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Beline:
Take the girl out from where she is working now, since you said she is brainy send her to school I bet you in the next few years your parents will welcome her

That's the home truth, i hav met with the girl and know that she can be anthing a man invests in her to be. Going against the parents' wish might definatly be a last resort. The majority inhouse seem to be game but i can understand the feelings of th ones that hav outrightly said NO.

akara and zulu man, una don kolo finish. Tru talk anyway!

People like this poster and mmazita should run adverts to warn the public (girls) of those guys. Put their pictures on forums like this and possibly on TV

People like this poster and mmazita should run adverts to warn the public (girls) of those guys. Put their pictures on forums like this and possibly on TV

akara and zulu man, una don kolo finish. Tru talk anyway!

I hope u guys are not trivialising this issue? Not only will his family xpress disdain, church, friends, etc, Unless u guys ar saying he should just take the bull by the horn and roll,

You may not live to give him a third chance. RRRRRRRRRRRUUUUUUUUUUUUUUUNNNNNNNNNNNNNNNNN. If he go high on drugs or alcohol, the next bating might land you on a hospital bed. RRRRRRRRRRRUUUUUUUUUUUUUUUNNNNNNNNNNNNNNNNN.

Th truth is me myself being close to the guy could not quickly come to terms with it. I tried looking for one example to butress his point but could hardly get one. It seems he might be breaking a record oh! I hav only sen such a thing in a home video! Is that not funny?

Th truth is me myself being close to the guy could not quickly come to terms with it. I tried looking for one example to butress his point but could hardly get one. It seems he might be breaking a record oh! I hav only sen such a thing in a home video! Is that not funny?

Seun:
You said she is brainy. If she is brainy, then she is far from an average househelp.
She is hardworking. She is gentle. She is pure in heart. She is even beautiful. I think your friend has found a gem.

Being a house help is just a business that happens to be in demand. There's no shame in honest labour!

sisimose:
is house help not a job?

nothiong wrong in it at all, plus they are people too, there is someone for everyone like they say

Anothr true talk! The bottleneck is just how to get the buy-in of his parents. They are hell bent on frustrating the relationship because of 'class'. They think such will mak them a laughing stock among their friends.

drrionelli, you sounded quit philosophical but those words are heavy but true to the letter. thanks, Some courage for them to hold on till they achieve their aims.

Thanks for your posts my dear ladies. Lets have inputs from th men. The ladies may b 'taking sides' may b bacause one of thiers is on the receiving end here.

I am not saying this is wrong on the part of any lady but please bear in mind that any lady that does that can do anything (both good & evil)

I have a friend who is about marrying "a househelp". This lady was introduced by someone to his parents who took her in. Along the line, he fell in love with the girl. According to him, she is everything a man will pray for in a woman: pure in heart, very hardworking, gentle, brainy and of course beautiful. It is already tearing his house apart but he would not bulge. What do you advise naralanders?

May i ask if there is any rspit spcially for thos who have completed their first degree back home before going abroad?

im choking from smelling breathes from singles here! Lt the married with Authority talk please. Why do intimat kissing whn it will 85% of the time cross over to the main play! I rather do such wih my wife alone!

Even these schools you guys are advocating discriminate saying yoou dont qualify except you have a degree in education!

but com to think of it, th guy must be very simple, humble and considerat for him not to 1) worry when othrs spend on the two of you, 2)go to a mama put to buy you gredge. You need to tone it down for him o as you seem to b pushing him to the extreme gradually. Is he testing you? who knows

Im sure the guy is not boxed up! If he has wad ii dont see why he would not give u a treat specially sinc he njoys it whenever his freinds tak th two of you out

But your mail and phone is on & off!

I hop the guy will not sell his state before handing over in May?

My heart weeps. Tears nearly dropped off my eyes.
May his soul rest in perfect peace and I pray God grants his remaining famiy members the fortitude to bear the loss.
God save Nigeria. AMEN.

All i want is a site where I can download mobile dictionary. I am yet to find one.