DNA with man?

You hear men are polygynous in nature, but is it all men that have had series of women on rotation?

Common example: there are packs of albinos in Nigeria and more of those fair in complexion in the Ibo tribe of Nigeria. But does it makes Nigeria less of a black nation? Or the presence of Black Americans in the US makes it a black nation? Human nature(actions and behavior) is the same everywhere with slight differences, if you're able to understand a particular sample of them across different demography you can gain a sizeable understanding of all.

Back to the matter: if there are 100 times more sister Nkechi in reality, how come the ones in your whatsapp contact bears verisimilitudes with @wetlipzz on instagram? (probably they didn't share nudes but hope you got the underlying behavior).

As far as women are concerned, and presently without any form of partiality sister Nkechi is the exception=minority=fair people in Nigeria.

Have a nice time.

Tonnyray:
It's actually not that bad in reality. I'll probably get hanged by the balls here for saying this but you see that thing called social media? It's designed to brainwash all of us. Make the surreal our reality. Case in point: how many Unilag girls are there? Maybe 10-15,000. But Chidinma (a prostitute, junkie and killer) got all social (and mainstream) media attention.
Media is designed to exaggerate the ills and failings of society and make us focus on what kills us rather than what heals us. Focus us on the tiny black dot on the sheet rather than the remaining expanse of whiteness. Focus on the 1 thing that's wrong even when 99 other things are right.

You are on point man. I agree with you about the effects media has on the population as they feed on human emotions. Media concentrate on shallow conspicuous holes that don't really matter while neglecting important issues. What media houses are concerned about is what will put their national government on a good light.

But what you must understand is that women have their own media: instagram, facebook, YouTube, snap chat, tiktok etc. Which is not controlled by the government, hence, they're able to display what they like because it isn't against governmental codes and conducts. Humans can't hide their nature for too long no matter how much they suppress it, it always come out betraying them.

The media is one of the freedom women sought for, though that freedom came cheap without any form of drudgery on women's part, yet, it really exposes women.

Everything women display via social media accounts is what happens in reality, however, they do it surreptitiously in real life, though, some now got guts to openly display their dirty linens. Reason: because they gain from it and not limited/taxed by the government, unlike Journalists and other national news reporters that must ingratiate the government for their daily bread.

Thank.

neyo0h:
I think it's best that way, sometimes I'm confused because I can't really get what's happening in Nigeria sef.

Coded babes everywhere with over stretched pussy mileage, boldly doing nasty stuff and it's only what I see on the internet.

I wonder how bad it is in reality.

It has always being like that, only that the patriarchal walls was able to debilitate it to a minimum. The advent of liberal culture: do what you like as far it makes you happy without hurting anyone, coupled with feminism gave them an opportunity to showcase what they really are.

We should be thankful for the internet because it gives us an ease to truly know what these women are capable of. The internet is a magnifying lens showing us what happens behind the curtain.

Women don't even know and understand themselves. Their epiphany always come when they've fitted themselves into dirty corners. They want the best of the best when in reality they're nothing. All of them begin to accept Jesus Christ as their saviour, develop "good" character, become heavenly choristers all in the hope of securing something reputable. They still hit big though because thirsty simps want to secure an overused pvssys for themselves.

Thanks.

Vicas2000:
This video here is so hilarious. Kevin Samuels was dishing out some real truth to this woman about the stupid idea that she was "dating down"


https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=VI6XWGKvUrE

As a man, you will learn some pure truths from this.

She's 35, got pregnant at 16, and have a son who's 13. She subtly subtracted 4 years from her actual age. KS didn't had the patient to discover this lie. Ouch!

Hypergamy in full blown!

The most pitiable man will definitely find her good because she owns a business, plant garden, does self improvement blah blah blah, without knowing that she just settled for him. No love for him! No passion for him! Just a temporary manageable material man. What a pity!

Even if you give this woman the 6 figure money man she will not be satisfied. She will end up complaining that he does not have time to fvck Sodom and Gomorrah outta her. Useless!

What about the baby daddy? He's still taking some fvcks once in a while and once this lady catch a simp, she will unite with him.


Arrant nonsense!

Martinez39s:
The problem with men is that their emotions and peñis keep misleading them when it comes to women.

How men in these societies can look at and hear about other men being butchered in the divorce and child support courts and they think, for no good reason, that their case will be different baffles me? Why can't they gather to fix the laws and social situations that potentially makes serious relationships a misery to them? Why be sure your woman won't do the same to you as if you are a mind reader? SMH. I can beat my chest that even if the penalty for divorce was decapitation for the man alone, many men will still marry.

That aside, another thing with relationship and marriage, which your post brings out, is that many people, even with red pill lens, only consider, unknowingly, a certain moment and phase of a relationship to make a general conclusion of the relationship. They don't look at the big picture or consider the progression on the relationship and overall change in dynamics with time. Such considerations are important. I am not such if know what I am hinting at.

@Bolded, though, I'm not a mind reader;

1. Women are unstable, whether you picked them up unclean and cleanse them. Their character is synonymous with dogs that goes back to their vomit. It's not enough vetting her; at a particular period of time, even not as a form of affectation, she'll definitely pass the vetting process. But along the line things might skew to the left and because she's fluid and judges what's good from bad based on feelings she will destroy everything both of you has worked for.

It takes a high level of discipline on the side of a woman's father and husband to ensure a good behavior in her in tumultuous times. There's no middle ground when it comes to women; give them a mile and they'll travel round the continent.

2. As it stands, being a redpill guru will help a man in understanding the feminine nature and to maneuver his ways with her not tantamount to his destruction. However, it's not a guarantee he can get her hooked forever! The only way to curb this female cancerous cells will be a combination of redpill lenses and governmental policies that is not detrimental to the man in the long run. If the government continue to postulate more gynocentric laws, even redpill knowledge will not help him in the long run.

3. Now, in some western nations, as I'm beginning to observe, it seems that men will still have some negative experience with the family court even if his relationship with a woman is short term. So, a wise man must know the part of the tree trunk to strike his axe.

4. Redpill men who want to at least enjoy a long term relationship should go where the marriage law is strident in curbing this emotional menace in women especially places like the Middle East. And good for those who want to marry many women: Polygamy. Lol!

Thanks.

MJBOLT:

real shit
https://www.nairaland.com/6640453/shocking-meet-polyamorous-couple-say#103492516

Wait, let me laugh... Lol!

Polyamory/open relationship = open female hypergamy.

1. Getting engaged to a woman long term in a Western nation with gynocentric laws in favour of women is highly disastrous for a man, not to talk of two women.

2. Polyamory/open relationship is otherwise known as cuckoldry. A man allows his woman to be binge fvck by other men so that he too will be free to binge fvck other women. And after frolicking helter shelter with cvms on her thighs she ends up still well taken care of by her husband.

3. There's no understanding among polyamorous couples, everything is for the camera and social media. 2020 is still a fresh year for them, lets see how long the relationship lasts.

4. Those women are gonna get more attention and more fvcks from other men because his is divided between two h0es. He will definitely take care of children not his. And even if DNA tests later prove this, he must still pay for child care support and alimony to these women.

5. This is western polygamy but with no male authority. It highly favours the women.

6. These women are still in their peak phase, experiencing oscillatory waves of oestrogen and progesterone and with their master: Contraceptives. I pity this young man because he has just dug a pit for himself. When these emotional waves of his wives temporary subsides, he will fall inside the pit he has dug.

Thanks.

Polyamory: optimising female hypergamy.

With the way Western laws are well coined and calibrated along the emotional streamlines, in favour of women, it's very unwise for a man to engaged with a woman long term, not to talk of two women.

This man has dug a pit for himself.

Martinez39s:
My Gee Skepticus... take it from an OG like me... mehn!

Imagine what you could be... no caps.

50% redpiller...

40% gamer...

10% simp niggah!!!

Imagine the combo. C'mon... you have a lot to learn from me... I tell you. I will take this red pill to the next level.

All these 'Ajebutter' children that don't know the ways of the street. Redpill monk. You need some good a$$ mhen!

You're a nerd and don't know how we roll in the street.

Come outside and learn.