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Christine01: Please how do I go about wearing dreadlocks?Luv I will not lie to you and say its an easy journey. Its a very long journey to have at least shoulder length dreadlocks. Dreadlocks are permanent so be sure when you lock them [b]What I can advice u to do is 1 ) Keep your Afro-hair, braid your hair, or twist it for at least a year ( which are all undo-able ). Make sure that your hair line is well taken care of. Only then when your natural hair is long, you can start locking it. It makes the journey shorter, though for them to lock may take a couple of visits to your hairstylist. ![]() 2 ) Be patient eeehn !!!!( it can take up to two years ) ![]() 3 ) The starting phase is no joke, your hair will look like the ejim blessing above ( no offence ) but its all worth it in the end ![]() 4 ) Since the starting phase is no joke, its better to do your hair with a specialist who will neatly do them in rows and treat your hair and make sure that they are always conditioned and clean, to avoid people assuming alot of things about you and your hair ( weed smoker etc ) 5 ) Do not do your hair at any Tom, Dick & Harry look for a reputable dreadlock specialist, who will understand your journey with you and advice you accordingly. 6 ) The styles are limitless for both short and long dreadlock. I am not sure where you are but in Nigeria, they are not yet good with locks and styling them as well ( no offence again) 7 ) I must say this again, locks need constant washing, conditioning and moisturising. Which I used to do on a weekly basis when they were still short and plait my locks after one week. 8 ) Remember to celebrate your journey by taking pics, its very encouraging ![]() [/b] Mine are now way beyond shoulder length, and the nice put about them is that whenever you get tired you can cut them and keep them and later sew them back to your hair ( so its your own dreadlock weave-on )Good luck ![]() See example of short dreadlocks styling.
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ryom: Hmmm. Lots of interesting comments here for and against. Since I'm sort of close to the lady as well, I was thinking of checking that she is really sure this was what she wanted. My friend is what you would describe as a perfect gentleman. He is not pushing for it though he feels if he doesn't get married now, then that's it, much to the chagrin of his family. He is just as concerned, doesn't want to be seen as taking any advantage of the lady. Like someone mentioned its difficult to say if the lady is just excited to be in a relationship or if she had really thought it through. When the guy is 65, the lady will just be 42. Ordinarily it's like she faces early widowhood, but only God holds life. Looking at them, they seem so in love. Well, life is never perfect.OP, look these two people are at very different developmental stages in life ( physically and emotional,psychological and socially ). The girl is just excited, the reality will become reality after the wedding. Either way one will be compelled to adjust to the level of the dominant one. Eventually someone will be left unhappy. It may be the woman or man. No amount of understanding can resolve that. I hope we don't see her here opening threads like " I like s...x but he doesnt, what do I do" But its her ow choice, viagra will always be there. I hope we dont see the men here opening thread like " She doesn't cook, she goes to parties and doesnt take care of anything. What do I do" ![]() Good luck to them, I am not God though. ![]() |
[quote author=Sisi_Kill]Lol! Baby, the man said he would rather Commit Suicide than marry the girl....SUICIDE oh!! It is that serious. [/quote] ![]() This is serious o. Simply tell the wedding planner if you had one.Unfortunately you still have to pay for all the services plus the services to cancel. Also use the invitation list to send them cancellation cards or e-mail or message's Also don't underestimate the power of snowballing, tell a few people in a few circles and it will snowball like that. People will phone for confirmation. If you need a "AM SINGLE AGAIN PARTY" don't hesitate to contact me ![]() That's wack. Sorry o. ![]() |
last one for dreadlock queenies ![]()
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If it was not Nairaland I would have posted my own dreadlock hairstyles that I have tried. ![]() This will suffice though ![]()
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oluwashaddow: sometimes I wish I was born a galIts never too late for an operation ![]() |
Dreadlock queens ![]()
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For dreadlock queens ![]()
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OP, I think you let this happen from the beginning. In the beginning you did not put your foot down. You teach people how to treat you. In your case you allowed the behaviour in the beginning and hence she does not see anything wrong with what she is doing. The way you two deal with conflict indicates more that meets the eye. It indicates : 1)Lack of communication, lack of friendship ( your are not friends enough ) 2)Lack of trust, empathy, sympathy 3)Lack of understanding 4)Desire of approval from your wife 5)Lack of emotional relationship 6)Narccistic behavior ( she thinks she is always right hence she shouts to the ends of the world when u faulter ) and a lot of underlying issue. Your problem requires a third party intervention. An objective third party who will facilitate in letting you both vent out your fears, frustrations, etc. Preferably I would suggest a neutral person like a professional not pastor, not family, someone like a marriage counsellor. This has nothing to do with how she handles things it all underlying issues. ![]() Good luck though ![]() |
Nothing heals like laughter, eeehn,It works for me. Laugh even whe u are in pain ![]() |
![]() God is very creative I tell u. ![]() |
My MAMA, everything I can get but not my mama ![]() |
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sexkillz: [color=#000030]The worst rumour about myself is on this thread. ![]() |
Doctor . You want him to doctor you everywhere ![]() Don't worry sugar, wishes do com true, eehn!! ![]() |
![]() You broke up na. Its another mans turn ![]() |
BarryX: Then we'll be having serious issues at home ooothere is e-shopping even for market ![]() |
chiboy1928: so u neva marry tot u are married gud to know u are still single and available*wink* Am willing to take you as second husband. |
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![]() My future husband better start practicing going to the market for me. I can't stand the chaos at the market. I can go to a less busy shopping mall or some orderly place. I hate busy disorderly places. |
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jansie: tank u all. i've been away since morning n just got see to ur replies. i'm grateful for d responses. God bless u all. My mind is made up now. i'l stay with christ embassy cos i love themI thought things through and I wanted to suggets Christ Embassy ![]() Happy worship ![]() |
masonkz: That I'm straight. ![]() |
In my village I am always pregnant because I always look better than the last visit. So I have been pregnant ever since Uni days I got tired of the rumour, and Later on I eventually affirmed the rumour as true. So I am always pregnant though I don't know when I am due Later on someone told my family that I secretly got married and live with a man. The insults I got home were imaginable. ![]() |
Nomski0: Did she say it started in SA?Both countries its common. It just Naija girls abort and SA girls decide to keep till full term. ![]() So both countries are on par with regards to unwanted pregnancy. Naija own is even worse because we masqurade as angels while we flush the baby. We even have baby factories ![]() So abeg, there is no angel between the two. |
jansie: sowie. pls get well soon n rest well too dearthank you o ![]() |
Mujah1deen: Catholicism is made of doctrines, if you don't follow them or don't believe in them it means you are not Catholic. |
jansie: for real? or u're jokin.For real. I have been indoors since Wednesday. Very productive 5 days. Thank God. Am seeing the doctor tomorrow, again. ![]() |
jansie: am sorry once again. how was service today?I didn't go. I am sick ![]() |
What did woman do to be the object of daily ridicule ![]() I don't get it ![]() |
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. Lol.see this lazy girl.pray you find one