₦airaland Forum

Early on Sunday morning I was heading to university for a class when a group of women came running out from the women’s dormitory. I asked what had happened and one of them told me the police were evacuating them because the Taliban had arrived in Kabul, and they will beat women who do not have a burqa.
We all wanted to get home, but we couldn’t use public transport. The drivers would not let us in their cars because they did not want to take responsibility for transporting a woman. It was even worse for the women from the dormitory, who are from outside Kabul and were scared and confused about where they should go.

Meanwhile, the men standing around were making fun of girls and women, laughing at our terror. “Go and put on your chadari [burqa],” one called out. “It is your last days of being out on the streets,” said another. “I will marry four of you in one day,” said a third.

With the government offices closed down, my sister ran for miles across town to get home. “I shut down the PC that helped to serve my people and community for four years with a lot of pain,” she said. “I left my desk with tearful eyes and said goodbye to my colleagues. I knew it was the last day of my job.”

I have nearly completed two simultaneous degrees from two of the best universities in Afghanistan. I should have graduated in November from the American University of Afghanistan and Kabul University, but this morning everything flashed before my eyes.

JESHAL:
Before the Sexual revolution invention of the birth control pills and legalization of Abortion, women were conservative and rarely had sex outside marriage due to risk of pregnancy, children out of wedlock was unpopular and divorce was not common, family units were valued, until the move to liberalism, via changing the laws to allow no fault divorce


Women are the ones that control sex and reproduction, it's your body and your choice, without your permission sex will not happen except in the case of rape, you choose the man who to procreate with, with more than 20 birth control options including Abortion, while men just have two condoms and vasectomy, why would you choose to bring a child into these world out of wedlock when statistically a two parents household is the best for raising children inside the confinement of marriage, why can't you have non-protective sex only in marriage showing women don't care about the consequences of their poor reproductive choices, if we remove alimony, child support,and welfare social programs you would see how women would be responsible overnight


In Nigeria it's as result of poverty most of the time, western societies don't have that excuse, see Islamic countries like UAE Qatar, Oman, Bahrain are very much traditional and they are not experiencing the nonsense Nigeria is experiencing and are high developed Societies

JESHAL:
Note before Feminism children out of wedlock was unpopular untill after where welfare systems was created to support them and it became norms
For single motherhood;
https://www.google.com/url?sa=t&source=web&rct=j&url=https://singlemotherguide.com/single-mother-statistics/%23:~:text%3DAccording%2520to%25202020%2520U.S.%2520Census,were%2520headed%2520by%2520single%2520mothers.%26text%3DOf%2520all%2520single%252Dparent%2520families,were%2520born%2520to%2520unwed%2520mothers.&ved=2ahUKEwjT_4WB6bLyAhXkzoUKHalmBfwQFnoECAMQBQ&usg=AOvVaw0zVmoWHGqjgqVo86vLVHEj



For declining birth rates
https://www.google.com/url?sa=t&source=web&rct=j&url=https://www.cdc.gov/nchs/fastats/births.htm&ved=2ahUKEwjMpsXs6bLyAhXlzoUKHdDKAPwQFnoECCIQAQ&usg=AOvVaw0YVtXu3Tl8sHtdY6RHKMIG&cshid=1629023650174

For declining marital rates
https://www.google.com/url?sa=t&source=web&rct=j&url=https://www.statista.com/statistics/195951/marriage-rate-in-the-united-states-since-1990/%23:~:text%3DUSA%2520%252D%2520Marriage%2520rate%25201990%252D2019%26text%3DIn%25202019%252C%2520the%2520marriage%2520rate,9.8%2520marriages%2520per%25201%252C000%2520people.&ved=2ahUKEwjatIei6rLyAhVKqxoKHUrEAT8QFnoECAMQBQ&usg=AOvVaw1pdY6O3omhWOsSlcaoQ7uh



For divorce rates at 50% and 70% initiated by women

https://www.google.com/url?sa=t&source=web&rct=j&url=https://www.wf-lawyers.com/divorce-statistics-and-facts/%23:~:text%3DAlmost%252050%2520percent%2520of%2520all,first%2520marriages%2520end%2520in%2520divorce.&ved=2ahUKEwjotZnT6rLyAhUxzIUKHVR2BSkQFnoECAMQBQ&usg=AOvVaw3GX_-x5kZaQ235KfWMfJYK&cshid=1629023842827


Abortion is legalized and babies killed everyday
Most Alimonies are paid from men to women
Most child support is paid from the man to the woman
Most women get full child custody

statistics and studies are undebatable and are facts , links scattered to see the reality of western civilization
We have affirmative actions and Quota policies for women also


Note; all these statistics are for western Societies that have fully embraced Feminism, and after all these data, you still see the relevance of Feminism, then I know you are ideologically bound to it's dogma rather than operating with objectivity in reality or you outri

vicdom:
[s]PERE VS WHITEMONEY

IT ALL STARTED WITH THE QUEST TO HAVE MARIA NOT STRATEDGY AS ALLEGED.

First question you should ask yourself is: why is it that Pere's strategy to winning bbn season 6 focuses on destroying Whitemoney? Is white money the only housemate in the house? You will get the answers if you manage to read through with understanding.

The hatred and negative energy coming from Pere towards Whitemoney is because his mumu love for Maria. Recall, Maria and Whitemoney are more closer in the first and second week without knowing that Pere is very interested in her and was looking for opportunity to turn her against Whitemoney.

Luckily for Pere, the issue of Whitemoney withdrawing from Maria gradually and later claimed that he figured out Maria and Pere himself were the Wildcard came up. Pere seized the opportunity to poisoned Maria, insinuating that Whitemoney had information from the organizers that they were the wildcard and despite Maria being Whitemoney's friend he refused to let her know.

Unfortunately Maria believed Pere and confront Whitemoney to explain her disappointment of him not being honest to her. They argued and Maria being Maria failed to trash it out.

Because Whitemoney did not agree with Maria that he was informed by an insider about them being wildcard she nominated him, which she later regretted and claimed her brain was blank at that point and whitemoney name is the only name that came to her mind.

The same night Maria and Pere nominated Whitemoney was the day Pere pulled out Maria by 2am from her bed to express his feelings.

Pere thought by nominating Whitemoney he will get rid of him and have Maria's full attention but to his greatest surprise he was saved among the 2 out of 5 that was nominated. Whitemoney being saved now increase his insecurity, bitterness and hatred because his plans failed and not only that his plans failed, he now perceived that whitemoney is popular outside.

In all these one thing we should know is fighting one with grace always end in disgrace.[/s]

cococandy:
Notice how only a few people were sympathetic to her.

siofra:
Look well 90% are men
Tueh!!!

YourVILAGEpeple:
I know people will slam me but ... I must say it the way it is....

The wife of that man failed woofully in keeping her home in order... Rather... She continued to attend church vigils while her husband was been damaged by konji..... That's the problem some women don't understand... You should know the libido of who you married and do everything possible to satisfy him.... This konji thing is a big deal for 90% of men.... Don't play religion alongside Konji... It's inevitable....

The man na fool last last

Shokoloko:
You are right. It was worse before. I know of a woman who would leave the house and stand outside as she didnt want to hear the sound of her daughter crying as her father slept with her.

Rozcol:
I'm not married but already tired with the mere thought of going to cook everyday for a husband, God knows I can't survive without several housemaids

Hyerin:
Exactly. Just take a stroll at the redpill section on nairaland. Black men are really becoming the face of incels. They're beyond pathetic.

Hyerin:
The problem with that set of men is that they don't read. They hate facts and prefer to be ignoramuses.
This is why black men are conquered and can never be taken seriously.

Starzo:
Wether na white or pink or red o, all na man


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CRUISETOPIAVP:
White monkey is too fake!
How will only one person be so viewers conscious? Everything is targeted at the viewers. Fakest housemate in BBN history!

Starzo:
And the same males built the entire material world u enjoy today from stadiums to theatre hall to universities to architectural wonders. The car u enter was built by same males. Almost everything you use to get by in ur life, na men do am.
Even the phone and internet you're using to spill vile hate right now was made by who??.. surprise, surprise same men.
You should bow down and honor greatness.

Starzo:
And ur 'decent' average Nigerian girl (runz girls) joyously squander the money with them.
Many even demand you show them ID card to certify you're a Yahoo boy before they can agree to have anything to do with you.

cococandy:
Come back and try again after you’ve managed to convince yourself

capricornlady:
At all, the surprising thing is that this boys are very little boys in their 20s ...It's well jareee

capricornlady:
Unfortunately you quoted the wrong person cos i don't throw tantrums on public forums so don't expect me to cuss back. I'm too learned & educated for that. Goodluck to you in your trolling and just pray not get tracked and dealt with by someone you troll in future.. Cheers!

lkillbrokehoes:
Are you any better than them?

MrColdsweat:
Good thing You did not deny that most nigerian women patronize witch doctors for charms to hook men.

As a feminist, shouldn't you be bothered about the warped mentality of the average Nigerian women instead of wasting time on nigerian men?

Fountainofyouth:
They need to be schooled once in a while, their stupidity is seriously ozzing and smelling everywhere, they bitch about Nigerian women every time while they keep disgracing the country with their fraudulent ways all over the world.

MrColdsweat:
They are broke and jobless yet you women keep buying kanyamata to hook them.

You're doing a fantastic job at lying to yourself.

Fountainofyouth:
Fixed

If in the whole of Nigerian you've never seen women going and doing way beyond entitled men, step out your 2 by 2 cubicle and stop typing and thinking from your ass.

cococandy:
You have options. You men can marry each other