abdelrahman:
HISTORICAL PERSPECTIVE OF HATRED
I had the privilege of attending some meetings of the Yoruba and Igbo Leaders. I was not a leader but a youth who knew how to wash his hands. At one of those meetings in Owerri, I think in 1989, I think, I listened to Uncle Bola Ige and other Yoruba Leaders take the likes of Mbakwe, R. B. Okafor and others to the cleaners when the Igbo said the Yoruba were betrayers, citing that Chief Obafemi Awolowo led them into secession with a promise that if the Igbo left Nigeria, the Yoruba would follow suit. They accused him of not following up on his promise. Trust Uncle Bola Ige! He pointed to Chief Mbakwe and said, "you were there in the meeting between Awolowo and Ojukwu as I was. Is that statement correct?".He turned to two other Igbo and two Yoruba Leaders who were at that meeting and asked the same question, saying he had transcripts of the meeting between Awolowo and Ojukwu. They kept quiet while the Yoruba Leaders affirmed that Awolowo never promised to follow the East into secession. What he said was that if the Igbo were "driven" out of Nigeria the Yoruba would take it seriously and reassess their own position. Igbo Leaders DID NOT CONTEST this version. Then Chief Bola Ige threw in the clincher! "Who are you to accuse the Yoruba of betrayal?" he roared, and continued:
1. At Independence Awolowo offered a joint government between the NCNC and AG, with Zik as Prime Minister and Awo as Finance Minister. Awo and Zik "were still negotiating" when it was announced that Zik would be President in a coalition with NPC of the North. The East then collaborated in destroying the West and sending Awolowo and his leutenants to jail!
2. What of the 1965 elections which the West and the East agreed to boycott? We met all night and reached agreement about 3am on the day of the election. In the morning, while the Yoruba boycotted the election, the Igbo went to vote
3. After the 1979 elections Yoruba (UPN) and Igbo (APP?) Leaders were still at the negotiating table for a coalition when to their surprise, an announcement was heard that the Igbo (APP) had agreed to a coalition with the North (NPN)
4. After the 1983 elections, 1979 repeated itself. Not giving up, Awolowo reached out to Azikiwe again for cooperation. Talks started and they met in Benin where Awo pleaded passionately that only a collaboration between The Igbo and the Yoruba could save Nigeria. They didn't reach agreement but promised to meet again. Before the next meeting, the Igbo had again teamed up with the North
Uncle Bola paused and then continued "we can go on and on. So how dare you accuse the Yoruba of betrayal? How many Igbo have been killed in Lagos, Ibadan, Akure, Oshogbo (he mentioned other Yoruba towns)? You have your businesses in the West and went to Western schools. Yet you count the Yoruba as your enemy. You get killed in Kaduna, Kano, Bauchi, Zaria etc and have your goods looted yet you consider the Hausa/ Fulani your friends. It's your choice. If you want to be slaves for ever, we can't help you"
I had never been so scared in my life. I thought the roof was going to fall. There was a pin drop silence and no Igbo dared interrupt Uncle Bola Ige because he was telling the truth. The Yoruba Leaders ended the meeting at that point and left. I hope Chief C. O. Adebayo's memoirs will give more details of those exchanges.
Now to make three points from all this:
A. The Yoruba have been stretching their hand across the Niger for a handshake for a long time. The Igbo refused to take it for a long time until recently
B. Many Igbo Leaders of the 70s, 80s and 90s deliberately perpetrated the legend of Awolowo's role betraying them into the civil war and his role in prosecuting the war, to rally the Igbo population behind themselves. The Igbo agreed on Yoruba hatred than on any other issue. So it was the fabric that held them together for a long time
C. Time heals all things. Many Igbo reading this will be hearing for the first time that their leaders of old knew for a truth that Awolowo did not break his word to Ojukwu as alleged. And to think of it, EVEN IF OUR PARENTS QUARRELLED, SHOULD WE THE NEW GENERATION CONTINUE THE SAME WAY?. ITS TIME TO COME TOGETHER AND MAKE THE HANDSHAKE ACROSS THE NIGER WORK FOR THE SAKE OF OUR PEOPLES AND NIGERIA

Bros how come all your meetings didn't have any conclusion... is it that you fabricated the story or what

Kingsley10000:
for the past 16years pdp didn't construct these roads now apc and buhari is asphalting it within 3years

that's why they said you are very lazy... the likes of you just swallow what this mischievous Govt gives you in overdose. Bros one section of that road we use today was already completed before the Election and this very part the Minister was inspecting was already in progress. Bros advance further to Obigbo towards Eleme junction then you will see how far. In Enugu repair of Those said federal roads were done by State Government.

Hardewarlee:
These white ppl sha , Everything about them is extra ordinary ....

Well , I really don't know if I'm the only one noticing this , Buhari will always hold Nigerian brains anytime he is meeting Nigerians . Lol

No wonder despite this hardship we still have some people following him upandown...

Imagine see where this people climbed because they wan see that Brainless clueless man causing hardship on Nigerians .

Anyways my PVC is hot and ready for 2019
What are you waiting for ... Go get yours too
#BacktoDaura

Nigerians does anything for money

BEST SOLUTION
"COPIED"
Hello Lauretta,
Honestly speaking,I am lost for words to respond to this. This is because,this being a very real situation,I know how much this means to Esther and her husband. In any case,here are my suggestions,which you may also get a second and even a third opinion on:
1. First,both of them need to go to God in prayer. Let them ask God to help them find the right solution to this matter
2. They should see a medical doctor and explore medical options for organ enlargement for the man
3. Marriage is a covenant ordained by God,introducing a third person is against God’s will….you might want to consider that it could be a sin to do this
4.If they both agree,they could be other non illegal ways to get sexual satisfaction and have a baby. E,g: Sexual toys like vibrator. Esther can also get pregnant by IVF
5. Have they considered that having sexual relations with their brother could lead to a number of complications like: Its possible for Esther to fall in love with Tom. Its possible for that to cause problems for both brothers. Its possible that Tom would lay claim to their children later in life. Its possible for Jeff to feel inadequate and probably begin to have self esteem issues which could affect his mental health and their marriage?
There are so many risks involved in this plan..and honestly,I think this couple need to have a rethink…explore other means.
Wow,this is really deep….
Thank you Lauretta for helping this couple. They can also reach us on phone if they need further assistance.
God bless.
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ajl:


The illegal refineries you referred to are not your typical modular refinery. They are not truly a refinery in the sense of the word. Try what they refined in your car and your engine is done. They are an environmental disaster.

Bros you may be misleading yourself on this issue of quality. Ask (sincere)motor mechanics or filling station managers, they will tell you how far

Sirjamo:
You think that a refinery is a two bedroom flat that you can build in few months, the poverty development party killed all our refineries over their sixteen years of misrule and you expect Buhari to get them working under three years? You must be joking. Even Mr Dangote has been building his own for close to ten years now, yet we don't know for sure when he will finish it.

full time zombie

Yeligray:
Buhari is a failure and a disgrace to this Nation.. If it were the westerners he would initiate python dance claiming lives of innocent people..


Farmers stop waiting for the government defend yourselves, kill them be4 they finish u off afterall in the constitution there is room for self defence

once they suspect the villagers are planning to arm themselves, military will invade the town and search the whole place, thats how far this herds men have gone. like someone said they are now ruling This country

Stingman:
QuotaSystem:

All these allegations have been overflogged and done with since the last election which Buhari won. You're a lone traveler on that route.

I'm not challenging your right to vote whoever you'd like, but the facts must be made clear about Atiku.

With the documentary evidence provided so far, only an illiterate or dishonest iPork will not clearly tell that the U.S. Senate indicted Atiku for FRAUD and that's why he can't visit as a private citizen.


I don't care about Atiku, Tinubu nor Buhari because all of them are the same type of people...Now, what has you Quotasystem pork eater and your clueless corrupt presidency done to arrest Atiku, once you are so sure of the document?

of course you don't care yet you are able to dig up useless script, is USA Nigeria? fool

sarrki:

I am a patriot
We won't allow looters to have dominion over us

monkey... what is APC doing to you

abeg the world needs to be destroyed biko, too much inhuman activities people. Should I even say that science has contributed to more evil than good. Humans are one hell of a being.

XML33:
Discard all the conventional crap society has fed you about women. Ignore the relationship garbage you see on mainstream TV. And most importantly, disregard anything women say themselves. In fact, never you listen to what a woman says when she describes the kind of man she wants and how she wants to be treated. It's all hogwash..

This thread is amoral so anyone who has problems with posts that don't fit into the whole religious & moral nonsense should please exit the thread.

Guys stop wasting your time being in relationships with women. It's a complete waste of time. Let's be honest. What do you derive from the relationship that you can't get if you weren't committed to her? Nothing. Being in a committed relationship puts you in a precarious position and it kills her attraction towards you. There are two kinds of men women crave. The provider and the guy she would willingly give her body to fucckk. Women feel attraction towards the later and would do anything to please him, but just use the former as a source of financial or emotional security. You can be the later without being in a relationship. In fact you can be this guy to lots of women. Women are liars and what they say is usually not true. You can doubt this statement at your own peril. Women are instinctual creatures and they are controlled by their primal feminine instincts. A woman can articulate her needs perfectly, but her behavior and actions would vary.

If you are in a relationship with a girl who claims she loves you because you care about her and take care of her needs, my guy you are being lied to. This same girl probably has other guys who she secretly texts and craves to be with. You stop being attractive to a woman once you assume the role of a provider. Even if a woman really loves you and commits to you, she is eventually going to stop being attracted to you because she would get bored of you faster than you'll get bored of her. That's just the way women are.

Instead of being in a long term relationship with one girl and wasting your life, meet various random women and do what you'd have done with your girlfriend with them. Whether it's sex or having a good time with no commitment at all. There are over 3 billion women in the world. It's stupidity to blindly commit to just one girl who would lose interest in you once you begin displaying commitment and showering her with attention.

Never take a woman seriously. She isn't worth it. No matter how attractive you think she looks. Treat women as if they are nothing and they'll crave you more. This is a fact. The less attention you pay to women the more they respect and desire you. The more care you show to them the more they disrespect you and lose attraction towards you. Just hook up, have sex and move on to the next. This is how to be a man. Don't commit to a single woman. You'll regret it.

truth be told men are also guilty. secondly not every woman can be described with this your post there are exceptions.

chucksbadt:
Hello guys, out of my curiosity, I'll like to ask;

For Automatic cars, it's impossible for the car to roll when the gear is on Park(P), still i observe some people engage their handbrake while the car is on P.

As for me, the only time i use my handbrake for Automatic cars is while I'm on traffic and i want to relax my foot, i prefer to use the Neutral(N) gear (because it's more closer to D for a quick start) when I'm on a hilly road to prevent the car from rolling

What do you guys think

firstly the Park (P) works when the engine is off, it's capability to hold the car relies on the current strength of the engine(rings compressive strength) sometimes you may have seen a parked car attempting to move repeatedly and will gradually increase acceleration. This happens mostly as a result of weak engine(though sometimes gear problem/handling may occour)
secondly handbrake are independent of the gear system as it locks the two back wheels(if properly adjusted) ones it's drawn. So it's more reliable than the gear even when another vehicle rams the car it's more likely to accelerate if it's parked without the the hand brakes on.

lowkey28:


Not just few days. The network has always been bad right from time.

it's not true

Firefire:



Be careful, I have the complete set of APC Manifesto and all their FAKE promises contained therein.

Whatever any coalition published was extracted from the party's manifesto.

Posterity will judge us all, and all liars., including those without conscience still supporting this demonic party despite their monumental failure.

APC promise - On the Economy:

3.Make our economy one of the fastest growing emerging economies in the world with a real GDP growth averaging at least 10-12% annually

But rather, Nigeria went into recession with -1.5% negative GDP.

On Politics and Governance:

I, Muhammadu Buhari, believe that our politics is broken. Our nation urgently needs fundamental political reform and improvement in governance, more transparency and accountability. If you nominate me in December, 2014 and elect me in February 2015, my administration will:

1.Initiate action to amend the Nigerian Constitution with a view to devolving powers, duties, and responsibilities to states in order to entrench true Federalism and the Federal spirit.

5.Amend the Constitution to remove immunity from prosecution for elected officers in criminal cases;

9.Fully enforce the Freedom of Information Act l so that government held data sets can be requested and used by the public and then such data sets be publish on regular basis;

10.Amend the Constitution to require Local Governments to publish their meeting minutes, service performance data, and items of spending over N10M.

Time has not come, Nigerians are waiting for the 'NEW' version of lies from the PIT-OF-HELL APC will use in 2019.

I don't think they need much of a lie, but the mechanism from which the election would be rigged.

MediumStout:
What exactly do these igbo's want? Had this vaccination exercise began in the north and south west, you guys will blame buhari for Marginalization of igbos and favoring other regions. The president is proving to the world now that he is detribalized by sending the army to provide free medical care that none of your governors can provide yet all you can do is scream and raise false alarm instead of thanking buhari. IpoB was proscribed by the federal government and soldiers were ordered to provide health care for you people. It's called carrot and stick approach. The south east has the worst infrastructures in terms of hospital and medical care in the country, hence the need for free medical care. The out break of monkey pox in the SS and SE states is a reason why the army must vaccinate you people by force. You cannot be allowed to infect the whole country with terrible diseases cos you people are the most travelled tribe. This is the same mistake northerners made during GEJ era by rejecting polio vaccine. Their region has the highest cases of polio now. You people should limit your hatred for buhari. Accept him as your president if you want to benefit anything from his government and not be treated like 5%. A word is enough for the wise

ill thought

why not try GLO suscription

why not try GLO suscription

abiodunalasa:
Back in the University, we took an awareness tour to Oil damaged Ogoni land and Bayelsa.
We met many of the impoverished community people. We met one man who is a fisher man. You can tell from the look on his face that he is poor beyond poverty. But then he has 11 children and a pregnant wife. I almost collapsed when I find out this. As if not enough, one of his daughter about age of 16/17 is already a parent too. She was put into family way by a neighbor who later ran away. They were all living in one rickety wooden house. I shed tears.

At that moment I knew that no matter how well planned our economic policies are, no matter how fast the pedal upon which our economy is riding... With these kind of careless and mindless child bearing, poverty and hunger will continue to be our permanent companion.

We wrote a proposition on this matter to the then House of Rep Member Hon. Ali Ahmad. But the proposition was dismissed upon religious ground and archaic tradions.
The proposition was seeking to lobby for a law on ONE CHILD POLICY las did in China, though its a modify policy one which to suit Nigerian clime. Our proposition was rejected because they fear it will not be popular among our illiterate people the vast majority of whom voted for them.

Till now, I believe this is the right thing to do. It is #TheRightSense .

By the time I run for House of Rep come 2019, this will be my vocal point. Thank God for the not too young to run law.

story

ijustdey:










http://punchng.com/kaduna-communities-record-two-year-uninterrupted-power-supply-fg/

while the area generating it is in darkness

koboko69:

Lol.
And who told u everyone likes French the other optional course. U people are sick . Or is French not being forced down on those that don't want French too by ur logic. What fakes u feel there are not Muslims that will take the French class instead of Arabic?

fucking hypocrite... just go back and observe all your statements relating to this matter. it only takes with strong ideas(someone that have the time) to force out the truth from your mouth. Secondly of all the issues with Nigeria education, this is the one they cared about. bro the earlier we accept we cannot coexist as ONE COUNTRY the better for all of us cause will always be suspicious moves

MISFITrep:
fool! How many igbo men have ever owned what aliko dangote, theophilus danjuma, rabiu abdulsamad, mike adenuga, folorunsho alakija etc own? Account holders?! Is that how your retarded illiterate brain defines bank ownership and control? Lol... fidelity bank and diamond bank are the only big bank igbos own! Gtb (yorubas) zenith (deltans) first bank ( hausas and yorubas) fcmb (yorubas) u.b.a (deltans and hausas) ... do you know what real estate means? Do you know the high value sort after estates in alpha cities like lagos and abuja? The ikoyis, VIs, maitama, asokoro etc igbo people don't control these markets...nigeria has 474 oil blocs (OPLs and OMLs ) hausas own about half... why do you think niger-delta militants always cry out?! Igbos don't own sh**t...spare parts is your calling

replying you is a waste of time join hands and break the damn country since you are more favored and has nothing lose...the lose of igbos is non of your buz

papiforreal:


You stupid do we have enough instructors for other languages like Spanish and Hebrew in the country.or you mean fg should start sending people to those countries to study the languages. The last time I checked all these languages are not even significant. Student don't even give attention to them because they know they can get admission with, or with out it.

so why ranting

vedaxcool:
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when defending corruption becomes difficult the only thing left is to perpetuate division and religious intolerance. ... I am happy that largely tge failures of beerfraud aka ipob yoots continue to peddle hate like their bleacher cownu

and there you showed yourself proving that you are actually a crusader of lies

Adebowale89:
I see this as political even though I don't like the play role of his paymaster in the demise of our lost brothers but I still need to maintain the fact that, he's not the only corrupted lawyer even if at all, the allegation is true


why is Nigeria law shifting from jurisdiction to favouritism


the earlier we end this man know man act, the better for a competencies and convenient environment

Nigeria is lost course. No salvation

Aminu212:
On my to the farm this morning, i found this snake on the ground.

i decided not to kill it because the snake looks beautiful. i want to keep it for educational purposes.

Can someone please help me name the species of this beautiful snake?

Lalasticlala please help us by pushing this thread to the promise land.

Bros, if this story is true I have only one advice for you. stay away from that snake cause I have that beautiful coloured snakes are very poisonous

DamiBukola:
Dreamers, thinking Enugu is Oshogbo, lololllllllll. Win a local government and win a prize

you dey mind there irrational utterances... the same Odo that was sidelined and impeached by Sullivan during money borrowing saga is now singing praises to Sullivan. They know what they are running away from.

Honos:
Have you heard of Ectopic pregnancy or in some situation when the woman's health is at risk. Abortion, i mean D&C is necessary. Committing murder that is rubbish, until a child is born, i don't consider that as murder.

people always answering what they are not asked, were you told her health is at risk? anyway your comment proves you are inhuman (abortion is not murder in your words)

Charlieeeboi:
Good day, I've been reading stories as a guest and I decided to register today to share my own story that has been bothering me. l had unprotected sex with my gf and she called last week to say that her period is 10 days late, I know we had sex and I came inside her so I asked her to go for a pregnancy test so we can be sure..the test was done on Saturday and the results came yesterday that it's positive and shes 2 weeks gone .l know abortion is a sin and I've asked her to keep it but she refused, she said she doesn't want to be a disgrace to her family,that none of her sisters have gotten pregnant before marriage so why should she be the one,I've pleaded all I can and it seems her mind is made up, so I need you all to tell me the drug we can use safely.. thanks

two questions, you want to remove it or she wants to remove it? Secondly, if you are not the one pressing for abortion ensure she doesn't do it or have nothing to do with it by simply creating awareness should incase anything happens to her. Two wrongs doesn't make a right as abortion to me is the worst sin of all cause you wouldn't be here if your mother aborted you or her.

mareema:
Adesua Etomi is one of the most talked about actresses right now because of she and Banky W's relationship. Osas Ajibade is another hot actress who became popularly known from her role in the soap opera 'Tinsel'.
So today, my friend and I were arguing on which of these two A-list actresses is more beautiful and we couldn't agree on which one is prettier.
Guys,please what's your take on this? Who do you think is prettier?

beauty is in the eyes of the beholder

really...

Teacher1776:
And naturally, no one came to separate them. Rather, all was busy vedeotaping them and enjoying the illicit show.
The worst part of the crime was not the action of the rapers themselves, but that of the onlookers who did nothing to stop them.

thats the point... people applauding evil and criticizing good honestly I wonder what the world would look like in the next generation