Iceking1:
Good evening nairalanders i really don't know how to begin this but i will try as much as possible to make you guy's understand, a few minutes ago i had unprotected sex (3 rounds) and i cum in her also on all three rounds, with a girl that came to visit me, this is actually the first time am seeing her, but i have known her for more than a week now because i met her through Facebook and we have been chatting on Facebook for up to a week, i have been so restless and scared ever since she left my house am so scared of hiv, i don't care about any other std i also don't care about people saying things like other std are more deadly than hiv in fact let them come, am so scared about contracting hiv from her i haven't been able to rest my head since then became i have been so restless, am just coming back from a government hospital now to get the pep drug but the doctor i met there is really something else and he is the only doctor available there today because today is public holiday, he kept asking me if i noticed any white fluid from her vagina, or if there is any foul odour, and i said no to both questions, and he said that means i have nothing to worry about that i didn't contracted anything, i was shocked what kind of quack doctor is that, i explained to him about the pep drug and how it is used to prevent an exposure to hiv and he said i should go and do an hiv text before he can write any prescription for me, i was so shocked how this man managed to be a doctor in a government general Hospital, right now am so confused and don't know what to do, i have been trembling since morning and right now i can't eat anything, am really so confused please is there any where i can get this drug's? Can i get it in a private hospital and please if i could get an estimate of how much it will cost me i will highly and gladly appreciate it, tank's

YOU DID NOT INQUIRE FROM NAIRALAND WHEN YOU WERE STRATEGIZING TO FCK HER. NOW YOU WANT US TO BEAR THE CONSEQUENCE THAT HAS BEFALLEN YOU?

BROS GO AND FUC HER AGAIN AND EVERYTHING WILL BE WELL. IDIOTIC THREAD

fogechi:


There is no doubt some marriages are facing difficulties but like i earlier as you make your marriage so shall it be.

There shouldnt be time table for sex. Sex should be as the spirit leads

I hope the spirit leads the both parties all the time. Not when spirit dey lead only one party and the other no want.

ecenter:
Having sex in marriage has no speculated time table but the following simple rules could help.

1. Have sex when you desire it (both party)

2. Have sex when your partner wants it but you don't feel like to having it. The bible said the man or the woman has not power over his body, meaning that when your partner needs it,give it to him or her. The only time you will say no is when you want to fast or when you are seriously sick. 1 Cor.7:3-5

3. Have sex when you want to embark on a journey that you will stay for sometime.

4. Have sex to increase your love for your partner. Sex increases the bond of love and delivers us from temptation.

In conclusion, there is no number of time created for us to have sex. It depends on the couple involved. If both of them decided to have sex everyday and they have the stamina to do so, there is nothing wrong with that. But those who feel that having sex at a limited time without causing quarrel, let it be. This issue is person by person's choice. What you love, someone may hate. Just stick to what works for you.

Spot on. The highlighted is much more applicable to the men. Many women don't realize this.

Mizwisdom:



Good question, it's also a difficult one to answer because of course I won't be comfortable with it, but to be candid about 90% of married couples have committed abortion or will commit it during the course of their marriage because of frequent sex.

I don't think you answered my question. Also if you are concerned about unwanted pregnancy, have you heard of "family planning" before?

Ishilove:

There you have it. People don't factor God in when choosing a life partner, that's why we have so many failed marriages

...and why did those pastors that factored God in when they chose their marriage partners (including those that had visions and those pastors prophesied their life partners) have failed marriages?

Possibly i have a different thought about "physical" and that does not necessarily mean physique or beauty. Physical to me could mean how one relates with other humans, morality, ideology and ideals in life, willingness to sacrifice, humility, flexibility, life future goals and achievement, etc. So its not all spirituality. Many unbelievers as well have "perfect" homes i can assure you.

Mizwisdom:
Sex should be for procreation. If you doubt me ask yourself why it leads to conception

I believe you are fibbing.
So you will be very comfortable having sex once in 2 or three years depending on how the spacing of your children will be? And after child birth no more sex?

If you are still operating under the law, then yes

All i can say is "FOOLISHNESS!" especially for the silly followers.

JasonScoolari:
I guess none of the "Top 4" pastor's contributed a penny.

Please stop. You are economical with the truth.

Baby Beniah's father said he received N20k from Salvation ministries and N10k from another catholic church.

bigiyaro:
since you are working on assumptions, I will also assume the Zambian air Force one was use for transportation, or the donor sponsored the trip, four brand new trucks will cost $742k. so i find nothing wrong in spending $140k on 4 clean and easier and cheaper to maintain trucks than spending $742k on 4 latest trucks that are costlier and harder to maintain in the long run. do please next time, you should look at things objectively before getting carried away by sentiment, Mr mentality!

I give up on u.

bigiyaro:
Guy! let me break it down for you, as at 2016 a fire truck with a ladder and platform cost 1.2 million dollars, a normal fire truck without a pumper cost about 500k-600k, this is the link
h.ttps://ww.w.quora.com/How-m.uch-does-a-firefighter-tr.uck-cost ( remove the dots) Now you are talking about four brand new state of the art latest fire trucks, pls find out the cost the four trucks, cost of maintenance for one year, in addition, state the expenses of the 25 people, including the hotel they lodged, their flight tickets (wether first class or economy) then we will compare and see the one with lower and stuppiidd mentality. don't forget to include the links.

I am not here to insult but to put records right.
A simple google search for fire trucks gave me the below results:
https://www.firetruckmall.com/AvailableTruck/10875/2018-Sinotruk-6x4-60'-Snorkel
https://www.firetruckmall.com/AvailableTruck/11189/2019-Helie-Freightliner-Elliptical-Tandem-Axle-Tanker?price=0-1200000&year=1950-2020&chassis=Both&brand=All&pumpsize=All&tanksize=All&category=All&warranty=All&region=All&mileage=Any%20Mileage
A 2018 model fire truck costs $150,640. Or better still a 2019 model costs $185,500. Instead of going to receive a 1985 – 1996 model of fire truck with 25 persons, don’t you think a used 2019 model would have been better? My quotes are from a site that sell used fire truck not some discussions from people about how much a fire truck costs. So your figure of $1.2m or $500k-$600k may not be realistic.
Let’s assume a business class ticket for all 25 persons using KLM (which would be the bare minimum for such “African personalities”). Each costs $6,583 on a one way trip. So to and fro for all 25 persons would be $329,150. An average hotel in LA would cost for such dignitaries, if they so choose to keep a low profile (including the “princess”) would be $400 per room per night per person. So for 25 persons for 14 days would be $140,000.

I will stop here. Clearly the cost of flight and hotel accommodation alone, not the food, shopping, transportation within the city etc is about three 2019 model fire truck. And bear in mind that this is a very conservative estimate.

So what was your argument again?

Princedapace:



That is not the issue.. But have u thought about this..


Why were we not the ones to colonize whites? Why were they the ones to colonize us?

That only shows one thing: whites are superior. Na who strong pass u dey rule over u.

As for leadership, blacks can't rule them selves. Since whites left, we have been fighting and killing our selves with no end.

Look at how nigerians kill one another. Is that not crazy? Whatever our differences are, why can't we solve them? Look at some parts of Europe where they had multiple differences, they were sensible enough to separate and allow countries to form nations and govern them selves. Today, they are doing fine. But blacks have been stupid, forcing unity and fighting since after independence. Blacks get sense like this?

Asians who were also colonized have moved on and are far ahead of us. We are still here discussing 20km of road as an achievement. Blacks get problem. To me, it is a cursed race.

Try to look into the history of Africa before the colonial masters came. You will see where the problem started.

toprealman:
I blame the US embassy for allowing this shit. People traveling for good reasons.... medical, education, conferences etc, are denied visa. Yet crap like this gets at least 2yrs multiple visa

The US is not to be blamed. They are capitalists. They feed on the stupidity of mostly African Countries.

bigiyaro:
OP, even the 1985 truck is in far more better shape than your country's best fire truck.

Your mentality is what keeps us in this predicament. Look at the larger picture. think outside the box a bit. the cost of have 25 people spend 2 weeks in US can but 4 brand new latest model truck with better equipment and fire fighting abilities.

rahazaqa:
Where does the picture explain the news? Where in the picture is it written that the officials actually came to take 4 fire trucks? What if the OP is misinterpreting the story as we always see on this forum and on social media(Lift Pictures and build story around it to trend). What if it is a partnership/training launch for Firefighters from Zambia? What if the officials came to check their equipments and study their operation so that they can do same in the country?

I do not blame you, you may be one of the new kids on the Internet or maybe you are just a low IQ person.

Don't depend on picture. If you can still read, please click on the links to read the full story yourself. Except you want to say the source is fake too.

rahazaqa:
Fake news everywhere, i choose what i believe these days, i don't let anyone do that for me. Believe anything you read or see at your own peril. I am going to find the truth about this for myself. Although i did not counter the OP statement on Africa being bewitched, we are truly cursed.

This is not fake news. I'm not into peddling suck. it was also on a us news channel. CBS new i believe. I will confirm if you want.

litdutchboy:

Not all of us-only the leaders and their brainless low I.Q supporters.

In your statement lies my worry. The leaders of today were the common masses of yesterday. So does it mean this trait is in all of us just waiting to show itself when we get into that place of authority?

I believe any right thinking IPOBian should at this point be having a rethink of his membership, except he is the deeply brainwashed type.

Source:

https://www.lusakatimes.com/2019/01/16/stop-first-lady-from-travelling-to-us-to-receive-four-fire-trucks-laura-miti-ask-us-envoy-to-zambia/
https://www.lusakatimes.com/2019/01/24/esther-negotiates-zambia-fire-rescue-partnership-with-americas-firefighters/

It may come as a personal feeling, but i can't help but think Africa is cursed with a leadership problem.

The news has it that 24 persons plus the wife of the president First Lady Esther Lungu, totalling 25 in number went to Los Angeles to receive the donation of 4 fire trucks. The entourage were also meant to spend 2 weeks in the US. They were mostly cooks, waitresses, bedroom assistant, cleaner, staff officers, photographers, reporters and of course body guards or trained military personnel.

Information about the truck indicated that they were not brand new trucks. These were trucks that have served the US for decades. Their commissioning years were in 1985, 1995, and 1996.

So i ask, would it not have been better using the expenses of have 25 persons in US for a period of 2 weeks to buy brand new fire trucks?

Who has bewitched Africa?

Of course there was the up roar, but just give it a matter of days, or maybe hours the whole issue would be forgotten. There will be no massive protests or rejection of this move by the government of the day. This is the same with Nigeria.

https://www.lusakatimes.com/2019/01/16/stop-first-lady-from-travelling-to-us-to-receive-four-fire-trucks-laura-miti-ask-us-envoy-to-zambia/

ThinkSmarter:
Though i was born into a Christian family n region [SE NIG], Islam remains the best religion that can tame man's excesses in practise.
for most of our churches/society hv been overwhelmed by civilization that gave room to prostitution, adultery/fornication, alcohol n drug abuse.
note: I am using Saudi Arabia as a case study.
I am not talking of Nigerian Moslems.

Contradiction and hypocrisy is what i see from your write-up. Are Nigerian muslims not muslims? Don't they use the same Quran? There are churches and society that do not practice this evil as well, even though civilized. So its not about "muslim" or "Christian" but about societal or individual values.

Racoon:

Amaechi will not talk because he knows that the allegations are true.Meanwhile why is the presidency is yet to react to this damaging allegation?

The government is so much filled with incredibly stupid and senseless people.The way they kept exposing their foolishness is not surprising.

I hope you listened to the tape? His assertions are that the president does not take personal whatever accusations or insults he sees in the media. He remains open minded about issues. I believe the assertion of Omokri is taken out of context.

xxxtedyxxx:
In the dating world, the emotional spikes you get when you achieve a feat, no matter how big or small, matters a lot. Do you remember how you felt the last time you approached a beautiful girl, and got her number? Or the last time you approached and had fun with a girl completely out of your league? You felt euphoric and accomplished.  The converse is also true. You feel bad after every rejection. Changing the quality of women you date has a direct positive effect on your self esteem, your self image, and your reputation - how women see you.

The cart was placed before the horse. You don't change the external for the internal to change. You change the internal first and the change would be seen in the external

OP, change who you are first viz; your mind set, self worth, self esteem, how you see women, self image, reputation and direction in life, then naturally you will will be drawn to a different type of people (women in this case).

Chigold101:
Really...?

Whatever happens... I am supporting Atiku because he promised RESTRUCTURING

The highlighted word is why we fall prey to these politicians. The one in power also promised $1 = N1

sevo:


See you dey form saint when nah you first throw the insult punch.. Nah now you ask a sensible question? Let me school you a little bit...

1. On how they are meant to use...personally I prefer using the phostoxin tablets to the liquid ones I.e the snipers, ddforce, executors. This is because the tablets will be wrapped inside a piece of cloth or nylon and placed inside the sack. Anytime you want to consume or sell the grain, you can remove the tablets and sell or eat your grain.

2. There is a specific measurements required when applying the liquid insecticides. And don't be fooled in thinking these local farmers don't know how to measure it...because they do. You could use the cap in measuring it and then add the right amount of water..depending on the calibration of your machine. 15ltrs, 16litrs or 20ltrs.

3. Once you've applied the liquid insecticides, you dry the grains and now bag it for at least 3 to 6 months before bringing it for sale or consumption. This is why I prefer the tablets over the liquid insecticides.

So i believe the government is stupid or uneducated to have arrested them? https://punchng.com/lagos-traders-arrested-for-selling-beans-preserved-with-sniper/amp/

My final statement on this is that, there are other better means to preserve food without using dangerous chemicals that could cause kidney and other organs failure (the tablet could suffice). No one supervises the quantity they apply so there is no telling if they applied just a very little amount.

sevo:


If you don't know something, the best thing is to ask.. Have you heard of DD force, Executor, Crush, Phostoxin tablets...all these are insecticides used for storing grain..same with sniper...
You think by insulting someone on something you clearly know nothing about is right,then I feel sorry for you. Your papa for just leave you inside that #50 condom wey him buy when him wan straff your mama...

I will not insult your parents as they are not the ones that typed for you.

DD force, Executor, Crush, Phostoxin tablets are used based on what regulations? How are they meant to be used? Are they supposed to be used directly on food to be consumed by the public? Do you have any idea the effect of these chemicals on the consumers?

These and many more questions should be asked (and answered) before vomiting your illiteracy here. These are the reason why most of our foods find it difficult to be exported to countries with proper regulations on foods.

sevo:
Thats for storage. To prevent weevils from eating it.

And spraying sniper on the beans is the best way to store them against pests? Your stupidity marvels me.

stephanie11:
@POLITICSNGR

Nigeria's minister of information, Alhaji Lai Mohammed has revealed how much the Nigerian government spends monthly to feed the detained leader of the Islamic Movement of Nigeria (IMN), Shiekh Ibrahim Elzakzaky.

During a press conference recently, Mohammed said that the FG spends N3.5million every month in feeding the El-Zakzaky.

He added that the Shiites were a "different kettle of fish" when it comes to dealing with them.

Watch the video of reactions HERE

https://politicsngr.com/spend-n3-5-million-monthly-feed-el-zakzaky-lai-mohammed-watch/

Oh God!!! I want to be locked in the same cell as El-Zakzaky!!!

Imuno:
Hello nairalanders, I want to discuss something with u guys.

There is this girl that we've been close for a very long time. Though she is my bestie, but I noticed the way she liked me so much. Though she had boyfriends but presently she is single.

But there is nothing about her that I don't know, her love life, her family, everything about her, she made it open to me. Even her family thinks am her boyfriend.

But here is the problem, I am having feelings for her, like we should be in a relationship. As a guy, I can say if a girl is in love with u. I think she's in love. But I haven't asked her out. Am thinking maybe I should? And again she schools at Ibadan and I school at Ogun state.

It's when we come back home to Lagos we see very well. Sometimes she comes to my school and vice versa. Should I tell her my mind, maybe she has fallen for me too, or I should keep it to myself.

Am confused. Help a brother

Are we talking about the same girl here as well?

https://www.nairaland.com/4783793/im-really-confused-dont-know

ihedinobi2:

That is understandable. Not very much of what I currently know and teach is common knowledge in churches today.

this Race.

May the Peace of our Lord Jesus Christ keep you.

Hello Chief,

Your posts are usually very long to read. I tried to read some. So i will just ask you to answer me in a simplistic manner (a few words in a sentence at most, bible verses could be dropped).

In your opinion, do you say that it's not in the place/age of today Christians to be used by God to perform miracles?
Also, are you categorically saying aside reading the bible, God does not speak to us through any other means?

Vested:


Good one...
People think Central Banks are owned by their Governments. They don't know that Central banks are very privileged private entities with great powers to drive economies the way they deem fit or profitable for their interests.
The FG just sold its assets in the Printing company to raise funds. I'm concerned that what it could raise was just a mere 17b naira from this sale.

Best comments so far. All that is left in this country is gradually being sold off or loaned out. Annoying thing is that the populace don't know (beclouded by 2019).

Chubhie:
Freeze underestimated the true nature of power wielded by these gods of men. These demi gods have sons and daughters strategically positioned in every strata of society who are ever loyal and willing to return a favor to Big daddy.

Freeze is currently likened as one who goes on the streets screaming kill me. There's always someone willing to oblige him.

I once told him never to make himself the poster child of this campaign cos the cabal would readily crush him if they so wish. I think they are bidding their time with him.

Are you in any way in agreement with what he is doing? Are you saying he is saying the truth?

If yes, why the warning not to speak the truth loud. Remember, it only takes good men to be silent for evil to prevail.