adanny01:

I have not stopped my habit and probably never will. I cant sleep without it. My parents tried with pepper but couldnt stop it. I hear my uncle does it too. As a result of it i cant sleep in public,
Just thinking if i can say it.
Ok here is it, my hand joins my balls b4 or while i sleep. U heard it, so what?
My question is can a lefty be changed? I guess no way but u r free to try. My parents tried to make my sister eat with her right hand, they succeeded in making her use both hands. But in all nther things she is still a lefty.
I guess some of this habits can be controled but u have to be very strict or u just let it play out.

but wait a min! how did they use pepper ? How did they apply it ? Put pepper on your hand ? Or lemme get you, do u put it inside your nickers or pants while u sleep? You must hve seen shege when pepper touches ur balls directly o. nd u did not stop ? ah! the only ay out may be spiritual probably.

horny4u:

Your boy once he starts chewing something collect it briefly & add living bitters to the thing and hand it over to him that will teach him

Your girl !

No idea oh o digba serious, see the doc let it not be trime.hugyugtycdee, that someone wrote out before

ol boy! you dey find trouble. Like someone said, dat one na child battery or child engine i no dey house o.

tEsLim:

Boy will out grow chewing but needs monitoring so he dont chew dangerous items or swallow. Always try to explain how and why its not good. Continuous talk and explanation , I tell my son (Mayor you are not a big boy, big boys dont do that ) , because this guy is always about being big boy and dont wanna do things to make him non-big boy lol.

You are very correct. Dey like feeling like big boys really, When my boy cries, i tell him you are not a big boy and you see him stop especially when i tell him big boys dont cry
ok. Will try that but you sure that can stop a serious habit ?

seedord247 :

You are such a good Father.

Keep It up.

This is how i wanna raise my Own children too.

I'm blushing, Thanks. God will help you achieve that spiritually, morally, financially, etc, etc,

adanny01:

I have not stopped my habit and probably never will. I cant sleep without it. My parents tried with pepper but couldnt stop it. I hear my uncle does it too. As a result of it i cant sleep in public,
Just thinking if i can say it.
Ok here is it, my hand joins my balls b4 or while i sleep. U heard it, so what?
My question is can a lefty be changed? I guess no way but u r free to try. My parents tried to make my sister eat with her right hand, they succeeded in making her use both hands. But in all nther things she is still a lefty.
I guess some of this habits can be controled but u have to be very strict or u just let it play out

OChief, you are not alone.

You guys know what, i am beginning to think this thing is hereditary. When indoors with my wife and we are discussing the children, she tells me they took after me but she does not say it in public o. I pull out my pubic hair for fun and twirl he thing. Could my daugher have taken after me? But how ?
Thats why i dont bother to spank her i just shakre my head hinking within me, See M Life in he Open ;d

Back to your, please don try to change a lefty, it could create an imbalance in their brain or thinking system o. And i am talking from experience. Dont Do it.

Outstrip:

It's a claming mechanism for them. That is how they destress

o! i see. may be stress from too much play,

Outstrip:

Is the situation at home stressful? Both behaviors can be a sign of stress.

Stress? God forbid. Those children are hving the fun of their lives really!! They are immune from all forms of stress E no dey reach their side at all.

Sisi_Kill:

My niece sucks her thumb and when she's doing it, she plays with her hair. You should see the almost bald patch on the right side of her hair. My sister had to cut the hair down and now the hair is long enough for curls but short enough so she can't pick at it. She looks so cute with her baby curls, wish I could post her pix. Anyway, now she's got no hair to hold on to while sucking her thumb. . .she's found something else. Hopefully, she woulda forgotten the hair twirling by the time it grows long enough to start braiding

As for the boy, he'll grow out of it. His just using all his senses. . .touch, taste, sight, hearing and smell to discover his environment.

Habits are so powerful. I hope they outgrow it. but peradventure they dont You allow them be now

Sisi_Kill:



And two thumbs waaaaaay up to you for taking interests in YOUR children's development. . . a great daddy you make unlike some people who think children's matter is left to the women. Gosh! Such a cave man!!

thanks for that. Men needs to take more interest in their children really.

dayokanu:

Shey you go try handcuffs

Bush man  Wetin dem go use chop ?

ifyalways:

They wud probably out-grow it.

I think your daughter might be be experiencing Trichotillomania . . .

Some children are just too restless ,get bored easily and they react to that in different and sometimes weird ways.

too much grammar

Do people really leave habits like that ? I will be happy if they can outgrow it o.

2mch:

The little guy is just a small ruffian or maybe always hungry.

You no well at all.

Johndoe100:

No be woman go de take care of this kine thing? Real men only play a supporting role, but I admire your concern.

lol! African man!

I want to be very close and observant when it has to do with my nuclear family especially my girl. I want to know everything about her. Wanna be her best friend even better than her mum. In general, if an ant passes thru their side, i must kill that ant. so, i no dey take them play o. My wife does worry about those things as well but wetin she go do? I need perhaps psychologists or whatver experts to advice on how to achieve the aim or if there is no solution, i give up

Johndoe100:

Are you male or female?

Hi, I am a male but what has that got to do with it if i may ask ?

I dont know o. I cant just undersand.

My first child, a girl (5) -she will take the hair at the back of her head and make a curl out of it and then pull it from her head  . Funny enough, there is a paricular section her right hand goes to on her head. As a result, that section appears bald and stands out from the rest like a moon at the back of her head. We cant even give her a hair do becos she will pull the thing out one by one whether na bead of na attachment. So we just cut her hair all d time. This she does even while sleeping  You cant imagine what i am seeing.

My second child - the boy (3) - he can put anytin in the mouth and specifically between his teeth. He then chews life out of that thing until you are no longer able to recognise it again. If he take a Biro or plastic or anything, he will so chew it that you will wonder what is problem is.

What can i do? is it stoppable or i should just allow them to grow with thees habits. Now dont ask me where she got them from. I have one habit too. I wont share it  . How can we stop those habits ? Any prominent people you know with funny habits? I want to stop my children's habits but dont know what to do.

doctokwus:

Case of accidental discharge

o bad gan

pappy2000:

Yeah,The fact reamins that the shareholders sholud be given the right of first refusal

So true, I wonder y he refused them the right really. He was prolly drunk on is powers as the CBN helmsman. i dont think there is any law that stipulates that the ordinary shareholders be given that right of election.

kenc21ng:

There was nothing sanusi could and would have done. the banks were already dead before the intervention funds to try and re-capitalise as a going concern. the shareholders funds were already -ve, implying that the were debt-ridden, with no money left to trade.

If you are a shareholder,i sympathise with you, forget the names of BankPHB, Spring or Afribank ever existed.

Wish you luck in your futrure endeavors.

True. Money don go. The shareholders funds is in debit meaning your stake in the bank is gone. Infact, the shareholders should be made to bring in more money so that the Net Liabilities of the bank can be turned into Net Assets.

2 ways:

1. Take over the banks, inject fresh capital into it (seeing that there is no more stake for the existing shareholders)
2. Liquidate the banks – But in liquidation, the people to be settled will be in the following order by the Receiver or Receiver and manager;
a. Secured Creditors,
b. Partly Secured Creditors
c. Unsecured Creditors
d. Shareholders (Owners)

Sanusi took option 1, which means, the new “owners” (AMCON representing the government) will manage the banks and sell it to new investors who will repay the government for the cash injected by AMCON except the govt wants to retain some stakes. The new owners after are not obliged to settle the previous shareholders as their stakes have been eroded by the losses except they just want to pacify you people a little bit but you are at their mercy.

With option 2, I am sure that by the time the assets of the company are realized and the first three are settled in order of significance, there will likely be nothing left to settle the owners, i.e., shareholders.

Option 2 has so much consequences that it is better to just stick to option 1 and pray that new off takers will come on board otherwise, govt may be forced to take stakes in those banks and taking us back to some past eras and wont create a level playing field for everyone amidst some other professional issues attached to it.

Any other certified accountant in the house can add to this. Just my two cents to clear the air.

chibest5:

why will they give the depositors hope and the shareholders hopeless, oh Nigeria i dy cry in Chinese nchon con chon

That is how it is done. Depositors are creditors and they are not the risk takers as compared to the owners (the shareholders). So, they are first settled before the owners, if anytin is left to be appropriated to them.

nakoks:

ILEKE IDI DAMN TRIBALIST, 190 IS HILARIOUS

ol boy,

the boys just give Benz 190 a bad name. i have warned everybody around me not to buy that car beause of this guy

close this thread

Its getting boring

laoak2:

May his soul rest in peace, this is a wakeup call for all of us, we need to train up our children, this will not be his first time out at such hour, if you know SE london and how the young people live their life, you will prefer to train your child in naija, the young people there are so corrupt. Parents are hustlers too, they have no or little time for the children, children grow up on the street, they are wicked,deadly and crazy, they may look cool and all that but they are too dangerous,they have knives, guns, etc. Trust me, it is easier to train your child in Ajegunle than SE london.

Summarily, Parent wherever you may be, pls do not forget our values, our youruba train your child well, know your children whereabout, know their friends, know that character. Call for help if you need to on time, send your children back home to your family when you notice some strange traits in them, it is band-wagon effect, change their enviroment.

i second this post anytime anyday especially the bolded.

Abegi! These yabis too much jor. My neighbours are chinese. I will report all of you to them. Nonsense and ingredients!
very industrious people but can be very very free. Lovely people!! Fun hard the way they work hard

baconline:

Ok guys!!!!! I tire oh!!!!!!! come with any amount that u have and pick it up!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!btw 150k and 200k,ANY AMOUNT WILL DO!!!!!!!!!!!!!
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I hope say the old man know say you wan fling hin car _{just kidding}

Nice one with the software versions.

Really nice.

Just go and buy another laptop Will buying another system solve the problem ?

kokoye:

I did not know I had this many schoolmates on this forum

We should start a thread

Yes o Kokoye! you are my oga now! since 1997 ! no be beans o. i graduated in 2000. But to God be the glory. That school rocks and i hear they have expanded in terms of infrastructure and number with a commensurate rise in the quality.

larion:

@ dipo2much, some pple will just come n give fake info. N dey will b proud abt it, how many uni. av u been 2 for u 2 stress d@ NO uni offers software engineering as a course, 4 your info d dude in computer science is my course mate, n we offer software engineer 1 in 400l and software engineering 2 in 500l, get your facts right n next time u hear futa just remove your cap and bow cos 2 a large extent we r diff. Frm oda skools.

thats interseting! They now teach software engineering ? Was not there in our days. So happy for the school. the authorities, lecturers and students are not laid back at all.

Jeez!!

Its been 10 years i stepped my feet on that campus! I miss that place

My B. Tech for FUTA has taken me places ! That school is something else! Oh! That MEE101 That thing nearly spolit my result for a Computer Science student.

Nice memories

Congrats to these guys!!! FUTA sure gives you the environment to excel in your chosen field. I hope the social life has improved somewhat since then sha! it was just about 20-30% of what obtained in other schools in my days

IBEXY:

By that, do you mean a law abiding citizen (the priest) should knowingly conceal information about a crime?

If the law of the land is superior in which case the state is a secular one, then the priets must disclose the information to the relevant authority especially if he knows there is a search for the man. IF there is no search for the killer, it may be another issue altogether.

Thou shall NOT hate what you can't make.

im sure if you are starving to death and they bring those meals you hate, yuo will jump at them

prof joe:

why not consider ACCA.its just as if you are using one stone to kill three birds.With ACCA you get
ACA(ICAN)Bsc applied Accounting
ACCA Uk
Global recognition
For more info call 07034586186 or send mail to accamaster@yahoo.com

Please throw more light on the shaded. Does it mean with your ACCA, you will apply and just be handed down an ACA certificate? I thought you will have to write two or three stages of exams again ? Please clarify so that the wrong information is not communicated to the public.

Kasiem2:

@ifasola,
u've said everything, to add more color to your argument, i have a question for this rootless hypocrites who see the whites as god. Pls, was the famous octopus paul of the world cup not a deity? I've come to noticed in life that all developped economies in the world sticked to their mother religion or culture via india, asia .and europe. Facts has that civilisation started from africa, and what made that civilisation to run away from our continents just like that? These are all the things that shows we sold our civilisation when we sold our cultures and religion. We've ignorantly labelled every innovation from the whites as science without knowing the spiritual undertones attached to it. There was a family in my village that history taught us that they family can turn to tiger at their own disposition, until, lately when they decided to destroy that thing that helps them in doing that. If it were to be the whites we'll tag it science.

i no fit shout

This whole thing looks like a dream. Is it really true ? I wish it isnt true. I am sure no pastor in this age would advocate a man or woman stay put in an abusive marriage. I wish somebody who knows her in Skye bank can verify this info.

ronkebp:

^^^^^lol, very funny.

Dont mind the guy I schooled in Akure for 7 years and someone is coming here to call Ex-Gov Akala a white man because he bleaches.

i should flog that sunny guy sef

Even his state governor cannot say that

sunnymimo:

Akure,also called AK CITY, you aint here you aint nowhere men,This is where it happens.I am from Akure.

i don die, see wowo pickin dey form handsome

ronkebp:

Very funny, lol, so what is the solution oooooo? sorry, it is too late for whatever you are thinking, meanwhile, Eve was deceived, Adam wasn't, he lustfully ate the fruit, so if Adam had not eaten the fruit, maybe God would have gotten a solution to Eve's long throat.

Probably Eve would have been eliminated and another one created ahad Adam not decided to go down with her! well,just thinking.

On the topic, it takes guts and lots of discipline to stay focused and not fall into sexual sin. If you know your weakness, do everything humanly possible to run away from it. You cant allow a woman whom you know is likely to make you fall stay alone with you at home with the door locked. Open the door wide open if a female must be there with you alone.

Better still, never be alone together with a curvillinear female or even the shapeless one; allow others to be there with you if your intentions are pure. This applies only to men who are serious about not falling to sexual sin. A number of suggestions have also been proferred here already on how to avoid the fall.

To the married men out there who blame their infidelity on their wives inabilty to satisfy them on bed, the reason is not germaine. The truth is that you can train your wives to be what you want her to be. If she knows she might be losing you cos of sexual lullness she will have to wake up to the call. You must therefore communicate a lot. Tell yourselves what turns you on and the two must be ready to do whatever it takes. If you are energertic in action and she is not, you must resign to faith   You might say that courtship should have revealed her weakness on bed but you are wrong. Sex before marraige is not allowed. steer clear!!