₦airaland Forum

chii8:
These people should stop pretending,are they saying that they are not aware that schools(private school) teachers have been conducting lessons for students and pupils in their compounds and even in school environment? The only difference is that the kids wear muftis.

are you saying that children should be allowed to stay at home and thereby having blunt brain?
What you should be talking about is to tell them to stop pretending as if they don't know the pandemic is a hoax.
They should stop pretending as if they don't know that NCDC/FG, State Governors and Covid-19 response teams all over the nation are into money making venture.

There's Covid-19 but it's not ravaging any state in Nigeria.

simplexity:
Firstly I will like to apologize for any errors made while typing, and I am seriously in need of ur advice and criticism.

My name is Stanley(not real names) married for 4years with two Lovely kids both female with d eldest at age 4. Trust me I cherish and love my family. I am a graduate while my wife dropout from the university cause of some money issues her single mother had while she was sick. After our first child I made sure she got admitted to a polytechnic and thankful she just rounded up her N.D all expenses paid by me, with high hopes of Getting admitted for her HND.

The problem started after our first child, my wife attitude towards sex changed totally, she would never let me touch her or play with her, calling her pet names will usually end in quarrel, I spoke with her her severally, pleaded and beg her most times but her attitude never changed, she made me feel like I met nothing to her, yet she will always fight with me whenever ever she suspects I have a girlfriend, fights with any female that comes close to me through calls or chats, she even went as far as beating up a lady that needed my help thinking I was dating her.

Fast forward to recently, her mom who is a single mother relocated to stay with us, and during her stay we had some misunderstanding about money issues, (note both me and wifey are gainfully employed in the ratio of 10:4, but 60% of wifey salary goes to her mom while she spends the rest 40% anyhow she likes) during d money issues a frd of hers came and told both of them that she see saw me flirting with a lady. And without hearing my own side of the coin my mother in-law rained curses on me , reported my to all her family members and left my house angrily, two days later my wife took our children and left my house while I was in d office, I called about her where about and she said she won't tell me and she said I will hear from her family soon, her mom called a family friend saying she will sue me.

It's been one week now and I don't know the whereabouts of my kids.

Should I report to the police or what?
Note I have apologized to wife for the crime I didn't commit yet it seems they want a bigger pound of flesh.

Please kindly advise me caused am depressed and confused

I am not against any child who came from a single parenting. It is not thier fault.
But I am always afraid of any lady who was brought up by her mum alone because of divorce or separation. Most times their mum usually sow evil seed in them and such mothers also try to control their children's marriage and other opposite sex relationships.

God have mercy on you

Simplyleo:
That statement was made before the original post was modified to add the country. Initially, the country wasn't added.

Okay... No wahala

Simplyleo:
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Many senators have come and gone even in the era of oil boom, none cared to fix that dungeon called church. They simply left their "constituency allocations" in their bank accounts and no one gave them a "resounding knock". If this man did not do it, you won't even know, not to talk of giving him a "resounding knock".

Bros read the article very well.
The point you must note is that Chief Victor Umeh represented Anambra Central in the last Senate, and the last time I checked, Mamfe is in Cameroon so nothing in the real sense concern "Nigerian Senators and Oil boom" in this issue.
So please read the article very well and edit your comment

[quote author=Corporate2020 post=90829751]Nigeria too raises alarm over genocide against Nigerians and Blacks in general by UK security agents./quote]
What is your point here?

JasonScoolari:
Over 2months ago, there was an increased loss of lives in Kano State, and the government said it would conduct a "Verbal autopsy" and the result of their verbal autopsy was Malaria....


Now, the Dollar loving governor is opening pub centres.... No wahala, we go dey here dey observe the next verbal autopsy.

calm down Brotherly.
This governors know more about this Coronavirus pandemic in Nigeria than NCDC is telling us.
Just read their body language.
Covid-19 is real... But not according to NCDC LiveScore updates

iluvdonjazzy:
Yet More

ozoro is now part of Asaba

dangermouse:
. Lets assume we have the the virus, what would be the essence of the lockdown?

Let's assume we have the virus...

We should have searched for a preventative and curative alternative instead of lockdown.

So in the first place the lockdown was a very bad idea.

Copy and paste without palliative is wrong

dangermouse:
. What is the main reason for the lockdown in the first place?

There was no reason for the lockdown in Nigeria.
Nigeria is just doing what they see other countries of the world doing and they just joined them.
It's just about copy and paste.

dangermouse:
moving house to house still defeats the purpose, which is to curb the transmission of the diesease. The main reason for the lockdown in the first place.

In Africa you stop people from moving house to house?

If Nigeria really have the cases of Covid-19 as it is being touted, we all would be isolated by now.

But the truth is Yahaya Bello, wants to punish those people for lying along side NCDC

dangermouse:
He has finally woken up to realities on ground.

which reality?
He is giving it back to them....

They accepted that Covid-19 is in their town so they all should be isolated in their houses.

Did you see "no house to house movement?"

That's punishment not Covid-19 anything

Interesting15:
So a guy here recently published a piece claiming no sex before marriage is a scam..

At first, I was thinking he's just one of those loose guys who only justify sexual immorality because they can't be human enough to gain mastery over their bodies, and who can't control themselves and are slaves to their urges.. But I was shocked that this guy was attempting to justify an unholy act like premarital sex, with the Holy Scriptures..

I was like, JESUS, this guy must be stopped!

First of all, if you check the guy's profile, you will discover he is selling sex tools and products. Therefore, he is only trying to pervert people's mind so they could comfortably patronise him. He is aware that the Holy Words of God is a threat to the sales of his immoral sex tools, hence, he is trying to twist the scriptures for his own dirty motives.. If only he knew the danger of what he just did! Don't forget that the devil too is a master at twisting the Bible!

Nevertheless, please discard his claims.. The Word of God stands sure.. Premarital sex is a sin, because it is contrary to God's Will. God's Will is that all sexual experiences should be shared between a married man and his female wife only, in the safe circle of their marriage.

The Bible says in Hebrews 13:4: "Marriage is honorable among all, and (let) the marriage bed (be) undefiled; but fornicators and adulterers God will judge"

It means, those that indulged in premarital sex will not only hurt themselves (STDs, unwanted pregnancies, etc), but will attract punishments to themselves (and even the devil will have a chance to afflict them).

God Himself said: "...the sexually immoral...shall have their part in the lake which burns with fire and brimstone, which is the second death" Revelation 21:8

The guy even claimed that during the time of Mary and Joseph, virginity wasn't highly regarded. That's a lie from the pit of hell! Their society was a very conservative one, and women caught indulging in sexual immorality are usually stoned to death!

The guy also claimed that you can sleep around because "God only sees a clean and a pure heart". Can you imagine! If you wear a clean white dress, won't you avoid anything that can get it stained?

In conclusion, although the world is currently vehemently corrupt (as we are in the last days), I want you to know that there are still many of us (Sons and Daughters of YAHWEH) still obeying Him and living lives of total purity. And guess what? We are happy and blessed. We are enjoying our marriages, and raising godly and responsible children.

You have done wonderfully well...

God bless you

BobbyHammar:
Anybody who still believe in the scam of no sex till marriage needs to get their head checked. If only you know how many marriages have been destroyed or are still suffering because of this, you will never think of falling for such a scam.

What baffles me is those who keep going to church but yet don't know anything about bible and will keep deceiving themselves that sex before marriage is a sin (WHICH YEYE SIN).

Many will say it's formication but they don't even know the true meaning of fornication as referred to in the bible. Take for example when Joseph was dating Mary, yes we agree she was still a virgin because it was their own decision not to have sex yet but how many people realized that there were other young women that existed then as well. Many had boyfriends too and some had sex with their boyfriends while some didn't because Mary wasn't the only virgin.

The bible never condemned those that had sex with their boyfriends before marriage but it was just the divine choice of the Father to select a virgin rather than a lady that had sex already.

Let's stop all these brohaha low African mentality of calling sex before marriage a sin. God only sees a clean and a pure heart, not who had sex when or how. You all should better respect yourself and save the doctrine of marriage by testing the waters to ensure you are ready to sail on that water for the rest of your life. Not after marriage you start looking for divorce because penis is too big or too small or maybe Virgina is too tight or too wide or its always one minute sex.

Haba.

Beautiful Nonsense...

Why did this made the front page for God's sake?

Junior66:
Your question is very dumb. Have you asked yourself why Lagos with the highest tests and confirmed cases doesn't have people dropping dead despite allowing NCDC to do their job? The fact is the virus isn't as deadly in African countries as it is in the western world, that is why people aren't literally dropping dead.

see dumb calling person question dumb.

I hate it when mu.mu infected people respond to my comment.

How many Covid-19 cases in Lagos are truly Covid-19 cases?

Both Lagos State Government and NCDC are lying with the Covid-19 cases they role out everyday.

XOGBADO:
So finally there's one governor that knows Covid-19 is a scam.

PS: I'm not saying there's no Covid-19 case in Nigeria but I believe the the numbers are over hyped.

Two Governors...
Ben Ayade and Yahaya Bello...

Cross River State and Kogi State...

Galactico4ever:
Who will fight dirty? Is it that young guy of a governor who has no idea of what a pandemic really is?Besides a special covid19 task force has arrived in kogi.

what pandemic?
The fraud pandemic or the real pandemic?
Ask yourself why people are not dropping dead all over Kogi and Cross River States?
The two states that refused NCDC to come in with their false and fake results

Kudos to the Delta State coordinator.
That's a lovely one.
If Anambra State Government claims they didn't erect the barricades then it is a good thing it's pulled down.

Modesthy:
I had a good uncle who passed away three years ago. His wife morned him for one year. I lived with that my uncle until I got married and parked to my own house.

I use to visit the house sometimes. After the mourning, his wife called me and told me that I should give her more children. She has only one male child. I refused. But She said I should do it for her because she doesn't want children outside the family because she loved my uncle and our family and that she can't continue to stay with only one child.

I'm completely confused. First I'm married doing that is infidelity, sencondly, the uncle was like a father to me before his death. And I see it as a big sin.

Please somebody should help me, what do I do here? How do I handle this issue? Thanks for your candid advice.

What she is asking you to do is in order according to my tradition. But the question should be are you the one who should play that part?
So what you should do is to tell her to tell the family or you seek advise from elders of the family.
It's not infidelity in my culture but it should be discussed if you are confused.

[quote author=listowell post=89796181][/quote]so the only why you quoted my comment is to make rubb.ish corrections?

Do you think I dey exam hall or that I am in one English grammar class?

See eh! You better get better sense... I mean am

Leece:
i have tried all the tactics that i can to avoid this woman, but i always have something or a document to submit in her office. my salary scale is 100k upwards plus bonuses, even if i want to quit this job can i get a job like this ?

my brother don't avoid her.
Be a good Staff.
If she keeps showing you her boo.bs, stop feeling on easy pretend to be used to it but never attempt taking advantage of her.
Remain her friend but not sex partner.
Control yourself in her front and take up any discussion she brings up.
Soon she would love you and know you are not a gold digger. She would grow to trust you with many other things.
I am writing out of experience

Mystiquefia:
Why should i bother myself about trying to become the local government chairman of oshimilli when i can become the governor in asaba and render the position of the local government chairman inconsequential? oshimilli local government chairman is just a figure head boi boi. He does not serve any real purpose, and he is powerless. The number security officer of the state capital is the governor. They need to make him a commissioner of oshimilli just like we have a minister of FCT

Are you sure you know anything about Delta State local government areas?
Asaba is in Oshimili South and that we tell you that there is Oshimili North.

So no place in Delta State is called Oshimili local government area...

If I were you, I would have ended the relationship long time ago.

Anyone that can destroy property when angry, can also destroy life when angry.

Coming from abusive home to me is already reason for me to break out of any relationship.

Brotherly, you are seeing all the signs that lead to a bad marriage and you are still stock there. I just pity you two months after wedding.

Break up and walk out with your life now you can. Unless you prefer being dead or getting into addiction 6 months after your wedding.

A word is enough for the wise

PrecioussB:
I weak. Since when are young girls after old men?

I remember Regina Daniel said she told her Dad, she will marry a man of age.
And today she is married to Ned Nwoko.
Bianca boasted and married Ojukwu.

Let me ask you, how many of your age mates interest you?

You can't call a man who asked a woman of 18 years a pervert. The woman is an adult.

The president of France is married to 67 years old woman and he is now in early 40s, are you saying the woman is a pervert.

Babe see eh, young girls love older men

Davash222:
See the fine fine countries dey select.

US
UK
Canada
Germany
Russia
Italy

and your eyes couldn't see Nigeria...

Gandollar:
If the aforementioned cured him, then why is government not employing it as interim solution?

It already sucks to live in this hell on Earth, it's made worse when a quota system general is at the helms.

What plans are Nigerian scientists making to find a solution?:

We are just sitting by praying not to be the next victim and waiting for other countries to develop a cure so that we can buy while buhari sinks billions into lake Chad looking for whatever he hid there.

the FG is not interested in getting Covid-19 cured.
It's a cash cow for them.

AtikuNetwork:
Kai. Wahala dey o. No social distancing. The person recording the video said 'border don open o'. Governor Obiano has a lot of work on his hands.

what will Obiano do?
The border has been like this since the lockdown.
Now that markets in Anambra have reopened that border can't even lock at all.
Because about 25% of traders in Onitsha live at Asaba

shadelek:
By His wound, you are healed.

she is not sick...

She is not Covid-19 positive...

She should wait when she is released...

She should take Benue State and NCDC to court.
Anambra index case is going to do the same thing

Badestman:
OSU...go and tell that to FG

Efi ofịa...
You think Osu is a bad thing...

Nọrọ there...

Ima ìfè Ana eme?
Taaaaaaaa... Gbafue gị

Yanmiriflathead:
As a bonafide igboman from Anambra State, I believe governor obiano goofed in his attempt to disregard the overwhelming population of Muslims in Anambra State, the southeast and by extension Biafraland. This is one of the major reasons why Asari dokubo had a face off with Nnamdi kanu over his favoritism for judaism and disdain for Islam. Even one Mr ikechukwu also had a faceoff with the ipob leader over his inflammatory comments about Christianity and for smearing the personality of Apostle Johnson sulaiman. We bonafide Igbos are non tribalistic And we do not have any inheritance in religious bigotry. We are peace loving people and we do not discriminate against any religion.
God bless all Igbo liberals

if you are truly from Anambra State, What I'd your full name, village, town and local government council?

In the first place, the Muslims in Anambra have been having their full jumat prayers every Friday.
They never got once obeyed the governor's instructions in the first place