tie her shoes

Here is one for the money

http://www.telegraph.co.uk/news/1940446/Men-are-bigger-gold-diggers-than-women.html

@poster

i think this fiancé thing is a hype and a waste of money. Why friend someone for X amount of years then place a ring on her finger for X amount of years.
Why not skip this crap (fiance stage) and go straight into marriage.
If you ask me - this whole engangment thing is a waste of time and money. And what if i decide not to marry you" - Shuuute - just money wasted on a ring.


Peace

@poster

You are stereotyping

i have a busy schedule ahead of me.  Time for me to take a break from NL.

chat soon and take care

Peace

dean2725:


i have the feelings that the poster of this thread is the victim, but what is my headache with that?

DON'T SHOOT THE MESSENGER

Shaz:

wow. . long thing - erm. . I don't think cutting off the friendship is a good idea, really. How about your friend has a discussion with her friend on what led to all that gay stuff - might be stress, depression or anything. Her friend may need counselling, you may never know if it's actually something to do with her marriage.

So I think the best approach is for them to have a convo to find the root of the issue and if it bores down to the fact that her friend just lusts against her, then, she can stay as far away as she wants. . no problemo. Even she tell the husband.

it was difficult for my friend to have that discussion with her Moroccon friend -so she sent an emai to her instead. You are in for shock when you read her response below. who would of thought of Lesbian Muslim (never heard of one yet) especially someone from Morocco (90% Muslim). My friend didn't have the courage to tell her husband so she forwarded the email to her husband. MODS, PLEASE LOCK THREAD. PROBLEM SOLVED.


In a message dated 12/15/2008 11:49:31 A.M. Pacific Standard Time, @.com writes:
Of course I am a happily married woman with a beautiful home and a wonderful husband. The truth is I am a closet bisexual (smile). I have had intimate sex with xxxxxx before she left for London. xxxxxx and I always wonder if you were a lesbian because you seem not interested in men. I made a mistake and I was wrong about you.

I still enjoy my husband sexually, but I wanted to fulfill another part of myself with you (smile). It's not like I was asking for a steady, ongoing relationship. I can't seem to stop my behavior when I am around you. (your lips, your body) (smile). Yes, if this situation was reversed, and my husband was doing this behind my back, I would be repulsed. My behavior caused me guilt and shame. I know it would cost me my marriage, if you were to reveal my secret life. Thanks for not telling my husband.

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@mail.com
12/15/2008 11:38 AM
To @.com
cc
Subject Apology not accepted


To think you were a decent happily young lady not knowing you are bi-sexual. You are unfaithful to your husband Veeresh who has given you everything (a beautiful home, car, etc. you name it). Would you be happy if you found out your husband was cheating on you? Do not email me, do not call me. I am no longer your friend.

home 4 lunch so i am last to eat

Your word is a lantern to my feet
and a light upon my path.

I have sworn and am determined
to keep your righteous judgments.

I am deeply troubled;
preserve my life, O Lord, according to your word.

Accept, O Lord, the willing tribute of my lips,
and teach me your judgments.

My life is always in my hand,
yet I do not forget your law.

The wicked have set a trap for me,
but I have not strayed from your commandments.

Your decrees are my inheritance for ever;
truly, they are the joy of my heart.

I have applied my heart to fulfill your statutes
for ever and to the end.

i'll talk to the nurse on my job 2day but thought i should ask -

i'm not cold but i cant stop shivering . (mostly, chest area) and my heart is beating kinda fast.

I feel sorry for the guy who threw the shoes - we may never hear from/about him again.  i wonder what's the penalty for throwing shoes (scratching my head) hope its not the equivalent to spitting in someones face.

Peace

My friend sent this to me -so I am asking you on behalf of her

Peace

You and a friend have decided to go to the movie. Your friend is Moroccan, She is 25 and MARRIED. She is 100% Muslim. So Muslim that she wears a scarf.

So you are at the movies watching Quantum of Solace.
Your friend leaned over and whispered something to you
so you turned towards her and say "huh"
The next thing you know- your Moroccan friend pushed her tongue in your mouth and kissed you.
You were caught off-guard and your body froze.
You then realized what is going on and pulled yourself away and said "what are you doing"
You sat for about five minutes after the kiss then walked out of the movie
You are shaking/very nervous because you don't know what to do or say
You are very upset because you know you are STRAIGHT. You are guys. You are not a lesbian (gay)
You head for the bathroom and cried and cried
Your friend came in the bathroom and wiped your tears and gave you a peck on your lips and said "its okay"
You pushed her away telling her to stop, and you want to go home.
You are driving home and your hands are shaking and full of sweat.
No one saying anything to each other - so quiet you can hear a pin drop
Your friend is like "you know my husband wouldn't mind if I stay at your house tonight"
You said "No" quickly and angrily
You dropped your friend at her home.
You don't want to look at her or to say good night. Your eyes facing front holding the staring wheel real tight.
Your friend touched your breast and you began to cry and begged her to stop
You got home and you just can't sleep
You can't stop crying because you don't know how to handle the situation
You thought about calling her husband but you don't know how
Your friend called you in the morning and apologized.
You told her your thought about telling her husband and she begged you not to
You finally told her that you are not gay and she made you very uncomfortable
You told her to leave you alone and to stay away from you
She doesn't want to because she'll have to explain to her husband why you are not talking
You told her "better her to find a reason than for you to tell him"
You can't stop crying because you feel so UNCLEAN and you can't even focus and get to sleep
So now you are thinking of telling her husband even though you made a promise not to tell her husband.

How do you handle this situation? Should you follow your mind and tell her husband or break off the friendship PERMANENTLY?

LUKINGUY:

Lets all be sincere with ourselves, men are

crying

something painful

I can be weak sometimes

Hear my prayer, o Lord, and give ear to my cry; Do not be silent at my tears; For I am a stranger with You, A sojourner like all my fathers

i'll ask her what time is it so i can know the time difference between NY and Malaysia. Then i'll give her a big hug to cheer her up ((((gabby)))))

Peace

@Jakuma:

I commend you for what you wrote below.  How about sending what you wrote below to couple local newspapers in Nigeria (signed it anonymous).  Be sure to send a copy of the NY Times article along with pictures. Let them know that Charity begins at home and that you were saddened to see an International paper reporting what's happening in our (Nigeria) own back yard. 

Believe me, it always saddens me when I see humans especially children living this way.  even here in the USA (especially Alabama/New Orleans) the government ignores the children we have living in poverty. You'll never know this until you see it with your own eyes because America is portrayed to be a rich multicultural land where everyone is happy joining hands together singing "Kumbaya my lord"

I am 100% positive that the writer of this article has pictures proving poverty in Nigeria but he didn't print any.  Why?  the article was written for us to picture the scene with our "imaginary eyes". 

To post pics of a person living condition is sooo wrong especially someone bathing.  That's wrong. Those photos were taken by YT and here you have Nigerians glorifying the pics.  Not kool at all.

There is no need to post those pics because any sensible person who want to know about Nigeria can easily go to the CIA Fact Book.  The information is accurate because its a guide for Tourists.

https://www.cia.gov/library/publications/the-world-factbook/geos/ni.html

My mom is also a freelance writer and she gets her message across to the g'ment by posting her articles in the BVI newspaper.  Maybe thats what you and others ought to do

Good night and good luck

@poster

FALSE.  men cheat more because of testosterone. the amount of testosterone in their body is directly related to their sexual drive and the chance of being promiscuous in a relationship.  Also men cheat more because of the way their brains are wired from since a baby.  Hence the phrase "men think with their d***

Peace