Better still, its important to train them

Toks2008:
It is no longer a new thing that after graduation of a male child from a tertiary institution,there is so much expectation from him especially the one whose parents are from a very humble background and had to make huge financial sacrifices.

After graduation,this male child is expected to do his best as regards the ability to provide for himself,his aging parents and also prepare to start a family and we all know the financial demands that come with marriage ceremonies.

As if this is not enough for the male child,the female folks who have spent years in tertiary institutions to have a sound intellect and ought to be a succor in terms of encouragement and financial support have become an additional burden.

Please understand this...there is absolutely nothing bad for a lady be a graduate or not to want,hope or desire a rich or financially ok guy...which lady will not want that?

But it gets even crazier by the day cos most of those ladies who have no opportunity of bagging a degree are unbelievably hard working as we can see many of them doing one thing or the other legitimately to be financially independent while many acclaimed graduates just hope for one unfortunate maga to buy them..how sad.

Ok lets take a look at this..In Nigeria,both the male and the female child go to the same private or public schools right from nursery to tertiary levels,we had the same educational qualification because the last time i checked the University as well as polytechnic degrees are awarded to both male and female...

We go through NYSC together and start looking for jobs in the same labor market in the same country.It is even easier for a female graduate to get jobs compared to the male folks yet these same ladies expect these same guys to be "financially ok" enough to take care of them HABBA!

What happened to equal opportunity to be financially ok since we are faced with same economy conditions. What sought of magic are these ladies expecting the male folks to perform? It even becomes more unrealistic and wicked when ladies are looking for financially ok guys in their 20s and early 30s.


This has made me conclude that its gradually becoming a waste of money and resources for some parents to send their daughters to school since they are likely to come out and dump the zeal and qualification just to start scouting for "financially ok guys" before they can think of making a headway for themselves in life.

So if that is the case,there is no need to get a degree since they don't need that to get a rich guy as they can use their natural body degree to achieve that thereby saving the parents hundreds of thousands of naira.

So i am advising every Nigerian parent to ask their daughter this vital question before spending a dime on her tertiary education and beg her to tell them the truth...

"Are you ready to go to school and acquire a degree to become self reliant financially or are you nursing the thought of going to school and latter come out to start looking for a rich guy or financially ok guy"?


Be observant to the way she answers and make up your mind.

Odiegwu.

henryanna36:
Never said only 3 people were killed.Other people were killed too.Read more on the news here
http://naijagists.com/photos-of-hausas-keke-napep-riders-murdered-by-ritualists-in-enugu-state

you writters know exactly were n hw to pinch ur readers you cant say u dont know what tribalism has done to nigeria

henryanna36:
Bros don't say things u ain't sure.I am ardent member of nairaland.I don't post fake news here.It is an interactive forum,meant to educate people.So u are nt aware that some people were killed by ritualists in Enuu right?Google the information more and get back at me.Mods only verify news before paying hem to FP.U can visit other sites and get more information on the news and their photos

u r a sicko cause you should also know that the decomposing bodies were not only hausa's, igbos were also killed there. Preach against ethnic prejudice if u r really informed not fuel it

psucc:
And do we blame the lecturers alone? Our ladies most of the times make the move. Why will they study when they have an easier way out?

We must talk sense into our young ladies.

trust me you either you have never being in a university or you r ignorant of ur sorroundings, dont even try to blame the students on this. Some lecturers r bad

prettythicksme:
My marriage is now 20yrs!

congrate

Toks2008:
This is a very sensitive and twisted issue that needs to be approached cautiously and intelligently.

I have read in many places where people have expressed contrary views on this all time important issue. I have seen where a lady have asked if she can move in with her husband after traditional wedding?,i have seen a case where a lady insists that until a man does the white or church wedding,they are not considered married before GOD.

I have even heard many people stating emphatically that as long as a lady's bride price have not been paid then the lady is not considered married to the man and so many other discrepancies too numerous to highlight.`

Now the big question is what exactly is the module for a wedding ceremony and what ceremony really is ordained by GOD? When can GOD acknowledge a man and woman as married?is there any part of the Quran or Bible that stipulates a direct guideline of how a marriage ceremony must be conducted to be legitimate in GOD's eyes?

I will quickly answer this from the Quran and Biblical angles.


1.From the Quran:Prophet Muhammad (S) considered simple weddings the best weddings:'The best wedding is that upon which the least trouble and expense is bestowed". (Mishkat)

The Quran wedding ceremony module is simply hinged on Mutual Agreement of Bride and Groom called Nikah.

Marriage (nikah) is a solemn and sacred social contract between bride and groom. This contract is a strong covenant (mithaqun ghalithun) as expressed in Quran 4:21. The marriage contract in Islam is not a sacrament. It is revocable.

Both parties mutually agree and enter into this contract. Both bride and groom have the liberty to define various terms and conditions of their liking and make them a part of this contract.


2.From the Bible:I am very sorry to disappoint those who live by "my pastor said" or "my parents say" to empty their heads of every man made philosophy and get this straight...[size=13pt]there is no place in the bible where white wedding,traditional wedding or even court-wedding was ever mentioned and infact there was never a place in the bible that gave any preferred wedding ceremony[/size] and the issue of bride price was never mentioned as a yardstick for marriage but a punishment for rape and infact you can pay the bride price and still not allowed to marry the lady because you only paid a fine for rape-exodus 22:16-17:

It is quite absurd that today,many people have the erroneous belief that until all the three forms of wedding is done then GOD has not ordained such and while some say until a church wedding is conducted,GOD will not bless their wedding and i just look at the myopic mindset of these ignorant people and wonder where on earth they got that wrong doctrine from.

There is one scripture that sums up the steps to follow in any form of wedding ceremony you desire to have and that be found in Genesis 2:24: Therefore a man shall leave his father and his mother and join to his wife, and they shall become one flesh.


A.The first step is for the man to make up his mind to leave his parents to be with a woman and start a family together.

B.A couple can be considered joined when they are legally married. The scriptural support typically given for this view is the biblical command to obey the government’s laws (Romans 13:1–7; 1 Peter 2:17). A couple can also be considered joined together in God’s eyes when they have completed some kind of formal wedding ceremony whether in the church or culturally.

C.The third and final stage is becoming one flesh which occurs when sexual act occurs and this is why many people are warned against indiscriminate sexual acts as any sexual act is actually fulfilling the third stage of marital union and many people have actually been married to so many people in their life time.

So whether you decide to have just one of the 3 mode of celebration or you want to do Religious,traditional and court,you are very free.But it is important to note that in GOD's eyes the only thing he recognizes as directed by him is for a man to leave his parents,be joined to his wife and lastly become one with her and which ever way both of you decide to go about the ceremony as long as its not against his ordinances,its perfectly ok.

I hope this makes sense.

makes perfect sence bro

JimTiger4:
for those of you that'll come here to say it's not possible.... please allow me to enjoy this little daydream in peace

am with you bro, its actually possible if we r ready to make it happen but badbelle will always stand in the way

Forwetinnah:



Who have you blamed for the outrageous budget boooooohari presented to NASS? Ita Enang?! Hypocrisy! Your initial noise was that GEJ instructed Dasuki to use the money for campaign...now that there's no proof anywhere that GEJ authorised such and the PDP has come out to say they had a fund raiser strictly for their campaigns/elections..you dolts have come up with another story. You will all get tired and wear yourselves out, if you want Jona 's arrest...go and get him

simple

mbhs139:
You know, I just marveled at the people deifying GEJ, particularly those that are saying he should remain silent and not speak on the arms deal scandal. Like I stated earlier, this Arms Deal issue alone is enough to rubbish whatever he may lay claim to as his achievements as a former president of this nation. He should just clear the air once and for all. Perhaps I'm too hasty.

no sir he doesnt need to not now.

joseph1832:
Was Dasuki the one who bought the arms and ammunition the army is using?

who did?

wristbangle:


At the bolded When Dasuki's trial in court emanates which I know the FG will give him the opportunity to defend himself, I know that at the end he will be found guilty but what will interest me most is for him to reveal the remaining miscreants that were also involved in the looting practise.


Tonyebarcanista, excellent article. Your diplomacy this time around depicts there are always 2 sides of a coin. Don't mind shallow minded and brain washed people calling you a traitor.

lol... And you must pick one

TonyeBarcanista:

Which arms werebought? The panel has this to say...

“The contracts, which were said to be for the purchase of four Alpha Jets, 12 helicopters, bombs and ammunition were not executed and the equipment were never supplied to the Nigerian Air Force, neither are they in its inventory."

We'll like to know the arms they bought. So many lives were lost bro

, then what has the armed forces being using all this while?

EbukaFran:


Rubbish

Without resolving issues of the past, then your future is bleak.

Your history if left uncorrected determines your future

Nigeria needs to defeat public corruption once and for all. That is the most important factor of the failure of this country to achieve its potentials. As of 2009, a Yale Report suggests that since 1960, Nigeria earned $1 trillion from oil revenue out of which $400 billion was misappropriated. That is 40% of the revenue.

We can imagine the % that went into private pockets between 2008-2015. The future generations will never forgive us if we fail to nip it.

The economic hardship Nigerians face today is a result of last minute dollarisation of the country by Jonathan in an effort to win a second term plus a decline in oil prices.

Recovery of some of these loot will help fund the budget and reduce the budget deficit> it will also lay a new foundation for the Nation so that people will know that there are consequences for robbing the country.

F9

mitchyy:


I posted this since March now. He has found a new home already and the owner is happy with him.

Sorry i didn't drop update

. No p

Delilah187:
Eated? Really? Eated? Jesu oluwa wa

is he still available

Delilah187:
Eated? Really? Eated? Jesu oluwa wa

lol... its a full grown dog, wont be easy to tame

holaralph:
Nigerians are the worst set of people to Rule , we all saw what pdp did for 16 locust years up till last year the crude oil as been spiking, spiking and spiking forming higher highs and lower lows and later stabilized @ over 120usd per barrel, all these happened during pdp time what did they do with the excess crude account there were dipping their hands into those plenty federation accounts they were sharing the spoils ahhhhhh for 16 years billions of dollars vanished yet majority of us on nairaland are helpless and some pdp e-rats were praising there people because their people are the one ruling. As am typing now am looking at the nigeria economy As online currency trader the crude Oil is 38.03 usd per barrel this is buharis time. The Usd dollars is becoming stronger and stronger and the FED is about to Liftoff ( Increase Rate) and if they do things might get worst for many countries especially those countries that her owing IMF and other organizations............ GEJ and Co enjoys Crude Oil Price at above 120usd with some debt and depleting foreign reserves while buhari is facing dealing with crude oil plummeting and still plummeting. And Some Vague Brain Will just come to Nairaland and be typing balderdash without looking at critical issues facing nigeria............. Olisa Metuh can go to abyss with his stupid advice and wailing.......... Imagine a city destroyed and plundered for 16 years is it possible to be rebuild within 6 years even 4 years

i will like to know those that did those things under pdp, were they are now and those that handled the affairs of this country 4yrs back

masseratti:
Very funny

This man must justify the reason he is being paid,he must say something very week,the hardship we Nigerian are facing is due to PDP failure, Oil is $37 today for $120 last year, if you guys had managed the economy well bought the arms to kill Boko harams instead of giving it to Dokpesi and Co the price of Ram for sallah,pepper tomato and chiken for Christmas won't be on Mount everest,if we had allowed your lots to continue by now Nigeria will be on ebay.

the arms they have been using since they came into power, is it from the moon? as they have not bought a single arm till now,

DrTee1:
@Sissy: The picture is clear. We know who the pretenders are! One of them has come up publicly to speak about hpb and thrombosis while coming back tail between legs to ask how to calculate!!

To the issue on ground,

Well, this is what the texts say:

Like queenafric rightly wrote, the female egg(or ova) is released from the ovary in the middle of the female cycle. There are physical changes that can be noticed when this occurs. This period is known as ovulation(or ovulalatory stage). Such physical changes may include elevation in basal temperature i.e in essesce, the lady's temperature rises, increase in sexual appetite and/desire, increased makeup and appearance(s) and all of that. Of course, there is also a peculiar discharge from the vulva of the female - early in the morning - during this period. It is so little that you may not have noticed before now. It is creamy and somewhat thicker than what obtains at other stages of the female cycle.

At ovulation, or release of egg from the ovary, the lady is very fertile. Any sperm that is present in the female reproductive tract would easily fertilize the egg and pregnancy would result.

However, the egg is 'alive', or remeins viable in the female tract for only 12-24 hours after which, if there is no fertilization, it begins to depreciate and eventually dies. It is important to note that the semen - sperms and seminal fluid constitute semen - contains sperm cells that can remain viable (capable of fertilizing an egg) within the female reproductive tract (vulva, vagina, cervix, uterus, fallopian tubes) for between 2-5days.

Consequently, sex within 4 days to ovulation night be capable of fertilizing an egg when ovulation occurs three days after. That is why opinions like queenafric's give such a long period as 'fertile period.' Also,like queenafric noted, cycles could be irregular, so queenafric's viewpoint is from the safest possibly angle. Although like all ratios, it is never 100% as guaranteed as proper condom use or Billingsway method.

The period of mensural discharge is when the uterus,which has prepared for pregnancy, loses its linings because the egg released during ovulation was not fertilized. In this perod and in the immediate preceeding days - underline the word 'immediate' - pregnancy cannot occur as there has been no egg released into the tract.

I have to stop writing now, If you require further info, you could write me on goalronaldo@hotmail.com.

hello, please I tried to email you but I wouldn't send. Please sir, if the condom happens to tore and the sperm is lost inside the vagina, is there any remedy to avoid the pregnancy.

melzabull:
Permit me to quote this. Words on Marble!

feel free

bandol:
paradise you say? time will tell. Ibos are the enemies of themselves. Time will tell

the first step in solving a problem is identifying the problem

When oppression becomes a law resistance becomes Duty.

abbk000:
This may be useful to you or anyone you know.

US Government is looking for 1000 leaders for 2016 Mandela Washington Fellowship for Young African Leaders.

Application is available online at http://youngafricanleaders.state.gov (see attached document for further information)

Date: October 1 - November 11, 2015

ELIGIBILITY:
· Are between the ages of 25 and 35 at the time of application submission, although exceptional applicants younger than 25 will be considered.
· Are not U.S. citizens or permanent residents of the U.S. (ensure your passport is valid till at least 2017)
· Are proficient in reading, writing, and speaking English. Avoid grammatical blunders & typos, avoid big words & if you do, be sure to understand its meaning in the American English
· A proven record of leadership and accomplishment in public service, business and entrepreneurship, or civic engagement.
· A demonstrated commitment to public or community service, volunteerism, or mentorship.
· The ability to work cooperatively in diverse groups and respect the opinions of others.
· Strong social and communication skills.
· An energetic, positive attitude.
· Demonstrated knowledge, interest and professional experience in the sector/track selected.
· A commitment to return to Africa and apply leadership skills and training to benefit the applicant’s country and/or community after they return home. You would be unable to relocate to the US for 2years, only visits.

The application will collect basic information and will include questions regarding the applicant’s professional and academic experience, including educational background; honors and awards received; extracurricular and volunteer activities; and English language proficiency (no false information please)


https://youngafricanleaders.state.gov/applying-to-be-a-mandela-washington-fellow-answers-from-the-experts/

I can't get my details registered

Please any online streaming link

Osyxcel:


how much you go pay?





oya take am:

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=CDoBxxtthGQ

. Bro thanks a lot, I have been looking for this for so long

Can someone help me with a link for online streaming

musKeeto:
Millions of Nigerians think otherwise. The PDP way of democracy was an absolute failure. Not even up to a year and PDP still crying. Opposition no sweet at all.

, PDP yes have their shortcomings, who are those that purposely made way for the shortcomings? Secondly you can't just because of PDP faulted leadership turn a blind eye to the looming danger of a one party system given the fact that these men immensely hungry for power(even though they already posses the power). For you and I are the side effects not even PDP

sammyj:
Blame it on the FG that has continued to spooned feed the state and do not allow them to explore their internal revenue! !!!

that's why socialism is like a crime to some parasites

Why do you care

honeeeybabe:

yes I do...but didn't put it.
yes I do...but didn't put it.

. OK, it's cool anyway