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This topic is funny, mama has use style to japa and abandon epah

If not for the daughter disturbing her mother to return back to suffer head marriage, I would have said it's a perfect situation.

Let mama move on from a man she doesn't love and the old man can go on to marry hot side chick that will be collecting steady nackings from neighborhood riffraffs because arthritis is not allowing papa to nack well.

frugal:
Lol at discipline your wife...as per say na your pikin

He's a Muslim. Islam allows the men to beat their wives. It's in the Quran as a method to 'discipline' wives.

emmanuelbrown26:
Very very deceitful, they always play d victim card. Just give a woman a power and see d worst of her.

Men also show their worst when they are given power. The reason women run out of marriages in countries where they are treated as equal humans is because women are not by nature desirous of being submissive to another human being. No normal human being wants to put their needs and desires on the back seat for another person in the name of submission to husband.
Nigerian culture and religion forces women to live like that.
If you see couples that have genuine, true love and companionship and friendship, you will see that their marriage would last even in western countries.

Na only slave and master marriage dey collapse for civilized countries.

MySolace:
Lol... So funny. If chastity can b seen and touched, I think am d living icon. Ok...

I didn't talk about d woman leaving an alleged promiscuous husband. I only found fault in d way she stalked and fought him.

To me, I think d woman was rather being unnecessarily insecure. Do u know how many times she accused and physically fought d man for infidelity? If u think the man isn't wot u can contain, simply pack ur bags and go. It's rather more honorable, dan disgracing urself up n down thinking ur helping urself.
Her act alone could make a man jettison d marriage and look for another wife.

I personally don't believe d man is as guilty as she makes him seem. Did she actually catch dem in d act..? How exactly? She's just being insecure. Every move d husband made na cheating! Just imagine, u carry ur sister go fight ur husband cos of wot? How does da sound in ur ears?
I would even advice any man da witness such to divorce d woman officially, and I believe dats wot d man did technically. Found another wife, move away from an abusive wife and start life all over.


More importantly, fight doesn't solve infidelity in marriage. Thank u

Woman hating and misogynistic posts like this always irritate me to no end.
Would you give this same advice to your sister or daughter if her husband was cheating.

Abeg shift, I didn't even read this crap write up. I don't blame you African men, the society you live in has told you people you have the right to cheat that's why you can boldly come out to fault a woman that confronted her community penis husband.

MySolace:
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I honestly don't like d way ur mum stalked on him during d earlier time of their marriage... Like, she accused and fought him everytime in d name of infidelity, who does dat?
U think it's a noble/smart thing to do?

I think she even aided in pushing d man away.

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I can tell from this your post that you are a promiscuous person yourself, that's why you see something wrong in a woman leaving a man that is exposing her to dangerous STDs by sleeping with different secretaries.

BALLOSKI:
Who forced her to have sex and take in? If you enjoy the sex, get ready for the pregnancy and the stigma that comes with it.

What if she was raped?
Many Nigerian men are rapists. We all know.

What kind of stupid topic is this?
Why are you generalizing and asking all women why because of the actions of a one woman?

KingLennon:
Seconded...


Am sorry if they tag me old fashioned but I wished I got married in the late 80's or early 90's. The women we have now lack wisdom....

By lack wisdom you mean they are not willing to tolerate oppression and shitty treatment in the name of being good wives?

Thank God times are changing. It will only get better for women.

Nigerian men are only vocal when it comes to oppressing their women. They will not try this nonsense with white men or women. Put them face to face in the same room for intellectual sparring with white people that's when you'll realize how dark and empty their arrogant heads are.

Op your husband was wrong to assault you. Don't let anyone emotionally blackmail you into thinking it's his right to misbehave because he is male.

He would have been arrested for months or years at least if you were in any of the saner countries where women are treated like human beings and not emotional punching bags for men.

Apologize if you feel like it, if not divorce him. He can Bleep right off with his childish/worthless self.

delishpot:
What does Islam do for the woman who wants it frequently but hubby isn't giving it to her?
Oh yeah, Islam doesn't know this and doesn't think women need fairness in this case.

I have seen some Muslim women complain that they have high libido but their husbands cannot satisfy them.
Unlike men, those women can go to hell. Islam no send them. No multiple husband or quality sex for women like that.

descarado:
A childhood female friend said her husband demand for sex every fking day even when menstruating. And she wanna be virtuous woman and don't say no. After like 6yrs of marriage, the crack started. She shudders unknow anytime he touches her. She literally hates sex and men.
In the marriage till her kids are officially adults she will file for divorce.

When her mum came for the first omugwo, as an elder, she noticed what's happening cos this man had sex the day she came back from giving birth.
Mum was there before she put to bed. Asked her so they can discuss about it or take it to the family but she declined thinking she was protecting her marriage. Presently she is just a shadow of herself.
The worst is they processed visa for the cousin to come to live with them and wifey found out her husband sleeps with his cousin. Upon inquiry, it was going on before he married her. So family members knew but he is the one with the cash, everybody zipped mouth. I mean, what kind of man is this?
I would have divorced him the first Yr.

According to her, her vj is no longer sensitive, she don't have any sexual feeling. And if she object, he will start manipulating her that he can't live the next day without fking her.
He should go and join pornhub

Just look at the suffering women face in their marriages to men.

All these men think about is sex, sex, sex. Like maniacs.

Let me not generalize because some few good men came on this thread and wrote understanding and considerate posts.

Op problem and the problem of many men whose wives reject sex is simple. The men are just selfish and don't put effort to make their wives like sex, then they turn around and start wondering why she doesn't want to continue having terrible sex after 5/6/7 years of marriage.

Honestly, the way many men reason selfishly baffles me sometimes.

KarinaSlim:
Men are funny.

A man actually took time to sit down and write this post online to make us think a woman actually wrote it is actually hilarious

just to prove what exactly?

Funny species

Men are so funny ooo

Everything about the writeup screams "male delusion" but some of them still want to believe a woman wrote it.

Writeup of pure delulu

This crap writeup was written by a bitter frustrated man.
Make una calm down for una lies abeg.

Bluezy13:
Now you're being personal and it is understandable from an excerpt of the topics you've created as evident in the picture below
Especially that of "A World Without Men".

Why using ad hominems? Why have my posts got to do with males on thread overacting and crying over a simple post by a female nairalander?

Bluezy13:
You're right.
It morally doesn't; same as the women too.
But that was not my reason for mentioning you.
I mentioned you because you only cast aspersion on the men, neglecting the woman who started it and even the women that subsequently partook in the cry.

The men are the ones turning the whole thing to project work and overreacting like they always do, that's why I called them out. No women on this thread is quoting mumu statistics to prove that men are bad parents.

Bluezy13:
"The boy is obviously not living well, obviously the boy went with the dad while the lady was with the mum."
By conicR the second commenter
Whose profile is that of a woman.

Does that look like a suggestion or a conclusive assumption capable of causing havoc like it did. Majority of the posts that followed referenced her's.

That does not justify the over emotional overreaction of the males on the thread that have been crying for hours.

Bluezy13:
A woman started the blame game in page one.
Go through it.

Na lie, she just made a suggestion and males got emotional as usual and started overreacting.

How come this nonsense never strips the rights of males away?
Nobody calls men ejaculating bodies or nonbirthing bodies, nobody calls penis urine spewing devices.


Mtscheew

These transgender people should leave us females alone, we already have enough on our plates to deal with.

Gwan2:
[b]Vagina....Bonus Hole

AssHole.....Bonanza Hole

Mouth......Main Hole

PenisHole....GiveAway Hole.

Emaprince:
I will be in their life forever. No woman is leaving with my kids.

Not my business.

Emaprince:
Forget all the eye service women do to their children that makes it seem like they are the best.

Women are bad parents in raising children.

Women can allow a lot of bullshit from their kids..but men won't. Kids trained by single moms lacks respect. The girls are highly promiscuous. The boys are too street and may end up in prison sef.

The daughters can bring different men home..the mom will just be looking and encouraging it..maybe cos she see her girl as hot cake. The mom and daughters are usually partners in crime.

It's every where...look around you and see for your self.

If you grow with your dad in your life. Give thanks!!!

Ok raise your kids by yourself then, make sure no woman takes her terrible parenting near them.
Thanks.

Topic that should have been a happy one to celebrate unity of siblings has been hijacked by frustrated bitter small boys that love blaming women for everything.

If you people think women are so lousy, then stick to your fellow men let us hear word instead of all this noise every day.

Houseontherock1:
Are you a researcher? This study looks so interesting! I'd definitely write a proposal and see how far it'll go! If I'm guessing, we'll have more from single moms because most of them were abandoned by their dads, not because men raise better kids... it's just that they don't raise kids per se

Exactly,
More of them from single moms because the dads abandoned them or because the dad died, but some people now want to start pushing the idea that women are worse parents than men.

Sandralight:
She will be happy, carry your bitterness away from here. In your imagination you think woman can't be happy without a husband

Don't mind them, Nigerian men think women cannot exist without men. May will be very happy after divorcing Yul. I decree it, so be it.

All the naturally polygamous red pill losers wishing her unhappiness should rest abeg, she will be fine.

12345baba:
leave the men for now, what bugs me most is why do women dislike themselves.

Question wasn't addressed to me but I think it's low self esteem, being told from birth that they are the inferior gender, weak, emotional, illogical etc.
It causes some self hatred and hatred for their kind as well.

Luckydivine:
Africa in general is being left behind. Only South Africa seems to be taking steps

Our leaders don't care about technology or scientific discoveries, they just keep stealing and stealing like hopeless kleptomaniacs.

descarado:
Google Riley Gaines.
No link to share her story. A swimmer forced to share locker room with trans. It was a hit debate in USA senate last month.

Apart from being forced to share a locker room with Thomas the transgender, (who was fond of walking around with his peepee on display amongst other women in said locker room), Riley Gaines actually tied with Thomas in one of their races but the winners position was given to Thomas for woke points.

Everything about this movement is so anti woman, I am beyond disgusted by TRA and their antics.

copyrites:
Two grown male fa.gg0ts assaulted a young boy, BBC say na women.

And real biological women dey support them. By the time all the bad men and male rap.ists convert their gender, it would be too late to restore the dignity of women.

Crime rates for biological women is already rising thanks to these deviants being lumped in with women.
And yet their biggest allies are biological women. I can understand why patriarchal societies lasted for centuries. Majority of women put kindness and tolerance before self preservation. Men would never do that crap.

descarado:
This is what society should accept?
Perfects giving protection and freedom to show the world who they really are without hiding..

More of that will happen if it becomes mainstream, the inevitable slippery slope. If we agree that a man can become a women overnight by wearing female clothes and makeup, then there is nothing stopping depraved males from taking advantage and harming women and children

Imagine this gross pervert putting his nipples inside an innocent baby's mouth.
Vile.

seguno2:
I am talking about responsibility for having unprotected sex, which leads to pregnancy.

If the woman does not open her door, then how can the man enter her

LOL, are you kidding me right now?
So two people decided to have consensual sex but the responsibility lies with only the woman? You are just arguing for the sake of arguing. It's obvious.

This is what happens when you allow any random man "identify" as woman. Many men are perverts and sex obsessed.
They will keep doing disgusting bullshit like this. Are women supposed to accept transwomen as women and welcome them into female only spaces (like they are demanding), thereby putting biological women at risk of deviants like the person in this photo?
This one happened today, I could bring hundreds more of articles and pictures of men being perverts in the name of identifying as women.