₦airaland Forum

Chimzy09:
If the pregnancy is in the early stages, urine (early morning urine) may not pick it up. Blood test is your best bet cos it detects HCG as early as 2 weeks

Pearl05:
The blood test is usually more accurate and can detact pregnancy early too. When was her last menstrual flow? Has she missed a period yet? Are you sure that the test stick is good meaning not expired yet.

Anyways you should wait for like weak and redo the test.

nneejima:
Blood detects hcg (pregnancy hormone) faster than urine. Give it like 2 weeks and repeat again

Nolla:
@seanbell: partner how r u? Sorry I was MIA. DH got back from his trip last wk n it was "fun Knackson" (not ttc own) all thru. Still on bromocriptine, no side effect n I only pray it doesn't mess up my O n menses. Am on CD24 n no sign and feeling of anything (either O, AF or PG) . Am actually feeling like a girl dat has not experience puberty. Lol. But I'll check d gyn tomorrow mornin to know wats up.
@zenoj: welcome on board. I sometimes ve discharge too mostly b/4 and during O n dat is when I secrete more. Some gyn told me its a normal thing to my body n one of my many symptoms of O n some said it was staph n I kept wasting money on insertion, antibiotics, test n even herbal drugs which shows nothing. I letter found out that its when am seriously stressed or BD moved that I see it. As long as its not greenish n yellowish in colour accompanied with itching n odor. Like my gyn will say discharge has no relationship with gettin preg. they r two separate things. But I'll advice u seek 2nd or 3rd opinion n try to understand ur body cos we all ve diff bodies.
@ebony13: welcome back. We will be expectin BFP soon. Wishin u well.
@mandate14: thank u for the word of inspiration. God bless u real Big.
@slimphemmie: welcome. It is well. Our God will be ur strength n in a little while n soonest we will all share our BFP news IJN.
@all: plenty plenty drums of Baby Dust.

Nksleek:
The video of an embarrassed young man humiliating his girlfriend after she turned his proposal to marry her is currently circulating on social media.

The man who took her to an eatery just to propose, got the shock of his life when she rejected his ring.

Burning with fury and screaming that she eats his money, the unfortunate young man ended up removing the shoes she wore and collected the food he bought for her, just to scorn her.

Watch the video below;

Source: https://focusnaija.com.ng/2020/02/23/man-does-the-unthinkable-after-girlfriend-declined-his-proposal-in-an-eatery-video/

Godsonkemz:
He was killed by SARS that pushed him out of a moving vehicle to be ran over by an incoming moving vehicle. In a sane country, that SARS officer that pushed him out of the vehicle would be charged for murder.

Budline1:
Every right thinking man should check their partner's phone once in a while.
Some girls don't care if you check it or not, they have nothing to hide... They are few tho..

dapo456:
Where is the love my brother? if ops girlfriend love him will she plan to cheat on him?, if ops loves her girl friend will he consider breaking up with her? My elder sister gave me an advice recently and i will continue applying it. since i've been applying it my life is different.

Upforsex:
Hello y’all. I’ve been single for a year now. Soo this is the issue. I met a girl recently it started off as romance next day she was in my crib then I tried having sex. It smells down there. I lost interest in her.
After then this girl calls like 10 times a day. She’s in love. People have been telling me to go for her but I’m kinda addicted to being lonely. I think she’s into me but I’m not. Whenever I see her calls I grumble. She calls literally everyday. I’m thinking of starting the friendship levels with her then going out and see if I will develop feelings for her. But when I remember that smell I want to throw up. I’m not a sex freak.
Just thinking aloud. What’s your opinion.

kollinzgee:
Medically there is nothing wrong with Masturbation,no harmful side effects In fact it is not different from sex no hypocrisy I was into it before meeeen stopping was hell I stopped because I got caught many times and it was really embarrassing the news were spreading far and beyond you know what I mean
i was into masturbation for 10 years and trust me nothing happened to my health if there is any harmful side effect 10 years is enough to for all to happen but I have never had any health issues ever since..the only bad side of masturbation is psychological it will get to a point you will start bothering about what you have gotten yourself into

over the years masturbation has really changed my sexual orientation I discovered a lot of changes as I will list below.

1)my penisss got bigger

2)orgasms are not new to me so when I have sex I have absolute control over my mind I can last long I don't cum until 45 minutes or more.first time I had sex damn the lady was overwhelmed because she came multiple times and I am still going like a horse

3)I have absolute control over my sexual urge so no woman can manipulate me with it i have experienced all types of orgasms nothing new.

I wonder how men who have never masturbated cope with life forget all that talk even redpill cannot save you from strong konji. konji is real especially if you don't have a girlfriend women will do manipulate you

Kennedyiheme:
Its simple a man that cheats on his wife or gf does it just for pleasure, men don't cheat with their hearts or for love, men are only investing in sex, but for women, unless shes a sex worker, women cheat because they are no longer in love with thier spouse, they cheat with their hearts...

A cheating wife can kill her husband... i watch forensic files and 2 out of 3 times a wife kills her husband is because of extramarital affairs...

Thats why the first time you catch your wife or gf cheating , break up immediately dont do any forgiveness as she'll see you as a weak man...

I pity men that forgives cheating spouses.. if you're not redpill and all for marriage ritual, take this advice

JaneJaneJane:
Good day all, I'm a new member here. I have a question that I'd love enlightened and sensible people help answer.
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I've noticed this trait in my partner and I want to try nip it in the bud before we get married. Whenever issues happen between us, he hardly call for resolution. When I do, he doesn't express his grievances, instead he says he isn't bothered about it. Yet he keeps malice, doesn't call or chat.. I apologise again and again, he will tell me he isn't bothered and there's no need to apologise yet he doesn't stop with the attitude. Fast forward to few days later before he eventually say what's on his mind. This has been recurring.

Please how do I make him better?

Upforsex:
Hello you all. I feel I’m addicted to masturbation. I stay alone and I tend to masturbate almost every time. I even recently discovered some nice porn and that has been fueling it. I don’t know how to get a girlfriend although I’m of age. I don’t want to fornicate because I’ve been trying to abstain. I need advice

Marlian:
I met a girl recently, after much wooing and introduction she finally agreed to be my girlfriend. She is a very good girl and I will love to take the relationship serious. She has visited twice without having sex with her except kisses, she visited on Monday so I finally decided to have sex with her she did not resist me. During the romance before the sex I was playing with her nipple and I decided to suck she stopped me from sucking her nipple. Some minutes during the sex she was moaning and unconscious so I decided to suck the nipple again she tried to stop me but I resist. I sucked and I felt a splash of milk in my mouth. I decided to act as if nothing happened. I have never experienced such a thing before.

Please nairalanders has she given birth already or is a normal thing ! I need your replies please bashing is also allowed!

EazyLifeForAll:
Well, am going to make this simple and straight forward.

Guys, DONT ever try to get married to single moms. Most of these single mothers got pregnant through their promiscuous ways (except DIVORCED ones and those whose husbands are dead).

Apart from our Nairaland brother that just walked out of his marriage with same mistake of getting married to a single mother, I have different cases up to 4.

Yes any marriage can crash but it is very true that at least, 80% of single mothers still get in touch with their exs and most times, sex is always involved.

No good match start from 1-0...the best bet is to start from 0-0.

I hope our guys learn....


Ire ooo!!!!

distinctwallex:
Hello guys,
Pls i need your advice urgently.
My babe is staying with me for a while now, so she travelled home to greet her family for new year and just came back today,i welcomed her and she didn't even sit for 5mins before a call came in and she said she need to see one of her friend at the busstop for just 5mins...5mins became 2hrs and i was still expecting her,so i started calling her but she's not picking, i have her hotspot location connected to my phone,so i tracked where she is, can u imagine what i saw,i saw my baby in a guest house with another guy gisting and drinking, i kept calling and texting,and she will show the call and the message to the guy and both of them will start laughing,i took pictures of them unknowingly...they are still there right now and my blood is boiling, am thinking of going to challenge her or i should just go back home jejely,or wait till they are done and now let her see me,am so pained right now,pls i need urgent advice...
Some of the picture i took is attached
Only matured mind pls

Ekeletu:
I want to Bleep her. Do u know much I don spend on her head?

Bekeey:
Please pardon my grammatical errors.

All started June last year, I mate this girl online, Facebook precisely. We started chatting and talking, video calls each other. I spents 1hour on calls with her.
I stays in Abuja whilst she stays in Nsukka where she schools. For all this while, distance couldn't allow us to meet one on one. We so much fell in love with each other, I mean deep one. We must hear each others voice at least twice a day.

I am graduate, still single and searching managing my self, can afford 3² mills a day, for those that can understand. And by 6th of this January 2020, she will be in her final year at University of Nigeria Nsukka.

She is a pretty girl and my speck in a woman, fair in complexion, average height

To cut the story short, I returned for Christmas, we are both Anambrans. I bought her a gown worth of 7k, heigh hill shoes 7k and 5k handbag making it total of 19k.

When I called her that I am back, she was very excited on phone and I told her that I am coming to see her the next day she fell more deep excited. To cut it short like I said, we finally met and both happy to see each othe.

So, we fixed a date she will visit me, that's three days after. She came and I gave her the goodies I bought for her, behold much excitement from her. She paused and said I should excuse her to test it. I was like, excuse you? She pecked me and said sorry yes. I excused her and later came in, I was happy as if I took her measurement before getting all those stuffs for her. Behold she still ask me out from the room when she wanted to remove it.

Cutting the story short, after all the excitement, I started giving her the sines of wonders, if you know you know. We kissed romanced deeply, I can testify, she is very good in that, I mean very good, I said to my self """this one Ochanja Market is like this, na only God knows how the Main Market will look like""" at last she declined me not to touch both up and down points.

My point now is, I found out via her stomach that she is a single mother probably a nursing mother. I was pressurising to see if she will tell me and asking her how her past relationship was like but she kept telling me it was a terrible one, heartbroken this and that. As I am writing this, she have not told me something related having a child outside marriage, I love her so much planning to have future with her but each time I remembers that, it always weakens me emotionally.

Please what do I do as I can't imagining my self getting married to a single mother, and am just 34 whilst she is 26. And she has that wife qualities and pretty.

Please advise!!!

oksmart:
So you think most of these modern soldiers are not educated??. This is 2020 not 1980, most of the guys getting enlisted into the Army now are mostly graduates. One girl came to my house the other day and told me this rubbish when I gave her a glimpse of my credentials she was shocked.

DivineGrace123:
Exactly! I didn't want to argue further with her, that is why I had to ignore her last post. Maybe she is probably talking about the "ogas at the top" among them which we all know that such people constitute only a few percentage of the total number of soldiers in Nigeria.

Nooil:
My dear, I've lived close to the barracks since I was five. Just a stone throw. My secondary school, church, where I buy things were there. I had lots of military friends from non commission to commissioned. I worked there for months. So, I'll tell you what I know.