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The deed has been done, therefore, no need throwing blames around the house. Solution is indeed needed.

1. If you are contemplating suicide better erase it from your mind. And same with crime(though it's a high risk high reward strategy, but you might end up not successful or jeopardizing your life). So, no crime, no suicide.

2. Did you met her a virgin? How do you know you are actually the father to the unborn child? How much do you trust her to the extent that you know she didn't frolick with other men? True paternity should be an utmost concern of yours now.

3. And since you can't exactly proved the paternity of the unborn child, focusing on your career is the best bet. Forget about the threat, her family and the unborn child. Change to a new area of residence and stay aloof from them in order to discourage easy accessibility.

4. It's good you also document the case in a police station in order to guarantee the safety of your life. As they involve law enforcement agency, do same too. Do this quickly.

5. Insist on a DNA test before taking any form of responsibility, it can serve as a delay tactic why you pursue your dream. If eventually the child is yours, then, accept full responsibility. You can take the child without marrying the mother if you so insist, however, not advisable except otherwise.

6. Don't be afraid of anything, the family will take care of the mother and child. The child will definitely suffer some forms of hostility, lacking in proper care and guidance if the father is absent. And if eventually the child is yours when authenticated by a DNA test, it's a bad bet for you.

7. By and large, focus on your dream and career. Don't compel yourself into a marriage already standing on a quicksand. And most especially, insist on a DNA test.

Thanks.

Martinez39s:
Men have suffered.

Feminism is a psychological disorder. Simple!

CaveAdullam:
So, you're implying the wife of the murderer is a stranger to him? This is plausible! Do you see your properties, friends, colleagues as strangers even though you've maintained a relationship with it/them for less than 1 year? Probably no!

You don't commit to a stranger; husbands do! You don't feed, shelter and protect a stranger forever; husbands do. You don't share secrets and allow strangers see the chink in your armour; husbands do. Wives are not strangers to husbands. So, why say the wife is but a stranger, when they courted and had their marriage sealed by both families and in most cases together with the law?

Male homicide is higher than female homicide, and male are the highest victims of homicide. Homicide is as a result of power, resources and mate(s). Jealousy is rooted in the male psyche--- it is "don't touch my property except I give you my permission". Men will give permission for other things, but not a mate, because his mate carries much of his investments and his invisible future existence lies with her. Hence, he will slaughter any other male that comes near her for activities that will be detrimental to him, both in the short and long run.

The simp of a husband would have abandoned his wife to the street where she belong, though, it is heartbreaking, disappointing and weakening, but better than homicide. Now, he will end up in jail without having the wife and lose his freedom/life.

There are somethings especially perverted activities people do, that's not tolerated in a particular society, but that favours some(minority) that does it, and backfires when others(majority) tries to do it. The gym instructor might have been fvcking other mens' wives scott free, but since it's ruled against his societal norm, he ended up not coming alive this time around. This is what is referred to as high risk low reward strategy: behaviours of stupid folks who don't contemplate deeply before carrying out specific and risky actions. No pity for him whatsoever, he deserved his death!

The woman will still end up at the winning side, because in years to come a darling simp will ever be ready to cater to her whims.

Men never circumspect properly before/when dealing with women, ergo, they always come out destroying their lives, reputation or/and resources at the end of the tunnel.

The law should take its course!

Thanks.

I came with evidence.

Mate wisely!

Martinez39s:
Simps don't know what it's like to hold a woman accountable, so they shift blame to the nearest man within range and take out the anger and hurt on him.

The woman had her marriage to protect, the gym instructor didn't. The gym instructor did not force the woman, hence was not committing a crime. The woman willingly parted her legs for the gym instructor. On seeing his wife with another man in bed, what did he do to his wife? Nothing!... Why?!... Because a simp can't hold a woman accountable and he would rather have his fellow man (gym instructor) incur all his wrath and hurt caused by the wife whose cheating rendered his investment in her fruitless. SMH. The simp husband didn't even care if the gym instructor knew of her marital status.

I remember the story that broke out on nairaland about a simp who mutilated his childhood friend because his friend slept with his gf. The gf was a serial cheat whom the simp had caught and forgiven repeatedly. What did he do to girl? Nothing! Instead he crippled his childhood friend, disfigured him, and made him bedridden with the help of other simps. Even a female nairaland —a female— said if the childhood friend was her brother, she will not rest until she deals with the simp who was stupid enough to harm her brother because of a woman. That was the female's take.

Are simps not a shameless and pathetic lot? Some people will try to tell me that the man was trying to protect his investment... lol. Bullçrap! The same simps will tell you women are beyond pùssy and not properties who can't make their decisions yet they will shot a man for sleeping with their wives instead of holding the woman who broke the vows accountable. If you are foolish enough to invest in a woman without acknowledging a betrayal/infidelity on her part in future, you have yourself to blame. Besides, the gym instructor did nothing legally wrong; he doesn't owe the husband anything, but a simp can't understand this and hold the woman who made the vows with him.

Finally, stay away from married women for your safety. If you are a provider husband and you catch your wife sleeping without another man, hold your wife accountable. To kill your fellow man because of pusśy is too much price to put on pùssy.

Edit: The gym instructor was aware of her marital status and the husband kept sending thugs to threaten the gym instructor. Instead of sending thugs repeatedly, why not confront the wife and send her packing for defying their agreement. The gym instructor was foolish, but the husband is the biggest idiòt.

Nice summation.

Nonetheless, evolution doesn't care about redpill, bluepill, simp, alpha or whatever. Those terms is only familiar to man, not nature.

When it comes to the mating strategies, man and other primates are analogous, however, with slight differences because of man's higher mental cognition and verbal fluency. The issue of sex is not a small matter at all in the bio data, it's a jungle. Hence, males always appears deadly. To be strategic in this jungle is success, and as professor David Buss said, "mate wisely". And if a man is not strategic he will end up losing.

Thanks.

Professor David Buss: Professor of Evolutionary psychology who got a special interest in the mating strategies peculiar to the animal kingdom especially, human mating strategy.

Keyword: mate wisely.

SeekerofTruth1:
"Emotions will always be the Poison of Masculinity"
Men Throughout history,have always been known to be Logical Beings,using the Almighty power of logic or what I'll call Common sense,to Reason,Think and solve problems. This is one of the reasons Men Built civilization as it is Today. Now the Problem with men of The 20th and 21st century is that They were Mostly raised by their Mothers who Subconsciously Trained Them to Become People pleasers,Gentlemen and SIMPS!.
I myself have been a Victim of this(Though my mother didn't really Raise me to simp). I was raised by my single mother because my father was Assaisinated when I was Younger. Thus, There was no one to Teach me what it really means to be a man. I am Currently skinny and "Almost" Pot bellied(Though i am currently working on my Body, 40 Push ups and 20 squats daily,for a start)
I was The most Gullible Person on planet Earth during my childhood and teenage years(I'm currently 19 and I Truly Respect TheDarkgamer For his Contributions here despite his age). I have been used, tricked and manipulated by both male and female over the years. Many of my friends know that I can be very Emotional at times and that is my On weakness. For example,if we are both Seriously Arguing,and you Start Laughing and making mockery of my Knowledge towards Said Subject,i will get emotional and start Saying incoherent words,tears would literally build up in my eyes but i wouldn't cry though. Another way Someone can get me emotional is by mocking my body(my skinniness,the colour of my teeth,my big head,Stature,The way i Walk and my Dress sense). Damnnn! Sometimes i look back into my life and wish that That the redpill had been Bonded with my DNA right From birth. It's so sad really,i have been beating on 2 occasions by Girls before,the first on was in Primary 3 while the 2nd was in Jss 3. I was A very weak child then,any little thing I'll start to cry. But i think I've changed drastically though,but there is still much work to Be done.
Now why this long story? I want to tell you how the Redpill has changed my Life for the better. I am now working on my self emotionally, Physically, mentally and Hopefully financially.
You should never let anybody prey on your emotions,be Very selfish with your Ideas and Resources. Give only to those who are in need of Help,not those who will Cajole you with names like Stingy or broke, or "My gee". All these words are words used to manipulate men into Trying to prove themselves to other people.
As a man,you should know when to say No,let your NO be NO!
And as For the below Screenshot, that guy couldn't be anymore Wrong, like seriously? Alpha males are people who Reveal their weaknesses? How can a sane Man show his vulnerability to his Enemies?
Even superman Of fiction would never willingly let his Enemies know that his weakness is Green Kryptonite.
Being Able to show vulnerability is A Characteristic of feminine behavior,which is the Complete opposite of Masculinity. Infact, Not Letting others know the source of your power, is the Ultimate Power.
And lastly,run away from people who advice you to be yourself! You are not perfect the way you are! If you are fat Or broke or have A bad Posture or whatever,you must Try to change to be a Better person.
And lastly, Appreciation post to Martinez39s, he is My role model on nairaland. I have read almost all of his Posts(and his previous account/monicker)on Nairaland. I love the way He Presents His Argument in a Polite and Rational way. I follow both his Redpill and "Religious" posts here on Nairaland and i don't think I've ever disagreed with him on any of his views.
Thank you all for your contributions here,my life will never remain the same again because of you Guys.

Solid base!

The women that make it independently base on merit on the economic and political scale are the exceptions; here is the norm below.

https://www.nairaland.com/6662965/manager-day-sugar-baby-night

Fatalveli:
I wonder why someone will love a total stranger so hard to the extent of killing another person for her.

The husband should either be killed too or life imprisonment with hard labour.

So, you're implying the wife of the murderer is a stranger to him? This is plausible! Do you see your properties, friends, colleagues as strangers even though you've maintained a relationship with it/them for less than 1 year? Probably no!

You don't commit to a stranger; husbands do! You don't feed, shelter and protect a stranger forever; husbands do. You don't share secrets and allow strangers see the chink in your armour; husbands do. Wives are not strangers to husbands. So, why say the wife is but a stranger, when they courted and had their marriage sealed by both families and in most cases together with the law?

Male homicide is higher than female homicide, and male are the highest victims of homicide. Homicide is as a result of power, resources and mate(s). Jealousy is rooted in the male psyche--- it is "don't touch my property except I give you my permission". Men will give permission for other things, but not a mate, because his mate carries much of his investments and his invisible future existence lies with her. Hence, he will slaughter any other male that comes near her for activities that will be detrimental to him, both in the short and long run.

The simp of a husband would have abandoned his wife to the street where she belong, though, it is heartbreaking, disappointing and weakening, but better than homicide. Now, he will end up in jail without having the wife and lose his freedom/life.

There are somethings especially perverted activities people do, that's not tolerated in a particular society, but that favours some(minority) that does it, and backfires when others(majority) tries to do it. The gym instructor might have been fvcking other mens' wives scott free, but since it's ruled against his societal norm, he ended up not coming alive this time around. This is what is referred to as high risk low reward strategy: behaviours of stupid folks who don't contemplate deeply before carrying out specific and risky actions. No pity for him whatsoever, he deserved his death!

The woman will still end up at the winning side, because in years to come a darling simp will ever be ready to cater to her whims.

Men never circumspect properly before/when dealing with women, ergo, they always come out destroying their lives, reputation or/and resources at the end of the tunnel.

The law should take its course!

Thanks.

Calibrator:
Football Manager is about to introduce female football teams because according to them, they believe in equality.

Football is a male dominated sport. Even the female football competitions are bankrolled by revenues generated from a predominantly male fanbase.

Gaming industry is also male dominated one, without even doing research I can bet my balls there are not up to 10 million hardcore female gamers worldwide.

Women don't generate any significant revenue to the football regulatory worldwide.
Women don't generate any significant revenue to gaming consoles companies.

Why pander to the whims of a section of the society who have no majority say in the revenue of your company?

I am really vexed this morning!

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angelfallz:
If only more men understood this. Feminism was never about equal rights.
So many men believe there is a brand of feminism that preaches equal rights therefore that is the real feminism and there is another that preaches man hating therefore that is the feminazis.

This is not true, there are no branches or different brands of feminism.

Feminism is feminism. And it is a female supremacy movement.

Why do you think that when issues that affect men come up the feminists become silent?

Feminism was not, is not and would not be interested in the welfare of men neither would feminism care about equal rights.

Men can burn in hell for all they care.

1. Now, feminism is quiet when college tests is lowered to accept girls and the affirmative groups, thereby giving them an easy leeway to bypass the necessary procedures.

2. Now, ratio of girls in colleges are higher than boys, as boys are now performing lower and gradually dropping out of school. Feminism is happy: "hurray! Women are coming up, our oppressors are opting out".

3. The divorce law is greatly hinge against the husbands; feminism is quiet about equal ration for the parties involved---husband, wife and children. "Yeah women can take all in the divorce court, the men can perish".

4. The media has been so bastardized by the placards of feminism that only female rape/sexual harassment is being acknowledged. Young males do suffer sexual abuses in the hands of older females but hardly do you see any NGO supporting the male victims. "Yeah, men and young boys should keep quiet because they enjoy sex".

Only crime against woman is a crime against the law according to feminism. Male victims should shut the fvck up!

5. Medical research funds for women is far far higher than that for men. "Yeah the government and society must care about women's health, men can take care of themselves". And feminists are quiet about this.

What about different charity organisations, NGOs, affirmative actions scattered all over the globe for the favour of women? Hardly can one identify any one for men. But yet feminism are screeching and fighting for equal rights.

6. Men are being conscripted into the military force to go fight war and defend the peace of their nation; women and children stay behind. Feminists don't want equal men and women in the warfront. Yet, they're fighting for equal rights.

That's why as a man, you must always put yourself first, there's no debate about this. Because no one literally care about men. If men should neglect themselves in the face of romance, chilvary, patriotism, gentility etc. they'll always lose. This is not to say that men should abandon the right things to do, but in the performance of their duties they must be at alert against manipulations, and things that will make them jeopardize their lives for nothing, hardly without recognition, praise and appreciation for a work well done.

Thanks.

Dear atom080,

The real problem you're having aside the low self-esteem you normally experience in the midst of tall guys is a contradiction between your religion and the knowledge you've been exposed to as a result of the redpill...

1. Reading is good because it exposes you to different atmospheres, minds and options. It either revamps or construct you or both. However, you must always hold yourself accountable to the knowledge you've gleaned from the books you've read. Always put it into action when suitable situations present themselves, assuming that the authors or the people you respect are watching you and you'll not like to disappoint them.

Inasmuch that your heart seeks for the truth, you will definitely find it. No one book will give all that you need in an instant; you must ask, seek and knock different authors, books and places. Read all of Robert Greene's book again; the hard copies. Read all of Rational Male books by Rollo Tomassi. Read all the 85 essays and 70+ threads of illimitablemen.com/@tellyoursonthis on twitter. These will be your guard as you search for truth.

Read Atheistic materials by Sam Harris, Richard Dawkins...so that you can shred off every bits of irrationality as it pertains to your religion. And apologetic materials too like those of Jim Warner Wallace to defend your Christian faith with rationality.

2. You're in the best position in life at the moment---mechanical engineering student, avid reader and a fresher. Take leadership position; look for position that will make you address people whether big or small. Find audiences; find people to teach; find a stage to talk; take hold of a microphone. Once you start standing before tall and short people that low self-esteem will wither. Never shy away from leadership position because it brings respect and make you stand unfazed during difficulties.

3. Women will naturally gravitate towards you like insects do flowers during pollination season if number 2 becomes operative in your life. The problem here will be a conflict between balancing your religion and interacting deeply with women. And as you must know, women don't care about morality or ethics. To replace sex, you can reverse women's game by letting them do for you what they want men to do for them without asking for sex.

Don't be afraid to hold a woman's hand, waist and shoulder. (The ones really interested in you will get a little bit upset when you touch their boobs and ass---that's if you're interested in compromising your religion). Touch her face, look into eyes, rub your forehead over hers. Talk and play sexually and none will hurt you. Enter their circle, do a little gossip, make small jokes. Lift her up from the ground. However, you must be careful when doing this so that you won't sacrifice attention for nothing, catch feelings and end up in the friendzone. (if you are interested in a girlfriend/spinning plates, just know that sex must be involved except in far future when you're ready for a long term relationship and you find a WORTHY PARTNER).

4. You can start wearing dark shades, and let people wonder about the mystery behind your glasses and inside your eyes. Both tall and short guys will respect you. However, don't just act like a puppy when with friends, family and most especially, women. Calibrate your behaviour with people and places.

5. Learn to play chess. Learn how to swim. Sign up in a gym. Enrol in the taekwando class in school. Learn how to play basketball so that you can mix with them boys. Don't be too carried away with engineering mathematics and co. There's time for all of these during your 5 year session in school. Just sit down and schedule your time.

6. Talk calm; listen gently. Wear fitted sleeves, markers and trousers; with a good perfume, sandals and shoes. Leather slippers should be once in a while.

It's not an easy journey; it's a cyclical process, but all it takes is just one step at a time. We're all in this together, however, different levels and no escape route or last lap. We'll all die here. So, take it easy and fast.

Thanks.

PS: Theundercover, Pansophist et al... Well done!

1 in 5 women proved to be blessed, gracious and efficient. Actually, it is 1 in 50+.

This is to say that, women aren't really interested in the well being of a man, but after what the man can provide for them. When things are good they collate round him and when things go south they get disgusted by his presence.

Success, health and sorrow is the true test of character for both men and women. Those that remain intransigent in good, bad and ugly times; adhering to virtue, loyalty and honour just like the woman are rare gems(1 in 50+).

Thanks.

Temptee101:
You would've saved some energy and time if you had just typed; Buhari

Yes, personally, I love the fact that Buhari is Nigeria president, because if not so and the present economy is still prevailing under another president or political party, the masses would have been inveighing and glamouring for Buhari and his confederates. But since this is not the case, the saint everyone was praising and yearning for isn't truly competent.

However, previous and current government will definitely be juxtapose so that the state of the nation can be ascertain, that is, to determine if the nation is going backward, stagnant or moving forward. And in order to determine this, those in the helm of affairs must consider the factors I listed. Hence, stating Buhari as the cause doesn't really correlate in its truest sense.

Thanks.

1. Naira depreciation.

2. Money printing.

3. Low investments in human capital.

4. Low investments in basic infrastructures.

5. Fall in oil price.

6. Inappropriate governmental policies.

7. The reticent state of the judiciary.

8. Low trust.

9. High immorality.

10. The misplacement of rationalism.

11. Poor security system.

Etc.

Thanks.

This is not for men that finds glory in pvssy. It is for the man who is after power and his own glory and civilization at large.

You can never pursue women and glory simultaneously. You chase one and jettison the other.

Bitter, bitter pill. Winks.

NB: repressed desire here is sexual lust.

Dliquidmetal:
that bestie na beta eediot

Isaac 23:50

O ye dogs, come and eat thy crumbs. It is a coolant to thy soul and joy to thou heart.

aomine:
AOMINE IN DAAA HOUSE,YOU GUYS BE STRAIGHT WITH YOUR INTENTIONS I MEAN DUHH THEY ALREADY KNOW WHAT YOU WANT

Solid!

But many guys are trying to keep it safe, don't want to offend her, want her to see him as a gentleman. Poor polarity. My discussions with young women are always sexual, straight to the point. Whether I want to fvck you or not, I'm always plain with my sexual puns, double enterdre and innuendos---direct and indirect.

Funny thing is that that innocent woman, yes, in truest sense, the normal church girl that you are trying to play holy for has that same desires, just that she's locked as a result of her religion. (A good thing though).

Women admire men that don't give a fvck or filter their words in order to palliate them. This attitude exhume their inner wh0re(dark side). It's a litmus test for those that want a woman for a long term relationship. (if you know you know).

Thanks.

ABANGWABOI:
Lol...
Redpillers here (if you don't identify as one, then my post is not for you) always be on guard..

I was hanging out in a friend's exquisite Female saloon..
One lady that came there to get her nails and other stuff done..
Sat adjacent to me.. other ladies numbering over 10 was at the saloon..
I was just have a chit chat with my pal (the owner of the place) then all of a sudden this lady adjacent to me, looked at me and incidentally I looked towards her at the same time, so our eyes met, gentlemen of the Redpill she used her eyes and her hands to gesticulate to me to get her the bag she kept close to were I was sitting.. mind you she didn't even utter any verbal word.. just mere eye contact and and pointed to the bag and gesticulating..
I was flabbergasted to my bones, I wondered the guts and courage a lady has to ask for my assistance without even Opening her mouth to ask.. just using mere signals as if I am a house on.. lol.. Sensing pride and lack of manners..

I turned my face fully to her direction and told her " Kai, It seems you lack manners and has little or no moral bearing.. (everyone was shocked and looked at my direction) imagine you wanted me to help you get a bag close to me and can't open that Thing you called mouth to ask me to do so politely but choose to point hands towards my direction like someone selling a piece of land somewhere in a village in igbo land.. Who even raised you, a kid like you having such audacity and confidence, never you be so stupid to try such with anyone anywhere either make or female, it shows you are a stupid fellow"
I continued, Let me teach you manners, what you should do is, " Bros, pls help me with the bag close to you and I would do so too.. not pointing towards me like I am your estate security.. Do not be stupid and so unfortunate next time to try such..


Everyone looked at her and she was so embarrassed and for the records.. she apologized immediately.. and also thanked me for correcting her.. and went ahead to tell me to pls, help her with the Bag.. and guess what, I did.. ( I have no bitterness towards her) TRP doesn't teach bitterness and I have already corrected her of which she publicly apologized...

I continued my discussion with my pal.. later when she was about to leave, she came to my sit, apologized again and told me she is leaving.. I now decided to have a little chitchat with her. Asked her the name, she told me, how old are you.. she said she is 21.. (imagine a 21 yrs old wants to toy with me.. me that my kid sis is 26 and a final yr student of a federal uni, here a 21 yrs old clown is trying to talk to me anyhow..imagine..) asked her what she does.. she told me she is a catery student.. asked her where she lives.. she told me.. She was answering all those questions respectfully cos I have humbled her earlier.. I told her ok, next time we would meet and have a detailed conversation... (I purposely decided not to toast her or collect number, even thou she was willing to give me the number and accept my woos, judging from her deep attention and feminine vibe).. this 21 yrs old girl has a similar body to that of Chioma Davido.. Nice shape.. Big Curvy yansh and firm moderate breast.. but I didn't allow that make me tolerate disrespect from her and ended up getting both her and other ladies in the Saloon their full respect..
Imagine if I allow that Kid, command me to help her get her bag close to me in a disrespectful manner and maybe later try to woo her.. she would shake her head and say no to the spineless man..

Redpillers, TRP is golden and I think we should be dropping more practical RP experiences here too..
I would soon drop more..

Take charge and Don't take nonsense..it is not women hating it is all about self respect and Maintaining frame.. Be a King..

#Shout out to all Bold Redpillers here.. as for the I am not a Redpiller crew.. gtfoh and leave us alone.. we are enjoying the Redpill cult..

Solid!

Lordcassy:
This will be my last post on this thread. I have been redpilled now for more than 3yrs now and if I may say it is probably one the best things that have happened to me. I came across the this group randomly way after I had this knowledge and I was glad.

I do not understand you guys problem. I think it may be because of the society we grew up. when you are African, you are born a man and now you hold that title(even some men uphold this title).

If I may say that is totally horseshit, you are not born a man, you become a man. I think we had this in our early African history anyways this is why I respect some white guys in history deep down they knew and their culture propagate it, if not that most of them now are chumps and betas.
I have evolved, there are levels to this for God sake, I have internalized the redpilled now it is almost like a third arm, most girls I have dated have respect for my ways, I do not lie or pander to women. I say what I mean and mean what I say, do you think after all of those knowledge I am going to argue with some hoe about her cooking for me or engaging her in a screaming match, no that is fucking pathetic what kind of a man would I be if I allow some 20s girl with no life experiences to start leading me in a relationship. Now i mainly deal with redpill in politics

Allow a woman lead you in a relationship she will lead you to the end of the relationship

Look at them, Nigerian guys. Some guys created a thread for you guys to lead women and no fall for their manipulation and antics. all of the trolls and LovePeddler mongers are here crying about it and rationalizing blue pilled bullshit.

if you are crying that this is misogynistic and you are a guy, then you are the misogynist not the redpiller. you are the one that secretly shamelessly hate women, because you have no power over them and you too much of a pussy to do anything about it. so you attack guys that have it figured out. do you thinks girls do not table your matter with their hoe friends on how to get you...do you turn around accused them of MISANDRY....you weak SIMP

Most of you guys have not undergo your hero journey(that is another topic that I think caveadullam should teach), and personally I think most of you will never undergo this journey and thus never be full fledge men in the truest and purest sense. Most of you have not even read the books or still stuck in page whatever, have not watched confirmed leaders of the manosphere videos but just read some line from some good meaning guys here now you are alpha and omega...…arguing here and there with the same mental ques that brought you here in the first place.

ONE OF THE FIRST STEP IN BECOMING A MAN IS RECOGNISING YOU AIN'T SHIT. PART OF BEING A MAN IS SUBMITTING TO A GREATER AUTHORITY NOT BECAUSE YOU ARE WEAK BUT BECAUSE YOU WANT TO BECOME STRONGER. AN AUTHORITATIVE DOGMA THAT PULL YOU FROM THE GUTTER OF IGNORANCE AND FINALLY SHAPES YOU INTO BECOMING A TRUE LEADER.

I recommend that you guys listen to caveadullam and other verified posters in this place. Ubunja know the game of extracting resources from women which I do not agree with but who cares what I think but I respect his tactic, so if you into women giving you shits follow him.

Personally I think mgtow are pretender, the only mgtow I can respect is a man above 50 years. If you are young and claiming a mgtow monk if not personal development, you just a pussy.

SOME WILL TAKE THE PILL AND FOLLOW WOMEN
SOME WILL TAKE THE PILL AND WOMEN WILL FOLLOW THEM
SOME WILL TAKE THE PILL AND BECOME LEADERS
SOME WILL TAKE THE PILL AND BECOME IT ENEMY
SOME WILL TAKE THE PILL AND BECOME EVEN MORE BLUEPILLED

Nobody cares if you are from a two parent house or one parent house or you girlfriend or past girlfriend has been angel with their divine heavenly pussy. so you probably think redpillers are creepy degenerate. okay then ignore the thread and fluff off, there is no need to come here and vilify your blue pilled mindset by all means create a group and proclaim how all women are saint and can do no wrong and the redpill is thrash.

If you are in the university or 22yrs below. quiet down and learn. If you feel the guys here are saying things you disagree on, that is fine fly away and seek more people. do not come here and start teaching guys how to become men because you just started dating some late teen girl.
I know when you are young, you are idealistic but calm down be humble and learn. direct your disagreement to the ones who can help you.

STAY REDPILL, IMPROVE YOURSELF, BECOME HIGH VALUE AND BECOME A LEADER IN YOUR COMMUNITY

p.s: The redpill does not automatically make you a chic magnet but meant to liberate you, hit the gym, hang out with bold friends, fix your flaws if fixable, become the prize and be ambitious.

100%

neyoohhh:
Truth can be relative, absolute or subjective.

There can be multiple truths and what works in scenerio a may not hold water in scenerio b.. eg democracy/country.

We know 1 + 1 is 2 which is an absolute truth but can we empirically test an opinion based statement like all women are manipulative cunning creatures?

The first thing we are taught in university is that there can be multiple truths and providing logical arguments to support whatever theories being postulated earns the best credit. This is the basis for western civilization, continuous open debate building on existing knowledge to improve knowledge itself. If we can't leave open our theories to be examined by rigourous questioning , it may be safe to assume our theories/opinions are subjective truths based on sense experience rather than reliable data and we can never come to any absolute conclusions.eg western statistics injected into African realites with different socio economic factors which affects human behaviour, the very essence of what we are learning with the redpill. In addition, redpill encapsulates identity politics, so in essence it can never be standard everywhere.

As you may have noticed i avoid the petty drama unless I'm curious to understand a writer's position, in which case I may ask a question.

Citing that some people have used quotes from books isn't meant to reduce anyone's efforts especially you whom i always commend for being excellent.

Perhaps if the redpill is solely meant to understand human behaviour( i digress, that's social sciences) and not recruit, what is the point of restricting opinions to subjective truths that can't be scrutinized, especially when ideas copied from western thought is in collision with African socio economic realites, which affects human behaviour?

You know I've always engaged you. I read your posts line by line and I definitely know that you're intelligent and a genuine seeker. You're a curious person and I like that. This philosophy is not met to be taken hook line and sinker, hence, you must probe it because you're not a zombie. But most people only take the part that cuts their enemies into pieces but turn off when they need to undergo their own treatment.

Sir, I will always engage with you and your likes any day or time. Perhaps you understand the main tenets of the philosophy, if so then we can relate and rub minds any day or time.

Well done.

Thanks.

Lightway:
An increasing amount of research has indicated that divorce has a surprising effect on longevity. A 2011 study found that that adults who were divorced were 23 percent more likely to die younger than those who had remained married, and divorced men were twice as likely to meet an early grave than women.

This research is based!

Divorce shatters your dream into pieces. It pierces into a believable illusion of yours and render it to nothing. Taking care and leading the family was never a problem for the average man/father, he still tries his best to carry his family forward no matter the pain, tears and sweat. Fatherhood is true leadership.

Divorce is disheartening, it not only destroys the building block of civilization which is the family but also causes a decline in civilization at large. It pains me to see that the family law court has been emancipated to a become a literal guillotine for aspiring patriarchs and married men in many countries today. Men suffer most in divorce, so it easily relatable with the research data.

Many causes of divorce today is very unreasonable, more than 70% of divorce are initiated by women because they base their truth on feelings, after spending several years in marriage, they just wake up one day, give their husbands a mind blowing sex, and before twilight, the marriage has ended. Even so called conservative and religious women are the ones that baffles me the most. Funny thing is that they still amount to nothing even after the divorce. So, why divorce the first case? To feel the flexing power of divorce over their husbands and an inability to control their emotions.

For this reason, men should always put themselves first and not jeopardize their lives.

Thanks.

neyoohhh:
I'm all for open debate, if someone comes up with an argument stating if you do x , you'll get y results and that doesn't sit right with you, it's better to provide a superior counter argument with statistical evidence showing how they're wrong
By doing so, you recruit more converts and the stupidity of the original argument can be buried for good, .

Scientifically, people don't change their mind when they encounter a contrary opinion to theirs. The few that accept do so after a long time past. So, no need for arguments or debates. If one really desire truth, one way or the other he will find it.

If you observed very well, I do use scientific research data to back up some of my claims, yet, some still complained it was outdated, this and that blah blah blah. Some idiots say it's Western data but if Ubunja give them data from South Africa, they will still complain that the research was not conducted in Nigeria. Coming down to Nigeria, you will start hearing that the particular fact is peculiar to the East or North or West. Arrant nonsense!

The redpill is not infallible, but its standard at present is too pragmatic, logical to debate and argue it with anybody. It doesn't negotiate with anyone! It doesn't seek the need to be loved and cherished by everyone! If anyone finds it too tumultuous to bear, face or handle, that person should ignore it and channel his/her life to other aspects of life, rather than cry all day about the things he don't like about the redpill.

Redpill doesn't need converts or followers. And anyone that do make mention of this as if redpill is a religion or ideologue to be followed is one that doesn't understand the tenets of the redpill. (It's all about human actions and behaviors). Perhaps, you're in this category. Redpill follows the lower ration of the Pareto principle: 80:20, meaning that it's not met for everybody but a few.

You not accepting a fact based on your dispositions should not be confused with a falsity of the fact. But many people do confuse the ingenuity of fact with their feelings, that is, if the statement suits their feelings then it is right, but if not, then, it is wrong.

Redpill doesn't care! You either take it and follow the rabbit hole or remain in wonderland.

neyoohhh:
otherwise it reduces the thread to a group of copy cats without original thought apart from what was plagiarised from books.

Words of jealousy: "long epistles, epistle upon epistles, long jargons, copy cats, plagiarism" etc.

First of all, no thought is original, every facts, thoughts, ideas are offsprings of a mother tree. We can't trace it to the one seed that births the mother tree. Many scientists built on Charles Darwin, Albert Einstein, Michael Faraday and today they're doing exploits. Even the former built on already foundational knowledge to make exploits e.g Thomas Edison built on the idea of Nikolai Tesla etc. to come up with many inventions. It is called magnification, beautification, upgrading, innovation etc and other words that fits in.

This is not to encourage plagiarism because it hinders one's thought process and causes a lagging in personal growth and development. "Original" articles must/should be credited to the authors.

Nonetheless, people that do complain of copy cats, plagiarism, long epistles, long jargons are most often jealous because they can't come up with anything intelligent and earn their merits. They think everyone is existing in the same confinement as them.

For the record, Ubunja, Bloodysperm, CaveAdullam, Martinez39s, Skepticus, (TheDarkgamer) has undergone a scrutiny/plagiarism test of their thoughts, words and "long epistles" and they weren't found wanting. It all happened on this thread bro. Calm down!

Search any quote or long epistle that you feel it's plagiarised on Google, Reddit, Quota, Facebook etc and if anyone is found wanting call out the person. Winks!

neyoohhh:
I noticed the first few pages on the thread were extremely informative and we all read and agreed on most concepts until some people started introducing concepts that antagonized unanimously agreed upon concepts Which is where I think everything went downhill.

Not really per say, many thought the road ends there but were shocked when they went deeper.

And to be true, almost all the persons inveighing and nagging didn't follow or read from the beginning, they are simps/bluepillers/ashawo thread people that just latch on to page 500 and started spilling trash because their bluepill cherished state is being laid bear and shattered into nothing.

neyoohhh:
Could you tackle the cr7 with a better argument on what he or she stated about what women want and my question to him about what will men get in return?

Or can anyone take it up?

Remember it's all about broadening the mind, nothing personal.

You can take CR7, but please do it in another thread. I'm not interested in arguing or debating with anyone because it will certainly derail the thread. You can say I'm not open minded, scared... Fine, you're right! However, that will not stop me from engaging a genuine seeker of the truth when I come across one. Most of these people are trolls, peruse through their statements and you'll know.

Thanks.

Nice summation. But there are many untold/hidden histories and stories.

Well done!