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thorpido:
The man get case except he can wash himself clean.

The fact that hotel staff were able to verify that the deceased was alive and in good health after the man left, puts him in the clear somewhat. Barring other extenuating circumstances, he probably won't be implicated. He needs to thank that individual who had the common sense to verify the lady's state of health upon his departure. Saved by the whiskers.

princemillla:
Good noon guys pls I need the right input. Pls kindly read carefully and let me know how to best attack the issue.

NB : ignore any form of typos as am tensed while writing this.


I have a Lil sis who got engaged Last year. ThO she was pregnant befor the engagement.

Things were rosy after the engagement but along the line the young guy died last year December (2019).
Befor the guy died the wife delivered a boy.
Just immediately after the guy was pronounced dead, the guys mother collected both the landed property and car key from my sis.

Now she wanted my sis to come drop off a boy of 5months plus every property in their apartment to her (the deceased mothers) place. She also want to pick everything in my sis shop.



How do one tackle this issue house pls.

I know Yorubas refer to traditional marriage rites as engagement. Is that what you are talking about here? If so, then there might be hope for your case. If however, by engagement you mean a proposal and a ring, then the late man's family may get away with stripping your sister of his belongings since they were not married in any real sense of that word.

I find this interesting because I am close to a couple who seem very into each other. The husband though is keeping several secrets from his wife. He lied to her outright about so many important things. The wife goes around blabbing on social media about how her husband is the most honest person in the world, and how he'd never lie to her. I am not one to throw a wrench in the works so I'm watching to see how things unfold.

My take on secrets and deception in marriage is this: the truth will come out some day. Nothing stays hidden forever. Tell the truth always and live with a free conscience. If you tell an intending spouse all your secrets before you tie the knot he/she will not leave if he/she truly loves you, and if they do leave, maybe it's for the best.

Drince:
Hello, good evening, i have an issue i want to trash out.
I'm married nd i gave birth to my 1st child this january. B4 my mum came for omugwo, mv hubby has been the one doing all house chores including washing my clothes and d baby's.
It took 10days b4 my mum was permitted to come cos she's a civil servant. Even wen my mum 4s around, he still continues to do some house chores. This morning my hubby asked me to bring my dirty clothes, since my mum washeq my baby's own after bathing her. My mum overheard him teling him me to bring my clothes, she brought hers and asked me to help her out too. I gave them all to my hubby nt knwing that my mum's undies were included. When my hubby noticed the pant he got provoked and asked me why i added my mums clothes without telling him.
I apologized and told him i was unaware my mum added her undies.
He got angry and threatened never to help out with any chores in the house.

And you had the guts to bring this to the public? You have no respect whatsoever for your husband, neither does your mum. You should thank your stars your husband isn't taking more drastic measures. Apologise to that man profusely. He should not be washing your mum's clothes much less her undies.

Antoeni:
Trust me this na scam so they can actually Embezzle the 650 million they had Already Requested.

Still, Nigeria no dey take last . we must follow carry Coronavirus and dey news.

Las las we go win am and Life Continue .

You are right on the mark.

Mrshape:
I will have to make more research on that Mr mark Anthony.

but what of standard living do you know about that before?

Yeah, I did. Found out as an adult though.

Mrshape:
I saw that change in children song book. I agreed with them because Mark Anthony is a musician and a bike rider
But base on your criticism I see make more background search on it.

Like YouTube comments on the macaroni song and some advanced search.
Thank you.

But you can pass your information without insults

What can you say about the Sandalili ?

That rhyme far predates that Mark Anthony so it cannot be about him. I'm wondering if it's a reference to the Roman general of same name, but that doesn't make sense as well because he lived centuries before bicycles were invented.

Mrshape:
Many songs we sang with the wrong lyrics in younger classes a few of them Are:

Mr macaroni riding on a bicycle if you want to follow me macaroni
The correct lyrics :

Mr Mark Anthony riding on a bicycle if want follow me Mr Mark Anthony.

I am teacher in my country everybody know me well if look at up and down you know that is true
Sadalelelele sandals sandalelele Sandale
The correct lyrics:


I am teacher in my country everybody know me well if look at up and down you know that is true
Standard living, standard living, standard living standard living.
This is why songs need to get song books, not teaching students with here say.

Some times I hear some children singing My maths song with the wrong lyrics too, get song book for maths and other subjects.

Add yours

Wow, I did not know about the Mr. Mark Anthony part till now, thanks. Would that be the Roman Mark Anthony though? He lived way before bicycles were invented.

biGDhAp:
. look closer, there's a resemblance

There's none actually. Turner(Sansa) especially, looks very different from the other two.

The boy is an irreplaceable part of his mother's life. He is just 4 and needs the love of his mother and the guiding hand of a father figure in his life. Unfortunately, you sound like you can't stand the child, so the best thing is to break up with his mother. I see you treating that child very badly in future if you do marry his mother, and he doesn't deserve it. He deserves love. What you see as stubbornness in the child is a cry for help and love. Besides a child of four will misbehave and act out from time to time. It is part of that adorable, yet intricate construct called childhood.

Please break up with the mother so that she can find someone else who can love and accept both her and her son.

Daewang:
Stop the misinformation both of Fury's parents are Irish. His mother's name is Amber.

The reference was to Anthony Joshua.

@OP baking soda is not acidic. It is actually alkaline which is the exact opposite.

Some women are a disgrace to womanhood. I can understand the man's rage. Let the wife carry her cross and the consequences of her indiscretion jeje. Of course this means the end of the marriage. The only casualties here are the children.

Your mind is responsible. All our experiences are subjective.

ikh777:
Aunty Aunty Auntyyyyyyyyyy, WHY WILL A HIGHLY FAVORED WOMAN LIKE YOU BE CRYING AT THIS TIME... pls consider your health o.


Wipe your tears.... PICK A PEN AND PAPER AND START WRITING ALL THAT GOD HAS DONE FOR YOU SINCE BEFORE YOU MARRIED.

SIT AND THINK DEEP ABOUT ALL HE HAS DONE.... Major things o, then after writing about 20 of them. bring out your phone and play some praise songs and just move your body a little and say THANK YOU JESUS FOR NO EVIL CAN BEFALL ME AND MY HOME.

Praise God and you wil see that things will start changing gradually. Do not allow the devil make you cry, YOUR HUSBAND IS JUST SCARED, TIRED AND FRUSTRATED... especially because of the heavy cash involved... pls give God praise. Your atmosphere will change and God's mercy will speak for you

OP follow this advice please. Remember some don't even have any children at all. Be grateful. Your husband will come round.

GreatResearcher, I have watched the drama surrounding your quest for a wife and the eventual marriage unfold. I really don't have much to say about the core issues. I believe enough has been said already.
I just want to tackle one point. You seem to have a penchant to resort to name calling which is targeted for the most part at females. It is highly ungentlemanly to say the least. Grievances can be aired without calling other people's wives, girlfriends, mothers and sisters 'whores'. I thought you started this particular thread to apologise for that lapse but I must have misunderstood your intentions because you have also resorted to name calling here. Your experience at the hands of your ex may have left a bitter taste in your mouth, but that doesn't mean you should treat any and every woman without respect.

I wish you happiness and I hope someday you'll enjoy a happy marriage if that's what you want. But I really hope you'll learn to adopt more civil behaviour towards others. It will greatly improve your relationship with people around you.

I wish you peace.

Highly uncouth behaviour. Their body language shows it's the norm for them. She's been abusing that man for a while. This isn't a one off. It may also be she has caught him doing something he shouldn't, so he's taking his punishment meekly out of guilt. Whatever the case, abuse is unwarranted.

1. Hone your craft/skill. If your friends and aquaintances know you are very good at what you do you may be half way there already.

2. Assume someone is always watching you and ensure your character and attitude to work are good. Back when I was job hunting, I was called for an interview by a firm I did not apply to. When the interview was done, I was told that I had been recommended by someone who had good things to say about my work ethics and character. I was shocked when I was given his name. He had worked very briefly at a firm run jointly by the one I worked in. I could count the number of times I had met and interacted with this person on one hand. I called him to thank him and he laughed away my surprise. Someone is always watching, and what they see can make or mar your chances.

Her baby is actually beautiful. She should have ignored the trolls. That would have been the mature thing to do. Besides, you've got to have a thick hide if you are going to be celebrity. Some will love you, some will hate you. Just brush it off and move on.

Ekemeze:
OH MY GOD! See maturity at it peak. Biko pray for me too.

May your name be heard for good beyond the borders of this country, and may you be blessed with all that is good and enduring.

I think she just went through a bad phase at some point. I suspect her husband's death hit her real hard. She doesn't look like this anymore
She was a guest on Ellen late last year and she looked ok.

Let me add these:
Dastardly and Muttley
Top Cat
The Flintstones
The Jetsons
Inspector Gadget
Danger Mouse
Thundersub
King Rollo
Penelope Pitstop
Popeye
Scooby Dooby Doo
Jabberjaw
Ed Grimley
Sylvester and Tweety
Tom and Jerry
Pigeon Street
Richie Rich
Josie and the pussy cats
The Adams Family
Worthy Mentions - Terrahawks, Muppet Babies, New Zoo Revue, Fraggle Rock.

Your mum was transferred to another school. She refused to honour the transfer and was suspended for her insubordination. I actually don't see anything unfair in this. That's the way the civil service works. You could be transferred at short notice. It is all part of the package.

Yes you can. You are not related by blood.

Milo and Bournvita are not even in the running as far as I'm concerned. The only cocoa beverages i like are Ovaltine, Horlicks and Cadbury chocolate.

Yetunde is a very nice person. She deserves better than this.

femoint007:
Before You Sleep, Meditate and Pray with this..:

"Heal me, O Lord, and I shall be healed; save me, and I shall be saved; for you are my praise." Jeremiah 17:14 KJV

Pray this...

Father, as we call upon You this this week for divine health- let us receive IT in abundance in Jesus Name. Amen

Amen.

suremahn:
mine was madddd

I was in primary school then our teacher gave example......

long longer longest

short shorter shortest

loud louder loudest


then class work and my answers

good gooder goodest

wife wifer wifest

bad bader badest

baby babier babiest

I was so flogged that day ehn madd experience

This cannot be true because there are no comparative forms for the words wife and baby.

Not bad, but she's not looking as flawless and young as she used to. Her legs and make up especially don't look so nice. She's still beautiful though.

javaguru:
everything in my anambra is becoming substandard.

I am willing to bet that neither the tank nor the building materials involved were manufactured in Anambra, so your statement isn't valid.

This sort of freak accident is heartbreaking. May God comfort the bereaved.

Offpoint:
Since 2006 and you're still active?

Good morning mom!

Good morning son. May this day bear multiple fruits for you and bring you joy.