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tit:
tear gas canister operates like bullet.
it requires a gun to rocket it out.
if tear gas canister is shot directly at a person at close range, it would cause blunt force trauma.
it hardly has enough force to cause shattering or exploding effect, much less tear skin and bone apart without initial explosion in a gun.

Don't mind bloggers ndị I the first to publish it.
It's actually hand grenade and not tear gas

Nacoss25:
Good morning everyone. I am a young man newly married to a 22 yr old lady. our marriage is just 2 months old.

Before I met my wife in 2019, she has this male best friend who they have been best friends even before I met her though my wife is a social and jovial person always cheerful, she easily makes friends wherever she finds herself that's her nature and kind of personality.

Right now her friendship with that her male friend is what am becoming uncomfortable with right now because of the so much attention she is lavishing on him. I have complained to her that I am not comfortable with her closeness with the guy but she is seeing it that am trying to cut her off from her friends.

One interesting part of the whole thing is, since we got married the guy has been trying to distance himself from her a bit knowing too well that she is now married but my wife is even the one doing all she could to keep the friendship going the way it has been going. 2 days ago I and my wife were together she called the guy complaining bitterly how he has been distancing himself from her.

My people what do you think I should do to cut down that connection or will the friendship grow week by the day on it's own? My wife is refusing to understand that in marriage there are things u will have to let go.

Brother, your marriage is just two months old. It's still too young for the bond of many years to broken.
Give her time she would gradually adjust unconsciously

moneya:
This is damage control....

What damage is the government trying to control here?

Tnose fueling lies and instigating fear in South East will soon be caught up in the infano of their lies

Richy4:
Very simple... the criteria of purchasing any simpack is always that you register it there and then before it will be handed to you... it usually takes 2mins to register at any shop...That will reduce crime alot in Nigeria... I'm even surprised that it has not been introduced in Nigeria in this modern time...Every shop that sells sim is linked with network providers...

Abeg, you read the post?

weslay:
How many more Igbo youths need to die before igbos realise that Mazi Nnamdi Kalu and his family are overseas.

If he really wish to liberate his people, he should at least do the noble thing by coming back home.

I am sure that when you eventually grow up you go get sense. Because now you are seriously with no sense

WhatCanIsay:
Funny enough those illiterates that are littered in the landscape of the Igbo land are more lettered and intelligent than you. Most have accumulated more degrees than you, but choose to face their business. Let me not generalise about your tribe, that will demote me to your level.

Thank you...

ProWalker:
The accounting rigors and other financial requirements by CBN before release of funds is a discouragement for many Igbos that are mostly illiterate traders

How many of those illiterate traders that dots the landscape of South East can provide 5 years financial statements and 5 years bankable feasibly study?

When a daft writes you will know.

It's a pity

Noerection:
why Ibo refused to forgive Okorocha then?

Is Ibo (Igbo) the church?

Orohbiro, so if the new guy loses everything wetin go come happen.

Leave your alone she is wise and a good woman.

You are a bad influence to her

VeeVeeMyLuv:
There's always a constant tension between forces trying to hold a relationship together and forces trying to tear the couple apart.

Op which of the forces do you belong?

gbam
Correct question

SmartProf:
How? Is it the military that is in charge in first world countries? Are those in the Nigerian military not first and foremost humans who could be tribal and religious bigots. It's like you don't know that the top men in our military are those whose brothers are causing the biggest security issues the country is wailing about.

He said the military should divide Nigeria into six states.

Tribal and religion would play little role as everyone will govern his tribe and within his religion

babythug:
She was just going about her normal business when her story touched somebody and by sheer stroke of luck people donated for her rehabilitation. Whether or not she was an amputee from birth it doesn’t matter whether her father is alive or not is irrelevant. The funds should be put to good use and her quality of life made better

Did you actually read this piece?

Some people planned the deal with her...

Some people packaged her...

It was a pure business deal...


That's the point here

daveyjay:
Good day NLers, please I need your take on this.
I'm a student in one of Nigeria's prominent public universities.

A girl decided to vie for admission in my school via the predigree programme but she had no accommodation. Because of the relationship between my parents and hers, I offered to take her in from January till now

I offered a roof over her head.

The first night she came, she slept on the floor and I wasn't okay with that, the following night, I told her she could have the bed, I vacated my bed and relegated myself to sleeping on the floor, we can't share same bed since she's neither my babe nor sister. And this sleeping routine has continued ever since then. The floor is my new bed

I gave her my spare key, uncensored access to my kitchen and everything within my legal occupancy.
Cut long story short, last week Tuesday she woke up, had her bath, ate then stepped out briefly, when she returned we were outta water. Tap water of course. She called my attention to it to which I remained calm. Meanwhile I hadn't eaten neither had I bathed. At noon, she came to me that she was hungry but couldn't cook due to unavailability of water, I then asked her if I am to fetch her water??!.

She said she was gonn take food stuff to her friend's place (upstairs) to cook.
I replied by asking how many of her friends had lacked water and brought food stuff to cook here??!


She got angry and took some money and left


That same Tuesday, I went to see Chelsea game, when I returned, I asked her if she cooked but she didn't dignify me with her attention talk more of a response.
I thought it was rude but considered it as one of the many tantrums of ladies

The following morning, she woke up, acted like I don't exist, couldn't greet... had her bathe and left. Returned, unlocked the door, walked in like I wasn't there, ate, left to her friend's place.

On Thursday she repeated the routine, I called her back when she was going out, I asked her if she considered me as her father, brother or boyfriend that she'd wake up and start throwing attitudes...
I made her understand that I am her benefactor.
Hardly did I finish before she left. She returned and continued in same path and that has continued till this very moment...

Last night she didn't sleep at home, when she returned in the morning, she unlocked the door with her spare, walked in, ate, brushed, dressed and walked out without a single word e come be like say I be ghost.

What I did, I changed the locks, took some stuff, sealed my door with strict instructions to the caretaker then moved to a friends place outside my lodge and I've been there ever since.

She has returned and has been calling my line but I've been ignoring...

Now, is my action too harsh or still in line??!

Correct Guy

Catfishing:
I got to know this young, handsome guy sometime last month. Two visits in the space of 3 weeks and he was all over me.

But I wanted him as a friend and nothing more. The nigga is 5 yrs younger than me

On Monday he came visiting, we talked, laughed and had good time (no sex) then he proffessed his love for me, and I told him same thing: I don't believe in love blah blah blah.

I asked him for money and he gave me 4k. Today I called him and told him that I wanna travel to see my fams that he should give me 5k. But he sent 3k, and I thanked him.

Later, he blocked me on all available network......what went wrong? Why will he do such?

Insults and bashing are expected.

I will also do same thing because I will feel you just want to milk me dry slowly.

Because the financial demand is already too much

NgeneUkwenu:
Nobody grants asylum to terrorists...

The Terrorists rejected the asylum.

So both your Nigerian government and the British should be ashamed of themselves.

IPOB doesn't need any asylum...

Referendum is all they are asking for...



On the other news:
You guys should continue dinning with the real Terrorists like Pantami and keep chasing your imaginary Terrorists in IPOB..

lilije:
No sex yet.

maybe he doesn't want you guys to have sex and also he might be from a home where male and female relationship is not allowed and he doesn't want to have issues with his brother and his parents.

He might love you but have personal or family restrictions based on family, religious or personal values.

As long as he doesn't force you into sex, stick with him.

Because that's exactly who I am when I am in love and don't want too much freedom with the girl.

I prefer public places or her parents house, because my house might give us too much space for couple's play that usually lead to sex...

ashybabs:
i just had a rude awakening...

i feel so lost!

i ran into one of my school mates after 10 years... and there i was holding a black water proof bag while she called me from her mob...

no words, e b lyk say make ground swallow me!

we exchanged numbers and she showed genuine concern but its so fuxked up i cant dare ring her

am such a loser

It's a pity you don't believe in yourself

centurionpapa:
Why are individuals constructing roads in southeast?
Ko normal now

it has always been like that for ages.

Community and individuals support the state and local government. Especially in Anambra State

qualityalone:
is the igp a christian?
if no y the celebration?
when u sell ur dog to buy monkey, u will still have squating animal

He has worked in kaduna before and they saw how good he is.

It's not about being a Christian, read the write-up instead of commenting on a matter you stopped at the headline

hermesprogidy:
The first English Bible was printed in England in the 1500s by William Tyndale. Though the first printed copy of the Bible was produced in Germany, it wasn't written in English. It was written in Vulgate Latin.

And you know how Tyndale died...?

aidameoryou:
but thats not the point.
the point is that the very bible was given to us by whites

Our reasoning Sha...

So if someone gives you a good thing and brought a bad one, you should not complain

hermesprogidy:
Who do you think printed the English Bible?

Are you talking about who printed English Bible or who gave us Bible...


Having said that the first English Bible was actually printed in Germany...

England banned Bible and many burnt many people on the stake for coming into Britain with the Bible

aidameoryou:
so who gave it to us?

First the activities of the Bible took place in the Middle East, and some part of Europe.

The first Bible published was done in Germany.

I don't see where Britain came in from

Tolexander:
which language of the Bible was translated to Nigerian indigenous language?
Who made Christianity to be rooted in Nigeria?

German?

Igbo Bible (Bible Nso) by Nigerian Bible Society was translated from original Hebrew, Aramaic & Greek language

Tolexander:
Seun has to ban this poster like Oyakhilome was finned by UK for misinformation

This same bible you quote from and believe in was given to you by this British.

If this pandemic is the symbol of end time to you, what would you call the Bubonic plague, Spanish flu and small pox pandemics that had happened before now?

Point of correction...
The Bible was not given to anyone by the British.

If you have said Germans it would have made more sense

AsomughaChuks05:
The police must get justice for those officers killed. [b]I am sure that the blood of those officers will not rest until all of those killers are captured. [/b]And after they have confessed who sent them, they should be taken to Awkuzu Sars where justice will be served them as hot as possible.

And whoever think they can scare Prof Chukwuma Soludo out of the race should think again. Soludo is the next governor of Anambra state.

that is if they themselves have not shot at innocent citizens before.
Because every gun carrying security agency in Nigeria is a member of "I will shoot you dead and no one will do anything."

afube:
ehmmm nobody lives on head bridge, most people leave for the airport from their homes, and most middle-class residents that can afford flights live ar least 15 -35 minutes from head bridge, those of us in the Nnewi/amichi axis headbridge is between 40-60 minutes from headbridge.

You are funny...

Xilsbridalhouse:
I know I know...trust me I am always so careful, today was just different...this scammer will forever feel these pains of mine! Tonight I’ll report the scammer to God...all his generations will suffer for this!

You don't sound like someone who is ever careful.
Your money was with your dad, and if you were as careful as you claim, you should have left it with him until the whole issue is resolved. I don't see how a bank customer care would need money in your account before he could work on your ATM.
Secondly, how could you have been discussing with a Twitter handle that is not verified by Twitter.
Thirdly, banks have frequently advised customers never to release their bank details to anyone. They always add that bank customers won't request for them.

Finally, this story sounds like tales by moonlight told just to make front page.

It also sounds like an edited story. Meaning that you have not told us what really transpired in the whole issue...


So...
Stop saying your are a careful person... Become a careful person

Bikonu, what is this doiyon front page?

golddust6000:
BIBLICAL TRADITIONS OF IGBOS BEFORE THE MISSIONARIES CAME TO Africa - IGBO 101.
*1. NSO NWANYI*
In Igboland women live apart from their husbands and neither cook for them or enter their husband's quarters when they are in their period. They are seen as unclean. Even up till today such practice is still applicable in some parts of Igboland especially by the traditionalists. Before a woman can enter the palace of Obi of Onitsha, she will be asked if she is in her period, if yes, she will be asked to stay out.
*Leviticus 15: 19-20*
When a woman has her monthly period, she remains unclean, anyone who touches her or anything she has sat on becomes unclean.
*2. ALA OBI*
An Igbo man's ancestral heritage, called “Ana Obi” is not sellable, elders will not permit this. If this is somehow done due to the influence of the West the person is considered a fool and is ostracized by the community.
*1 king 21:3*
I inherited this vineyard from my ancestors, and the Lord forbid that I should sell it, said Naboth.
*3. IKUCHI NWANYI*
Igbos have practiced the taking of a late brother's wife into marriage after she had been widowed until the white men came. Now it is rarely done but except in very rural villages.
*Deuteronomy 25:5*
A widow of a dead man is not to be married outside the family; it is the duty of the dead man's brother to marry her.
*4. IGBA ODIBO*
In Igboland, there is a unique form of apprenticeship in which either a male family member or a community member will spend six(6) years (usually in their teens to their adulthood) working for another family. And on the seventh year, the head of the host household, who is usually the older man who brought the apprentice into his household, will establish (Igbo: idu) the apprentice
by either setting up a business for him or giving money or tools by which to make a ligving.
*Exodus 21:2*
If you buy a Hebrew slave, he shall serve you for six years. In the seventh year he is to be set free without having to pay you anything.
*5. IRI JI OHURU*
In Igboland , the yam is very important as it is their staple crop. There are celebrations such as the New yam festival (Igbo: Iri Ji) which are held for the harvesting of the yam. New Yam festival (Igbo: Iri ji) is celebrated annually to secure a good harvest of the staple crop. In the olden days it is an abomination for one to eat a new harvest before the festival. It's a tradition that you give the gods of the land first as a thanksgiving.
*Deuteronomy 16:9*
Count 7 weeks from the time that you begin to harvest the crops, and celebrate the harvest festival to honor the lord your God, by bringing him a freewill offering in proportion to the blessing he has given you. Celebrate in the Lord's presence together with your children, servants, foreigners. Be sure that you obey my command, said the Lord.
*6. IBE UGWU*
In Igboland it's a tradition that the male children are circumcised on the 8th day. This tradition is still practiced till date.
*Leviticus 12:3*
On the eighth day, the child shall be circumcised.
*7. OMUGWO*
In Igboland, there is a practice known as "ile omugwo ". After a woman has given birth to a child, a very close and experienced relative of hers, in most cases her mother is required by tradition to come spend time with her and her husband. During which she is to do all the work of the wife, while the new mom's only assignment to the baby will be to breastfeed. This goes on for a month or more. In the Igbo old tradition, at this time, the new mom lives apart from her husband, would not cook or enter his quarters.
*Leviticus 12:1-4*
For seven days after a woman gives birth, she is ritually unclean as she is during her monthly period. It will be 33 days until she is ritually clean from the loss of blood; she is not to touch anything that is holy.
Umu Igbo let us not be deceived. We are God's own people and will always opt to be an igbo man

Great piece

HRHQueenPhil:
Since u have never asked her out, continue being friends with her and let's see if with time, u will get to like her..or is there another woman u are online with?

Biko must it online...

9jaRealist:
Even if a 12-year-old had come in naked and asked you to take her to cloud million...
If you have intercourse with a 12-year-old, you would not only be a PAEDOPHILE but a criminal.

These cases are effectively “statutory” rape, so it doesn’t matter if she came on to you...
The reason that contracts by minors are unenforceable is that by law minors cannot grant CONSENT.
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The word minor only make meaning in southern Nigeria.
The word minor is only used in southern Nigeria.

Those guys that gets married to minors in the North, who has punished them?

In Nigeria there are laws for the South end another law for the North.

I won't consent to have sex with any girl old, young or a minor because that's me not because of any law.

If I were to be from the sex having gang, I would have laid the girl because nothing will happen and she is the bold type, she would defend the act.

Like the girl in this thread, don't you know the magistrate would be confused on this issue. Because for the girl to boldly say she love sex means the guy didn't rape her and the guy probably isn't the first to have sex with her

Then coming back to the girl in my own story, I tried finding out what's wrong with her, I discovered that was a bisexual. She was bursty and look 18 or more, she was already known to have led many girls and boys (older and younger).

I tried talking to her anyway but when her mother's name came into the picture, I got weak. I know there's nothing much I could do.
If it were to be now, I would have linked her up with some counselors or therapists.