Crime › Re: Favour Daley-Oladele Murder: Adeeko Owolabi, Pastor Segun Philip Arrested by chival(f): 11:17am On Dec 30, 2019 |
chiommy123: Man inhumanity to man. Imagine the way he just killed someone that loved him and probably took care of him. People are evil. Ladies should be more careful this new year What really gets me is that a mother actually connived with her son to eat another woman's child. Leaves you wondering how she raised that son in the first place. |
Family › Re: Should I Leave My Husband Or Not? by chival(f): 11:04am On Dec 30, 2019 |
cococandy: Also why we need to focus on raising sons who care for more than themselves, their ego and their satisfaction.
It takes empathy and kindness to be able to care for a sick person even when it costs you so much.
We are raising boys to have an astounding lack of empathy. That’s why they can’t understand why it’s not okay to do certain things to people when you expect differently from them. Like abandoning a sick spouse. You are so right. I have noticed there's an increasing number of men who are cold and mean, and it all stems from their upbringing. The onus falls on us to trim down the number of apathetic men by raising our boys to be compassionate and kind hearted. |
Family › Re: Should I Leave My Husband Or Not? by chival(f): 10:59am On Dec 30, 2019 |
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Family › Re: Should I Leave My Husband Or Not? by chival(f): 10:57am On Dec 30, 2019 |
onegig: Thank goodness you put "crazy" because it is indeed crazy. I honestly believe women are just being conditioned to accept pain as the norm.
I got a colleague that goes through mind numbing menstrual cycles that she can't just function when on. There are hundreds of millions of ladies suffering same and we have not found a way around finding a solution to such things as advanced as our medicine and technology as reached. I hope I am not derailing the thread. You are right. Let's not derail the thread. However, be an example and try to show some love to the women in your life and vicinity. It goes a long way. Cheers. |
Business › Re: Bye Bye To The Naira As Nigeria Set For New Currency In 2020 by chival(f): 2:41am On Dec 30, 2019 |
That doesn't mean the naira will be rendered obsolete. The Eco is West Africa's version of the euro and will be used in practically the same way. |
Family › Re: Should I Leave My Husband Or Not? by chival(f): 2:35am On Dec 30, 2019 |
onegig: More reason I really don't get women in Nigeria and their overjoy to just get pregnant.
If I were to be a woman . God knows I would fuxkkking stay away from.pregnancy.
You loose your body, you are burdened for 9months and even after that you either get depressed and suicidal from post partum depression or this above. Add to the risks of childbirth and the stress of sleepless night tending to babies.
I can't really wrap my head why women are so joyous to go through all these multiple times. Like are you guys masochists and love pain and trouble so much?  A mother's love for her child trumps any and every negative effect. I went through hell to have my first daughter and it was well worth it. I'd probably do it all over again if I had to. That's the beautifully crazy thing about a mother's love. |
Family › Re: Should I Leave My Husband Or Not? by chival(f): 2:26am On Dec 30, 2019 |
Cutehector: But why did you keep such medical information from him before you both got married? That's not fair in my opinion. I believe the condition she named is post partum depression, and if it is, there is absolutely no way she would have known about it prior to marriage since it is triggered by child birth. I went through it as well, and it was a terrible time for me. A woman going through this needs tons of love, not neglect. The man needs to be enlightened. Modification I just read about the condition and it is different from postpartum depression, but it is also brought on by child birth and passes with time. I think hospitals should start educating men on complications - physical and emotional, that may arise after a woman has a baby. That way, they are better prepared and can provide a good support system for their spouses |
Celebrities › Re: Chizzy Alichi Mbah White Wedding Pictures by chival(f): 1:54am On Dec 30, 2019 |
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Celebrities › Re: Chizzy Alichi Mbah White Wedding Pictures by chival(f): 5:48pm On Dec 29, 2019 |
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Romance › Re: Breakup: My Girlfriend's Christmas Gift To Me by chival(f): 5:35pm On Dec 29, 2019 |
pocohantas: Na wetin dey make man talk too much. Since the testosterone is not useful for his prick and stroke game- it will kuku come to his mouth. Nairaland is mad fun, I swear!  |
Romance › Re: Breakup: My Girlfriend's Christmas Gift To Me by chival(f): 5:33pm On Dec 29, 2019 |
alezzy13: Shuo! Egbon Tayo kilode? Na only you Waka come? If I'm not mistaken your former babe jilted you early this year. . .
Now you come find another one a few months later and she sef don give you red card?
As we move into the new year, I think careful self introspection might be inorder, IMO. He's been dumped before?  |
Romance › Re: Breakup: My Girlfriend's Christmas Gift To Me by chival(f): 5:29pm On Dec 29, 2019 |
MycroftHolmes: O.P, make more money.
I repeat, make more money. The sex drive is just an excuse, she never really loved you. She actually stated boldly that she doesn't love him, and never did. I like her for her sincerity. The OP should move on. There's someone for everyone. |
Romance › Re: Lady Whose Big Ass Caused Commotion At Airport Has Been Identified (photos) by chival(f): 11:26am On Dec 29, 2019 |
She is lying. The disproportion between the buttocks and thighs shows clearly that the buttocks have been surgically enhanced. But the joke is on her because she looks malformed. |
Politics › Re: Buhari Blows Hot, Warns US That Nigeria Is A Sovereign State. by chival(f): 11:16pm On Dec 28, 2019 |
dukeprince50: I really think mad men should stop opening threads I am apolitical but I did find the post funny. |
Crime › Re: Policeman Shooting At A Cow Shot Man Dead On Christmas Day (Disturbing Photos) by chival(f): 6:37am On Dec 27, 2019 |
wittyt98: Who Shoots an unarmed Cow trying to escape...... Naija police
who labels a well dressed youth cyber criminal... Naija police
who stops a moving vehicle like armed robbers do..... Naija police
who sees having tattoos, dreadlocks, or fancy hairstyle as a mode of dressing for cultists or gangBangers..... naija police
who knows nothing about the fundamental human rights of people they claim to be protecting...... Naija police
who makes Accidental discharge seem cool and lawful...... naija police
who threatens people with kidnap and death when they refuse to be bullied ..... naija police
which force is full of extreme poverty,backwardness and High level of illiteracy.... Naija police
Everything is wrong with that force from the very top to the bottom Sombre as this thread is, I just had to laugh at 'unarmed cow'. Nairaland! May God grant the bereaved succour. |
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Politics › Re: Laugh Out Your Head by chival(f): 1:04am On Dec 27, 2019 |
Good, witty humour. Keep it up. Not all of them are funny though. |
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Celebrities › Re: Dénola Grey And His Mother's Christmas Pictures by chival(f): 11:29pm On Dec 25, 2019 |
His mom is obviously a very stylish woman. She looks good. |
Politics › Re: Ahmad Abdulrahman Rescues Peace Goewam After Being Maltreated By Madam by chival(f): 11:16pm On Dec 25, 2019 |
I've been waiting for this news. I hope this will deter other women who abuse their domestic staff. I am not optimistic though. |
Nairaland General › Re: Man Recounts His 19years Ago Christmas Memories With His Mom! (pics) by chival(f): 1:58pm On Dec 25, 2019 |
tellwisdom: Unnecessary story...If everybody wey loose their parents de write stories like this, there won’t be space for stories like urs. Just cry and move on. #HarshReality Yes, many have lost people. I lost my dad in 2000 as well, but he had been ill for a while. There is something really heartbreaking in the original post. The woman in question died suddenly and during Christmas no less, all because of a stranger's careless prank. Even more hearybreaking is the fact that she left behind a boy of nine to deal with the harsh realities of the world without a mother's love. |
Celebrities › Re: Mercy Johnson And Her Family In Christmas Matching Outfits (photo) by chival(f): 1:39pm On Dec 25, 2019 |
Slawormir: Damnnnnn niggarrr Beautiful
Apart from the protrusion
This babe don dey turn into amoeba (shapeless)
Damnnnnn niggarrr You are a real niggarrr Especially when you marry them
We are the best any day anytime twice during paying of bride price and marriage
But ehnnn Apart from marriage period
Dating Edo guys is stress full to ladies. Especially we the binis and esan. They can fustrate girls. The young bini boys and ishan(esan) guys are too proud She's pregnant. |
Family › Re: What Are Your Last Minute Christmas Shopping Items? by chival(f): 11:14pm On Dec 24, 2019 |
jakandeola: we bought all since last week.we only will buy Christmas [b]hand pack [/b]and wine to share to family and friend.merry Christmas I think you mean hamper. |
Celebrities › Re: Ola Ray: Thriller's Girl Then And Now (pics) by chival(f): 9:24pm On Dec 23, 2019 |
She looks good for her age. |
Crime › Re: Wicked Nigerian Lady Who Assaulted Little Maid Arrested by chival(f): 12:54pm On Dec 22, 2019 |
thatigboman: that picture has been shown to be fake. A similar incident last year. The wicked woman is still on the loose Oh dear! Delayed gratification I guess. She will be caught. |
Properties › Re: Clean 2units Of Mini Flat Bungalow @ Lekki Phase 1 With Pics by chival(f): 11:22am On Dec 22, 2019 |
The owner of the property needs to do something about the exterior. It's an eyesore. |
Crime › Re: Wicked Nigerian Lady Who Assaulted Little Maid Arrested by chival(f): 11:13am On Dec 22, 2019 |
kingjrofficial: When I said women are the wicked set of humans.........feminist came after me  I am a woman but women can be wicked, and when they are, they go all out. |
Crime › Re: Wicked Nigerian Lady Who Assaulted Little Maid Arrested by chival(f): 11:12am On Dec 22, 2019 |
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Crime › Re: Wicked Nigerian Lady Who Assaulted Little Maid Arrested by chival(f): 11:11am On Dec 22, 2019 |
This has just made my Sunday. I hope this trends, so others like her can see what will happen to them when they are eventually caught. You are too lazy to keep your home and too silly to teach your children to do basic chores, so you get a small 'slave' and beat her half to death. Some of these madam- type ladies act as if they are competing for MOST WICKED WITCH OF THE DECADE award. |
Properties › Re: Our Tenant Refuses To Vacate Our Apartment After About 10 Months Quit Notice! by chival(f): 10:44am On Dec 22, 2019 |
TheSociopath: Although I don't like your comment, I'm sorry for abusing you That's gracious of you. I wish you a happy Sunday and a lovely yuletide. |
Crime › Re: Nigeria Lady Beating Her Underage Househelp Goes Viral by chival(f): 8:52pm On Dec 21, 2019 |
That woman will get what's coming to her. Let us all be vigilant and do what we can to save these abused children. If a neighbour or someone you know abuses a child, an anonymous call to the right NGOs and authorities might save that child's life. I frankly can't understand why and how some women get this mean. It's bad enough these house helps are saddled with endless chores, but to physically assault them on top of it is just horrible.
Again, that wicked Jezebel in the video and her like will get what's coming to them. |
TV/Movies › Re: Hello Scriptwriters by chival(f): 8:33pm On Dec 21, 2019 |
AkeNathan: I feel bad
2016-2017 I hade a highly praised script on crime genre.
I was in school then and had a very poor CGPA at the end of that session, I abandoned the script and further lost it - it was written on paper.
Very confident i would have written the last plot by now. I feel sad i threw away something that could have earned me a decent money.
What's the average price you sold a script?
Someday, i'm still confident i'll pick up the pen again. If it's in you, then there'll be no stopping you. I have lost a handful of scripts as well so I understand how you feel. Charges vary and to a large extent depend on how well you are known/how good you are, and the producer you are working with. There are no hard and fast rules. |