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DEMZEE:
Egxactly

Men lead
Women follow

Period!

Men are human ATM machine for women.

DEMZEE:
Wat are u saying, a woman ultimate job is to serve and respect her husband period!

A man's ultimate job is to spend his life providing for his wife

If the man loses his money and becomes a church rat tomorrow she no go see am as god and na there the worship go end.

Kaybae:
. Thanks so much, it's been hard honestly cause, because of marrying him I stop having friends because he never wanted it, despite the fact that he works in another state, I will be all alone with my kids after work and even weekend, all because I want to satisfy my husband.... It is well, he already told me he never sign agreement of only me ..... Can't believe all these after years.

Oh he told you he didn't sign agreement of only you? Did he sign agreement of going behind your back to cheat before you married him? Nigerian men na their way be that, they cannot own up to faults and apologize when they get caught cheating they will either try to deny it or blame you the woman.

Find happiness elsewhere like your kids or your hustle or hobbies don't let him get the idea that his actions are making you sad, live a happy fulfilled life and ignore him, na that one go pain am pass when he sees that you don't give a shit about him.

Anyway just use your intuition and do what you think it's best, I was giving advice based on how I would act in similar situation. I can never let a selfish man spoil my happiness.

Kaybae:
. Marriage sometimes is sweet and sometimes the other way round. Huuuu, married for almost 10years and everything was going smoothly and just few months ago my husband started some behaviors, fast forward to recently I picked up his phone and what was their was so disgusting, and this is a man that behave like a saint and sometimes castigate his friends that do cheat..... You can never predict what will happen next in marriage. How I wish I can write it up on nairaland.

So sorry about that, many of them are like that.
Don't let him ruin your happiness, try to find joy in other things. Many married men don't know what fidelity means apart from say na name of bank.

My advice is to the ladies,


Marriage to the modern crop of Nigerian men is crap.
80 percent of them are selfish and self centered and don't want to provide for their wives but they expect her to be obedient, submissive, to answer their surname, to ruin her beauty and physical appearance with childbirth and the children will also answer their papa surname too.
You will literally spend the rest of your life cooking and cleaning and keeping his damn house in order but they don't want to give back anything in return to their wives. If they do it's with reluctance and they want to be praised and worshiped for it.


You girls reading this, better open your eyes and don't be deluded, majority of males are selfish and all your romance fantasies you watched on your Zee world and Korean drama can never work in real life marriage. Don't expect too much from men, many of them literally think women were created for men and not the other way round.

There is a real and very high risk of your husband cheating on you so don't go into marriage with overly high expectations, males know they can get away with cheating on ther wives so they do it with impunity.

Also get a source of income to make yourself independent of your husband so you will not have to take maltreatment from him because he's the one providing everything for you. Regardless of what societal or religious laws teach, males DO NOT like to provide for their wives for the rest of their lives after marriage, they resent the idea of providing for a woman all the days of her life so if you depend fully on them, they will take that resentment out on you if they can.

And do your best to marry a kind and compassionate man. Many men are evil and wicked but women love deceiving themselves that men are saints so when you face reality after marriage you go begin dey cry as if the truth was not staring you in the face all along.

Nigerian men stop killing women for money. Make una go find work

Stop being killers and ritualists and killing innocent girls, tueh

Lazy and criminal gender

Your friend has not seen life that is why she is still wondering how to handle this kind of person.
If she is too soft to tell him to get lost forever she can use sense to dispose of him

If he comes to her house let her prepare or order very delicious chicken and fried rice and soft drinks and start eating it alone without offering him anything.

If he asks her for some she should tell him she is not his wife so he must pay before he can eat food that she prepared.

Me sha, where I wicked reach I go show that guy pepper until he runs away by himself.

Make sure your friend does not marry him ooo, because he will be stingy after marriage. If she complains after marriage he will remind her that she knew his behaviour while they were dating and she married him like that so why is she complaining now.

Stingy people irritate me, and they can be so entitled.

This topic is directed to girls but 99.9% of the comments are from bitter and frustrated boys.

All of una no get sense, continue to carry women matter for head like okpa seller inside market.

In these types of threads its always
Nigerians are evil
People are wicked
Humans are terrible
This tribe is full of skull miners etc

Why not also point out the fact that its mostly males doing barbaric acts like this?
The common denominator in 90% of these cases is that it was carried out by a male.

You males need to stop being evil violent criminals and stop killing innocent women.
Una dey crase abi dem swear for una?

Violent, evil gender.

You males better stop killing women because you see them as easy targets. Fools.

Chibudollar:
This number 08096765357 scammed someone of their hard earned money. Please nairalanders call and insult her very well. This people are wicked.

Post proof that she is actually a scammer and not just some girl that refused to sleep with you after spending on her.

Kingosytex:
What prevents the Op from making her own money instead of waiting for a rich man? So a rich man should stoop so low and marry her? Una hypocrisy dey legendary.

Cc Choccolate

What stops her husband from submitting to her in the marriage instead of waiting for her to submit?
What stops him from being the one that cooks for his wife and children and cleans and washes clothes for them instead of expecting his wife to do it?

What stops him from letting their kids answer his wife's name since she is now the one feeding everybody?

Omolola100 better advice yourself oo

I don't know when you girls will have sense to stop bringing your issues to nairaland for advice.
The boys here will never tell you anything that will favour you as a woman. They hate women.

Omolola100 better use your sense and marry a rich man and avoid broke or struggling men. The broke frustrated rats telling you to marry a poor man will never choose a poor babe over a rich one.

And no, he will not appreciate your standing by him when he was poor if he finally becomes wealthy. Men by nature have this tendency to change when they get rich and he will want to experience all the sweet young girls he couldn't have when he was struggling and guess what? The fact that you are now married to him will not stop him from going after them. Prepare to be deserted and abandoned after suffering with one man for years while he openly cheats on you because he knows you will not want to leave and start afresh after all the sacrifices you made.

Secondly millions of women in nigeria married to poor as shit men. The way the economy is going with rising cost of everything their chances of making it in life becomes slimmer and slimmer each day and many will continue struggling forever. Hospital bills they cannot pay, houserent they cannot pay so they relocate to village, school fees they cannot pay so their kids are sent to backyard schools with zero standard where they pay 5k school fees a session. Good food they cannot eat, no soso garri and okro, LMAO No sensible woman will want to see their child suffer and starve and wear old cheap clothes better use your damn brain


The poor and miserable rats telling you to work and take care of your husband instead of waiting for him to provide ask them if your husband will do daily cooking and cleaning for you or serve your food or carry your kids for nine months and let you be the head of the family

Asking stupid questions left and right on a woman hating forum. Make una no use brain, continue asking mumu questions.

Theicecode:
See this mumu, are you not the one that said that your father and all males in your families are disgusting? Wetin come bring me and my papa? do I look like am part of your family? Ode!

I said all males, that includes you and your father.

See how the comment pain am first
Hahaha

Theicecode:
Okay. Your father and every make in your family disgust you, that's shows how you were raised, by disgusting men in your family.

Even you and your papa sef are disgusting.

Raalsalghul:
Which ever way you want to twist the message, then I'm fine with that.

Lol
You're no fun,

Theicecode:
Are your father and brothers girls? that also mean they disgust you, even your boyfriend disgust you, that's if you have

All this your noise no concern me. I said what I said.

Raalsalghul:
For once, I agree with you.

You agree that dumbass males think everything is about men?
Wow that's nice.

Theicecode:
Your father and brothers must disgust you too? good for you

Me disgust me, plain and simple. All this father and brother talk no concern me.

She is just advertising Deshapables, the waist trainer that paid her to endorse their product, she isn't trying to get Davido back or sell her market. Dumbass males think every thing must be about men.

SILVERLINES:


Too bad
I believe the girl must have done something wrong before those muddafucckers decided to pay her back this way, the piece of note found on her can prove that, but be has it may be she doesn't deserve this evil act. She doesn't deserve to die.

My advice to these young ladies going into the University is for them to go focus on their education. Stop catching cruise with Boyz dem cos you may not know the code and eventually break it and they come after your life.

Uniilorin
Uniben
Unical
Ekpoma, the rate of of cultism in this schools are very high

Instead of you to advice your fellow males to stop their raping and killing you are looking for how to shift the responsibility to women.

Men disgust me so much

This criminal gender of rapists and killers have come back again. Doing what they know best.

The senseless mod that carried the topic to fromt page didnt even bother to watch the video.

The woman isnt married. She is just cohabiting with the man she lives with unlike the hopeless and useless man that is married and sleeping around.

Misleading topic by senseless mods to draw nairaland boys wey no first get sense.

Op dump the useless animal

The men abi boys demanding for contribution in relationships from girls what do they have to offer the girl apart from demand for sex?

Men are so selfish and self centered

KanuSE:
Can you swear that no be man dey light you steady?

Yes

Hahahaha

Nairaland redpillers think real life is like Nairaland.

Kwakwakwakwa

Men are just sex obsessed animals

Tueh

Rapist gender.

Nigerian men stop killing women for your useless rituals because you don't want to work.

Stop killing women you lazy bastard males.

Gender of killers and criminals.

What do you people want that old vegetable to say? He can never talk with sense, everytime he addresses a problem he always talks out of his bum.

When he addressed unemployment he called Nigerian youth lazy and said they just want free oil money, when he talked about covid 19 he changed the name to covik one nine as if he is not living in the same world with the rest of us, when he addressed EndSARS he didnt show sympathy or punish soldiers that committed mass murders in lekki toll gate. Wetin una want make him talk? He will just come out and vomit thrash as usual that will annoy Nigerians more.

Mtsheeww

Lostchild:
We enjoy bashing women, their own too much.

As for those men that are butchering women for rituals. They are worst than the devils

You cannot bash selfish politicians and armed robbers and kidnappers, its women you people are obsessed with.
Funny black men. That's why black race can never progress. Black men are dumb

Later they will be complaining that virgin girls no longer exist. You have seen virgin you are now complaining that she is too tight. What happened to lubricants?
What happened to KY jelly?

You don chop her finish is now you realise she is fatherless, she is very hard to penetrate, you come even realise say your genotype is now AS no longer AA wey God give you.
Mumu person

Lostchild:
Where are all those bi tches that criticize me when I said that women are more if bad than good? Let them come here to say something over this thread.

Oh women are more of bad than good because op wife cheated?
In this same nairaland there are topics about males that kidnap and butcher women for rituals, there are topics about male kidnappers that demand impossibly high ransome. There are topics about fathers molesting their children and males in general molesting underage kids, there are topics about males killing innocent people for no reason, every single day there must be one story of something extremely evil that was carried out by a male. If women are more of bad than good then men are worst than satan himself

To bash women go dey sweet una and you black males are the one holding the development of the continent back and making everyone's lives miserable with ypur terrible leadership and wickedness.