In few years she will be in the media seeking sympathy as a single mother. She just does not know what it takes to bring up a child.

No body raped your woman. She went for it but was not really convinced if the new guy was a worthy replacement for you since u are not always around and konji is a respecter of no man. I can assure you the sexual intercourse happened more than once and she is still seeing the guy hence, she has chosen to keep avoiding u.

If the victim is not willing to press charges, don't go and embarrass yourself.
You can Reset ur thought and go ahead with the marriage but remember, the abortion and sex will never leave ur head.

She just want an assurance that you will be giving her some money each time you make out. I will advice you to invite her and play allong to allow a smooth transition then use chat to establish evidence that she gave in willingly. After which you can take ur leave of absence. She could press charges if u keep avoiding her and you would have suffered before u prove your innocence.

She will poison those kids just to prove a point. It is true we cant delete our parents from our life entirely but relation with wicked ones from a distance is wisdom.

Your sense was shared by ur village elders at birth.

You are just about to resume that relationship and the thought of that puna is what is motivating you so.

funkmrflexx:
I ended the relationship with My ex due to her bad characters. And then I later got married.
While we were dating I wanted to get my ex a place for her to stay due to d fact Dat she doesn't have anywhere to go when she graduates.
Both of her parents are divorced and remarried with kids. She can't go back to her father's house because he harrases her sexually and his wife his not welcoming. She can't go to her mother's house cus her stepfather won't agree. During d time we were dating she was staying with me for this reason but as soon as she got into school her character changed so I ended it all.
Now think of her predicament I'm thinking of getting her d house I promised so as for her not to go back to her dad's house. I have the money to do it that's not a problem.

I'm still having second thoughts though. Abi Make I just use my money package myself

Having a source of income does not guarantee it will continue.
Marriage could come with setbacks for women such as :
Change of location.
Lost of eligibility
Conflict with domestic duties.

These can take a woman off job anytime.
I married my wife who was gainfully employed in Abuja but she had to relocate to Lagos and getting a good job became a challenge. I weighed my option and realized the offers of 50-60k salary isnt worth the attentions my kids will need. She has to suspend her career for 7yrs and to allow the period of child bearing. And as we forged ahead, it was even clearer allowing her take a white-collar job wont be ideal. Had to set her up with my entire savings and she now earns even more than i do.

Note: I took these steps because she proved a good woman within these period of 7yrs and showed she is so much interested in a team work.

If your dont want a dependent woman, find her and make her independent if you can. Her character is much more important than what she brings to the table, because u can help her bring something but u cant change a bad character.

Haven said all this, never allow your wife to be fully dependent because if you die she will be stranded and your children will suffer.

Target his girl friend and NACK her, he will be a lifetime enemy .

What is the cost of that door that i will need all that to knock on it?

Haven made reference to the killing of a soldier, I believe you are lying because i also saw a video where the deceased's(soldier) brother was narrating his ordeal in the hands of ur men

A bald headed man does not partake in a stone throwing fight.

2k daily is over 40k for a month If You work every working day, moreover, u dont have the 108k yet.

You can Imagine. And the politician will placed her in 20naira note without stating even her name. But Thief like Awolowo, Azikiwe, Murtala have their names writen

like 2500. 2 full meal and other side attractions

Can i rent her for a night?

You are such a lucky man it came at this time. It is the right time to tell your wife to be, and let her decide either to continue with the marriage or not.

That will help you make further decisions.

The paternity of this child needs to be looked into. This is the face of an Igbo boy and u called him Sherrif. May God inspire all involved in his search to locate him.

International experience is a much needed criteria than local. Even if it is a contract job expected to expire after some years, you need the job and the money.

Just put same question to liar Mohammed........You will hear trash

My brother go back to ur house. People are dying in Ukraine and you are disturbing us with a girl who is exercising the fundamental human right( sex) .
Come to think of it; You are in Ogun state and you want to compete with Lagos guys?

Get a girlfriend in Ogun, that is where u belong.

Short people are always shocked.

Those vehicles don't look like they are in use.

After NYSC i decided to leave my parents ooo and rented a self con simply because i dey always quarrel with my old man( pikin wey no well from belle). Agent didnt tell me i share a fence with a church ooo. Vigil is twice in a week and the remaining days nah fellowship. Every day FORNICATION FORNICATION and this was torturing me emotionally and physically. Talked to co-tenant and they were tired of complaining to both our landlord and the church pastor.

Someone told me to drag the church to human right but i would rather let them be the one to take me to human right.
After much thought, the devil gave me a master strategy.
I bought a very loud rechargeable speaker (Bose)
Found a good porn site( redtube.com) and was waiting for their night vigil. They first started with praise and worship and then i realized their speaker was louder than mine, i just waited for them to start preaching.

As soon as everywhere was silent probably waiting for the pastor to commence sermon, I connected the Bluetooth speaker to my phone and looked for a loud porn movie.

Am very sure every man in that church and my compound enjoyed a free erection that night.

Everybody was knocking on my door like the house was on fire.

The next morning they reported to landlord association.

What is good for the wife is also good for the mother inlaw. Reason am

Though i hate the police because of how much they use the Federal Govt uniform against the masses but Please lets give peace a chance.

They called to be sure his story of being a traveler is true. They may have caught him in an odd place at an odd hour. Be rest assured nothing will happen to him.

Thank God u didn't do it but i perfectly do understand ur situation. Someone you have been having sex with and suddenly she is around u with a "don't touch" flag. Sometimes too, that flag could mean "pressure me more" which brings you to almost being a rapist.

Women will not want sex, but will keep hovering around you, knowing it is part of your target. Isn't that witchcraft?

Your boys will cease fire abi?

Animal Husbandry

We dream and so awaits ur return sir. #LagosBestGovernor

Judging by the girls dad, the family wont be willing to press charges. And that will be his only savior, else he would have completed his career in Prison.

Way above 40 means child bearing may be difficult. If you take this into consideration and still don't mind, take her for a drink and ensure you both get tipsy. It will kickstart process.