OkoroBufo:
Meanwhile ibos had rained all sorts of insults on him thinking he had travelled to Senegal without visiting the crime scene. You needed to have listened to them on Radio programs. This hate you give, you shall receive it back.

-Okoro bufo

This is not about Igbos, Hausas or Yorubas. Pls try get sense small or you can borrow sense. Is the president not supposed to visit major crime scenes?. Or you think it's good for him to sit back and be relying on reports sent to him without getting first hand info?. So many major crimes happening under his watch, how many has he visited? Did he visit Owo?. Try and check other countries (even other African countries, let's not talk of Europe or West) and see how their presidents act on issues like this.

OP, never u quit ur job to start looking for jobs. I bet you, it won't go down well with you. Remain there and keep improving...one day you'll rise.

As u can pay ur bills, u no like am?. Wait until you're unable to pay ur bills..OYO will be ur 2nd name.

It's normal that you're thinking of ur EX..cos u gave him some years. I will advise you not to go back to him.. what u mentioned here are enough red flags. Give it time... you'll get over him.

OP, I used to have premature ejaculate. My own doesn't reach 30 secs..just within 30secs I've already ejaculate... that's if at all I will penetrate before ejaculation. Sometimes, I ejaculate while trying to wear condom.
I went to clinic, they gave me drugs that will cure it and boost my immune system...I spent so much money and it didn't work.
I went to hospital,and they told me it's anxiety that was my problem...I started taking some herbs, it didn't work.
I was told that alcohol or smoking can cause it... meanwhile, I don't smoke and I hardly take alcohol.
I lost more than 6 relationships because of this, and at a time, I had to stop getting into relationship because it will end in disgrace for me...u know that kind of feeling when someone u love leaves because u can't even penetrate her?..then my self-esteem dropped to the lowest.

It was one day that someone bought Ghana seed/miracle seed for me...it's very tiny or small. I ate it and purged like I was dying. That was the day I was able to penetrate and knack one babe like dat very well. Since that day,I'm a sex machine.

You have to try a lot of options to find out the one that'll work for you.

I wish you the best.

OP, from your response from people's comments, u seem to be rude. You want advice, but u don't want to disclose her tribe. Its understandable that you're in pains, having lost her...but u need to do the needful. It may not cost u much..it's just a matter of dialogue and understanding between her family and yours. I already know the tribe of the girl.

I don't know you religious inclinations, but one thing is sure, dis life is mysterious. Pls, don't be stubborn..approach this with maturity.
In the tribe of this girl, if u don't have any consensus or agreement with her family, the boy is not yours. Secondly, after u bury her in your way...THERE WILL BE CONSEQUENCES. Take it or leave it.pp

This one is act 1 scene 1.
Please OP, try to set boundaries and stop cooking for him...let him know you're not comfortable with it.

I bet you, he'll develop feelings for you..it's a matter of time. He'll be interested in sleeping with you.

It's left for you to know what exactly u want.

I'm a married man.
Truth be told, OP you've not moved on with life. You have no idea the damage this will cause your family in future.
Allow the girl to sort herself out..if you're the one in this situation, do you think she'll come to help you?
If you don't know what to do with money, reason some orphanages around you.

A lot of people that tried this in the past, died after few days...
Seems she doesn't understand the implication of her actions.

Congratulations.
Every body is advising u to go to the African country, without knowing which country it is.
Pls, advise yourself accordingly and stop seeking advice online cos you'll end up being confused.

You're seeking professional advice from nairaland. My friend, your doctor should be the one to advise you on that...

I've been there before. Please my brother, just forget about her p*ssy and move on. The truth is that she doesn't deserve to be with you when life changes for you. You've just dodged a flying bullet like this...

It's absolutely wrong to judge from her story. There's something she's not telling us. Let her tell the full story, then, we'll know..

It's legit. I've been there before around 2017 @ Lekki phase 1. it's an outsourcing company. After series of interview, they offer they gave me was below my pay. I had to leave.....Try it..it can work for you.

People like him do end up being great..

Good day people I just checked, my visa was approved yesterday!!! Glory be to God (the big Man upstairs)...here’s my timeline.
Applied 15th of August (paper route).
Did biometrics the same day (15th Aug).
Linked application on 21st August.
Upfront medicals passed on 28th August.
Background check started 28th August.
Visa approved on 21st September.
Correspondence letter came in today (22nd Sept).
I’ll share the full details of all the documents later, lemme give God thanks and charge my phone. God that did mine will do yours for sure



What do you mean by linked application

... and the next thing is to arrest & detain dis guy and tag it hate speech

Airforce1, come ooo... Someone is trying to implicate ur pay master. He has 3 kids and one wife..

celestineojiaku@yahoo.com

My brother, never you.. I repeat NEVER YOU kill urself over a girl. It's not worth it.
The truth is if she's urs, she wil end up wit u.. But if not.. Let her go... I know it's very painful..and make sure u don't beg her.. THAT'S D WORST MISTAKE U CAN EVER DO.
She has already accepted someone @ ur back., even though she won't admit she did.. That's d fact!
Similar thing happened to me by dis time last year.. I thought life has come to an end... But surprisingly, she's not still married till now.. And no serious date.
Those people that came for her all left.

Such is life! Move on bro.. And look for ways to make ur life better... it's hard.. But u wil thank me letter.

Rolly83:
It's very possible to land a job abroad.But in the USA?? Hmm that's very difficult if you're in Nigeria. I got several offers from the USA & Canada but couldn't proceed due to the fact that I was in Nigeria.But I think it's easier to get jobs in the gulf countries.I have gotten several offers too.

I'm interested in Gulf Arab jobs, how do I get job there?

Please, I'm a graduate of Polymer And Textile Enginering (2nd class upper) & I have one year & 3 months working experience in an engineering company (caterpillar). What are my chances of getting work and moving to Saudi Arabia?

D political permutations that wil come up wil surely bury APC.

May God help us

For once I don't pity Tonto..
1) Karma came looking for her.
2) There were better and upcoming good guy(s) she must have dumped in other to marry a rich man.
It serves her right. Let girls learn 4rm this, if they can.

So, how do I apply?

U're on point. But sometimes, what works for Mr A may not work for Mr B.

As a country, we are still far in making investigations. It's possible some assasins invaded his house and shot him wit his pistol.. In other to erase traces of d crime...

nedu2000:
And she had to allow pictures to be taken,she has received her reward

U just said what's on my mind..

TreasuredLeidy:
u're in love with ur present guy buh you are desperate to get married.
he doesn't cheat n he respects u, good to hear. Stick with him Gurl. when he's ready, sooner or later, he would propose.
I guess d drama is cos his folks control him, when u both are married, I don't think they wil control him again.

don't think of going back to ur ex cos it's obvious ur not in love with him but his Money.

#Shalom

I concur

Africa, oh Africa..

I got dis message ysday, and I'm in Lag. Thank God I verified on time, ysday, that it's not 4rm gtb. See as pple take waste money for transportation in dis recession