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[quote author=mmi-mahbub]Situations like this are really painful. God will see you through. Nairalanders have been contributing advices to you. But please can you share your story (reason) for cancelling the wedding? It's nairaland not facebook. Feel free there is privacy.
Thousands will benefit from your experience here.
Hit 'Like' if you want him to.[/quote]

Trust Nairaland journalist to dig a story for you. They even went into Governor Chime's compound and they got the story.

Harbiodun775: anytime am with my boyfriend if he receive a call from his ex at the end of the conversion he will tell her he love her and later plead to me that his sorry, this is not his first time he has been doing it for long and i keep tolerating him because i love him so much but i don't think i can stand it anymore does he really love me please help

My sister, please, abeg in the name of Jezos, please, shine your eyes. Cant you see you are an assistant girlfriend??

Tell the truth, how did your relationship start Huuuuuh?? I think something is missing here. What was your initial agreement with the guy?
All I see is two people who agreed to be each others side pieces and now you love him and his is under the impression that the agreement still stand

Your God maybe trying to protect you from something,
I once heard of a girl who cried for a guy that she was dating for a long time, just like you. Later on the guy got sick and it was discovered that he is HIV+.
So, be thankful, while you eagerly waiting for a good man to come. You may never know

I hope the girl is fine o. Some people are lucky, they don't get infected.

As for you!!! You!! smdh, may you meet the devil in person.

Stop sleeping with her until you are sure of her status, what you are doing is not funny. When you sleep with her, you are weakening her immune system as her CD4 will decrease, and her viral load will increase if she is infected of cause.

Sagamite: Yes, when I was being educated, I had tutorials on how to deal with ignorants who would conveniently reject facts, logic and sensibility. Ignorants that would insist on sticking with their ignorance all because they are intimidated by the technicalities of expertise.

Instead of these ignorants making inquisitive enquires and learning to sharpen their mind, they choose to attack obvious sense and state knowledge and academic methodology is worthless and their Okrika market education is what is is best.

Yes, my education was high quality and equipped me in addressing illiterate ignorants.

See this airhead called Sagamite. Did I reject to learn?? All I said is you should stop insulting people because we have different experiences and different financial institution from different countries. I then said please state your point without insults

You are an ignorant airhead that thinks things work similar in different countries. I dont even have the energy to engage with you. You have shown some hooliganism traits. My mama told me not to engage with your kind.

Go sleep jaaare

Sagamite: Unfortunately for you, financing calculations is independent of "financial systems surrounding you", it is universally applicable. Sticking to such illiterate positions instead of learning will just cost you money.

Ignorance can be very expensive.

Yours Sincerely,

Chief Economist (Sagamu Local Government area)

Yabaleft wowo

See you are still rude and arrogant. If you know as you claim " Mr Chief Economist - SLGA ,educate us.

I wont stoop to your level. I am sure while you were studying your Kitchen Economics there was a module called Rude - RUDE300, you are so good in being rude more than anything.

dmcdad: And why allow someone who is yet to put ring in your finger to sleep with you...? The fact that men are partly to blame doesn't take away the ultimate truth that women have the final say and should be blamed more...

Nna, that is the truth. Woman have the final say. A man will always make silly suggestions and its up to a woman to use her sense and choose for her life.
I am tired of woman playing victims to man. All woman know that if they shag without protection the outcome could be a baby or STI, but no they choose to hand over their lives to their man and later regret it and blame man.

Its known men are weak and they will always be. Woman should stop playing victims here.

My elder sister is married to one ( atheist ). The guy is not blessed with regards to huge money, but he treats her like a queen and he has a good heart. He loves all of our family and is a sincere person.
I realized that religion does not make a good person. He is still a good person with his own reservations with regards to religion. They have been married for over 20yrs and been together for 31yrs. They met when they were teens 15yrs - 20yrs
So personally if I get a good one, I will go for him, as long as he will respect me and not try to change me.

funshybam: very good suggestion.
I'm also faced with a similar situation with my baby mama... the gurl too refused to communicate with her people....still on it though, but this was the same advise I got from my counsellor.... It made alot of sense

All the best

arcbabe: idiot som1 that is going through a cancellation period,u want him to contact you? You must be very foolish to want to reap where you did not sow.

You must also be a mo ron to think that I am serious

A joke can never be an insult, but can heal a broken heart. So park jare

OP, it was only to cheer you up

Abeg, all those Mr Knowitall, please stop insulting us if we differ in opinion to you. If you are some Chief Economist in your village, its good for you.

But all we said here is through experience and also different financial systems surrounding us in respective locations.

So please, respect everyones opinion and experience and tell us about your experience and stop insulting trying to prove you are financially astute

NappilyNigerian: Wow @chineloSA ! Loads of beautiful loc'd hairstyles! Is your hair loc'd too?!
Loved locs so much I did genie locs!

Yes my hair is locked and long. I can never go back to chemicals
It was one long journey, but I am not regretting

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Mujah1deen: Ooh so I'm right.
Submit to your husband .period
If he loves you , he's pleasing Allah , if he doesn't Allah will deal with him when the time comes, it doesn't concern you, just be submissive so that Allah doesn't get angry with you .

I cant let myself be the experiment of whether Allah is there or not. Hell noo

The value of the car depreciates very fast. I would rather invest my money on other stable investment and get the car on loan.

E.g. if you pay the car in cash and pay insurance, and then have a write-off accident, the insurance company will only pay for the value of the car ( mostly determined by the mileage and the year model and accident history of the car ) at the time of the accident ( but also depending on the option you took ). In essence you will loose even though you do not owe no kobo.

If you take the car using the loan, ( without insurance ) if you have a write-off accident you will loose big time becuase you will loose the car and still have to pay the loan

If you take the car using the loan ( with insurance ) and you have a write-off accident, the insurance will pay for the value of the car at the time of the accident ( you may be required to pay excess ) depending on the option you took, you may loose you may gain a bit.

Very dicey. But personally I would invest my money in something stable and pay a car loan.

Car value depreciates faster

Bride hairdo

This is best when you attach some pearly beads on your Wedding day

Short hair can be nice too.

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Woman rocking dreadlocks

Morree

Also caters for those who want to do business in the drug industry in Thailand

Twists are also good for kids and those starting their locks but they require attention as they unlock quickly.

Cuti pie

Caters for sensitive skin like kids and Albino's

here we go

GennyOma: d best way 2 kip dread is letting it form naturally or wat we cal d neglect method. jxt throw ur comb away. after a week(s) u'll begin 2 notice dreads forming gradually. No nid visiting a salon for special care jxt leave it organic

Yes thats the best way for psychiatric patients and weed smokers

Oooooh I forgot to mention another benefit of dreadlocks is :
1) I dont like headwraps, I get headaches the next morning. So I sleep with my hair just like that. No worries of entanglements etc
2) Your man can also touch, pull or smell 'em. eeeehn!!!! In bed, under bed, on top of bed, next to bed, in the shower, next to shower, under a tree No penalty, no worries.

ipasco: Its already canceled, just asking hw to go about breaking The news

Since its cancelled, then its easy.Send your parents na, to the girls parents. Give them a letter for her parents and ask them to ask their daughter to explain what happened. Don't go there yourself, initially. Let her explain first

Have a " BIG CHEER ME UP" party afterwards

All the best

You can also curl your locks etc.

Dreadlock madness