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sexymonkey: I love saggy Toto

Not all of them saggs. Some are inside you cant see it.

BarryX: I actually counted "four" insultive words in your whole post.

The "silly" girls obviously their reasons too ..
You know
Happy sunday ...
How're you doing ??

I am happy that I still have people who care. Thanks for keeping me in check.
I wont do it again, luv Apologies for disgracing you in public.

How are you doing muffin? You were missed. Happy sunday to you too.

I cannot talk for man, but for woman, I think it has to be abandoned.If its religious or anyhow, why will your creator create you with something and expect you to cut it yourself?

Doesn't make sense. Tha'ts a very stupid God. He might as well not put it there.

But for females, really, I really deeply feel for them. Some have admitted s..exual frustration, hence some are no doing surgeries to reconstruct it.

But damn, they are MISSING

Those who practise it, I cannot judge them, but I can only imagine what they are missing when they get to adulthood.

Damn, they are missing out

kulyie: the one that annoyed me in her matter was when she claimed she still loves him and she didnt know he will do this to her.she has met his friends and relations except his mom,i just feel like descending on her and biting her if she was my sister.at 18 still having the brain of a 10 year old


infact,it is a terrible thing for a child not to be wise o! Smh

Abeg for the girl na, you have shamed her more than enough.

You OP, young lady, you will learn to listen to you parents. Tell your parents as in NOW.

carefreewannabe: So your sons are told that it's NOT their responsibility to protect themselves from STDs?

I don't have them as yet, but when the time comes i will teach them thoroughly about STI's, birth controls, s..x, woman, human anatomy etc. I will teach them, that its their responsibility to take care of their s..e..xual health and not anybody else's.

I will teach them that in life everything has consequences, some permanent and some temporary. Whenever they do something they must think of the consequences. If the consequences are permanent, they must step back and think wisely before they proceed.
I will warn them about foolish girls who will want to tie them down with kids.
I will warn him of his temporary stupidity which may lead to permanent regrets.

I will tell them not to bring me a stupid girl telling me about pregnancy. Their foolishness is theirs alone
The way I will bring up my sons, I doubt my sons wont listen to mommy dearest. I plan to be very close to my little princes

kulyie: then people like you should not complain when you see babies been dumped on the streets,beside the gutter,on the dumpsite,under a car.

Too much hypocrisy and double standards in Nigeria.smh

If girls live they way I see it, there wont be any unwanted babies dumped on roadsides and bridges etc.
Girls will take charge, if they choose to do it, use protection or make clear demands from a man. They will not just open their legs without thinking of the possible repercussions possibly facing them without the boy by her side. GIRLS WILL KNOW THAT THE ARE RESPONSIBLE FOR THEIR S.EX.UAL HEALTH NOT A BOY.

No hypocrisy at all. I was once a teenager, passed early adulthood, so I know what its all about. I faced the same challenges just like she is facing ( peer pressure, boy pressure, societal pressure ) so this is not knew.
To a man you are as good as your self respect. If I could do it, the next person can do it as well

Merkki: Lol. Thread bookmarked for my daughter to read. My smart angel

Let the boys enjoy pls. Something free on a silver platter, no stress.

If I was never a teenager myself, i would not be against "girls playing victims". I was a teenager and stated my rules and terms and conditions to a men and they complied.
So a girl is as good as her self respect. A boy will respect you and your body if you respect yourself. Not only in teenage stage, even in adulthood. A man will always suggest things unimaginable,sometimes to test you. If a man ask for 3some and you don't want to, you have a right to say "NO'' and not later on blame a man

LEAVE MY BOYS ooo. LET THEM DIP THAT STICK INTO THOSE WILLING OWNERS

OlamiB: I nevr knew it would turn this bad anyway because he didnt hide me from any of his immediate family member, the only person havent seen is his mummy, he doesnt hide anythin from me, i know his parents houses and his brothers, he introduced me to his frnds too. There were time he jokinly askd me to have his baby nw and i'd be like 'u dnt have money' he alwayz said he has money. The joke assured me that everythin would be fine if i should get pregnant, but its not so nw. I only hope he wont come askin for the baby later by the time i must have passed through hell raisin him/her alone.

Being known by his family members does not amount to being a wife oo!!!! You were just a girlfriend, that he was having a good time with.

See yourself, you were even considering having a child for him so long as he has money How could you Were you his wife See foolishness.

A man will always lie and tell you what you want to hear. Even your dad lied to get your mom. So its not new that man I very creative with stories.

I hope your boyfriend is just going through shock. He may come around

carefreewannabe: Are you saying that boys can enjoy without taking any responsibility?
Are you saying that girls have no right to enjoy and if they do, they have the sole responsibility?

I thought TWO people were responsible for a pregnancy, a female AND a male

The boy can do whatever he wants, even hold a "running away party'' for all I care. He can invite me too.

Its a girls responsibility to keep herself away from pregnancy and STI's especially when she is not married, so lets not candycoat what was wrong. She was making all sorts of excuses to get out of the house. The boy did not drag her out of the house. Who is responsible, hey? If you respect yourself and your parents a boy will follow suit.

I remember my first boyfriend ever in life, the guy never dare touch me because he respected me and my parents. My terms and conditions were very clear and he respected them. It was just fate that separated us.

I was once a teenager so I know how it works. Stupidity gives birth to stupidity likewise wiseness.

Merkki: Boys don't come to your father's house to have sëx with you most times, you hook up with them somewhere else. You opened your legs. U closed them after the deal. You smile and say, "I feel great". He reassures you of his love and how he enjoys you. You smile again. It is a win-win situation.

Very true. When girls are coming up with tricks to say to their parents to get out, they think they are smart. A boy will only respect you as much as you respect your parents and yourself.

Boys dont point a gun against girls.
PEOPLE SHOULD LEAVE THE BOYS OO AND LET THEM ENJOY AND BE MERRY WHEN IT GET SERVED ON A SILVER PLATTER TO THEM.

After that boys should be left alone to go marry wiser girls and leave the stupid ones

Tired of woman playing victims. The way she denounces her love for the boy, I think she did it purposely out of that stupid love.

Merkki: U should do the same with your husband. It's legal

Willl do hun

[quote author=gcfr.com]hahaha. Talking from xperience? Lol #kidding.[/quote]lol, indeed

kulyie: chinelo,why are you blaming the girl alone,fine,she is wrong but it takes 2 to tango.she did not impregnate herself.by the way does she even strike you as someone sober or remorseful about her actions.sebi she said she still loves him.in other words,if the guy comes for round 2 she will fling her legs open.someone somewhere was deceiving her about how beautiful and sexy she is and or lying to her that it is only once and she will not get pregnant.of course the boy capitalized on her ignorance/stewpeedity/innocence.so if you want to blame the girl,the boy too is at fault

The boy did not drag her out of her parents house, she is the one who was lying making stories to see that boy. See where her smartness lead her, she must continue being smart. I am sure her parents were always telling her to stop and she wouldn't.

I am saying all of this because I have been a teenager myself, so I know how it works. If a girl hands herself on a silver platter to a boy, this is where she will lend. Having being once a teenager, and having went through this, I know all the challenges that she went through and the fact that they can avoided only if one listens

kulyie: The irony of it is that by the time the boy is ready to settle down to marry,na their type go dey find virgin.they have turned another smalee into after one now.



May God give all this boys common sense to know that the girls life you've messed up will one way or the other come back to hunt you

Are you saying boys who impregnated girls at a young age should settle with them even if they dont love them. Mba

I have always been of opinion that a girl child should be taught that pregnancy is her full responsibility because at the end of the day, its the girls life that gets destructed when she gets pregnant and not the boy.

The boy did not go into her fathers house and dragged her out, she is the one who played tricks with her parents and this is where she is now Yes, he was part of the game, but the girl should have been wiser, since she was wise when she played tricks and lies with her parents just to get out and see the boy

I dont support it when the society forces man to settle/marry woman they impregnated when they were young just because they gave them belle Instead girls should drill it through their thick skulls that they will suffer the consequences. Let the boy enjoy ooo, afterall he did not drag her out of that house, she followed that third leg, by force or by fire

18 years!!!!!! smdh. See kids who fail to listen, they end up like you Now you will be a teen mother. When you were fooling your parents just to make time to see this boy, you thought you were smart, eeeeeh?

Just tell your parents and continue with your pregnancy Hope you don't repeat it oo. Because your likes always repeat it.
Always remember a man/ boy is not your brother/ sibling, don't ever get too comfortable.
From now know that your priorities have to change, you are going to be a mother now and not a child anymore. Suspend any boy business now or after delivery, if you cant always use protection.

GSKing: @Mason, I hate anything that has to do with the kitchen... all my gfs has been good cooks and I don't plan on doing any cooking o... can't cook o

I didn't realise the plural on gf. . You are the man, luv. YOU ARE THE MAN Girlfriends?

Polyamorous? How do you deal with that b..tchiness at a go or is it a mutual agreement

Booty butt chic: no I don't really..... Her reason may be because of d clash we had on genny's thread...so maybe dats y she's takin out on me here,but ha don't realy give a Bleep....gat ma self esteem in ma right palm and forehead ....its simply E-Shiit...

See na, why your emotions are running all over the show huuuuh.

You have your self esteem together keep it together luv, don mind me. I am just an observer.

Idowuogbo: Ask her na

All I am saying is "YOU ARE BEAUTIFUL"

Booty butt chic: Here I coommee.....taking it down soon

All your nasty comments about Genny and .......

Girl, be nice to other girls.

[quote author=gcfr.com]lol, well the man is stingy no doubt, but their is actually nothing anybody in New Jersey can do bout it, cos the lady is not even his wife.
All na OneChance.[/quote]This could be a common law marriage. So she may strike her luck.

I would run for my life. Beyond scary.

OP, stop gossiping about me on Nairaland. Come lets talk na.

You enjoyed as well, why didn't you use protection. You will be my babydaddy, you like it not

[quote author=gcfr.com] they can't force him na, its his money. Their is no "legal" agreement.[/quote]Aaaaah aaaah, why cant he share at least 20% of his winnings. What about the woman who looked after him for all these years. Cooked for him, cleaned for him and even supported to start their business.

His selfishness will make him deal with the law na He may loose half of his winnings. Foolish man

bret hart: @gsking.. .thanks.... heart soothing
@masonkz and chinelo sa...,av got a gay friend who is feminine....u culd sight his feminism from a million yards .....the way he talks, sits, walks...his hobbie sef..,cooking, he put on makeup sef..,sometimes i get so irritated dat i'll reproach him thinking he just decided to be dat way, and den i tot he didn't want to change so i kept my distance......i felt like eventhough am also gay am not as feminine so y shuld he be....i frustrpated him so much that he hated me .....i guess my ignorance took advantage of me then and i so much regret my actions ....

You were bad ooo. I think they cant control that,they are born like that. Some you can pick it up from a very young age. They like feminine thinks and hang alot around girls, have an eye for aesthetic things hence you find them in Fashion designing, interior designing alot.

But its good you know you were wrong. Personally I luv them to bits, they make good friends. Good company. I tell you never a dull moment.

Dont do it again ooo. Please for my sake

$338 MILLION LOTTO WINNER AND LIVE-IN GIRLFRIEND OF 10 YEARS SPLIT, NOW SHE’S SUING FOR HALF

November 13, 2013 ‐ By Victoria Uwumarogie
Pedro

If there was ever a reason to get your own money together and right, it might be the numerous stories we keep hearing about long-term live-in girlfriends being left high and dry when their man decides to move on.

In today’s installment, we have the story of Passaic, New Jersey lottery winner Pedro Quezada, 44, whom we actually told you about a while ago because he was being stingy with past due child support after winning. He won $152 million after taxes when he struck gold playing the lottery. His long-term girlfriend, Ines Sanchez, was by his side through all of this. Actually she was by his side through much more than that, as the couple shared ownership of a grocery store in Passaic and they also shared a child and a home they lived in together for 10 years. Despite all that, Sanchez had to move out of their shared home recently and has a domestic abuse claim against him that’s pending. And and even though he has garnered massive wealth, Quezada isn’t trying to share it with his long-time love.

I know what some of you are thinking: Why should he? Well, according to her lawyers (via the New York Daily News), the ticket was bought with the couple’s shared earnings. That’s why they’re asking for a judge to freeze Quezada’s assets until a fair share of it can be allotted to her (the Daily Mail says she wants half), if it’s decided that she’s owed some of his winnings. Of course, Quezada’s lawyers call it absolute crap. The couple were never married so what he has is NOT hers. But George Cruz, who works in the grocery store that Quezada used to manage (and says the lotto winner hasn’t returned to it since), says that she gave him the money to sustain the place, so he owes her better than this.

“She helped him with $15,000 to put into that grocery store. She paid for the stuff.

With that kind of money you still got to take care of the wife and kid. G*ddamn, look out for her. Don’t be a hardball. With that kind of money you have to buy her a house.’

He promised a lot of s— to everybody around here and never came through.”

That includes paying the rent for a month for everyone who lives on the block Quezada used to reside on. He did no such thing, and not only that, he up and left his apartment without paying his own last month of rent, according to his former landlord, Kujtim Sulejmani:

“I would just want him to give the money to his common law wife and kids. The $800 doesn’t matter to me. I hope he gives it to his wife because she really deserves it.”

But let’s hope he still has it when all is said and done. According to Sanchez’s lawyers, Quezada has already spent a great deal of his winnings on the following: $57 million was sent to Quezada’s native home of the Dominican Republic, $5 million was “given away,” he used $300,000 to buy his own place (which she also stayed in before they broke up), and there’s $20 million that “can’t be located.”

The judge of the case decided not to throw out the Sanchez’s case, despite the fact that the couple wasn’t married and common law marriages aren’t recognized like that in New Jersey, but the court will not freeze Quezada’s assets in the meantime as they see if Sanchez is entitled to any of the lottery winnings. Do you think she should get some of it?

- See more at: http://madamenoire.com/322471/new-jersey-338-million-lotto-winner-dumps-girlfriend-10-years-leaves-without-dime/#sthash.SJ8MfpOU

kendraloops: To all those that offered matured advice (you know urselves), God bless u n keep all that you hold dear.

To all those advocating divorce, una try well well. U get broda wey I go marry? Abeg oo, na my Esan man house I go old till my b.reasts dey sweep floor.

To all those that insulted hubby n I, I must tell you we had a good laugh reading some comments here. You guys even helped bring us closer.

Much love guys. *takes a bow*

OOooooooohh man. I am happy for you Dont mind these worwor Nairalanders, they dont like a good thing going on.

You and your husband planned this abi, you are really thick as thieves

Seed of Onan: https://i.imgur.com/eW9eIRw.jpg

Twisted

masonkz: The worst part is when I see feminine gay guys struggling with themselves. These people have done EVERYTHING, and would do just about anything to be a normal MAN! But no, the effeminate nature is just too engrossed in their bone. They suffer through depression and curses from even friends and other people, and try everything they can to be a "man" on the street.

I see such guys and I just don't know what to think.



Why would a God wanna see all these happen to someone? Just for the fun of it?

I prefer the feminine ones though, because what you see is what you get. They exaggerate everything, but they are very good friends for woman hey. Good company I tell you. Good cooks, good critiques, good organiser but disorderly as well and can be very bi..chy, always have opinions, and they don't care what you think about them . I don't find them to be depressed, for me there is never a dull moment around them . When ever I felt down, I used to call my gay ex-colleague and sure my day would change.

But the masculine ones are boring for me.Give me a feminine one anyday.

kekakuz: YES YES
KILL THEM ALL
ALL THOSE SNEAKY LITTLE JEW TRIBE

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